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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Life is so cruel sometimes

Need some cheering up..lost a friend yesterday to Cancer, why do the good ones always go too soon...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for a walk, it's a beautiful morning, peaceful out there and you can think of all the good memories and have a cry for your loss of a friend.

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

Very sorry to hear that. Losing a loved one is always too soon. As for cheering up, hope the sun will soon do that at least

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go for a walk, it's a beautiful morning, peaceful out there and you can think of all the good memories and have a cry for your loss of a friend."

Thank-you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Very sorry to hear that. Losing a loved one is always too soon. As for cheering up, hope the sun will soon do that at least "

Yes the sunshine is definitely a positive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm so sorry for your loss. Life is very cruel at times.

Be kind to yourself x

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Life is so cruel sometimes

Need some cheering up..lost a friend yesterday to Cancer, why do the good ones always go too soon..."

Sorry to hear that. It’s good to grieve and be raw, you don’t need cheering up yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm so sorry for your loss. Life is very cruel at times.

Be kind to yourself x"

Thank-you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Life is so cruel sometimes

Need some cheering up..lost a friend yesterday to Cancer, why do the good ones always go too soon...

Sorry to hear that. It’s good to grieve and be raw, you don’t need cheering up yet "

Yeah I know what you mean... hasn't really sunk in yet

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

So sorry to hear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is cruel gets even worse as we get older my old man has terminal cancer

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By *issalignedTV/TS
over a year ago

London

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Life is cruel gets even worse as we get older my old man has terminal cancer

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It sure does

Sorry to hear that buddy

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over


"Life is cruel gets even worse as we get older my old man has terminal cancer

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Very sorry to hear. Yes was talking to a friend the other day that the older you get the more bad news you hear about loved ones, friends and people you just know. The circle of life. I lost several loved ones in the last couple of years and it's never easy

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Life is so cruel sometimes

Need some cheering up..lost a friend yesterday to Cancer, why do the good ones always go too soon..."
awww how old was he? Sorry for your loss

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

OP.. I'm so very sorry to read about the death of your friend. Please accept my sincere condolences.

As others have said, there is no need to be cheerful right now.

Find your quiet place, and take time to mourn.

Lisa xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP.. I'm so very sorry to read about the death of your friend. Please accept my sincere condolences.

As others have said, there is no need to be cheerful right now.

Find your quiet place, and take time to mourn.

Lisa xx"

Thank-you really appreciate your kind words x

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Sorry to hear! Hugs x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry to hear! Hugs x"

Thank-you, appreciated x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m so sorry to hear that OP

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head

I'm so sorry OP Sending hugs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m so sorry to hear that OP "

Thank-you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm so sorry OP Sending hugs "

Thank you , really appreciated x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Life is so cruel sometimes

Need some cheering up..lost a friend yesterday to Cancer, why do the good ones always go too soon..."

Sorry for your loss, OP. Take time to grieve and concentrate on the good times you enjoyed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Losing a friend / losing a peer is a strange feeling, it is very different to losing a relative

I lost my best pal when he was in his 40's and the grief still surfaces now, 12 years on

You will move on though, step by step, day by day and you will find solace in the strangest of places

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry OP, take time to absorb what's happened - don't fight the grief, roll with it when it comes. As others have said, be kind to yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Life is so cruel sometimes

Need some cheering up..lost a friend yesterday to Cancer, why do the good ones always go too soon..."

So sorry you're going through this terrible grief. Please take as good care of yourself as you can and do lean on your support network whatever it may be.

Well done for realising you need cheering up and expressing that, a lot of people would be struggling mightily to do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry for your loss x

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'm so sorry op .x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life does this to us all, at the time we feel as if it’s just us that had the hard road but corners do come around and life gets better again. Chin up!

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

So sorry for your loss. My advice would be to try and accept the rollercoaster of emotions that you will go through and take each day as it comes. Cancer is a very cruel disease. I hope you can take a tiny bit of comfort that your friend will be at peace now and no longer has to suffer

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

Take comfort that this person was in your life and that your life was the better for it and hope that that feeling was reciprocated.

Relive your fond memories, you won’t ever loose those

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry for your loss

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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago

Chorley, Eng


"Life is so cruel sometimes

Need some cheering up..lost a friend yesterday to Cancer, why do the good ones always go too soon..."

I am sorry that you are having to deal with this. It is cruel and unfair. Such good advice in here already so I won't add to that.

If this isn't too weird a place to share I would love to hear something about your friend that makes you laugh or smile or even roll your eyes. If it is too weird a place then just know that the weirdos here are thinking about you. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Life is so cruel sometimes

Need some cheering up..lost a friend yesterday to Cancer, why do the good ones always go too soon...

I am sorry that you are having to deal with this. It is cruel and unfair. Such good advice in here already so I won't add to that.

If this isn't too weird a place to share I would love to hear something about your friend that makes you laugh or smile or even roll your eyes. If it is too weird a place then just know that the weirdos here are thinking about you. X"

He was an amazing chap , always had the right words to say at the right time... if you needed anything night or day he was always there..

I tried to be with him as much as possible in the last few months when he was unable to walk and get out. To chat about the old times and reminise.. the world has lost an amazing guy that was a true friend x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all so much.. its lovely reading you're messages and advise.. people say fab is a tough place to hang out.. but the support has been truly lovely, what a great bunch xxx

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