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By *lamdaddy OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Before a meet with someone new?

I only ever have done with the 1 couple I joined once. Does it depend on the situation for you? Do tell fabbers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have some nerves but it’s mixed in with excitement

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By *uvery30Woman
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I always do on a first meet,But like a good nervous.

And if things go really well from there on in I also get nervous about seeing them as I know its going to be hot

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

No just excited x

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Pretty much every time, even if we've met before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think nerves are natural

Most soon adjust

I think worrying about nerves can become something of a self-fulfilling prophecy though

So, accept the nerves and don't sweat it

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By *lamdaddy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I always have some nerves but it’s mixed in with excitement "

Oh see I would absolutely only be excited about taking off that bra

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Um.

It depends on the person. And my mental state at the time.

I've met people with a very much fuck it we'll just see how it goes easy breezy feeling in the lead up, and I've met people where I spend the eternity before meeting overthinking and worrying that I'm going to fuck it up by being a weirdo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nerves are normal and very natural to have so yes!

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By *rummy2020Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Every single first meet, without fail I get nerves. But it is totally natural

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

I like the nerve's though it makes me feel alive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the very start of this lifestyle I did. I'd probably be a bit nervous if I did meet one on one again as it's been four years since I met anyone outside of CJ's x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope, not at all.

just excitement and buzzing vibes Px

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I get a bit nervous

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By *ixed MisterMan
over a year ago

London

Excited nerves, and the tend to last for a few meets. I'd be worried if they wasn't there as it would make me think I just wasn't that into them.

Have had full blown, not really myself nerves a few times as well.

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By *saucyHPCouple
over a year ago

conwy

Always with a first meet I’m a combination of nervous and excited pretty much in equal parts. Obviously the build up if you’ve been chatting a while helps create that excitement, however it’s that nervousness whether the meet will fulfill the fantasy that you’ve built up during that chatting period & whether you or they live up to one and other’s expectations in reality. X

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By *uicy 2020Woman
over a year ago

London

Always super nervous, but also excited, for a 1st meet. Ive normally been chatting with them for a bit by then so know that we should get on, but still nervous. Then even after im feeling comfortable with them, I always get nervous and shy all over again when I get the feeling that something sexy is about to happen. X

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Of course

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

No i meet strangers daily so its as easy to me as taking a drink of water

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By *anderingArtistMan
over a year ago

an abstract world

I had a few meets via my last profile and I was nervous every time.

I felt more comfortable each time but still nervous.

I'd liken it to a footballer getting pre-game nerves. You know the pitch, you know your game but the opponent changes so the butterflies start fluttering.

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By *saucyHPCouple
over a year ago

conwy


"I had a few meets via my last profile and I was nervous every time.

I felt more comfortable each time but still nervous.

I'd liken it to a footballer getting pre-game nerves. You know the pitch, you know your game but the opponent changes so the butterflies start fluttering."

Great analogy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always. Once the meet is underway…..What nerves?

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

Definitely. A mixture of excitement and nerves but it's good. Shows its important.

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

Yes nervous excitement.

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By *anderingArtistMan
over a year ago

an abstract world


"I had a few meets via my last profile and I was nervous every time.

I felt more comfortable each time but still nervous.

I'd liken it to a footballer getting pre-game nerves. You know the pitch, you know your game but the opponent changes so the butterflies start fluttering.

Great analogy. "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I met a couple I think I’d be very nervous and is why I’ve never done it I think. Meeting women I don’t get nervous anymore since being on dating apps and getting used to getting out more. But at socials I’d be nervous still. I get nervous around people in general and get really worried and stressed about being disliked in person

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow


"I had a few meets via my last profile and I was nervous every time.

I felt more comfortable each time but still nervous.

I'd liken it to a footballer getting pre-game nerves. You know the pitch, you know your game but the opponent changes so the butterflies start fluttering."

Hello stranger! WB!

Very good analogy, I've always had the nerves mixed with excitement, nerves because you dont know how it will go, excitement because it could be a really good thing.

Tinder x

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

Always at first but the good kind of nervous. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very nervous yes but it doesn't make me put my foot on the brake on the way there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

Anticipation

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Every. Single. Time.

And that's not exclusive to meeting new people

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By *anderingArtistMan
over a year ago

an abstract world


"Hello stranger! WB!

Very good analogy, I've always had the nerves mixed with excitement, nerves because you dont know how it will go, excitement because it could be a really good thing.

Tinder x"

'Ey up Flower!

Thank you It's good to be back...I think

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Butterflies yes. Nerves no.

I don’t do nerves

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

I don’t get nervous, I get excited. I don’t do things that make me nervous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get the nervous excitement, those butterflies that get the pulse racing and the head spinning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like others butterflies not really nerves.

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Nervous excitement mostly, sometimes apprehension, depends on the person and how into meeting them I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been out on quite a few dates through dating apps but I imagine I’d have a bit more butterflies in the stomach should a meet be arranged, I guess but that’s down to the nature of the site.

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By *i_guy37Man
over a year ago

Oxford

I always feel some nerves and have butterflies in my stomach, but it's a nervous excitement which is good. It's a huge thrill to think you'll be naked and intimate with a complete stranger very shortly, it's a real buzz for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always get nervous before a meet.. whether it's someone I've met 10 times or someone brand new. I love the nerves

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I do. One of the (many) reasons I don’t meet anymore. Far too troubling. If I’m going to put myself through the trauma of leaving the house, making conversation with someone new then it’s going to have to be for more than a quick knee trembler.

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By *lamdaddy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I always get nervous before a meet.. whether it's someone I've met 10 times or someone brand new. I love the nerves "

Wanna get nervous for me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like the nerve's though it makes me feel alive."

I love the pre meet nerves too as its mixed with excitement and being horny and sexy and free ...all senses just going crazy.

Fab!

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

I always get nervous, nervous excited but I enjoy the feeling.

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven

Oh certainly, if you weren't a little nervous, there'd be no point

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

The day I dont feel nervous/excited, its time to stop.

The buzz is part of it!

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By *lamdaddy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I always get nervous, nervous excited but I enjoy the feeling."

Like queuing for rollercoaster vibes?

Both about being taken on a fun ride?

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By *ldFashionedGentMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I’d be concerned if not a little nervous. It’s overridden with excitement but there has to be a little nerves, for me if they aren’t there then I shouldn’t be.

Nerves let you know that you’re looking forward to what might happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I havent met anyone new in years. But when I do I am going to be nervous yes. I am plungeing straight in to the deep end, maximum nerves

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By *lamdaddy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I havent met anyone new in years. But when I do I am going to be nervous yes. I am plungeing straight in to the deep end, maximum nerves "

Would a shoulder rub calm you down?

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

im sure everbodys a little nervous but excited too

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By *ympho6969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

Every single time. The world is a scary place so I do my best to meet in public for a social first before any sort of fun. Better safe than sorry.

Also allows for a casual chat with no expectations on either side. I'm not your cup or tea? No issues, just move on and vice versa. No feelings hurt

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By *cotsguyyMan
over a year ago

Belfast and Fife

Nervous/excited/butterflies, it's all good. They are all signs that you're invested and hope this works. If you're not these things then why are you meeting at all?

Do one thing every day that scares you.....for me that's opening the mail, bloody bills.

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

No.

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By *cotsguyyMan
over a year ago

Belfast and Fife


"No. "

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