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By *eregrinos OP   Couple
over a year ago

chorley

We get the feeling that sensual sex has fallen out of favour ??...

No one appears interested..

What say you?

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By *7mutleyTV/TS
over a year ago

cambridge

I hope not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's your understanding of 'sensual sex'?

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lord no

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

I wanna lick you up and down til you say stop...

Ooh I like that baby

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Not for me it hasn’t… what makes you say that OP?

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

It’s my favourite

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By *apidaryMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Nothing truly timeless ever goes out of fashion. Custom cannot stale sensual variety.

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By *eregrinos OP   Couple
over a year ago

chorley

Slow, tactile, a caress rather than a grope... In layman's terms making love as opposed to f***ing.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Like when you only finger with your pinky vibes

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

On Fab?? Lol

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By *eregrinos OP   Couple
over a year ago

chorley


"Not for me it hasn’t… what makes you say that OP? "

It's just when we tell people what we prefer, they appear to cool to the idea. Often suggesting a more animated approach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We get the feeling that sensual sex has fallen out of favour ??...

No one appears interested..

What say you?"

Porn has Desensitised many to sex and passion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like a real mix. As much as we both like rough to unwind it's great to get close and really feel each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slow, tactile, a caress rather than a grope... In layman's terms making love as opposed to f***ing.

"

I think many still want that. Maybe you just were bit unlucky attracting something you don't want. And this post might help to change that too

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely love sensual sex. Not to say thats all i like, but sensual is often more satisfying, definitely to start with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I do ever have sex again I’d want it to be sensual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We get the feeling that sensual sex has fallen out of favour ??...

No one appears interested..

What say you?"

Disagree, a nice sensual morning session is amazing.

I think this site brings out the fantasy in people and sensual isn't often on the fantasy radar.

Saying that it's always great to mix it up

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By *uckMan
over a year ago

Scunthorpe DN15


"Slow, tactile, a caress rather than a grope... In layman's terms making love as opposed to f***ing.

"

I've always said I don't f**k.

I do have sex though and making love tends to be reserved for that special person.

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By *he zephyrCouple
over a year ago

The Sol

I fear you may be right OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not for me it hasn’t… what makes you say that OP?

It's just when we tell people what we prefer, they appear to cool to the idea. Often suggesting a more animated approach."

Maybe expectations that we all want to fuck like porn stars all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only go for sensual sex, it's way more intense than just going at it like mad rabbits haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are very up front and honest about wanting/enjoying an affectionate sensual experience x It’s the only way for me tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I love it "

Underrated x

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By *lay 4 your plessureMan
over a year ago

Wigan

I'll always prefer sensual. Unfortunately, I think porn has taught too many people that you need to spit, gag, be rough and go at it like a jack-hammer to be any good.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"Not for me it hasn’t… what makes you say that OP?

It's just when we tell people what we prefer, they appear to cool to the idea. Often suggesting a more animated approach."

They’re not “your people”. There are plenty of us here I’m sure of that

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By *hippy57Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

The kissing and foreplay is far more erotic

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By *e renard de la campagneMan
over a year ago

Surrey mostly when over

Definitely love the sensual xxx

Seems there’s lots of us xx

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By *esi_maverickMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I love sensual sex it’s more pleasurable than wham bam thank you

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London


"I love sensual sex it’s more pleasurable than wham bam thank you "

Don't forget the "Ma'am", mate. Manners maketh the man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it as much as I enjoy wild kinky sex too. The contrast of switching it up from sensual, to raunchy & back again, is delicious fun!

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

not here

its all about the build up for us

kissing, licking, caressing, cuddling, light massage, nibbling, tasting, touching, rubbing, edging, all plays its part...

no wham bam thankyou mam for us, we take our time and everyone enjoys the results

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By *xXgemmaXxXCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I like sensual sex with hubby but prefer it a bit more hardcore with guys I meet

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By *awty_TwoCouple
over a year ago

near Ashford, kent


"Slow, tactile, a caress rather than a grope... In layman's terms making love as opposed to f***ing.

"

Sounds right up our street lol x

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

It's the only sort that I can do these days, I need a long slow build up myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say I’m into it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It isn't happening with a stranger. A one night stand just cannot cut it, but if they light the fire through sheer pot luck, they deserve the opportunity to prove themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Living where we do our visitors tend to stay for a weekend so with no time pressures we tend to find that the more sensual side of things builds up before actual sex takes place, from that first cup of coffee to the evening meal, the looks, the glances, the touching of hands , the grasp of the buttocks, that first tentative kiss, the arm around the body pulling in close, oh my I'm getting turned on.

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By *higmanandhismilfMan
over a year ago

chigwell

If you are with the right people then it's on the menu

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Living where we do our visitors tend to stay for a weekend so with no time pressures we tend to find that the more sensual side of things builds up before actual sex takes place, from that first cup of coffee to the evening meal, the looks, the glances, the touching of hands , the grasp of the buttocks, that first tentative kiss, the arm around the body pulling in close, oh my I'm getting turned on."

If Carlsberg arranged fab meets, they would probably be the best meets in the world.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

It thrives and flourishes in ways beyond the imaginary. I would say that you're looking in the wrong place, assuming that you're looking at all.

Here, within Fab, for me, I've tasted nothing but sensuality in all its manifestations.

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By *andadbodMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

It’s what I prefer, but i get that people aren’t interested in a connection and just want the fuck n go so it’s not for everyone.

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By *ilva69Man
over a year ago

stockport


"We get the feeling that sensual sex has fallen out of favour ??...

No one appears interested..

What say you?"

There’s a definite place for slow sensual sex, unhurried no clock watching, just gently exploring each others passions

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By *it4uMan
over a year ago

Brighton / Eastbourne / SW France


"We get the feeling that sensual sex has fallen out of favour ??...

No one appears interested..

What say you?"

Sensual sex oooft yes please every time

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Absolutely love sensual sex, there are times a good pounding is great but always a sensual start for me.

Mrs

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By *ne.eyed.willyMan
over a year ago

Ammanford

It's what Sundays were really made for don't you all agree?

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

Slowly touching and working your way around the body, teasing, kissing and building up….sensual is by far the best…

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

As opposed to the the "Wham bam slap it in " approach ?? or as Mrs4 calls it "Ferry Sex" or "Panda's" but seeems most prefer it and she prefer being seduced with lots of foreplay or as she puts ( or instructs Mr4 to put it/type it ) she prefers to be mentally stimulated before anything else is stiumulated and roughly 90% either run away crying or confused ( muttering bloody facebook swingers etc etc ) or ask what she means by that ?? along with the brain is not a optional extra/should be the largest sex organ on anyone's body? and we both like long slow sessions and not into the quick fumble and off they go approach so YES we do prefer a more sensual approach to all this ! xxx

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Ps Vey nice pictures though xxx

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I prefer it

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

Love this, but hard to find. A lot just want fucking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is my favourite. Love love love it !

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

Sensual sex is the best sex for me. I enjoy every aspect of it

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By *unnoisseurMan
over a year ago

Stratford


"We get the feeling that sensual sex has fallen out of favour ??...

No one appears interested..

What say you?"

I trained as a masseur to learn more about pressure points and nerve connections. I love sensual sex and sensuality. I find it fascinating.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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It really, really hasn't.

It can feel like that sometimes on here, what with the jackhammering video styles, the discussions about hard fucking...

But sensuality is very much alive and well. You'll find your people OP.

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By *KloganMan
over a year ago

Ramsbottom

I sometimes think this site isn’t the right place for me to explore the more sensual side of sex and physicality. But I’ll keep exploring non the less hoping someone will have an adventure with me.

My little corner of fab is a soft, slow sensual place to be. x

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By *otbeefandonionsCouple
over a year ago

Bathgate

We tend to keep the sensual stuff to when it's just us.

The fast and furious stuff suits us better for swapping/group sex. Whereas the sensual stuff is love making for just us two x

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By *xXgemmaXxXCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"We tend to keep the sensual stuff to when it's just us.

The fast and furious stuff suits us better for swapping/group sex. Whereas the sensual stuff is love making for just us two x"

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By *ansexualPandaMan
over a year ago

cumallover

No, I still enjoy it but it all depends on the mood and the person/people. I can have sex with people that I connect with on a physical level but for sensual sex there has to be a personal connection too.

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By *uicy 2020Woman
over a year ago

London


"No, I still enjoy it but it all depends on the mood and the person/people. I can have sex with people that I connect with on a physical level but for sensual sex there has to be a personal connection too."

This is exactly how I feel too. I find it more intimate so need to have some emotional connection with the person x

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

Making love we save for us both. But i like slow communicative sex sometimes rather than pounding sex all the time. But again i do like rough, hard sex on times as well.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

It's out there. And of course to what exactly constitutes as senual sex is subjective.

We don't find it often but then we don't necessarily find the right people and level of connection often. Or always be looking for it ourselves everytime (although it's something we both love). It really is a matter of chemistry, atmosphere and mood. It doesn't tend to be something you can force, more something that just flows beautifully when the people/conditions are right.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I find (some, not all) men, really struggle with the sensual side of things, I take a while to warm up so like to go slow. I prefer it, more intimate and intense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We get the feeling that sensual sex has fallen out of favour ??...

No one appears interested..

What say you?"

I love it especially in a relationship

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

It’s my main interest.

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By *al kalMan
over a year ago

london

It’s the connection, energy, tenderness that makes it blissful indeed. It soothes the soul.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I love a slow sensual build up to a fast and frantically animalistic session!

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex is always sensual for me, but that doesn't just mean slow, tender love making. It can be fiery and passionate too.

Nell

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

With my husband yes but I would find it strange with anyone else ..

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss


"I love a slow sensual build up to a fast and frantically animalistic session!

Jo.Xx "

^^ What she said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's funny what people's perspectives are. I've been told I'm quite sensual but always wished I had the hard, rough fucking side to me as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sensual sex is wonderful and makes you use all of your senses which heightens the pleasure - it also doesn't need to lead to an orgasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slow and sensual is the best. But switching it up for a quick fuck. Hard and fast is hot too

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By *ark RumMan
over a year ago

Bucks

There's a time for sensual sex and a time for proper fucking. Depends on the many a thing... moment, company, how long youve been without it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a time for sensual sex and a time for proper fucking. Depends on the many a thing... moment, company, how long youve been without it.... "

^ this too

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By *issIrishCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I have never been a fan off Sensual sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sensual sex always seems to turn into rough sex from my experiences

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

If the quality of connection is there then it's awesome.

If it's not then it starts to feel like an 80s movie sex scene and I start hearing some cheesy tune in my mind.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Too many people watch shite pounds, and think they have to be rough. As you mellow into middle age, like a fine port, you go slower, and enjoy the experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

glad I read this post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While there is just something about hot, primal fucking....there's a lot to be said for sensual, passionate making love together. It feels amazing

Mrs

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Too many people watch shite pounds, and think they have to be rough. As you mellow into middle age, like a fine port, you go slower, and enjoy the experience "

Not sure how porn morphed in pounds...

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax

Kisses, neck kisses, cuddles then see where it goes.

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Errm not me, not a fan of wham bam thank you ma'am - much prefer to take time explore and tease as the passion and need builds - but then perhaps I'm weird

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I love sensual sex, it's better than fucking like you're going to die within the next hour

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

It does depend on the man I'm with but it's my preferred way.

Being fucked gets rather boring.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I don't like it when the man focuses on orgasms.

I like everything leading up to them and after them, more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sensual is my go to unless a quickie is in order due to uncontrollable horn….on either side…

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Sensual sex? Outdated? Cor, bloody hope not! Sign me up any day for sensual sex! Can be fucking amazing!

Just transport me back to the 70’s so I can have said sensual sex with Desiree Cousteau and I will die a happy man!

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