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By *ranimallxl5 OP   Man
over a year ago

Winchester

Do regular swingers work out more and eat well because they know they have to show off their body to strangers?

Or does it not matter as it's about your personality, style etc?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Do regular swingers work out more and eat well because they know they have to show off their body to strangers?

Or does it not matter as it's about your personality, style etc?"

Some do. Some don't.

There's plenty comfortable in their own skin whatever shape or size and also those that aren't happy.

Then there's the ILM's that are 110% all about image.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a motivating factor as I'm sure everyone loves compliments about their body. It's not the main reason I work out, but it's a nice little bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope my body is hot the way it is, but I eat well and keep things tight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to the gym once.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I work out but still resemble a bruised potato. Mr doesn't really do any formal exercise yet has a lovely slim physique. I dislike my body at lot, but it's equal opportunities dislike. I dislike it in shop changing rooms, at the swimming pool, at the gym and in clubs. So, I just get it out and anyone who finds it offputting can shut their eyes or something!

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I just simply work out for me and nobody else. And if people find pleasant on the eye good for them.

It shouldn’t be for anyone, but yourself

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By *ranimallxl5 OP   Man
over a year ago

Winchester

Need to get love island fit

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

I just breath in when i take pics i eat like crap and rarely workout

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing yourself naked from unflattering angles with terrible lighting and your orgasm face... it can be motivating.

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Nope im me i come as a package and if you dont like the way i am then your probably not for me anyway

Not everyone will like everything and thats fine but im not going to change to try and please everyone

Nothing more attractive than someone who is genuinely confident and happy in themselves

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By *e renard de la campagneMan
over a year ago

Surrey mostly when over


"Nope im me i come as a package and if you dont like the way i am then your probably not for me anyway

Not everyone will like everything and thats fine but im not going to change to try and please everyone

Nothing more attractive than someone who is genuinely confident and happy in themselves "

THis x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

According to fab lore it's all about personality. However if someone says they don't think they look great loads of people say they look fantastic and they'd happily meet them.

I don't do stuff if it involves hard work even if it does promise to make me look better. I can't really be bothered

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I don't have to show off my body to strangers. I've never had sex in clubs, on cam... you get the idea, that's not going to change any time soon.

I'm not fit, still chubby. I like working out for me, those I'm attracted to like me regardless of my size. I think they might prefer me at my (note my) smaller size because I'm more confident and secure in my body and that means the sex is better. Plus my stamina has increased which really helps with my kink for utterly draining a man.

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By *ewCoupl01Couple
over a year ago

South Dublin

Generally, I (Paul) train because I enjoy it, it's good for my mental state and less so because of how I look.

I'm a pretty confident person and have never suffered with body confidence issues. Up until recently that is, I'm currently on the tail end of recovering from a sports injury and have lost a lot of muscle mass and definition.

I have to say, for the first time I've become really aware of how I look and feel a little apprehensive about meeting lately and being naked around strangers.

I'm sure once I'm back training regularly I'll bounce back to myself confidence wise but it goes to show that even care free people can take a knock every now and again.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Also once you reach your mid sixties there's only so much training can do. Diet will have a big influence but after that the only option is surgery and I'm not doing that!

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By *nigmaschild300Man
over a year ago

dunfermline


"Nope im me i come as a package and if you dont like the way i am then your probably not for me anyway

Not everyone will like everything and thats fine but im not going to change to try and please everyone

Nothing more attractive than someone who is genuinely confident and happy in themselves "

This

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8


"Do regular swingers work out more and eat well because they know they have to show off their body to strangers?

Or does it not matter as it's about your personality, style etc?"

The stand up comedian Phil Wang (chuckle) once delivered a line that really resonated with me. He said his body is the intersection of two axis on a graph - X being how much effort he is prepared to put in and Y being what he is prepared to accept.

My line is low on X and high on Y!

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By *ezebel100Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Nope im me i come as a package and if you dont like the way i am then your probably not for me anyway

Not everyone will like everything and thats fine but im not going to change to try and please everyone

Nothing more attractive than someone who is genuinely confident and happy in themselves "

This ^

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By *ezebel100Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Do regular swingers work out more and eat well because they know they have to show off their body to strangers?

Or does it not matter as it's about your personality, style etc?

Some do. Some don't.

There's plenty comfortable in their own skin whatever shape or size and also those that aren't happy.

Then there's the ILM's that are 110% all about image.

A"

ILM's - I love myself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People keep fit and eat well because they want to, swinging makes no difference. Average body sizes are up each year, that’s just the way life is these days.

We like to eat healthy and keep fit so we can let loose when we want to. As we get older, you need to make more effort.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters


"People keep fit and eat well because they want to, swinging makes no difference. Average body sizes are up each year, that’s just the way life is these days.

We like to eat healthy and keep fit so we can let loose when we want to. As we get older, you need to make more effort."

I think he’s got it in one

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By *lay 4 your plessureMan
over a year ago

Wigan

Its about chemistry and connection to me. I'd rather meet with someone on the same wavelength as me, if there's a spark between us and we all enjoy each others company, then body image shouldn't matter to me or the person or people I'm meeting.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Does it look like it to you, OP?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I workout for me and me only. Swinging has never crossed my mind when I change my diet/routine. I’m also living proof that you can’t out train a bad diet so it would be pointless anyway.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Fortunately I have the body of a god, so it doesn't matter that my personality is absolutely shyte.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Exercise?? I thought you said extra fries () .. on a serious note, I have managed to lose around 3 and a half stone in the last year, still a long way to go but I'm actually feeling confident in my skin...which I think is in part to being on fab

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

I keep fit for me, it's cheaper and more effective than therapy. Besides, middle aged spread is thing that just happens.

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By *ranimallxl5 OP   Man
over a year ago

Winchester


"Does it look like it to you, OP?! "

I see more and more profiles asking for people with athletic builds etc

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

do something because you want to.

dont feel pressured by the way the media and influencers tell you how you should be, train, eat, live etc.

this will make you unhappy. and most would like to get to know the real you. not a false imitation.

take care

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

nah you work out for yourself not everybody into athletic body,, curvy women on here look amazing

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