FabSwingers.com forum: Women being givers

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How happy are men to just sit back and recieve? They all say they want to give, buy what if the woman just wants to give. How happy are you with this? Just some post drink thinking. I would much rather give than recieve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who would say no if the women said that! I know I’d happily lay back and enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Who would say no if the women said that! I know I’d happily lay back and enjoy it"

Good to know some men wouldn't be off put

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

I’m much more of a giver than a sitting back and receiver

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boring. Can’t we have some mutual fun at least?

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By *heHornyChefMan
over a year ago

derby

Deffo happy to sit back and receive. One of the best proper orgasms I had was just letting a girl have her way with me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Boring. Can’t we have some mutual fun at least? "

Of course if its genuine, some Just say they want to because they think it's what we want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met plenty of men very happy to sit back and receive without any desire to give a woman pleasure.

Find it very dull mediocre sex when a man won't give pleasure. So no incentive to repeat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've met plenty of men very happy to sit back and receive without any desire to give a woman pleasure.

Find it very dull mediocre sex when a man won't give pleasure. So no incentive to repeat. "

These ain’t men these are fools I’d say! Me personally would let the women go first and receive some foreplay till I’ve cummed and then it’s my turn to use my hands and mouth till she pushes my head away down there and then it’s round 2 with multiple different positions

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"How happy are men to just sit back and recieve? They all say they want to give, buy what if the woman just wants to give. How happy are you with this? Just some post drink thinking. I would much rather give than recieve

As an occasional thing? Sure, why not.

Same as it would be good the other way round.

There's nothing wrong with treating a partner and making them the centre of attention at times, wanting nothing in return.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

If she's good at what she does then sure, help yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A man I meet is more than happy for me to just suck his cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mutual is wonderful but I do genuinely love to give because reactions thrill me.

Its lovely when I'm able to indulge in that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A man I meet is more than happy for me to just suck his cock

And nothing after?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A man I meet is more than happy for me to just suck his cock

And nothing after?"

Occasionally. We’ll chat and I’ll ask when he’s next near me, and he’ll say ‘oh well not for a few weeks, I’m passing through in a few days but only passing’ and I’ll tell him to get his arse to mine so I can suck his dick. I love sucking cock so much, I’m amazing at it, and he loves getting his dick sucked. No complaints from any of us

let him cum on my tits then send him on his merry way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A man I meet is more than happy for me to just suck his cock

And nothing after?

let him cum on my tits then send him on his merry way"

Well you must be draining him that good for him just to get that and leave. Like the way you are that confident in what you do as well fair play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A man I meet is more than happy for me to just suck his cock

And nothing after?

let him cum on my tits then send him on his merry way

Well you must be draining him that good for him just to get that and leave. Like the way you are that confident in what you do as well fair play. "

I know my strengths

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'd struggle with it. I don't like to think that they'd only be doing something for my enjoyment which is why I'd prefer being able to give as well as I get pleasure from giving it and get really turned on by hearing them enjoying themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A man I meet is more than happy for me to just suck his cock

And nothing after?

let him cum on my tits then send him on his merry way

Well you must be draining him that good for him just to get that and leave. Like the way you are that confident in what you do as well fair play.

I know my strengths

Exactly that! I’d say a lot of fellas on here now will be in your inbox after reading this lol

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I’m more of a giver myself and would feel lazy not actively participating (a pillow Prince?).

Having said this, I DO love it when a lady rides me but even then, my hands, lips and tongue are hardly inactive…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always fun mixing it up, sometimes it’s great to lie back while she gets into a good rhythm and/or works her hips. Plus laying back while she goes to town with her mouth is also a turn on.

Don’t get me wrong though. It’s only pleasurable for me if she genuinely enjoys giving pleasure.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I’ve been learning to get a little better at this. Historically it’s not something I ever really let myself enjoy. (Spoiler: I’ve been missing out. It can be great with the right partner.)

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

I struggle with it, so if Alice wants that she usually ties me up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to do, quite happily lay back and enjoy.

I'm far too active now, I can't relax long enough for that.

I'm more a giver anyway, plus it's the woman that does it for me, rather than the physical sensation upon myself.

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By *lay 4 your plessureMan
over a year ago

Wigan

I'm ok with just receiving every once in a while, but I much prefer both to get some. I'd be happier spending most of my time giving though, the thing is, women have a much greater ability to have multiple orgasms than I do, so to me it makes sense, if I'm only getting one and she can have more I should be giving more.

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By *omewhatSlightlyDazedMan
over a year ago

Warwick Birmingham & YamYamLand

Very happy

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By *unsexual MemelordWoman
over a year ago

Midlothian

I'd rather give than receive, I don't often want anything back as I have a very limited libido. There's nothing wrong with a meet being 'one sided', if anything I'd say it was more weird to feel an obligation of sorts to do tit for tat.

I give presents at Christmas because I enjoy making people smile, not to get a gift in return; same principle. I'm not giving head to get it back, I just want to make the person happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most men do prefer to receive, they give you 5 minutes sucking on that clit like a hamster on a water bottle and that's your lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally, I enjoy it when both are mutually chasing the others orgasm, from give & take roles (I give the way they like/ they take the way I like).

It could be perceived that I'm 'giving/ available for them only' if an observer doesn't understand the nuances, but it's also very much for my pleasure too in the ways chosen to take, which really turn me on

They would have to be considerate to my preferences too.

Also, my giving can be proactively doing to them or being thoroughly available for them to take, unless I'm being a bratty & making it a challenge for them to take me.

Not sure if this makes any sense

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

Kitty loves to give a blowjob with no action by the recipient, and she’s damn good at it too. She loves to go from zero to completion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if you're sitting on my face when you do

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

"I struggle with it, so if Alice wants that she usually ties me up. "

This

It's easier to prolong the playtime that way, as it stops him touching me as he's over excited, also it's really hot to ride him bound

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I struggle with it, so if Alice wants that she usually ties me up.

This

It's easier to prolong the playtime that way, as it stops him touching me as he's over excited, also it's really hot to ride him bound

Sounds fun

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By *trkenitMan
over a year ago

Clovis

Definitely,but I like doing the same in return. I love a good make out session.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I like to give some nights I do just want to give the Mr a nice long bj and don't want anything back, he's happy to oblige

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be ok with that, but I also like to give

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most men do prefer to receive, they give you 5 minutes sucking on that clit like a hamster on a water bottle and that's your lot."

But what if you had say 45 mins before with the good old finger technique and tongue everywhere would that 5 mins do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most men do prefer to receive, they give you 5 minutes sucking on that clit like a hamster on a water bottle and that's your lot.

But what if you had say 45 mins before with the good old finger technique and tongue everywhere would that 5 mins do"

Then it wouldn't be 5 minutes.

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By *ixed_and_HungMan
over a year ago

aylesbury

There is nothing sexier then a women who knows what she wants and wants to charge... im all for it

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Kitty loves to give a blowjob with no action by the recipient, and she’s damn good at it too. She loves to go from zero to completion. "

Me toooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most men do prefer to receive, they give you 5 minutes sucking on that clit like a hamster on a water bottle and that's your lot.

But what if you had say 45 mins before with the good old finger technique and tongue everywhere would that 5 mins do"

If its the same finger technique most men do, then I will have no vagina by the end of it. I'll take the 5 minutes and be grateful.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

I'd rather fucking shove soil in my ass and grow a plant

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By *am_LincolnMan
over a year ago

Prestatyn

I enjoy giving more but I can understand both ways.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A man I meet is more than happy for me to just suck his cock

And nothing after?

let him cum on my tits then send him on his merry way"

Sounds like a good time to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very much more of a giver, I get turned on seeing the pleasure in someone's face and reactions knowing its because of something I'm doing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like to give some nights I do just want to give the Mr a nice long bj and don't want anything back, he's happy to oblige

Mrs "

Obviously it's not all I want but I really do love treating my man to what I say is a pretty good

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

Shared please

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By *apidaryMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

If someone is genuinely in the mood to give, then allowing them to do so (and making one's appreciation known) is a way of giving back.

Not trying to excuse lazy selfishness or emotional obtuseness in other settings, but as so often its the emotional meaning of things that matters.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

This would be a dream of mine

Marc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most men do prefer to receive, they give you 5 minutes sucking on that clit like a hamster on a water bottle and that's your lot.

But what if you had say 45 mins before with the good old finger technique and tongue everywhere would that 5 mins do

If its the same finger technique most men do, then I will have no vagina by the end of it. I'll take the 5 minutes and be grateful."

Hold on what’s the technique you are used to? Plus don’t say they don’t even use the tongue while slipping a finger in?

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