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By *enrietteandSam OP Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Do you get attention in public at all from women ? Or is it just here and on dating sites you don’t actually get messages?

Curious!

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

I get hit on a couple times per month altho im sure there putting pricks in handbags now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's pretty consistent, I get ignored equally online and offline.

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By *ax19862002Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I used to attract gay guys when I was younger. Took it as a compliment lol

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By *ulldog_71Man
over a year ago

Sedgefield

I don't even get attention here never mind in public

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I get fucking knickers thrown at me in the street. It’s a chore at times

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

None at all in public, and usually just from men on here.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Apart from people asking if I can still get upstairs (

), nope

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport

I get more attention in real life than online.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get the messages on the apps and the sites. In person I think people most people do not find me attractive. Unsurprising but I’m not tryna fuck randoms on the street so who cares

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Now and then, probably have toilet paper stuck on my shoe maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll have you know, OP, I’m not like them other guys. I get replies.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only on the dancefloor.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

all the time its not easy tbh,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only on the dancefloor."

But you better not kill the groove.

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

My own little world

Tbh if out in the pub or that I could always decide if I'm going back to someone else's house, its easier to pull in real life than on the fab life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If this is gonna be a pity party someone hit the damn music!

Alexa, play pretty hurts by Beyoncé

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Do you get attention in public at all from women ? Or is it just here and on dating sites you don’t actually get messages?

Curious!"

Don't be silly.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"It's pretty consistent, I get ignored equally online and offline. "
I know that feeling, only too well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What was before apps and the internet!!

The real art of flirt,apptoach,eye-contact,laughs some still have and was the Norm.

But being lost very fast coz of this new wave and style of smart screen and buttons.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

I do alright both on Fab & off (real world so to say)

. I’m an easy going, cheeky, socialable & handsome fella

so ofcourse ladies love me haha

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By *ackDorianMan
over a year ago

ashford

Only when I’m at work

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

"What was before apps and the internet!!

The real art of flirt,apptoach,eye-contact,laughs some still have and was the Norm.

But being lost very fast coz of this new wave and style of smart screen and buttons. "
,, this is abs true young man,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get the messages on the apps and the sites. In person I think people most people do not find me attractive. Unsurprising but I’m not tryna fuck randoms on the street so who cares "

Reality of the times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you get attention in public at all from women ? Or is it just here and on dating sites you don’t actually get messages?

Curious!"

I occasionally do but it’s usually the monotonous questions about my dreadlocks, don’t get me wrong their great conversation starters but it got boring years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr actually does get quite a bit of attention at work. It's usually from dogs or old women though

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I’ll get the looks but sometimes surprising looks… but that’s about it and I do have my clothes on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What was before apps and the internet!!

The real art of flirt,apptoach,eye-contact,laughs some still have and was the Norm.

But being lost very fast coz of this new wave and style of smart screen and buttons. ,, this is abs true young man,,"

Why thank you for the confirmation.

May the old skool classics long last and get recognised for that Art-form and style.

Not many clammering to that way i see lol

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By *antricSeeker60Man
over a year ago

Durham

I’ve been hit on by women and a men in public and had my arse felt in the post office once.

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By *nglo-Indian-DelightCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

Plenty of flirting in public.

Average soft/oral play in clubs.

Sweet F/A on here.

Mr J

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

"Mr actually does get quite a bit of attention at work. It's usually from dogs or old women though

F"
,,, funny how a lot of ladies stop and chat when with the dog they find him so handsome,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mr actually does get quite a bit of attention at work. It's usually from dogs or old women though

"Dogs & Old women " whom all were strutting their Wiggle afew yrs ago now over looked and labeld old dogs.

Lol.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

They are happy to talk. I let them drop a hint first though. I never make the first move.

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By *erald 1999Man
over a year ago

carmarthen

I think its easier to have bants in real life than on fab , I'm such a flirt given the right opportunity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mr actually does get quite a bit of attention at work. It's usually from dogs or old women though

F,,, funny how a lot of ladies stop and chat when with the dog they find him so handsome,,"

"Barking Mad " i would say on all levels .

Up the park from me,many dont know how to walk a dog,let alone have eye contact and conversation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion a lot of men think they’re getting attention when women are being polite or smiling. Women are usually oblivious to attention because they think men are just being polite or smiling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of attention from greatful little old ladies that I help across the road.

Flirty attention from the checkout girls in the Co-Op as we exchange pleasantries while packing my frozen peas.

Then there are the yummy mummy's outside of school who like to share stories about how our particular sprog is superior to all other sprogs, ever.

Occasionally eyes will meet in the fresh produce isle of Asda and I will flash a curious, yet slightly embarrassed expression while she returns the flirt with angry bitch face. If she is leaning over and picking up a cucumber in a provocative way, on a warm spring day with a low cut top perfectly displaying her wares while I'm around, well, what else am I supposed to look at?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say I get more attention irl than on here, but depends on the context. Whether it's a little flirting, or passing glances. Seems to matter less that I have a partner irl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We many have never been taught or even aware of body language,signals. Or Micro expressions,

So mostly much and all is misunderstood mainly! If that is so in the real world!

Imagine on app's,texts and smartphones it is a Mish mash!"

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By *ixed MisterMan
over a year ago

London

Apparently I get a decent amount, but it's usually someone else telling me about it rather than me noticing for myself.

There was a lady who works in the supermarket near me, who I spoke to everytime I went in and normally went to her till because I liked to chat. It wasn't until I went in with a few female friends of mine that they told me that she was infact rather keen on me the whole time. I thought she was just being friendly

Got called pretty hot for a dad a few weeks back, whilst walking with my daughters by a group that couldn't have been older than 20, that made me more uncomfortable than flattered though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100 per cent this. We gotta stay humble

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

"In my opinion a lot of men think they’re getting attention when women are being polite or smiling. Women are usually oblivious to attention because they think men are just being polite or smiling."
when they get there tits out and ask if you think they have grown i agree thats a very kind thing to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a thing, never, anywhere. Invisible to women.

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By *andadbodMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

i don’t get attention when out in public or here

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Do you get attention in public at all from women ? Or is it just here and on dating sites you don’t actually get messages?

Curious!"
of course you are but in my case i do better in person

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By *am_LincolnMan
over a year ago

Prestatyn

Nothing in public or on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In public, not infrequently. Here, rarely. I actually did better on a regular dating site…

fab women are strange…. I like strange..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you get attention in public at all from women ?…"

Yes. There’s the security lady in my local supermarket that always follows me around the store.

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

Not on an everyday basis. Not on here much though I do on the dancefloor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it’s happening I’m missing the sun the signs x

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

I was going to try and comment a funny answer but the truth is that yes I receive more attention on the street than on here.

I am sure that it’s because in real life people can see body language etc while fab is just judgment quickly based on photos and text.

For example my humour is very dry and you can convey that easily in text so it gets taken wrongly.

Even a simple smile is different in RL compared to a photo.

For those that think that Fab should be easier than on street, maybe you need to up your rizz

Marc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do to get attention anywhere

The joy of being a fat ugly bastard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was going to try and comment a funny answer but the truth is that yes I receive more attention on the street than on here.

I am sure that it’s because in real life people can see body language etc while fab is just judgment quickly based on photos and text.

For example my humour is very dry and you can convey that easily in text so it gets taken wrongly.

Even a simple smile is different in RL compared to a photo.

For those that think that Fab should be easier than on street, maybe you need to up your rizz

Marc"

110% agree all day long. Been saying say for 2 yrs since been on here.

Cant beat the real thing in person.

You make it,or break it

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Yeah i obviously notice if a bird is checking me out. But if I miss it the mrs usually tells me “ that bird was checking out your arse “

The mr

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By *innocentMan
over a year ago

Littlehampton

"I don't even get attention here never mind in public"

Sedgefield was a word you could search for in championship manager 01/02 to find free players with high potential

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you get attention in public at all from women ? Or is it just here and on dating sites you don’t actually get messages?

Curious!"

Mr does, all the time. A lot more than before. He says it is his BDE, although he does seem to be getting better looking as each day passes, the bastard

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

"I don't even get attention here never mind in public"

Can you explain this statement further. I’m intrigued…. I want to type more but I don’t want to misunderstand what you mean

Marc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aw, I would all give you a cheeky wink If I saw you in public

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

I never get attention in public. Sometimes get some from other guys if at a gay club.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"I get fucking knickers thrown at me in the street. It’s a chore at times

Sorry should I stop?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Public, sure I'm fighting women off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a lot of attention when people engage with me when meeting. Through work, socialising or even shopping. Not really on here.

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By *elsh-guyMan
over a year ago

The land of the Dragon and loads of sheep

I get a look now and again when I'm out and about and a cheeky smile n all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my mates gets annoyed at “attention” I’m getting (that I don’t notice), for example recently he got pissed off because the waitress at the restaurant was supposedly flirting with me, but wouldn’t make eye contact with him? Tbh I thought she was just making conversation.

Another regular occurrence is that women will come up and start talking with us in a bar, and after they’ve left he’ll get frustrated that they were flirting, or ignoring him, and that I don’t notice it.

I honestly can’t tell if it’s really happening or if he’s just paranoid. I’m pretty much in my own world when I’m out and about unless I’m in “the mood”.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"Do you get attention in public at all from women ? Or is it just here and on dating sites you don’t actually get messages?

Curious!"

Ah I see what you did here!

Fuck no is the answer. Once I chat to them though, either super hit or a quick polite miss

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

In the spirit of Alan Davies, I literally have to carry around a stick dipped in fresh shit to beat them off with.

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