FabSwingers.com forum: lost interest in sex

By *ingdang OP TV/TS
over a year ago

manchester

Kind of lost interest in sex in general last couple of months. Do not want to meet anyone or talk about sex. Not sure why. Has anyone else had similar experience?

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By *andadbodMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Menopause?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep happens to us all, we all go through fazes because of various reasons. Just take a step back, don't force it and come back to it when you're ready.

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By *estman for the jobMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Maybe it's the people you've met that have drained u emotionally or just you weren't enjoying the sex ,who knows we don't only person who does is you so you need to maybe step back and re evaluate if fabs what you want or if your wanting more than random sex with strangers

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By *bwlady123Woman
over a year ago

private

I get this all the time find with me it’s down to hormone changes and my depression

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By *ts the taking part thatMan
over a year ago

southampton

"Kind of lost interest in sex in general last couple of months. Do not want to meet anyone or talk about sex. Not sure why. Has anyone else had similar experience?"

I recently experienced similar for a good few weeks & it was down to some serious family stress & worry.

Have you stuff going on that is not the norm?

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Sounds like me for the past 6 months or so. We've had so many different illnesses, exhaustion from a change to routine and worry over my dad being unwell. I don't know what the answer is, as I'm still not wanting sex particularly. I'm just hoping my energy levels come back at some point. I'm not trying to rush it. Hope you find something that works for you

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By *elfordstevieMan
over a year ago

Telford

All sorts of factors can have a massive influence in your sex drive. Mental health is one of the major ones.

There’s also amount of exercise, alcohol consumption, stress, eating disorders etc etc etc. hundreds.

You just need to find what works best for you.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Yeah I'm just coming out of a 6 month period like that. I'm going to be an animal at my next meet. The poor guy won't know what's hit him.

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By *weetCherryWoman
over a year ago

London

Sometimes, it happens to everyone for different reasons. For me, it is because of my ADHD. If I’m sensory overloaded, I find it hard to be interested in sex as, at the end of the day, it’s more stimulation…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kind of lost interest in sex in general last couple of months. Do not want to meet anyone or talk about sex. Not sure why. Has anyone else had similar experience?"

Hello OP :

Are you / have you been struggling to be successful with finding good company ?

Myself , I find the compulsive lack of success a massive off putting and the endless chase turns depressive and many times gives a sensations that everything is designed to make you give up .

Same old that always more and more seems hopeless . But trully it isn’t .

Is just the desperate Desire making Time look fast and infinite

Tho … my intense persistence and as hope is always the last one to stand , makes me terrible at giving up … so even hurst a lot , I will never surrender …

Is only think I can think off make not want to meet

Or that , or if someone just gives me a massive heart brake … broken heart causes isolation

Not as much now . But when I was younger I isolated for 3 years of it . Twice .

Can’t think of anything else .

The drive is strong , and the fucking thing keeps waking me looking for it .

Drama can kill the drive

Sad emotions can kill the drive

Low nutrition can kill the drive

Fatigue and sleep deprivation

Stress n that kind of stuff .

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