FabSwingers.com forum: Bi or bi cur

By *parrow77 OP Man
over a year ago

cheshire

Is it only me who seems to get rejections or lack of interest due to sexuality.

Over the years it always seems that it is more acceptable for lady be bi or bi curious than it is a guy.

In past and recently had rejections due to being bi curious now it doesn’t mean I’ve been with guy or experience with bi fun.

Just wonder what others think or feel or maybe am just rejected cos fat an ugly lol and no one cares about my sexuality hmmmm

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

How do you know that’s why they rejected you? Did they all give that as a reason? Or are you just assuming? From what I’ve seen on fab the majority of women love a bi man.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Are people saying its because you're bi op ?

It's most men's fantasy to see 2 women together which is why bi fems are so in demand here though.

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By *parrow77 OP Man
over a year ago

cheshire

"How do you know that’s why they rejected you? Did they all give that as a reason? Or are you just assuming? From what I’ve seen on fab the majority of women love a bi man. "

I’ve had a few who replied cos bi cur and also seen some pages say no non str8 men so am just curious.

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By *parrow77 OP Man
over a year ago

cheshire

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"How do you know that’s why they rejected you? Did they all give that as a reason? Or are you just assuming? From what I’ve seen on fab the majority of women love a bi man.

I’ve had a few who replied cos bi cur and also seen some pages say no non str8 men so am just curious. "

Ah ok. They probably don’t all have the same reasons. Not much you can do. Best to concentrate on those that don’t mind. There’s plenty around.

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By *parrow77 OP Man
over a year ago

cheshire

"How do you know that’s why they rejected you? Did they all give that as a reason? Or are you just assuming? From what I’ve seen on fab the majority of women love a bi man.

I’ve had a few who replied cos bi cur and also seen some pages say no non str8 men so am just curious.

Ah ok. They probably don’t all have the same reasons. Not much you can do. Best to concentrate on those that don’t mind. There’s plenty around. "

Oh I know just made me curious of views cos always seems bi or lesbian more easy than gay or bi man.

Hope your still ok and sexy nora

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"How do you know that’s why they rejected you? Did they all give that as a reason? Or are you just assuming? From what I’ve seen on fab the majority of women love a bi man.

I’ve had a few who replied cos bi cur and also seen some pages say no non str8 men so am just curious.

Ah ok. They probably don’t all have the same reasons. Not much you can do. Best to concentrate on those that don’t mind. There’s plenty around.

Oh I know just made me curious of views cos always seems bi or lesbian more easy than gay or bi man.

Hope your still ok and sexy nora"

It’s pretty much always been that way though. A male fantasy. I find 2 women together hot. 2 men together I don’t find hot at all.

I’m good and still sexy thanks

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By *parrow77 OP Man
over a year ago

cheshire

"How do you know that’s why they rejected you? Did they all give that as a reason? Or are you just assuming? From what I’ve seen on fab the majority of women love a bi man.

I’ve had a few who replied cos bi cur and also seen some pages say no non str8 men so am just curious.

Ah ok. They probably don’t all have the same reasons. Not much you can do. Best to concentrate on those that don’t mind. There’s plenty around.

Oh I know just made me curious of views cos always seems bi or lesbian more easy than gay or bi man.

Hope your still ok and sexy nora

It’s pretty much always been that way though. A male fantasy. I find 2 women together hot. 2 men together I don’t find hot at all.

I’m good and still sexy thanks

Yeah just something made me think hmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi is a middle ground that isn't always a great place to be (even as a woman)!

You've got the men who over sexualise it. You've got the lesbians that don't want you because you've been with men. You've got the straight women which assume you want them

I don't think it's a male v female thing (although bi men do get a worse rep unfortunately) I think it's a some people are fucking shit thing.

You're never going to please everyone. Just do your thing.. bi or cur.x

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Bi cur bi cur bi cur bi cur grove sorry dont know what the threads about but the title gave me an ear worm

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Plenty of women on Fab love bi or curious men.

I met one on here many moons ago and we've been married almost 8 years.

It's unlikely to be a simple case of sexuality causing rejection.

Women say no to straight guys all the time too.

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By *parrow77 OP Man
over a year ago

cheshire

"Plenty of women on Fab love bi or curious men.

I met one on here many moons ago and we've been married almost 8 years.

It's unlikely to be a simple case of sexuality causing rejection.

Women say no to straight guys all the time too.

Oh I know women say no lots reasons but had few females and cpls recently say no to chat or more and mention bi status as reason so as mentioned just food for thought and something thought curious

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Plenty of women on Fab love bi or curious men.

I met one on here many moons ago and we've been married almost 8 years.

It's unlikely to be a simple case of sexuality causing rejection.

Women say no to straight guys all the time too.

Oh I know women say no lots reasons but had few females and cpls recently say no to chat or more and mention bi status as reason so as mentioned just food for thought and something thought curious"

Don't sweat it.

Some folks don't want to meet bi guys.

Some don't want to meet short guys.

Some don't want to meet gingers.

We can't be all things to all people - just be yourself!

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By *amRod64Man
over a year ago

Gravesend

Personally think there is an element of truth on the OP post….

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By *nigmaschild300Man
over a year ago

dunfermline

It is definitely a thing, there are obviously women out there who like bi men but In my experience and in many other bi guys I've met over the years it is very much a minority. Its the main reason many guys still identify as straight and why many are cheating behind women's backs. I get them on every platform I'm on . Fet. Fab, grindr etc

Personally I'm not one for lying or hiding it's a case of accept me or fuck off. I no longer approach women I leave the door open if I should peak their interest but I get plenty of action otherwise so it's not something I feel I'm missing out on.

The few women I have met who enjoy and appreciate bi guys more than makes up for the majority who don't.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

I wouldn’t worry or overthink it to much.Concentrate on the people that will meet you .We only meet bi /bi curious men and if they are bi but have straight on their profiles we won’t meet them.

I don’t think it’s anything more than some people just don’t get turned on by it

.sexually I get all I need one on one with my husband so we are only looking for things that we can’t possibly get from each other and that’s same sex fun.It’s just personal preference . Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been rejected for being bi, rejected for not being bi enough, having a beard, not being big enough, not having a gym body, not being the "right skin tone." and a whole lot more.

Everyone has their own sexual preferences as frustrating as it is but there is nothing one can do.

At the start of my fab adventure the start it got me down a fair bit, now I try not to let it bother me and try and enjoy the site a bit more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I can say is that these people are not for you. In our experience it is the guys that have the problem with bi or curious guys, not the girls.

We have had the same despite the fact the Clyde is only Fab Bi curious and is in the main, straight and would consider sexual experiences never done before.

Don’t worry about it and keep a positive attitude.

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By *aggonerMan
over a year ago

for a penny

If you’re not bi and you want specially to meet women, change your profile to straight.

You could add in the blurb that you’re not bi but in the right circumstances you would consider it.

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By *parrow77 OP Man
over a year ago

cheshire

"All I can say is that these people are not for you. In our experience it is the guys that have the problem with bi or curious guys, not the girls.

We have had the same despite the fact the Clyde is only Fab Bi curious and is in the main, straight and would consider sexual experiences never done before.

Don’t worry about it and keep a positive attitude.

Nice see so many cool views an chats

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By *aulnextMan
over a year ago

Hoar Cross Staffordshire

I’m bi curious but think it puts a lot of women off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To bi, or not to bi? That is the question.

Being curious as a man has a very simple and easy fix. No curious guy is going to find it hard to satisfy their curiosity. If you are, let me know. It will take 31 seconds.

I am not insensitive to the emotional turmoil that leads up to this monumental decision. That is what keeps you curious. Having crossed that bridge I can assure you it s the most natural thing in the world. Just find out and know what side of the tracks you walk on. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bi, I prefer men that are bi... It opens up options, and limits those who are cock shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also there's those 'straight folk', who are all for the bi fems, but think bi males are std riddled, or likely to jump on their cock

Because we all know bi men are renowned for the above, and bi ladies are clearly going to be clean as a whistle, and put on a lesbian act for all those eager straight husbands

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By *eathrow pineappleCouple
over a year ago

Hounslow

If people are looking for a single bi guy, I'm sure they'll give you a shout.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bi cur bi cur bi cur bi cur grove sorry dont know what the threads about but the title gave me an ear worm"

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"Is it only me who seems to get rejections or lack of interest due to sexuality.

Over the years it always seems that it is more acceptable for lady be bi or bi curious than it is a guy.

In past and recently had rejections due to being bi curious now it doesn’t mean I’ve been with guy or experience with bi fun.

Just wonder what others think or feel or maybe am just rejected cos fat an ugly lol and no one cares about my sexuality hmmmm"

Nope. We have been rejected due to john being bi, but me being bi was ok as they both wanted to fuck me. Why is there such a sigma about bi men. I just say their loss and block them and move on. Most on here think bi women are great but dont like bi men. We wont meet any one who don't like my john being bi. Chin up you are not alone.joanne x

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"Also there's those 'straight folk', who are all for the bi fems, but think bi males are std riddled, or likely to jump on their cock

Because we all know bi men are renowned for the above, and bi ladies are clearly going to be clean as a whistle, and put on a lesbian act for all those eager straight husbands "

Hit the nail on the head

it's ok us being bi as the hubby just wants another pussy to pound or to watch us with his mrs but a bi cpls male is not liked or wanted by them as they think he is gonna touch the hubby or eye him up. Why cant they see it is like me playing straight with a straight cpl. I am not going to touch or eye her up if we met to play. Same goes for my bi hubby ffs he aint gonna touch or eye the guy up. My hubby has 99% straight mates and he would not dreamvof touching or eyeing them up. People need to learn bi guys have respect and do respect boundries to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it only me who seems to get rejections or lack of interest due to sexuality.

Over the years it always seems that it is more acceptable for lady be bi or bi curious than it is a guy.

In past and recently had rejections due to being bi curious now it doesn’t mean I’ve been with guy or experience with bi fun.

Just wonder what others think or feel or maybe am just rejected cos fat an ugly lol and no one cares about my sexuality hmmmm"

Even though I always state bi I had a lady reject me at last minute because I had verification from a tgurl. I said firstly it says I'm bi. Secondly we didn't have anal, and finally you list anal a preference. How two faced is that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To bi, or not to bi? That is the question.

Being curious as a man has a very simple and easy fix. No curious guy is going to find it hard to satisfy their curiosity. If you are, let me know. It will take 31 seconds.

I love first time guys, if they're nervous I tell them it's all just skin and sex.

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By *parrow77 OP Man
over a year ago

cheshire

"Is it only me who seems to get rejections or lack of interest due to sexuality.

Over the years it always seems that it is more acceptable for lady be bi or bi curious than it is a guy.

In past and recently had rejections due to being bi curious now it doesn’t mean I’ve been with guy or experience with bi fun.

Just wonder what others think or feel or maybe am just rejected cos fat an ugly lol and no one cares about my sexuality hmmmm

Thanks means lots guys just feels shame but hopefully someone will want me lol just feels another reason why rejection but as always on fab is a crazy game trying to get people’s attention which am never good at anyways lol

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By *ancs Fun GuyMan
over a year ago

Burnley

Being bi is usually a plus for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had very few experiences of being rejected for my sexuality. Ive had a lot more cases where it's piqued an interest.

I've never quite understood what I may (or may not) have done on the last, or may (or may not) do in the future effects preferences so. I suspect on many cases it's pavlovian (Ive noticed that the majority "no bi" women are older). But hey ho. They don't want me for whatever reasons and that is fine. I'm not here to complete fab.

End of the day, you can't change who you are, so best to let it pass. It's like complaining about gravity. Instead make the most of it (most sports would suck without gravity, so it's a friend not a foe)

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Honestly, someone's sexuality is mostly irrelevant to me. If both parties are into each other, Ace. If not, oh well, move on.

That said, I do actually tend to percieve bi-curious as a very pale red flag for me. But that's simply because I like people who know what they like and how to do it well, and being an experience or an experiment or having to play teacher sounds like a terrible time for me.

But if someone I fuck also wants to fuck men in general? Not an issue.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Of course you could be rejected because of your sexuality, try being a straight crossdresser on here even less likely to get a meet.

Most of the guys struggling will use some reason why they’re not getting meets, often wrongly. In the end depending whereabouts you live can play a part, or whatever is on your profile (I’ve not looked) basically a myriad of reasons.

Good luck though hope things change for you.

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By *parrow77 OP Man
over a year ago

cheshire

"Of course you could be rejected because of your sexuality, try being a straight crossdresser on here even less likely to get a meet.

Good luck though hope things change for you.

Oh I know what you mean and this wasn’t a wow is me type post it was a debate a discussion.

I have been swinging since I was 22 so know scene well and the ups and downs (no pun intended lol) and know many things and factors influence.

But did want see how ppl feel bi is varied and viewed as said before and others posted seems bi ladies are looked for and seen as ok where as bi men can be shunned or rejected even if seem perfect match etc.

it’s just nice to speak to others and get others views.

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