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By *uicy 2020 OP   Woman
over a year ago

London

Do you always make a big occassion of your birthday? Always do something special to mark the day?

I dont normally, will get together with my family at the weekend, but Id generally just have a normal day, maybe something nice for dinner. However, I will be turning 40 very shortly, and Im really looking forward to it because Ive taken the whole week off work and have lots of lovely things planned, with family, friends, and by myself! I feel like I am really treating myself this year and Im loving it!

Did you do anything special for a big birthday?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh exciting!

And no, not really. I don’t have many friends anymore so I kinda just chill. My husband and son always make me feel special though

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By *uicy 2020 OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"Oh exciting!

And no, not really. I don’t have many friends anymore so I kinda just chill. My husband and son always make me feel special though "

Oh thats lovely

Always nice when other people make you feel special, shows their love for you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exciting, OP

Recently I’ve done things. This year I went out a few times with family, gf, friends etc. some years I do nothing though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last year was the big 30 so a lot of people planned stuff for me. I had whole two weeks of travel, events, fun and frolics everyday.

This year I'll still celebrate but not so much extra

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

I had a really big party for my 18th, was at university for my 21st so just d*unk in a cheesy club somewhere; chose an achingly cool place for my 30th (yeah, I know, and it was probably too cool for me); and had a weekend away in the countryside with my family for my 40th with dinner in a nice pub. The 4 ages of man.

Next milestone birthday is 50 but I really don't want to confront that prospect yet!

Happy birthday in advance, OP!

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Do you always make a big occassion of your birthday? Always do something special to mark the day?"

No. I'm not a fan of the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of my birthdays pass unnoticed. Perfect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really. We have never had the money to be able to do anything too exciting. It's been a little day trip out somewhere and lots of delicious food with my partner and daughter over the past few years. But we have made a promise to make big deals out of the big birthdays from now on since we have a bit more disposable income and life is fucking short and can be gone in a moment. I'm 30 in a few weeks and we are whisking ourself off to a fancy hotel for three nights, just the two of us.

Sounds like you're going to have amazing week celebrating turning 40! I hope it is magical.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont celebrate my birthday and neither does anyone else.

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By *uicy 2020 OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"Last year was the big 30 so a lot of people planned stuff for me. I had whole two weeks of travel, events, fun and frolics everyday.

This year I'll still celebrate but not so much extra "

Oh I love this for you, even better when someone else does all the planning! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's Mr TT2s birthday tomorrow (shhhhh) and we're not doing anything big. We are going to spend the day together whilst the kids are at school and be *name* and *name*, until we're back to being mum and dad

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By *atnayCouple
over a year ago

STEVENAGE

My birthdays in NYD, no one wants to go out. All too hungover. So now I tack it onto NYE. 12.30 onwards it my birthday lol.

For my 40th we celebrated both at a house party. My 30th I jumped out a plane. 15000ft skydive. My 20th I was ill and couldent get out of bed. Ive got 6and half years till my 50th.

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By *uicy 2020 OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"I had a really big party for my 18th, was at university for my 21st so just d*unk in a cheesy club somewhere; chose an achingly cool place for my 30th (yeah, I know, and it was probably too cool for me); and had a weekend away in the countryside with my family for my 40th with dinner in a nice pub. The 4 ages of man.

Next milestone birthday is 50 but I really don't want to confront that prospect yet!

Happy birthday in advance, OP! "

Thank you

Yes, my idea of a good celebration isel not the same as it used to be either, haha x

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By *uicy 2020 OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"Not really. We have never had the money to be able to do anything too exciting. It's been a little day trip out somewhere and lots of delicious food with my partner and daughter over the past few years. But we have made a promise to make big deals out of the big birthdays from now on since we have a bit more disposable income and life is fucking short and can be gone in a moment. I'm 30 in a few weeks and we are whisking ourself off to a fancy hotel for three nights, just the two of us.

Sounds like you're going to have amazing week celebrating turning 40! I hope it is magical. "

Thank you

I hope you both thoroughly enjoy your time away, will you leave the hotel at all? x

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By *uicy 2020 OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"It's Mr TT2s birthday tomorrow (shhhhh) and we're not doing anything big. We are going to spend the day together whilst the kids are at school and be *name* and *name*, until we're back to being mum and dad

F"

Oh I love that. It doesnt have to be anything elaborate to celebrate, anything that feeds your soul x

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

For my birthday no. I just want people to fuck off and leave me alone. Haven't done anything for years. 40 was good. I had Covid so legitimately had to stay in for Christmas and birthday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This year I spent the day on my own pleasing myself and enjoying my own company

Next year probably won't get away with it but want to go to a hot beach lay naked all day in the sun, swim in the sea and drink champagne.

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By *uicy 2020 OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"My birthdays in NYD, no one wants to go out. All too hungover. So now I tack it onto NYE. 12.30 onwards it my birthday lol.

For my 40th we celebrated both at a house party. My 30th I jumped out a plane. 15000ft skydive. My 20th I was ill and couldent get out of bed. Ive got 6and half years till my 50th.

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Thats a great idea, double celebration! Or do they have to change all the decorations at 12:30?

Wow, a skydive, thats an epic thing to do. I also want to push myself as part of my 40th celebrations, but that just to go to a club for the 1st time, ha. Thats out of my comfort zone enough for me

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

Aw congratulations I hope it turns out exactly as you hope.

For my 50th, I did 50 things I’d never done before. Friends, work colleagues helped come up with ideas. Mainly stupid things but it was just about setting out something different each week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a big meal with all my friends and family for my 18th then my dad took me out for my first legal drink just the two of us which was special.

It’s my 30th next year. I’ve been dropping hints about a party so fingers crossed someone has been picking up on them

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I turned fifty last December. My celebrations started in Edinburgh in November and lasted right through till the end of January in Liverpool.

Kids arranged a surprise birthday party which was just amazing. Over the 10 weeks I celebrated I had so many weekends away with different sets of friends and laughed non stop. So many fantastic memories made with the people who mean the most to me

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

I'm 50 this year and taking myself to Vietnam.

Booked venues for 30th and 40th birthdays, and nobody bothered to show.

Fuck that game again.

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By *uicy 2020 OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"Aw congratulations I hope it turns out exactly as you hope.

For my 50th, I did 50 things I’d never done before. Friends, work colleagues helped come up with ideas. Mainly stupid things but it was just about setting out something different each week "

Thats such a great idea! So you did 1 each week? I wonder if you picked up something new that you love now? X

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By *uicy 2020 OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"I had a big meal with all my friends and family for my 18th then my dad took me out for my first legal drink just the two of us which was special.

It’s my 30th next year. I’ve been dropping hints about a party so fingers crossed someone has been picking up on them "

Clang!! Haha. Hope they plan something you love x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a big meal with all my friends and family for my 18th then my dad took me out for my first legal drink just the two of us which was special.

It’s my 30th next year. I’ve been dropping hints about a party so fingers crossed someone has been picking up on them

Clang!! Haha. Hope they plan something you love x "

Thank you! I hope you enjoy your birthday week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That sounds wonderful. Happy 40th when it comes. I hope you have the best time.

I turn 40 soon too and I have a fair few things planned.

Usually I'll do something with my sons and some friends but it seems others are planning things for me too which is so kind of them.

I'm actually really looking forward to it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 50 this year and taking myself to Vietnam.

Booked venues for 30th and 40th birthdays, and nobody bothered to show.

Fuck that game again."

It's just another day, why not spend it somewhere special.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Family arranged a surprise party for my 60th! But caught on! I did go along with ig being a "surprise" though ! Nest month we having a retirement meal for my 66th!x

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