FabSwingers.com forum: Bad Boys

By *estarossa. OP Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

No, not the film, apparently you can now specifically date them?

Would you? Could you?

Top 10 attributes are as follows:

Confidence:

Bad boys are self-assured and have a strong sense of self-worth.

Assertiveness:

They are not afraid to speak their minds and stand up for what they believe in.

Dominance:

Bad boys are natural leaders who take charge of situations and inspire others to follow.

Decisiveness:

They are quick to make decisions and take action, even in high-pressure situations.

Ambition:

Bad boys are driven to succeed and are always striving to improve themselves.

Physical fitness:

They take care of their bodies and prioritise their health and fitness.

Charisma:

They have a magnetic personality that draws others to them.

Independence:

Bad boys are self-reliant and don't rely on others for validation or approval.

Courage:

They are willing to take risks and face challenges head-on, even when the odds are against them.

Cheeky:

They can be funny and often a little naughty!

So Are you one?

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By *andadbodMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

you’ve forgotten to add they knock seven kinds of shite out of their partner if they don’t do as they want.

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By *estarossa. OP Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

"you’ve forgotten to add they knock seven kinds of shite out of their partner if they don’t do as they want."

I really havent. Not something I would joke about.

This thread is aimed at the more lighthearted type of thing.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I prefer a good man

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

Good guys have all that too

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I'll stick with my good guys who have all that

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I don't know any bad boys. I know a few good guys who share those traits. Yeah, I'll join in with the whole sticking with them thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought bad boys had a bit of a dodgy past/present and were liable to disappear off on short holidays at his majesty’s pleasure

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I prefer lovable rouge

The mr

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Do they still stick together? Woo woo

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Look, spaghetti arms. This is my dance space. This is your dance space. I don’t go into yours, you don’t go into mine. You gotta hold the frame.

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By *ussle SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

Physical fitness is overrated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wear a special anklet so they have to be back at mums for 7pm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you gonna do when they come for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a good guy that can get a little nasty.

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By *uicy 2020Woman
over a year ago

London

"Wear a special anklet so they have to be back at mums for 7pm."

Loooool, very true

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By *ld StrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Telford

I guess my experience and interpretation of a bad boy is totally different because its next yo none of those traits. Give me the boy next door.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, not the film, apparently you can now specifically date them?

Would you? Could you?

Top 10 attributes are as follows:

Confidence:

Bad boys are self-assured and have a strong sense of self-worth.

Assertiveness:

They are not afraid to speak their minds and stand up for what they believe in.

Dominance:

Bad boys are natural leaders who take charge of situations and inspire others to follow.

Decisiveness:

They are quick to make decisions and take action, even in high-pressure situations.

Ambition:

Bad boys are driven to succeed and are always striving to improve themselves.

Physical fitness:

They take care of their bodies and prioritise their health and fitness.

Charisma:

They have a magnetic personality that draws others to them.

Independence:

Bad boys are self-reliant and don't rely on others for validation or approval.

Courage:

They are willing to take risks and face challenges head-on, even when the odds are against them.

Cheeky:

They can be funny and often a little naughty!

So Are you one?"

Have you seen or come across any on here? Op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer a good man"

What is a good man?

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By *innocentMan
over a year ago

Littlehampton

Trust me when I say this :

You will never be able to spot a true 'bad boy'.

Those who act like they are ,and in turn are able to be labelled like the OP has suggested ,really are anything but 'bad'

Spend some time in prison and you will quickly realise it isn't just a saying when people try and tell you it is the quiet ones, who keep themselves to themselves, are the men you really want to be wary of

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head

People dating "bad boys" isn't a new thing. There's definitely comments in your list I wouldn't agree with or would say have been missed. I dated my fair share of guys in my younger days who would of fit the typical bad boy description. I grew up and realised the kind of people I wanted in my life and the kind I didn't.

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By *nigmaschild300Man
over a year ago

dunfermline

That said top 10 attributes and then went on to list 20

So is it all of those or some of them lol.

Although there is some truth in people being attracted to danger etc mostly women , that's why a lot of men on death row get fan mail

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By *ixed MisterMan
over a year ago

London

Apparently I'm part bad boy, although really don't think it's a that suits me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have seen so many 'bad boy' relationships go horribly wrong it's never funny. Trying to make it lighthearted is like suggesting Hitler was a good egg...

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

Damn I’ve zero physical fitness

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"No, not the film, apparently you can now specifically date them?

Would you? Could you?

Top 10 attributes are as follows:

Confidence:

Bad boys are self-assured and have a strong sense of self-worth.

Assertiveness:

They are not afraid to speak their minds and stand up for what they believe in.

Dominance:

Bad boys are natural leaders who take charge of situations and inspire others to follow.

Decisiveness:

They are quick to make decisions and take action, even in high-pressure situations.

Ambition:

Bad boys are driven to succeed and are always striving to improve themselves.

Physical fitness:

They take care of their bodies and prioritise their health and fitness.

Charisma:

They have a magnetic personality that draws others to them.

Independence:

Bad boys are self-reliant and don't rely on others for validation or approval.

Courage:

They are willing to take risks and face challenges head-on, even when the odds are against them.

Cheeky:

They can be funny and often a little naughty!

So Are you one?"

They sound more like cute little puppy’s.

I thought a bad boy was someone with a crack habit, a car with hydraulic suspension and some hoes in the back.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Your description of a bad boy is nothing like any bad boy my friends have been with OP

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"No, not the film, apparently you can now specifically date them?

Would you? Could you?

Top 10 attributes are as follows:

Confidence:

Bad boys are self-assured and have a strong sense of self-worth.

Assertiveness:

They are not afraid to speak their minds and stand up for what they believe in.

Dominance:

Bad boys are natural leaders who take charge of situations and inspire others to follow.

Decisiveness:

They are quick to make decisions and take action, even in high-pressure situations.

Ambition:

Bad boys are driven to succeed and are always striving to improve themselves.

Physical fitness:

They take care of their bodies and prioritise their health and fitness.

Charisma:

They have a magnetic personality that draws others to them.

Independence:

Bad boys are self-reliant and don't rely on others for validation or approval.

Courage:

They are willing to take risks and face challenges head-on, even when the odds are against them.

Cheeky:

They can be funny and often a little naughty!

So Are you one?"

Shit is this me?

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Jeez OP, have you been reading Just Seventeen again?

I wouldn't say any of those top ten define a bad boy at all... they're all pretty positive (for some people anyway) attributes.

I find actual "bad boys" a confusing one. Because there are some people I've liked who turned out to be bad boys yet treated me really well, and yet the rest of their life turned me off. So... I dunno.

And actually, I can't remember the actual question you asked. So I'm hoping this covers it a bit.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Here come the men in black.

Ah, I'm shit at this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apparently I'm part bad boy, although really don't think it's a that suits me. "

Which bits bad?

Asking for a friend.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking at that list I'm a bad boy!

Take off Physical fitness though and ignore the fact I'm lacking the penis!

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By *estarossa. OP Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

The list I borrowed wasn't mine it was someone else's idea of what a bad boy was!

I think it laughable to attribute those characteristics in that way!

And yes, Posh, the website I read did come across like Just Seventeen or Mizz! now that you mention it!

I saw it discussed on a tv programme and googled it, and apparently its a real thing!

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By *aggonerMan
over a year ago

for a penny

If they are all of those things, what makes them bad.

You missed out dishonest, insincere, duplicitous and probably immature.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

That's not how I'd classify a bad boy. Any I've dated a few in my youth... They were mostly drinkers, inconsistent, and just plain nasty.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"No, not the film, apparently you can now specifically date them?

Would you? Could you?

Top 10 attributes are as follows:

Confidence:

Bad boys are self-assured and have a strong sense of self-worth.

Assertiveness:

They are not afraid to speak their minds and stand up for what they believe in.

Dominance:

Bad boys are natural leaders who take charge of situations and inspire others to follow.

Decisiveness:

They are quick to make decisions and take action, even in high-pressure situations.

Ambition:

Bad boys are driven to succeed and are always striving to improve themselves.

Physical fitness:

They take care of their bodies and prioritise their health and fitness.

Charisma:

They have a magnetic personality that draws others to them.

Independence:

Bad boys are self-reliant and don't rely on others for validation or approval.

Courage:

They are willing to take risks and face challenges head-on, even when the odds are against them.

Cheeky:

They can be funny and often a little naughty!

So Are you one?"

Sorry but what a load of bollocks

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"The list I borrowed wasn't mine it was someone else's idea of what a bad boy was!

I think it laughable to attribute those characteristics in that way!

And yes, Posh, the website I read did come across like Just Seventeen or Mizz! now that you mention it!

I saw it discussed on a tv programme and googled it, and apparently its a real thing!"

Wouldn't that be a great idea for a photo challenge! A picture in the style of a Just Seventeen or Jackie photostory

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By *estarossa. OP Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

"No, not the film, apparently you can now specifically date them?

Would you? Could you?

Top 10 attributes are as follows:

Confidence:

Bad boys are self-assured and have a strong sense of self-worth.

Assertiveness:

They are not afraid to speak their minds and stand up for what they believe in.

Dominance:

Bad boys are natural leaders who take charge of situations and inspire others to follow.

Decisiveness:

They are quick to make decisions and take action, even in high-pressure situations.

Ambition:

Bad boys are driven to succeed and are always striving to improve themselves.

Physical fitness:

They take care of their bodies and prioritise their health and fitness.

Charisma:

They have a magnetic personality that draws others to them.

Independence:

Bad boys are self-reliant and don't rely on others for validation or approval.

Courage:

They are willing to take risks and face challenges head-on, even when the odds are against them.

Cheeky:

They can be funny and often a little naughty!

So Are you one?

Sorry but what a load of bollocks "

No need to appologise, I didn't say it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where were all those types of bad boys when I was younger

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

"Where were all those types of bad boys when I was younger

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In Brechin so no one noticed

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By *iss_FickleWoman
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

"No, not the film, apparently you can now specifically date them?

Would you? Could you?

Top 10 attributes are as follows:

Confidence:

Bad boys are self-assured and have a strong sense of self-worth.

Assertiveness:

They are not afraid to speak their minds and stand up for what they believe in.

Dominance:

Bad boys are natural leaders who take charge of situations and inspire others to follow.

Decisiveness:

They are quick to make decisions and take action, even in high-pressure situations.

Ambition:

Bad boys are driven to succeed and are always striving to improve themselves.

Physical fitness:

They take care of their bodies and prioritise their health and fitness.

Charisma:

They have a magnetic personality that draws others to them.

Independence:

Bad boys are self-reliant and don't rely on others for validation or approval.

Courage:

They are willing to take risks and face challenges head-on, even when the odds are against them.

Cheeky:

They can be funny and often a little naughty!

So Are you one?"

If I have these qualities does that make me a bad girl?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where were all those types of bad boys when I was younger

In Brechin so no one noticed

I have no idea where that is so that’ll explain why I couldn’t find them

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By *iss_FickleWoman
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Not my definition of a bad boy & I've avoided a few

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"No, not the film, apparently you can now specifically date them?

Would you? Could you?

Top 10 attributes are as follows:

Confidence:

Bad boys are self-assured and have a strong sense of self-worth.

Assertiveness:

They are not afraid to speak their minds and stand up for what they believe in.

Dominance:

Bad boys are natural leaders who take charge of situations and inspire others to follow.

Decisiveness:

They are quick to make decisions and take action, even in high-pressure situations.

Ambition:

Bad boys are driven to succeed and are always striving to improve themselves.

Physical fitness:

They take care of their bodies and prioritise their health and fitness.

Charisma:

They have a magnetic personality that draws others to them.

Independence:

Bad boys are self-reliant and don't rely on others for validation or approval.

Courage:

They are willing to take risks and face challenges head-on, even when the odds are against them.

Cheeky:

They can be funny and often a little naughty!

So Are you one?

Sorry but what a load of bollocks

No need to appologise, I didn't say it!

I'm.having a humble day lol

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

"Where were all those types of bad boys when I was younger

In Brechin so no one noticed

I have no idea where that is so that’ll explain why I couldn’t find them

That’s beyond our borders you must never go Simba

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

"No, not the film, apparently you can now specifically date them?

Would you? Could you?

Top 10 attributes are as follows:

Confidence:

Bad boys are self-assured and have a strong sense of self-worth.

Assertiveness:

They are not afraid to speak their minds and stand up for what they believe in.

Dominance:

Bad boys are natural leaders who take charge of situations and inspire others to follow.

Decisiveness:

They are quick to make decisions and take action, even in high-pressure situations.

Ambition:

Bad boys are driven to succeed and are always striving to improve themselves.

Physical fitness:

They take care of their bodies and prioritise their health and fitness.

Charisma:

They have a magnetic personality that draws others to them.

Independence:

Bad boys are self-reliant and don't rely on others for validation or approval.

Courage:

They are willing to take risks and face challenges head-on, even when the odds are against them.

Cheeky:

They can be funny and often a little naughty!

So Are you one?"

Says who exactly? Sounds like it's from the facebook academy of science.

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"No, not the film, apparently you can now specifically date them?

Would you? Could you?

Top 10 attributes are as follows:

Confidence:

Bad boys are self-assured and have a strong sense of self-worth.

Assertiveness:

They are not afraid to speak their minds and stand up for what they believe in.

Dominance:

Bad boys are natural leaders who take charge of situations and inspire others to follow.

Decisiveness:

They are quick to make decisions and take action, even in high-pressure situations.

Ambition:

Bad boys are driven to succeed and are always striving to improve themselves.

Physical fitness:

They take care of their bodies and prioritise their health and fitness.

Charisma:

They have a magnetic personality that draws others to them.

Independence:

Bad boys are self-reliant and don't rely on others for validation or approval.

Courage:

They are willing to take risks and face challenges head-on, even when the odds are against them.

Cheeky:

They can be funny and often a little naughty!

So Are you one?"

Haven’t read such nonsense in many a year. Is this a piss-take?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, that's a heavily filtered description.

With each of those positives, there's more than one negative in conjunction.

This seems to define an emotionally mature alpha, rather than a bad boy.

In my opinion.

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By *izzmasterzeroMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I feel that the people who purposely go for a bod boy are the same ones who are always complaining about how they can never find a decent man

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think other types of men can have these attributes and I'd let them shag or date me, potentially.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

O shit the judge lied to me when he sentenced me telling me im a bad boy dam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once ate an after eight mint at 7:59 , does that make me bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel that the people who purposely go for a bod boy are the same ones who are always complaining about how they can never find a decent man"

110% the Denial is deep.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"No, not the film, apparently you can now specifically date them?

Would you? Could you?

Top 10 attributes are as follows:

Confidence:

Bad boys are self-assured and have a strong sense of self-worth.

Assertiveness:

They are not afraid to speak their minds and stand up for what they believe in.

Dominance:

Bad boys are natural leaders who take charge of situations and inspire others to follow.

Decisiveness:

They are quick to make decisions and take action, even in high-pressure situations.

Ambition:

Bad boys are driven to succeed and are always striving to improve themselves.

Physical fitness:

They take care of their bodies and prioritise their health and fitness.

Charisma:

They have a magnetic personality that draws others to them.

Independence:

Bad boys are self-reliant and don't rely on others for validation or approval.

Courage:

They are willing to take risks and face challenges head-on, even when the odds are against them.

Cheeky:

They can be funny and often a little naughty!

So Are you one?"

What a pile of nonsense.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"The list I borrowed wasn't mine it was someone else's idea of what a bad boy was!

I think it laughable to attribute those characteristics in that way!

And yes, Posh, the website I read did come across like Just Seventeen or Mizz! now that you mention it!

I saw it discussed on a tv programme and googled it, and apparently its a real thing!"

See! I knew it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

However bad boys that pretend to be nice boys are worse.

Nice boys that are a little bit naughty though, well, they are the best I find

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Bad boys, bad boys. Whatcha gonna do? Whatcha gonna do when they come for you?

That's what I say

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"Look, spaghetti arms. This is my dance space. This is your dance space. I don’t go into yours, you don’t go into mine. You gotta hold the frame."

Favourite film ever

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