FabSwingers.com forum: fat women

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

another threads asks if women like fat men

well do men like fat women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some do

some don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh boy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Duck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dear Admin,

Is it possible to have an emoticon icon for 'Facepalm' please?

Thank You

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Popcorn time.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i do not find fat women attractive at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think to be fair this thread is to prove a point about the fat men thread

Actually to be honest most of my male friends would fuck a big girl but not date one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Adorns tin helmet

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Oh not again. Yaaaaawn!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i do not find fat women attractive at all"
And that's your choice and preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh not again. Yaaaaawn!! "

Postman been yet?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"I think to be fair this thread is to prove a point about the fat men thread

Actually to be honest most of my male friends would fuck a big girl but not date one. "

I agree but I don't think I've ever seen a thread about bigger blokes. This gets done weekly. Lol x

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"Oh not again. Yaaaaawn!!

Postman been yet?

Sadly not lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do we have to go through this week after week?

Different people, different preferences.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think to be fair this thread is to prove a point about the fat men thread

Actually to be honest most of my male friends would fuck a big girl but not date one.

I agree but I don't think I've ever seen a thread about bigger blokes. This gets done weekly. Lol x"

i am new to the forums had no idea was a common thread sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh not again. Yaaaaawn!!

Postman been yet?

Sadly not lol x"

When he comes ask him if he likes fat women, just from a postie perspective

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do we have to go through this week after week?

Different people, different preferences. "
With respect, i haven't never seen this guy putting threads up and he seems new, we cant all be perfect now can we...give him a break for heavens sake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think to be fair this thread is to prove a point about the fat men thread

Actually to be honest most of my male friends would fuck a big girl but not date one.

I agree but I don't think I've ever seen a thread about bigger blokes. This gets done weekly. Lol x"

I thought this was in response to the fat man thread.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do we have to go through this week after week?

Different people, different preferences. With respect, i haven't never seen this guy putting threads up and he seems new, we cant all be perfect now can we...give him a break for heavens sake."

thank you for your support i am new to the forums only came onto them on monday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think to be fair this thread is to prove a point about the fat men thread

Actually to be honest most of my male friends would fuck a big girl but not date one.

I agree but I don't think I've ever seen a thread about bigger blokes. This gets done weekly. Lol x

i am new to the forums had no idea was a common thread sorry"

I have several tin hats some AB biscuits and a large couch you can hide behind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do we have to go through this week after week?

Different people, different preferences. With respect, i haven't never seen this guy putting threads up and he seems new, we cant all be perfect now can we...give him a break for heavens sake."

It's a common thread subject that I (as a self confessed fatty) find repetitive. I am certainly not perfect. Apologies to the OP if I seemed rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 24/01/13 15:18:35]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do we have to go through this week after week?

Yes !

It is written in your contract with Fab.

You should check before signing.

If you look closely at Section 3, sub section C, it reads :

'By signing below, you undertake that at least once a week you shall enter into a public discussion about the relatively merits of those of larger build.

Failure to do so, will result in a forum time out of at least 2 days.

Multiple failures to take part will result in the wearing of a tag which notifies admin every time you enter a bakery or sweet shop'

Section 3, sub-section D also adds :

The use of the word 'fat' in such discussions is only allowed if you are male, unless you are after shagging a big girl, in which case the term BBW is perfectly acceptable'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do we have to go through this week after week?

Different people, different preferences. With respect, i haven't never seen this guy putting threads up and he seems new, we cant all be perfect now can we...give him a break for heavens sake.

It's a common thread subject that I (as a self confessed fatty) find repetitive. I am certainly not perfect. Apologies to the OP if I seemed rude. "
Can i just ask would you have reacted the same way if the thread was pro BBW? No need to answer, the question is rhetorical.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do we have to go through this week after week?

Yes !

It is written in your contract with Fab.

You should check before signing.

If you look closely at Section 3, sub section C, it reads :

'By signing below, you undertake that at least once a week you shall enter into a public discussion about the relatively merits of those of larger build.

Failure to do so, will result in a forum time out of at least 2 days.

Multiple failures to take part will result in the wearing of a tag which notifies admin every time you enter a bakery or sweet shop'

Section 3, sub-section D also adds :

The use of the word 'fat' in such discussions is only allowed if you are male, unless you are after shagging a big girl, in which case the term BBW is perfectly acceptable'

Lmao it's true just read it

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"I think to be fair this thread is to prove a point about the fat men thread

Actually to be honest most of my male friends would fuck a big girl but not date one.

I agree but I don't think I've ever seen a thread about bigger blokes. This gets done weekly. Lol x

i am new to the forums had no idea was a common thread sorry"

Do a search on BBW Hun, you'll see lots of differing views. It's the same with anything really, young/old, fat/thin, black/white the answer will be the same. Some do. Some don't x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

should i put up a thread appologizing for this one

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"should i put up a thread appologizing for this one"

No!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its sad, the only thing Ive seen us all agree on lately was the best brand of on-demand boiler to get.

Perhaps we should turn this into a DIY and Home maintenance site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"should i put up a thread appologizing for this one"
No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its sad, the only thing Ive seen us all agree on lately was the best brand of on-demand boiler to get.

Perhaps we should turn this into a DIY and Home maintenance site?

that would only serve to encourage discussions about shagging delivery and trades people !

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

In my experience, as a chubbster, they will happily swing with a podgster - I could (and have) be at it morning, noon and night.

And I am aware that by some of my playmates standards I am a bit skinny.

So yes, many men like the fuller figured or, as the op describes us, fat woman.

I prefer athletic, toned and muscled men and have no shortage of applicants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its sad, the only thing Ive seen us all agree on lately was the best brand of on-demand boiler to get.

Perhaps we should turn this into a DIY and Home maintenance site?

that would only serve to encourage discussions about shagging delivery and trades people !

Damn, your right.

Plus it would seem from the various threads, most of us blokes have to DIY anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its sad, the only thing Ive seen us all agree on lately was the best brand of on-demand boiler to get.

Perhaps we should turn this into a DIY and Home maintenance site?

I can't wait for the thread about screwing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its sad, the only thing Ive seen us all agree on lately was the best brand of on-demand boiler to get.

Perhaps we should turn this into a DIY and Home maintenance site?

I can't wait for the thread about screwing."

Phillips going to start that one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think to be fair this thread is to prove a point about the fat men thread

Actually to be honest most of my male friends would fuck a big girl but not date one. "

I suspect this is very true, and please don't judge me for this comment but it gives an indication of how the male brain works, one of my very good friends when looking for company had the view Go Big Go Early, given his experience that BBW was easier to end up in bed with. I'm not saying BBW are in anyway easy/have low standards etc, but he would go BBW every time for a one night stand but would never date one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lool i literally just replied about this kinda thread a second ago and then it popped up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its sad, the only thing Ive seen us all agree on lately was the best brand of on-demand boiler to get.

Perhaps we should turn this into a DIY and Home maintenance site?

I can't wait for the thread about screwing."

I have a shed full.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of tools.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something about wood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In answer to a question would I date a BBW yes I would and have and I love ladies of a fuller figure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think to be fair this thread is to prove a point about the fat men thread

Actually to be honest most of my male friends would fuck a big girl but not date one.

...need Facepalm emoticon....

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Do we have to go through this week after week?

Different people, different preferences. With respect, i haven't never seen this guy putting threads up and he seems new, we cant all be perfect now can we...give him a break for heavens sake.

It's a common thread subject that I (as a self confessed fatty) find repetitive. I am certainly not perfect. Apologies to the OP if I seemed rude. "

I used to be a rude boy

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"another threads asks if women like fat men

well do men like fat women?"

I'm hardly skinny. Some may say fat. Bothers me not a jot. Have no trouble getting meets, and repeats!! So, evidently, some guys like my body type.

Mind you, some guys will shag anything!!

*runs for cover.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't see what the problem with the thread is? It's seems ok to ask if you would sleep with a larger man, but no ok if it's turned the other way?

Bit of a difference how two threads covering the same subject come out so differently!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeh people posting pube threads 5 times a day is fine but please no more fatty threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yeh people posting pube threads 5 times a day is fine but please no more fatty threads

What about threads about shy men in flat caps ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do we have to go through this week after week?

Different people, different preferences. With respect, i haven't never seen this guy putting threads up and he seems new, we cant all be perfect now can we...give him a break for heavens sake.

It's a common thread subject that I (as a self confessed fatty) find repetitive. I am certainly not perfect. Apologies to the OP if I seemed rude.

I used to be a rude boy "

I am still a rude boy love my ska and 2 tone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yeh people posting pube threads 5 times a day is fine but please no more fatty threads

What about threads about shy men in flat caps ?

sounds pretty original

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't see what the problem with the thread is? It's seems ok to ask if you would sleep with a larger man, but no ok if it's turned the other way?

Bit of a difference how two threads covering the same subject come out so differently!! "
I have been on the forums off and on for a while now, and from what i have seen and read, people react badly to rejection especially women, but i agree with you.

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By *inky BunnyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"another threads asks if women like fat men

well do men like fat women?"

Some BBW's are really hot, I find.

Others are not, I find.

I wouldn't fuck any woman - fat or thin - that I didn't find attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think to be fair this thread is to prove a point about the fat men thread

Actually to be honest most of my male friends would fuck a big girl but not date one. "

I agree! I would fuck a fat woman..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yeah I miss Thursday's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It makes me sad, how shallow the world of Swinging can show itself to be.

I know some of you will say that by its very nature 'it is what it is' and that the purely physical (as a driving force) is to be expected, if not embraced.

It still makes me sad, though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only problem I have with fat women is not fucking them, it's racing them to the biscuit tin afterwards!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all about personality what's makes a woman sexy for me looks and size don't come into it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The only problem I have with fat women is not fucking them, it's racing them to the biscuit tin afterwards!

In a previous job, many years ago, I had to deal with hecklers.

I was almost assaulted by a punter who wouldn't shut up shouting "Who ate all the pies" at me when I calmly said "Its not my fault I'm overweight, every time I screwed your mother she gave me a biscuit"!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The only problem I have with fat women is not fucking them, it's racing them to the biscuit tin afterwards!

Oh balls, I've just done biscuits in the other thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The only problem I have with fat women is not fucking them, it's racing them to the biscuit tin afterwards!

In a previous job, many years ago, I had to deal with hecklers.

Fucking brilliant! I love that! I usually say, "hey, I can always lose weight but you'll always be a cunt."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i do not find fat women attractive at all"

depends what you call fat tho, some men see a size 16 as fat while other see that as average

Your idea of fat may not be another persons idea of fat, so when you ask if people like fat women what size are we talking here?

i mean your profile states your athletic but you dont look it to me going by your pics

see its all subjectional

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"I can't see what the problem with the thread is? It's seems ok to ask if you would sleep with a larger man, but no ok if it's turned the other way?

Bit of a difference how two threads covering the same subject come out so differently!! "

Asking the question is fine but some of the answers given by people who don't know how to make a point without being offensive.

I have go say that on the whole this thread has been fairly middle of the road.

I do have to correct the statement that someone made about men wanting to fuck big women nut not date them......so not true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do have to correct the statement that someone made about men wanting to fuck big women nut not date them......so not true

im sure it is true for a lot of men, i think big women are lots of mens guilty pleasure to be honest

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I dont think its true that guys dont want to date big women. Ive never been short of a"proper" boyfriend in my life and most of the time i was the biggest person they had been with and none of them where naturally attracted to big women. Maybe its not the being fat but something else that put the guys off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a 'thing' with a girl who was a size 6, 5ftzero little doll. That was doomed to fail due to the fact she lived over a hundred miles away (and had a BF she failed to initially mention).

The next woman I fell for after her was about a Size 26 when I met her and was quite a bit taller than me (even before the high heels went on).

Some may choose to use that as proof that some men will shag anything.

Not true.

It just happened that, in my eyes, they were both stunning and had personalities that won me over almost instantly (which is quite something for a cynical old get like me).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do have to correct the statement that someone made about men wanting to fuck big women nut not date them......so not true

I was talking about my friends. And they really wouldn't date a big girl. It's just not the done thing. They happen to find slim sexy. Not saying all guys do. I've been at all sizes and always done okay.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I do have to correct the statement that someone made about men wanting to fuck big women nut not date them......so not true

im sure it is true for a lot of men, i think big women are lots of mens guilty pleasure to be honest"

Probably for some, and on here when I was meeting single guys I accepted that some guys were like this. But I was horny and needed cock so shagged them anyway lol

I guess I have been lucky and met a few nice guys who would take me out and treat me nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont see the point of threads like this. Whatever way you look at it. This thread is going to make some ladies feel bad about themselves and I really dont think its very nice. You have your freedom of speech and this is just my opinion and it makes me feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont see the point of threads like this. Whatever way you look at it. This thread is going to make some ladies feel bad about themselves and I really dont think its very nice. You have your freedom of speech and this is just my opinion and it makes me feel

You should read the 'fat men' thread, it makes some blokes feel bad about themselves too.

It finally made me hang up my 'sex hat' on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think to be fair this thread is to prove a point about the fat men thread

Actually to be honest most of my male friends would fuck a big girl but not date one.

Well see, that kind of says a lot about men and heres me thinking i was the bees knees by not getting sloppy seconds...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think to be fair this thread is to prove a point about the fat men thread

Actually to be honest most of my male friends would fuck a big girl but not date one.

Well see, that kind of says a lot about men and heres me thinking i was the bees knees by not getting sloppy seconds...

Sloppy seconds is WHOLE different subject

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think to be fair this thread is to prove a point about the fat men thread

Actually to be honest most of my male friends would fuck a big girl but not date one.

Well see, that kind of says a lot about men and heres me thinking i was the bees knees by not getting sloppy seconds...

Sloppy seconds is WHOLE different subject

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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And what about men feeling bad about themselves ..on other post about Fat men ? it the same thing i feel makes them feel thay are not as good .. works both ways .. and not nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women have an advantage over men.

If they put weight on they get more curves. If men put on weight they just look less attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dear Admin,

Is it possible to have an emoticon icon for 'Facepalm' please?

Thank You

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women have an advantage over men.

If they put weight on they get more curves. If men put on weight they just look less attractive.

...you forgot the most important thing...BINGO WINGS!!! {flaps hers about manically} I will fly, I will!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont think its true that guys dont want to date big women. Ive never been short of a"proper" boyfriend in my life and most of the time i was the biggest person they had been with and none of them where naturally attracted to big women. Maybe its not the being fat but something else that put the guys off"

Also it could be because you liked yourself? sometimes i have thought someone was attractive or ok, then when they have pointed out their flaws i have thought yes maybe they are right and they arent so attractive after all.

unless they are saying it in a jokey not serious way maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quack quack

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Welcome to the forum, OP.

It's all been said before and will be said again. Sometimes it turns nasty and sometimes it doesn't. Stick to the rules discussions can go well and open up new views.

If you have a thread idea, post it or search and see if it's been covered and then post it. It can become addictive on here, even with us fatties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women have an advantage over men.

If they put weight on they get more curves. If men put on weight they just look less attractive.

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lol if only that was true for us woman no we get fat just like you men if we put fat on ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It makes me sad, how shallow the world of Swinging can show itself to be.

I know some of you will say that by its very nature 'it is what it is' and that the purely physical (as a driving force) is to be expected, if not embraced.

It still makes me sad, though. "

Isn't it just, I mean not only is there this one but also fat men and unattractive people, really no hope for some of us is there

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Women have an advantage over men.

If they put weight on they get more curves. If men put on weight they just look less attractive.

lol if only that was true for us woman no we get fat just like you men if we put fat on ... "

It depends on the individual as to where the fat deposits. I'm fortunate in that mine goes.on relatively evenly so my hourglass figure just gets fuller.

Some women put it all on round their middle or on their bum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It makes me sad, how shallow the world of Swinging can show itself to be.

I know some of you will say that by its very nature 'it is what it is' and that the purely physical (as a driving force) is to be expected, if not embraced.

It still makes me sad, though. "

well is swinging not a more physical thing? after all no one wants to take vows and livehappy ever after with someone they meet to shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women have an advantage over men.

If they put weight on they get more curves. If men put on weight they just look less attractive.

lol if only that was true for us woman no we get fat just like you men if we put fat on ...

It depends on the individual as to where the fat deposits. I'm fortunate in that mine goes.on relatively evenly so my hourglass figure just gets fuller.

Some women put it all on round their middle or on their bum."
I think where ever you put it .... its just more padding no matter like men .. And yes some can be more on tits and bum ...and hips but i know it there. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It makes me sad, how shallow the world of Swinging can show itself to be.

I know some of you will say that by its very nature 'it is what it is' and that the purely physical (as a driving force) is to be expected, if not embraced.

It still makes me sad, though.

well is swinging not a more physical thing? after all no one wants to take vows and livehappy ever after with someone they meet to shag

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I cant shag have sex do nothing with people who dont turn me on .. and alot of the time looks first thing we go on here. Shallow but true i get to know them too after like the look. Sad but true when you dont know people.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

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I wonder if 'fat' threads are started because some people think that being attracted to larger people has some sort if stigma attached and they want validation for that feeling?

Just a thought.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Do we have to go through this week after week?

Different people, different preferences. With respect, i haven't never seen this guy putting threads up and he seems new, we cant all be perfect now can we...give him a break for heavens sake.

It's a common thread subject that I (as a self confessed fatty) find repetitive. I am certainly not perfect. Apologies to the OP if I seemed rude. Can i just ask would you have reacted the same way if the thread was pro BBW? No need to answer, the question is rhetorical."

I get bored witless of these bbw threads. In my opinion the bbws start them to garner approval from some of the sycophantic males on site and massage their fragile egos.

Some post threads about bbws because they're bored, and know it will end in a bun fight - make of that what you will, and some because, who the fuck knows or cares really.

It does get repeatitive, we have an option to avoid, but it's like a car crash, you tell yourself I'm not going to look, no, I'm not, and before you know it...

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over a year ago

"I wonder if 'fat' threads are started because some people think that being attracted to larger people has some sort if stigma attached and they want validation for that feeling?

Just a thought. "
Did you see post on fat men ? I felt sorry for them tell the truth ... as viewed in not the same way as BBw are lovely but fat men are fat how it come across in parts.

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over a year ago

"I wonder if 'fat' threads are started because some people think that being attracted to larger people has some sort if stigma attached and they want validation for that feeling?

Just a thought. Did you see post on fat men ? I felt sorry for them tell the truth ... as viewed in not the same way as BBw are lovely but fat men are fat how it come across in parts."

Just like cheating males are treated differently to cheating females, odd isn't it

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over a year ago

"I wonder if 'fat' threads are started because some people think that being attracted to larger people has some sort if stigma attached and they want validation for that feeling?

Just a thought. Did you see post on fat men ? I felt sorry for them tell the truth ... as viewed in not the same way as BBw are lovely but fat men are fat how it come across in parts.

Just like cheating males are treated differently to cheating females, odd isn't it

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it is very odd and i can see it as a woman not a man . And treated very different .. is it because woman have more holes to shag ? lol .. no matter how fat or married ?

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over a year ago

"I wonder if 'fat' threads are started because some people think that being attracted to larger people has some sort if stigma attached and they want validation for that feeling?

Just a thought. Did you see post on fat men ? I felt sorry for them tell the truth ... as viewed in not the same way as BBw are lovely but fat men are fat how it come across in parts.

Just like cheating males are treated differently to cheating females, odd isn't it

it is very odd and i can see it as a woman not a man . And treated very different .. is it because woman have more holes to shag ? lol .. no matter how fat or married ?

Nope, its because statistically there are far fewer holes than sticks around here.

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"I wonder if 'fat' threads are started because some people think that being attracted to larger people has some sort if stigma attached and they want validation for that feeling?

Just a thought. Did you see post on fat men ? I felt sorry for them tell the truth ... as viewed in not the same way as BBw are lovely but fat men are fat how it come across in parts.

Just like cheating males are treated differently to cheating females, odd isn't it

it is very odd and i can see it as a woman not a man . And treated very different .. is it because woman have more holes to shag ? lol .. no matter how fat or married ?

Nope, its because statistically there are far fewer holes than sticks around here.

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because men out number woman maybe ? so have alot of power ?

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

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Although a lot of the single guys on the forums deny it, guys have a different mentality to women when it comes to sex! In my cosy position as a married man, married to a cute, sexy woman, I can have sex almost when I want and she has the same "benefit"!

Despite what all these PC men say, most that I know would rather shag someone out of their preference range than go home and have a wank! That gives ALL women power and the ability to pick and choose..

Back to us though... Neither of us would meet people who were not physically attractive to us. Up to size 14 for me and whatever the equivalent is in men for her! All these guys who call themselves "Rugby player build" and they are quite frankly overweight, have they not seen what Rugby playes are like these days?

I also notice and have said this on threads in the past, that larger (fat?) women give themselves the title of BBW (big beautiful woman)! Surely, that is something that is given and not something you take yourself? What may be beautiful to one person, may be abhorrant to another. So, I can say "You are a BBW" but to say "I am a BBW" just smacks of insecurity. Why else would you need to give yourself that title.. If you were secure with it, you wouldn't need the label!

Just my opinion...

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"Although a lot of the single guys on the forums deny it, guys have a different mentality to women when it comes to sex! In my cosy position as a married man, married to a cute, sexy woman, I can have sex almost when I want and she has the same "benefit"!

Just my opinion..."
yes your right about the label things and men don't have a label BBM do thay ? thay just get called fat . Where for ladies its dressed up in some nice way to make them feel special . I was bigger now a 12/14 so i now what its like to be a size 18 ... i still felt good but my poor horses .

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