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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it really that hard to be nice if you find that difficult why comment in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wow not seen alot its been good here. If mods see slagging off nasty stuff i tell you thay will soon sort it .... here ..

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

My sentiments entirely, but on occasions some folk voice their opinions which annoy others and things tend to escalate.

Then the popcorn brigade set up deckchairs etc....

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"My sentiments entirely, but on occasions some folk voice their opinions which annoy others and things tend to escalate.

Then the popcorn brigade set up deckchairs etc.... "

Just before announcing "pass the popcorn"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My sentiments entirely, but on occasions some folk voice their opinions which annoy others and things tend to escalate.

Then the popcorn brigade set up deckchairs etc....

Just before announcing "pass the popcorn""
not sure how long you been here but 4 /5 years ago not as chilled as this ... every word out of place you would feel like you was jumped on its alot better now.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"My sentiments entirely, but on occasions some folk voice their opinions which annoy others and things tend to escalate.

Then the popcorn brigade set up deckchairs etc....

Just before announcing "pass the popcorn" not sure how long you been here but 4 /5 years ago not as chilled as this ... every word out of place you would feel like you was jumped on its alot better now."

I'm only a forum youngster not been here long enough to remember that

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"Is it really that hard to be nice if you find that difficult why comment in the first place "
erm 4 an argument? thats why they comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Correct me if I'm wrong but I always though a forum was a place where conflicting opinions could be aired ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it really that hard to be nice if you find that difficult why comment in the first place "

er isn t it how any forum goes? from the french ones to the brit ones they are all the same...quite entertaining all in all

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Correct me if I'm wrong but I always though a forum was a place where conflicting opinions could be aired ?

"

I think the OP means the manner in which the opinion is aired

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Correct me if I'm wrong but I always though a forum was a place where conflicting opinions could be aired ?

I think the OP means the manner in which the opinion is aired"

Oooo that's fighting talk!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Conflicting opinions yes conversation and debate is a good thing but I see a lot of people making comments just to belittle others just to get a rise and looking at the age of some of these people you gotta wonder what goes on in there heads

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By *icked weaselCouple
over a year ago

Near Edinburgh..

Get your Popcorn here.. £1 a Tub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get your Popcorn here.. £1 a Tub "

I pound a tub!!!!! Jog on

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Get your Popcorn here.. £1 a Tub "

I was going to say what have i missed...

its been pretty tame for a thursday...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like toffee popcorn ... But we also like salted popcorn ! But which one is best ?? There's only one way to find out !!

FIGHT !!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I thinks its a form of foreplay for some people

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By *icked weaselCouple
over a year ago

Near Edinburgh..


"We like toffee popcorn ... But we also like salted popcorn ! But which one is best ?? There's only one way to find out !!

FIGHT !!!!!!!! "

SALTED.. ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooo are we starting Fights????

All women belong in the kitchen

*runs like fook for cover*

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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago

taunton


"We like toffee popcorn ... But we also like salted popcorn ! But which one is best ?? There's only one way to find out !!

FIGHT !!!!!!!! "

Lol, mrp's favourite line.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The can of worms is officially open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And what are thay doing away from to stove lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Correct me if I'm wrong but I always though a forum was a place where conflicting opinions could be aired ?

I think the OP means the manner in which the opinion is aired"

Polar opinions tend to draw emotive responses, the manner in which they are expressed matters little, words are merely a collection of conjectural symbols and sarcasm is a form wit, you either give as good as you get ! or get out of the way.

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By *kywatcherMan
over a year ago

Southwick

Do you mean 'slanging match'? Seriously though, the debates are fine as long as no personal insults are made. When that point is reached the issues being debated seem to take second place.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Correct me if I'm wrong but I always though a forum was a place where conflicting opinions could be aired ?

I think the OP means the manner in which the opinion is aired

Polar opinions tend to draw emotive responses, the manner in which they are expressed matters little, words are merely a collection of conjectural symbols and sarcasm is a form wit, you either give as good as you get ! or get out of the way."

Sarcasm may be a form of wit, but it is the lowest. Now stop talking shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Correct me if I'm wrong but I always though a forum was a place where conflicting opinions could be aired ?

I think the OP means the manner in which the opinion is aired

Polar opinions tend to draw emotive responses, the manner in which they are expressed matters little, words are merely a collection of conjectural symbols and sarcasm is a form wit, you either give as good as you get ! or get out of the way.

Sarcasm may be a form of wit, but it is the lowest. Now stop talking shit "

Wit is wit except to those that are witless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Conflicting opinions yes conversation and debate is a good thing but I see a lot of people making comments just to belittle others just to get a rise and looking at the age of some of these people you gotta wonder what goes on in there heads "

This goes back to a thread I started about trolling. Same thing, but I was shot down at the time that this never went on.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Probably boredom, both in their lives and in the forum.

Oh and small peniseseses.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Probably boredom, both in their lives and in the forum.

Oh and small peniseseses."

Bored of a small penis?

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By *aturasqCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire


"The can of worms is officially open "

My goodness - horse meat was bad enough - which supermarket chain are selling worms ?

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By *aturasqCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire


"The can of worms is officially open "

My goodness - horse meat was bad enough - which supermarket chain are selling worms ?

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"Probably boredom, both in their lives and in the forum.

Oh and small peniseseses.

Bored of a small penis?"

Ermmmmmmmmmmmmm I wouldn't know

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

I do feel that recently there have been a few threads, often started by people quite new to the forums, where the Op has taken offence at some of the responses and replies they have recieved from other members on the thread.

I can understand when the Op has been the subject of abuse or nastiness, but more often than not it is simply another member having a different _iew on a matter and not posting a reply that the Op of some of these threads wants to see.

I thought that was the reason for forums, for debate....not everyone will share the _iews of the Op of a thread, but this is often taken as an attack on some of these Op's....and becomes even more silly when you get the needy members amongst us getting all defensive on behalf of an Op in the faint hope of getting a shag out of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do feel that recently there have been a few threads, often started by people quite new to the forums, where the Op has taken offence at some of the responses and replies they have recieved from other members on the thread.

I can understand when the Op has been the subject of abuse or nastiness, but more often than not it is simply another member having a different _iew on a matter and not posting a reply that the Op of some of these threads wants to see.

I thought that was the reason for forums, for debate....not everyone will share the _iews of the Op of a thread, but this is often taken as an attack on some of these Op's....and becomes even more silly when you get the needy members amongst us getting all defensive on behalf of an Op in the faint hope of getting a shag out of it.

"

I totally agree 1000% you couldn't be more right.

so when do I get my shag

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Whenever you want, mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it really that hard to be nice if you find that difficult why comment in the first place "

Because they ****ing well want to.....alright??!!??

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"I do feel that recently there have been a few threads, often started by people quite new to the forums, where the Op has taken offence at some of the responses and replies they have recieved from other members on the thread.

I can understand when the Op has been the subject of abuse or nastiness, but more often than not it is simply another member having a different _iew on a matter and not posting a reply that the Op of some of these threads wants to see.

I thought that was the reason for forums, for debate....not everyone will share the _iews of the Op of a thread, but this is often taken as an attack on some of these Op's....and becomes even more silly when you get the needy members amongst us getting all defensive on behalf of an Op in the faint hope of getting a shag out of it.

I totally agree 1000% you couldn't be more right.

so when do I get my shag "

20th September 2015

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do feel that recently there have been a few threads, often started by people quite new to the forums, where the Op has taken offence at some of the responses and replies they have recieved from other members on the thread.

I can understand when the Op has been the subject of abuse or nastiness, but more often than not it is simply another member having a different _iew on a matter and not posting a reply that the Op of some of these threads wants to see.

I thought that was the reason for forums, for debate....not everyone will share the _iews of the Op of a thread, but this is often taken as an attack on some of these Op's....and becomes even more silly when you get the needy members amongst us getting all defensive on behalf of an Op in the faint hope of getting a shag out of it.

I totally agree 1000% you couldn't be more right.

so when do I get my shag

20th September 2015"

I'll put it in my diary

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Its nice to be nice but lets face it ...its fucking boring after a while and it makes my face hurt all that fucking smiling and laughing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its nice to be nice but lets face it ...its fucking boring after a while and it makes my face hurt all that fucking smiling and laughing. "

Quite right you bitch whore from the gardens of babylon

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Its nice to be nice but lets face it ...its fucking boring after a while and it makes my face hurt all that fucking smiling and laughing.

Quite right you bitch whore from the gardens of babylon "
meow baby

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

because I have a different opinion on subjects than others, I respect people who have the opposite _iew to me.

and the happy slapping does my nut in because on the whole, I feel it is false and driven by genitalia. I personally find the fact that a guy can ask a question and be pounced on yet a female will get strokes of kindness and reassurance 'it's his loss honey'... I find that distasteful.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Conflicting opinions yes conversation and debate is a good thing but I see a lot of people making comments just to belittle others just to get a rise and looking at the age of some of these people you gotta wonder what goes on in there heads "

Oi youngster..

thats ageist..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it is the only way they can say what they want without getting blocked by the individual.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

*+^ ENCRYPTED MESSAGE ^+*

The mods are actually aliens who have been sent here to control and herd us all. They intend to force us all to become blue racist Antartican cheating married VWE BBW fake timewasters who lie about their sexuality, constantly moan about not getting meets and needing help with our profiles and secretly go bareback to get someone elses girlfriend pregnant... Jesh, imagine how fucked up that would make the forums if that was all we ever talked about! Luckily they can't see this post as I'm too smart for them

*+^ ENCRYPTED MESSAGE ^+*

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Im watching you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im watching you!"

Oh ignore her, she just loves looking at ya arse!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*+^ ENCRYPTED MESSAGE ^+*

The mods are actually aliens who have been sent here to control and herd us all. They intend to force us all to become blue racist Antartican cheating married VWE BBW fake timewasters who lie about their sexuality, constantly moan about not getting meets and needing help with our profiles and secretly go bareback to get someone elses girlfriend pregnant... Jesh, imagine how fucked up that would make the forums if that was all we ever talked about! Luckily they can't see this post as I'm too smart for them

*+^ ENCRYPTED MESSAGE ^+*

"

Pmsl Hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"because I have a different opinion on subjects than others, I respect people who have the opposite _iew to me.

and the happy slapping does my nut in because on the whole, I feel it is false and driven by genitalia. I personally find the fact that a guy can ask a question and be pounced on yet a female will get strokes of kindness and reassurance 'it's his loss honey'... I find that distasteful.

"

This.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"Im watching you!"

The irony is I typed that for another thread only to discover it's been removed....

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"I do feel that recently there have been a few threads, often started by people quite new to the forums, where the Op has taken offence at some of the responses and replies they have recieved from other members on the thread.

I can understand when the Op has been the subject of abuse or nastiness, but more often than not it is simply another member having a different _iew on a matter and not posting a reply that the Op of some of these threads wants to see.

I thought that was the reason for forums, for debate....not everyone will share the _iews of the Op of a thread, but this is often taken as an attack on some of these Op's....and becomes even more silly when you get the needy members amongst us getting all defensive on behalf of an Op in the faint hope of getting a shag out of it.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Correct me if I'm wrong but I always though a forum was a place where conflicting opinions could be aired ?

I think the OP means the manner in which the opinion is aired"

So who's in charge of manners then?

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Correct me if I'm wrong but I always though a forum was a place where conflicting opinions could be aired ?

I think the OP means the manner in which the opinion is aired

So who's in charge of manners then? "

On a roll you are ! Is your middle name disagreeable? Go eat some cake and cheer yourself up a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the many things that keeps me interested in forums is reading or taking part in enthusiastic debate on topics where members demonstrate challenging opinions and air those feelings with passion……

But as adults we are all aware of what is reasonable behaviour. So when contributors cross the boundaries of common courtesy and resort to verbal bullying or directing personal insults they are in effect losing all authority of their own _iews or opinions and have no further value to the discussion.

Thats my tupenceworth,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Correct me if I'm wrong but I always though a forum was a place where conflicting opinions could be aired ?

I think the OP means the manner in which the opinion is aired

So who's in charge of manners then?

On a roll you are ! Is your middle name disagreeable? Go eat some cake and cheer yourself up a bit "

Cake on a roll? Is that at McD's?

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"One of the many things that keeps me interested in forums is reading or taking part in enthusiastic debate on topics where members demonstrate challenging opinions and air those feelings with passion……

But as adults we are all aware of what is reasonable behaviour. So when contributors cross the boundaries of common courtesy and resort to verbal bullying or directing personal insults they are in effect losing all authority of their own _iews or opinions and have no further value to the discussion.

Thats my tupenceworth,,,

"

I agree with the disgusting deviant above

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Correct me if I'm wrong but I always though a forum was a place where conflicting opinions could be aired ?

I think the OP means the manner in which the opinion is aired

So who's in charge of manners then?

On a roll you are ! Is your middle name disagreeable? Go eat some cake and cheer yourself up a bit

Cake on a roll? Is that at McD's? "

Don't think so. But it's a bloody good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Thats my tupenceworth,,,

I agree with the disgusting deviant above "

Oi Vickle-tickle saviour of the leotard …… Stop freeloading my posts….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think thats debates are.. ive seen many debates but cant say ive seen any that get nasty and turn into name calling..

debates are fun XD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of the many things that keeps me interested in forums is reading or taking part in enthusiastic debate on topics where members demonstrate challenging opinions and air those feelings with passion……

But as adults we are all aware of what is reasonable behaviour. So when contributors cross the boundaries of common courtesy and resort to verbal bullying or directing personal insults they are in effect losing all authority of their own _iews or opinions and have no further value to the discussion.

Thats my tupenceworth,,,

"

such as starting to point out someones spelling or grammer?? haha.. love those responses xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"because I have a different opinion on subjects than others, I respect people who have the opposite _iew to me.

and the happy slapping does my nut in because on the whole, I feel it is false and driven by genitalia. I personally find the fact that a guy can ask a question and be pounced on yet a female will get strokes of kindness and reassurance 'it's his loss honey'... I find that distasteful.

"

I see this quite often in the forums...I think its alot worse for some of the guys new to the scene...they get jumped on for asking a question that was answered weeks before they even joined...and get told they should've done a forum search for the topic....

And welcome to the site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Thats my tupenceworth,,,

such as starting to point out someones spelling or grammer?? haha.. love those responses xx"

Hangs head in shame

Yeah-yeah,,,I see it....there should be two P’s in tuppence

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

It will never change.

There are people who are too thin skinned, there are people who are too opinionated, there are people who want serious discussion, there are people who want to joke around... add to that the odd completely ignorant moron and the odd troll who delights in hounding certain posters (even PMing them at times to carry on arguing) and there will be times when it blows up.

Just be true to what YOU are and leave others to themselves. If someone goes for you on the forum respond but don't get drawn into a long drawn out argument, it's not worth it as they will turn everything you say on it's head and call you the moron.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, and I've not been here long, it seems to me that it's about looking good/smart/witty on here.

You have the grammar Nazis who nit pick, the dry sarcastic ones who accidentally start an argument, and the trolls who just want to be idiots.

Ultimately, it just happens

come at me bro

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

sometimes it is because the Telly is shite...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sometimes it is because the Telly is shite..."
your right .. and alot of the time it is.

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