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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Had some messages from a so called couple wanting me to tell them the dirtiest thing i could do to the female. Lots of messages encouraging dirtier replys.

I didnt go over the top, then got reply to fuck off.

I think he must have had a wank and finished off.

Strange way to behave tho and definately not genuine.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Report, click on the message and see the option to report.

All the best.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

They are verified. Cant understand their logic tho.

I definately didnt go over the top.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What makes you think they are not genuine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You didnt go 'over the top' in your opinion but may be you did in theres.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

seamed a set up, or he was just getting himself off. I maybe wrong.

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc


"Report, click on the message and see the option to report.

All the best."

As View said.

Also just let it go over your head and ignore and block.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

He kept on saying whats the hardest nastiest thing you can do to her, i want a bull.

I was respectful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont take anything to heart on this site or youll end up suicidal, just accept people have their reasons for behaving the way they do, to outsiders it may appear strange but to themselves it may be normal, just move on

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

There's nowt stranger than folk.

If I want to wank I log off here and simply watch one of many readily available sites purpose made for that specific activity

Yeah but anyway, what View said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps you weren't dirty enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a so called couple do the same to me the guy wanted me to have an affair with. His wife he said he wanted me to tie him to a chair and fuck his wife in front of him etc. Then after a wile he just went quiet I think he just had a wank and then shit himself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why fall for it in the first place?

Like you say he probably had a wank etc

Live n learn and move on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

report them - only way to out timewaster officially on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why fall for it in the first place?

Like you say he probably had a wank etc

Live n learn and move on x"

Your right, its just the timewasting thats annoying and theyre letting the site down.

Ive reported them now.

Thanks everyone for the advice.

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc


"report them - only way to out timewaster officially on here "

Sorry, but how does it make them a time waster? He wasnt waiting for them anywhere was he?

If youre a bull and being told to fuck off has upset you then maybe you need to have a think about either people you meet or how you bull.

Just my opinion.

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By *ardbellyCouple
over a year ago

Alicante

We had the same ? But they didn't get abusive..every week it seems a couple chat to us then just drop us ? Go figure ?..you did what he/ they asked, move on..( it is frustrating though ?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lots of people behave badly online on a regular basis, its the way of the internet it seems. i agree with others, forget it and move on. at least you didnt get financially scammed, which happened to a friend of mine on here recently.

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Youve had some good advice buddy how I see it youve got two choices

Report them but whos side would the mods take. Sometimes when you open a can of worms its hard to get the lid back on

The other option Id persue would be. Move on take anything said on here as lighthearted banter. Use your time actively by messaging others. What youve done by posting about this "cpl" is good n bad....

Good because its got you in the public eye but Bad because it sounds like youre bleating and youd go squeeling to the mods or air any grievancies on the forums. There there go and play with someone else Johnie

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

[Removed by poster at 24/01/13 08:37:22]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are verified. Cant understand their logic tho.

I definately didnt go over the top."

Just because they're 'verified' doesn't mean they're genuine......

It just means another profile has written them a veri.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Youve had some good advice buddy how I see it youve got two choices

Report them but whos side would the mods take. Sometimes when you open a can of worms its hard to get the lid back on

The other option Id persue would be. Move on take anything said on here as lighthearted banter. Use your time actively by messaging others. What youve done by posting about this "cpl" is good n bad....

Good because its got you in the public eye but Bad because it sounds like youre bleating and youd go squeeling to the mods or air any grievancies on the forums. There there go and play with someone else Johnie "

All part of the learning curve on here.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always two sides to every story, and imo you definitely need to grow a thicker skin, it is not worth worrying about, they have chosen to not talk to you, yes they could have put it in a more polite way, but no point as they say crying over split milk.

Good luck in the future and perhaps try not to read too much into things.

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Believe half of what you see some or NON of what you read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"report them - only way to out timewaster officially on here

Sorry, but how does it make them a time waster? He wasnt waiting for them anywhere was he?

If youre a bull and being told to fuck off has upset you then maybe you need to have a think about either people you meet or how you bull.

Just my opinion.

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and i am entitled to my opinion to arnt I ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

without doubt there is a faction within all sex dating sites of those who just like to flirt/tease/encourage; but have no intentions to take things further - the latter part they fail to reveal until you have courage to ask outright "you want to meet then after all this chat"

So its not surprising that those type of couples/singles get the reputation and tag of a "time-wasters"

Do you see my point now ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had the same ? But they didn't get abusive..every week it seems a couple chat to us then just drop us ? Go figure ?..you did what he/ they asked, move on..( it is frustrating though ?) "

Your mrs looks very sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"without doubt there is a faction within all sex dating sites of those who just like to flirt/tease/encourage; "

I'd add denigrate/insult/belittle to that list....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps he was annoyed by your continued presents. Geddit. Dirty Santa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"without doubt there is a faction within all sex dating sites of those who just like to flirt/tease/encourage;

I'd add denigrate/insult/belittle to that list....

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Well said P n C - words of wisdom and truth as per norm x

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

did they spell it phuq off to be nice ?

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc


"without doubt there is a faction within all sex dating sites of those who just like to flirt/tease/encourage; but have no intentions to take things further - the latter part they fail to reveal until you have courage to ask outright "you want to meet then after all this chat"

So its not surprising that those type of couples/singles get the reputation and tag of a "time-wasters"

Do you see my point now ?? "

I see your point, its just the use of time waster gets chucked about all too readily in my _iew and it gets on my tits.

Maybe the OP said something too dirty or too 'nilla whatever I dont know, and up until then the couple were interested but found the last message not to their taste? Who knows?

*Not having a go OP

Maybe they will start a post saying they were messaging someone and it was going well til he said he was left handed and wore green shirts (this is all hypothetical btw) and their profile says they will only meet right handed people who wear yellow shirts, so that makes him the time waster? Or their prof could have said bare back only and he only plays safe?

IMO timewasters are those who arrange a meet and not turn up, not someone who may be trying to see if someone is compatible for their needs.

Does that make sense? Did when I typed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lmfao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

;-) "Maybe they will start a post saying they were messaging someone and it was going well til he said he was left handed and wore green shirts (this is all hypothetical btw) and their profile says they will only meet right handed people who wear yellow shirts, so that makes him the time waster? Or their prof could have said bare back only and he only plays safe?"

OMG im stuffed now im left handed and only ever wear Yellow shirts lol

"IMO timewasters are those who arrange a meet and not turn up, not someone who may be trying to see if someone is compatible for their needs.

Does that make sense? Did when I typed it"

agree to a great extent, but do still feel those who lead you along over a period of time then back off when you dare ask to meet; fall into the time-wasting category

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Of course it made lots of sence but its another grey area as per normal........

But in MHO anyone that wastes mine or anyone elses time IS a timewaster/s

Without seeing both sides of any story we can only comment on what we see/hear. I fully agree that we're all shopping here. If I contacted someone and they or I didnt get on in anyway shape or form Id tell them or appreciate them to tell me........ Simples

Whats time between friends. Its not a waste of anyones time if theres a few laughs and a little banter

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

so at no point did you think it could just be some bloke knocking one off..

you went along with it for however long and did'nt think to ask to chat to them both perhaps..

get the elves to make you a better bullshit meter perhaps..

hey ho..

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc


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OMG im stuffed now im left handed and only ever wear Yellow shirts lol

"IMO timewasters are those who arrange a meet and not turn up, not someone who may be trying to see if someone is compatible for their needs.

Does that make sense? Did when I typed it"

agree to a great extent, but do still feel those who lead you along over a period of time then back off when you dare ask to meet; fall into the time-wasting category "

Time for a new wardrobe

I get what youre saying and to an extent agree some may take this piss.

From what you have said Im a timewaster then cos I'll chat away on messages as I like to know someone and see if we click before arranging a meet. At the min if I am attracted to someone I tell them Im quite busy for a bit so dont want to waste their time messaging.

Best get my coat before admin boits me for being a timewaster.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Obviously not commenting on wether someone told you to fuck off or not.....but some people are used for wank fodder....something to think about the next time someone wants you to talk dirty if it is meets you are after and not cyber.

The best advice has been given, report and block.

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