FabSwingers.com forum: Couples with a Boyfriend/Girlfriend on the side

By *bi Haive OP Man
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I'm interested to hear of other people's experiences of this type of thing. Whether you were in the couple or the boyfriend/girlfriend involved

Obviously, I am talking of mutual awareness - not looking for cheating stories thanks!

In particular, a scenario where someone joins you as a couple, but then also has a 'relationship' with one of you alone inbetween

Did it work for you?

Was it something you could do long term?

Did you find someone changed their mind along the way?

Did it have a negative impact on home/family life?

Someone close by, or a bit of distance between you?

What expectations/rules were there?

I'm interested in the logistics and pros/cons

F x

P.s - not looking for random offers either!

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By *nigmaschild300Man
over a year ago

dunfermline

I was in a relationship like that for 3 years. I had female girlfriend and a male sub .

Worked fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d quite like two boyfriends

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By *tevieg3222Man
over a year ago

Brighton

"I’d quite like two boyfriends "
can I be one of them xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d quite like two boyfriends "

Asking for a friend, where would one apply for such?

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Bliss

I was girlfriend to a husband for 2 years, the couple chose their boundaries first, then mine were added in and agreed to, he was local and we met weekly and It only ended when they relocated abroad. They are seasoned swingers with 15 years experience though, I think that's a big reason, why she could share him emotionally with me for such a long time

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

If take 2 girlfriends but let's be real there's probably more chance of me gaining the ability to talk to fucking llamas the way I'm going

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I was the girlfriend to the husband with the wife having a boyfriend for well over a year. All the boundaries were very clearly stated beforehand and agreed to. It was a lot of fun tbh OP and worked well for all parties involved.

It only ended as I moved away

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By *bi Haive OP Man
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Hang on.

Is this a parallel universe?

You've started a forum thread?

And you said you were off upstairs to wash your hair.

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By *bi Haive OP Man
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Hang on.

Is this a parallel universe?

You've started a forum thread?

And you said you were off upstairs to wash your hair.

I'm female, I can multitask

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

^^ it’s a public forum thingy…

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By *bi Haive OP Man
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"^^ it’s a public forum thingy…

I just got all confused!

Clicked the 'threads you've posted on' button and this came up and I suddenly thought I'd been posting in my sleep!

Welcome back to the forums wifey!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't manage one boyfriend let alone two!

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"^^ it’s a public forum thingy…

I just got all confused!

Clicked the 'threads you've posted on' button and this came up and I suddenly thought I'd been posting in my sleep!

Welcome back to the forums wifey!

Was just making up for my faux pas yesterday

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"^^ it’s a public forum thingy…

I just got all confused!

Clicked the 'threads you've posted on' button and this came up and I suddenly thought I'd been posting in my sleep!

Welcome back to the forums wifey!

Can I say hello wifey?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, polyamory actually saved our relationship.

We have both had other partners but every other Miss has gotten involved with has ended up giving her a "you have to choose me or him" ultimatum.

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By *bi Haive OP Man
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Hmmm, definitely something to consider then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m poly. Both my gf (nesting partner) and I have other partners that we’ve been with for over a year. I like it. It works for us. And I’d recommend for those that can do poly or feel like they are poly.

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By *ornado69Man
over a year ago

Bodmin

Mt ex wife had 3 FWB that she used to meet with. Especially when either of us were away working. A few times she took the one guy with her for a working weekend away pretending he was her husband. Loved knowing that she was meeting them abd getting fucked then coming home. Or even inviting them round and i woukd ve downstairs listening to her moaning and the bed banging

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