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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi do any of you girls like fat men

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

emm no .. like athletic looking guys !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 23/01/13 21:18:32]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find big and big aint a good combi

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Do you mean BBM ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was never called "well rounded" lmao

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Do you mean BBM ? "
Thought that was Blackberry Messenger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it was big black moose

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes bbm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes bbm"

BHM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No thanks from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not biased against big guys but bein a big girl myself I find it doesn't tend to work out so good so I tend to go for more average/athletic guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not biased against big guys but bein a big girl myself I find it doesn't tend to work out so good so I tend to go for more average/athletic guys "

snap....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really wouldnt be interested in a fat guy... Even being a fat girl myself..

Sorry.. never have been.. never will be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if he's really good at making sandwiches? lmao

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

i think it might be wise to define what 'big' is. I have met some very 'big' men over the years but what i dont like is having to pick up bellies or rolls of fat on the back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ooh dear, someone has to say yes

It cant be me though,

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By *autious CoupleCouple
over a year ago

home

Don't mind it more looks and a bit of charm that I like

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

no afraid not sorry .

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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts

Mines kinda podgy in a rugby player type way , but thighs like you wouldn't believe .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not biased against big guys but bein a big girl myself I find it doesn't tend to work out so good so I tend to go for more average/athletic guys

snap.... "

Yep, me three.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I can now see why I get no responses lol, this could be the thread that kills my chances, now where's that leave button

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Portly is a more welcoming adjective.

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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago

leeds

Love 'em!!

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees


"I'm not biased against big guys but bein a big girl myself I find it doesn't tend to work out so good so I tend to go for more average/athletic guys

snap.... "

No that just happens with the really skinny ones.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Less of the fattitude. We should be using the term curvy.

Equal opportunities and all of that nonsense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh well thats me fucked then....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh well thats me fucked then...."
... or, rather, not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Not for me either, but then I am only ickle lol

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Do you see how blokes don't actually give a shit what they are referred as

If this thread was gender reversed there would be several time outs already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you see how blokes don't actually give a shit what they are referred as

If this thread was gender reversed there would be several time outs already. "

I'M NOT FAT, I'M MADE OF FLUBBER!!!

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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago

leeds

Goody goody gumdrops ......all the more for me!!!!!!

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By *iver_iew1Couple
over a year ago

gourock

If you have a fat bank book

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield


"Not for me either, but then I am only ickle lol

"

Oh hello.....(in a terry Thomas drawl)

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Do you see how blokes don't actually give a shit what they are referred as

If this thread was gender reversed there would be several time outs already. "

OR! Could you read this thread as blokes don't care because they just want a meet regardless??? Just puting it out there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Instead of fat, you could use: portly, generously proportioned, rotund, chubby, weighty, barrell.....

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Not for me either, but then I am only ickle lol

Oh hello.....(in a terry Thomas drawl)"

Are you hinting at something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So OP; Who did you pay to get that one approved, or was Leatherface approving the pcitures on Fab that day?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk about a whole host of ego-deflating replies.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Talk about a whole host of ego-deflating replies.

"

There's enough inflating going on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you see how blokes don't actually give a shit what they are referred as

If this thread was gender reversed there would be several time outs already. "

Could that be because some women are a bit highly strung??!!

I like stocky men. I don't like 6 packs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Talk about a whole host of ego-deflating replies.

"

Well something needs deflating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Talk about a whole host of ego-deflating replies.

Well something needs deflating."

I'd hate to imply there isn't enough space for all these spare tyres but I cant remember what we're meant to be talking about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No thanks.

I'm a slim/athletic female and would want a playmate to be the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Do you see how blokes don't actually give a shit what they are referred as

If this thread was gender reversed there would be several time outs already.

OR! Could you read this thread as blokes don't care because they just want a meet regardless??? Just puting it out there!"

Only if it was a curvy person who said it as I'm a skinny fecker, I'm just pushing it back there lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you see how blokes don't actually give a shit what they are referred as

If this thread was gender reversed there would be several time outs already.

OR! Could you read this thread as blokes don't care because they just want a meet regardless??? Just puting it out there!"

I would easily take offence of the OPs phraseology and write a tirade about it. But I just cant be arsed because at the end of the day no one really cares, because moobs aren't breasts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given your username, is the question only aimed at them or is the question open to anyone?

I don't mind larger men but not those where the belly walks into a room before they do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you see how blokes don't actually give a shit what they are referred as

If this thread was gender reversed there would be several time outs already.

OR! Could you read this thread as blokes don't care because they just want a meet regardless??? Just puting it out there!

I would easily take offence of the OPs phraseology and write a tirade about it. But I just cant be arsed because at the end of the day no one really cares, because moobs aren't breasts."

However some of us like moobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you see how blokes don't actually give a shit what they are referred as

If this thread was gender reversed there would be several time outs already.

OR! Could you read this thread as blokes don't care because they just want a meet regardless??? Just puting it out there!

I would easily take offence of the OPs phraseology and write a tirade about it. But I just cant be arsed because at the end of the day no one really cares, because moobs aren't breasts.

However some of us like moobs "

I'm pretty proud for having shapely moobs. If I walk really slowly, they can be mistaken for muscles lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you see how blokes don't actually give a shit what they are referred as

If this thread was gender reversed there would be several time outs already.

OR! Could you read this thread as blokes don't care because they just want a meet regardless??? Just puting it out there!

I would easily take offence of the OPs phraseology and write a tirade about it. But I just cant be arsed because at the end of the day no one really cares, because moobs aren't breasts.

However some of us like moobs "

My moobs thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you see how blokes don't actually give a shit what they are referred as

If this thread was gender reversed there would be several time outs already.

OR! Could you read this thread as blokes don't care because they just want a meet regardless??? Just puting it out there!"

Some of us guys do actually give a shit but as I already know I'm overweight I can't actually argue the fact

And nope I don't want a meet regardless, I'd want to be with somebody who actually wanted to be with me and not feel repulsed by me, although if they were repulsed by me they wouldn't be with me, but you get my drift lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think guys have a hard enough time getting lucky on here as it is... So those that have a width issue will probably be further back in the queue than those with a slightly more chiselled physique that the ladies would like for fantasy fulfilment. (In my opinion)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh well thats me fucked then....... or, rather, not.

"

I was going to add that but though it was too cheesy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you see how blokes don't actually give a shit what they are referred as

If this thread was gender reversed there would be several time outs already.

I'M NOT FAT, I'M MADE OF FLUBBER!!!"

Except you are not fat, a little overweight maybe but not fat by a long way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you see how blokes don't actually give a shit what they are referred as

If this thread was gender reversed there would be several time outs already. "

For me personally there are far mroe things to worry about than what people think of me, I am fat I know it but why let it get to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you see how blokes don't actually give a shit what they are referred as

If this thread was gender reversed there would be several time outs already.

I'M NOT FAT, I'M MADE OF FLUBBER!!!

Except you are not fat, a little overweight maybe but not fat by a long way"

Thank you I do look smaller in my photos though I have been on a diet since October

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I'm rather tubby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you see how blokes don't actually give a shit what they are referred as

If this thread was gender reversed there would be several time outs already.

I'M NOT FAT, I'M MADE OF FLUBBER!!!

Except you are not fat, a little overweight maybe but not fat by a long way

Thank you I do look smaller in my photos though I have been on a diet since October"

I guess it's all relative. You look perfect to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a chunkier guy

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Just as there are men who like big women, there are women who like big men. I'm not keen on flab, personally but have met with men who have carried a little weight.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Fat men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Less of the fattitude. We should be using the term curvy.

Equal opportunities and all of that nonsense. "

A lot of fattist people here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So where do I fit In on the grand sceme of things I am 5 foot 6 32 to 34 inch waist depending on the day 44 inch chest I think not sure on that lol but I have a bit of a tummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So where do I fit In on the grand sceme of things I am 5 foot 6 32 to 34 inch waist depending on the day 44 inch chest I think not sure on that lol but I have a bit of a tummy "
oh and 12 and a half stone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a 20st well built rugby player

Have muscular physique with a few lumps and bumps in places I wish I didn't but I am by no means fat in the sense that you would have to lift my 'rolls'

With reference to a previous comment. I have some nice thighs if you would like to take a look!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi do any of you girls like fat men"

I will probably get shot for this but reading the replies is really interesting.

A lot of women who describe themselves as BBW will only go for athletic/fit men, whereas men who are "portly" to use a phrase used by one guy are _iewed as being bottom of the queue and very unlikely to get a meet.

What does that say about the attitudes of men and women on here??

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"Hi do any of you girls like fat men

I will probably get shot for this but reading the replies is really interesting.

A lot of women who describe themselves as BBW will only go for athletic/fit men, whereas men who are "portly" to use a phrase used by one guy are _iewed as being bottom of the queue and very unlikely to get a meet.

What does that say about the attitudes of men and women on here?? "

well basically that with men any holes a goal so they wouldnt want to reduce their chances of meeting somebody.. some love bbw mind and only want that..whereas the ratio of men to women on here mean women can be as picky and choosey as they wish.. and they do and why the hell not..

If men want to meet larger ladies thats their choice if women (no matter what their size) dont want to meet larger men thats their choice..

Men see a hole and get excited generally not really bothered who its attached to its not the same for women.

Out of men and women which sex spends more time moaning they cant get meets its not us fussy women thats for sure.

If a big guy gets a meet hes over the moon.. why should women meet larger guys if the look doesnt turn them on and follow through with the meet feeling a bit sick just so that the larger guys get a meet.. its a swingers site for adult fun not a charity or here to provide a service. if larger men arent getting meets do something about it if they are carry on as you are and same for women if size is affecting your meets do something about it if its not then keep going.

In breif women have standards and different likes to men thats life..nothing to do with having a funny attitude..

There is someone out there for everyone and if you feel happy with your size and would be happy on a date like it then no reason not to be swinging like it.. however if you wouldnt dream of going on a date at a certain size then it sounds like you think you'll get a shag on a swingers site that you feel you wouldnt get anywhere else..which clearly is the wrong attitude anyway.

Thats just an over_iew not aimed at anyone.. im no stick insect thats for sure and no i would not play with well overweight men the thought of it is horrid.. they may be lovely to chat to and sovialize with but would prefer they didnt undress thanks.

There are smaller men would certainly say the same about me.. not a problem go find someone that does float your boat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you see how blokes don't actually give a shit what they are referred as

If this thread was gender reversed there would be several time outs already.

I'M NOT FAT, I'M MADE OF FLUBBER!!!

Except you are not fat, a little overweight maybe but not fat by a long way

Thank you I do look smaller in my photos though I have been on a diet since October

I guess it's all relative. You look perfect to me. "

Exactly what I was trying to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you see how blokes don't actually give a shit what they are referred as

If this thread was gender reversed there would be several time outs already.

OR! Could you read this thread as blokes don't care because they just want a meet regardless??? Just puting it out there!

I would easily take offence of the OPs phraseology and write a tirade about it. But I just cant be arsed because at the end of the day no one really cares, because moobs aren't breasts.

However some of us like moobs

My moobs thank you! "

Yummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

feeling rather sorry for the portley guys on here. still a lot of guys bring in on themselves by playing the sycophant and allowing the attitudes of certain women to get somewhat over inflated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like the larger built man.. think its a security thing as im a big girl myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi do any of you girls like fat men

I will probably get shot for this but reading the replies is really interesting.

A lot of women who describe themselves as BBW will only go for athletic/fit men, whereas men who are "portly" to use a phrase used by one guy are _iewed as being bottom of the queue and very unlikely to get a meet.

What does that say about the attitudes of men and women on here??

well basically that with men any holes a goal so they wouldnt want to reduce their chances of meeting somebody.. some love bbw mind and only want that..whereas the ratio of men to women on here mean women can be as picky and choosey as they wish.. and they do and why the hell not..

If men want to meet larger ladies thats their choice if women (no matter what their size) dont want to meet larger men thats their choice..

Men see a hole and get excited generally not really bothered who its attached to its not the same for women.

Out of men and women which sex spends more time moaning they cant get meets its not us fussy women thats for sure.

If a big guy gets a meet hes over the moon.. why should women meet larger guys if the look doesnt turn them on and follow through with the meet feeling a bit sick just so that the larger guys get a meet.. its a swingers site for adult fun not a charity or here to provide a service. if larger men arent getting meets do something about it if they are carry on as you are and same for women if size is affecting your meets do something about it if its not then keep going.

In breif women have standards and different likes to men thats life..nothing to do with having a funny attitude..

There is someone out there for everyone and if you feel happy with your size and would be happy on a date like it then no reason not to be swinging like it.. however if you wouldnt dream of going on a date at a certain size then it sounds like you think you'll get a shag on a swingers site that you feel you wouldnt get anywhere else..which clearly is the wrong attitude anyway.

Thats just an over_iew not aimed at anyone.. im no stick insect thats for sure and no i would not play with well overweight men the thought of it is horrid.. they may be lovely to chat to and sovialize with but would prefer they didnt undress thanks.

There are smaller men would certainly say the same about me.. not a problem go find someone that does float your boat."

As a man i cant even begin to explain how this is offensive. You make us out to be mindless shagging machines that will fuck any hole that presents itself

As a male who also meets solo on the site i am very fussy about the looks and figure of the women i meet, and by no means will just shag any women that presents herself.

So tempted to be alot more offensive here but dont want perma banned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi do any of you girls like fat men"
I was thinking about this post last night and felt a bit sorry for men who dont have the fit body here when alot of the men here are so nice to bigger ladys . If this post was ... Hi do any of you men like fat girls would the bigger ladys here like this ? or feel a bit like its putting them down .?

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you


"Hi do any of you girls like fat men I was thinking about this post last night and felt a bit sorry for men who dont have the fit body here when alot of the men here are so nice to bigger ladys . If this post was ... Hi do any of you men like fat girls would the bigger ladys here like this ? or feel a bit like its putting them down .? "
had the same thought myself when i read this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi do any of you girls like fat men I was thinking about this post last night and felt a bit sorry for men who dont have the fit body here when alot of the men here are so nice to bigger ladys . If this post was ... Hi do any of you men like fat girls would the bigger ladys here like this ? or feel a bit like its putting them down .? "

I think if some of the replies had been posted by men a few timouts would have already been dished out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer men with more meat than less personally. Difficult to define 'fat' though, as we all have our own perceptions of how much, is too much I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like all shapes. Beauty's in the eye of the beholder and all that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi do any of you girls like fat men I was thinking about this post last night and felt a bit sorry for men who dont have the fit body here when alot of the men here are so nice to bigger ladys . If this post was ... Hi do any of you men like fat girls would the bigger ladys here like this ? or feel a bit like its putting them down .? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi do any of you girls like fat men I was thinking about this post last night and felt a bit sorry for men who don't have the fit body here when alot of the men here are so nice to bigger ladies . If this post was ... Hi do any of you men like fat girls would the bigger ladies here like this ? or feel a bit like its putting them down .?

I think if some of the replies had been posted by men a few timouts would have already been dished out."
well i for one think its the same for men as woman here and if not it should be ..There's BBW should be BBM too so men dont feel lift out and made to feel good about themselfs too , Maybe there is and i know nothing about it?. We take people for who thay are here as no ones perfect .. and i know we cant all like same things ... But there's a thing call respect and no matter of size you are.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Having scanned this thread I reckon I can say;

Some men are discerning.

Some men will shag anything.

Some women are discerning.

Some women will shag anything.

Some people like big people.

Some people don't.

Did I miss anything out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having scanned this thread I reckon I can say;

Some men are discerning.

Some men will shag anything.

Some women are discerning.

Some women will shag anything.

Some people like big people.

Some people don't.

Did I miss anything out?"

No........... Think you covered everything lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a social setting ive met guys who are not what i class as "my type" .

But once meeting and chatting , have changed my mind. I suspect guys do the same...chams and socials etc.

Respect is due to all regardless of size and shape.

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By *ainey57Woman
over a year ago

Derby

I adore fat men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a lot of shallow people here if someone is attractive I don't see a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think its shallow to have a preference in what you like or dislike..

thats what we are here for, to find those we wanna shag , and steer clear of those we dont, as long as respect is paid to all......

simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it is indeed not shallow to have a preference. How we express our preferences can however be deemed shallow when they bare no allowance to anothers feelings, as some of the previous comments on this thread have clearly shown.

as I have already said, had his thread been about "fat women" and the comments I mention been made by men then I believe some may well have been given timeouts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me, rugby player build is fine but not fat, too scared I'd get squashed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

weight isnt the be all and end all in what makes someone attractive. if ur taking very, very fat people then that would maybe turn off most

if i were fat id still be a goodlooking S.O.B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi do any of you girls like fat men

I will probably get shot for this but reading the replies is really interesting.

A lot of women who describe themselves as BBW will only go for athletic/fit men, whereas men who are "portly" to use a phrase used by one guy are _iewed as being bottom of the queue and very unlikely to get a meet.

What does that say about the attitudes of men and women on here??

well basically that with men any holes a goal so they wouldnt want to reduce their chances of meeting somebody.. some love bbw mind and only want that..whereas the ratio of men to women on here mean women can be as picky and choosey as they wish.. and they do and why the hell not..

If men want to meet larger ladies thats their choice if women (no matter what their size) dont want to meet larger men thats their choice..

Men see a hole and get excited generally not really bothered who its attached to its not the same for women.

Out of men and women which sex spends more time moaning they cant get meets its not us fussy women thats for sure.

If a big guy gets a meet hes over the moon.. why should women meet larger guys if the look doesnt turn them on and follow through with the meet feeling a bit sick just so that the larger guys get a meet.. its a swingers site for adult fun not a charity or here to provide a service. if larger men arent getting meets do something about it if they are carry on as you are and same for women if size is affecting your meets do something about it if its not then keep going.

In breif women have standards and different likes to men thats life..nothing to do with having a funny attitude..

There is someone out there for everyone and if you feel happy with your size and would be happy on a date like it then no reason not to be swinging like it.. however if you wouldnt dream of going on a date at a certain size then it sounds like you think you'll get a shag on a swingers site that you feel you wouldnt get anywhere else..which clearly is the wrong attitude anyway.

Thats just an over_iew not aimed at anyone.. im no stick insect thats for sure and no i would not play with well overweight men the thought of it is horrid.. they may be lovely to chat to and sovialize with but would prefer they didnt undress thanks.

There are smaller men would certainly say the same about me.. not a problem go find someone that does float your boat."

Well done. Well done for making men like myself out to be desperate, slightly pathetic chancers with little hope of a sex life.

I like nothing better than to participate in 'social activity' where I am a second or third class citizen because of my gender and/or my physical appearance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well done. Well done for making men like myself out to be desperate, slightly pathetic chancers with little hope of a sex life.

I like nothing better than to participate in 'social activity' where I am a second or third class citizen because of my gender and/or my physical appearance."

I love the Professor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would I prefer to be slimmer / more athletic ? Yes

Would it make me more attractive ? To some

Would being more attractive motivate me to lose weight ? No

If someone chooses to discount me sexually on the basis of my build, that's their choice and I am fine with that.

If someone chooses to discount me socially on the basis of my build, then they were not someone I was likely to get on with anyway.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"

Well done. Well done for making men like myself out to be desperate, slightly pathetic chancers with little hope of a sex life.

I like nothing better than to participate in 'social activity' where I am a second or third class citizen because of my gender and/or my physical appearance."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It just come across people are more sizes on men then woman on fab ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It just come across people are more sizes on men then woman on fab .. "

I think that's in all walks of life Jo

Just take a trip to any high street or shopping centre and look at the couples

You will see many athletic guys with overweight women

You won't see many athletic women with overweight guys

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Do you see how blokes don't actually give a shit what they are referred as

If this thread was gender reversed there would be several time outs already. "

Why? for people saying yes or no to the question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you can whittle most answers down to a yes or no but its not as simple as that

if this were a fat chick thread it wouldve hit the limit last week

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Hi do any of you girls like fat men I was thinking about this post last night and felt a bit sorry for men who dont have the fit body here when alot of the men here are so nice to bigger ladys . If this post was ... Hi do any of you men like fat girls would the bigger ladys here like this ? or feel a bit like its putting them down .?

I think if some of the replies had been posted by men a few timouts would have already been dished out."

I think you are wrong.

Mods ban any gender when they have broken rules.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Do you see how blokes don't actually give a shit what they are referred as

If this thread was gender reversed there would be several time outs already.

Why? for people saying yes or no to the question?"

because the responses wouldn't be limited to yes or no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi do any of you girls like fat men I was thinking about this post last night and felt a bit sorry for men who dont have the fit body here when alot of the men here are so nice to bigger ladys . If this post was ... Hi do any of you men like fat girls would the bigger ladys here like this ? or feel a bit like its putting them down .?

I think if some of the replies had been posted by men a few timouts would have already been dished out.

I think you are wrong.

Mods ban any gender when they have broken rules."

Oh you do turn me on when you're all edgey Ruggers

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Not for me, rugby player build is fine but not fat, too scared I'd get squashed "

That's a whole different thread Julie!! X

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Bussy and ruggers,

Sitting in a tree...

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Hi do any of you girls like fat men I was thinking about this post last night and felt a bit sorry for men who dont have the fit body here when alot of the men here are so nice to bigger ladys . If this post was ... Hi do any of you men like fat girls would the bigger ladys here like this ? or feel a bit like its putting them down .?

I think if some of the replies had been posted by men a few timouts would have already been dished out.

I think you are wrong.

Mods ban any gender when they have broken rules.

Oh you do turn me on when you're all edgey Ruggers "

I can do edgy, but this wasn't it.....you won't like me when I am really edgy

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Do you see how blokes don't actually give a shit what they are referred as

If this thread was gender reversed there would be several time outs already.

Why? for people saying yes or no to the question?

because the responses wouldn't be limited to yes or no. "

Ah right, what you meant was that peoples answers would be different and mods would have to intervene, rather than people answering yes or no would be given a time out.

Ta for clarifying

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Do you see how blokes don't actually give a shit what they are referred as

If this thread was gender reversed there would be several time outs already.

Why? for people saying yes or no to the question?

because the responses wouldn't be limited to yes or no.

Ah right, what you meant was that peoples answers would be different and mods would have to intervene, rather than people answering yes or no would be given a time out.

Ta for clarifying "

You got it Sarge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not for me, rugby player build is fine but not fat, too scared I'd get squashed

That's a whole different thread Julie!! X"

I've missed something else Smack my bum for not keeping up xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ta for clarifying

You got it Sarge "

that's tickled me

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

What wrong with fat dudes?

I have a few as friends. They are part of my Z Day plan.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"

You got it Sarge "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone asked the other day me why I'd put weight on. I told him the truth: "every time I shag your missus she gives me a biscuit."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone asked the other day me why I'd put weight on. I told him the truth: "every time I shag your missus she gives me a biscuit.""

Stop using my jokes - I just did that one in the other thread!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone asked the other day me why I'd put weight on. I told him the truth: "every time I shag your missus she gives me a biscuit."

Stop using my jokes - I just did that one in the other thread!!!"

Yep, just saw it. How about we both think of a different/funnier one and meet back here in an hour?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone asked the other day me why I'd put weight on. I told him the truth: "every time I shag your missus she gives me a biscuit."

Stop using my jokes - I just did that one in the other thread!!!"

lmfaooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would I prefer to be slimmer / more athletic ? Yes

Would it make me more attractive ? To some

Would being more attractive motivate me to lose weight ? No

If someone chooses to discount me sexually on the basis of my build, that's their choice and I am fine with that.

If someone chooses to discount me socially on the basis of my build, then they were not someone I was likely to get on with anyway."

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"Hi do any of you girls like fat men

I will probably get shot for this but reading the replies is really interesting.

A lot of women who describe themselves as BBW will only go for athletic/fit men, whereas men who are "portly" to use a phrase used by one guy are _iewed as being bottom of the queue and very unlikely to get a meet.

What does that say about the attitudes of men and women on here??

well basically that with men any holes a goal so they wouldnt want to reduce their chances of meeting somebody.. some love bbw mind and only want that..whereas the ratio of men to women on here mean women can be as picky and choosey as they wish.. and they do and why the hell not..

If men want to meet larger ladies thats their choice if women (no matter what their size) dont want to meet larger men thats their choice..

Men see a hole and get excited generally not really bothered who its attached to its not the same for women.

Out of men and women which sex spends more time moaning they cant get meets its not us fussy women thats for sure.

If a big guy gets a meet hes over the moon.. why should women meet larger guys if the look doesnt turn them on and follow through with the meet feeling a bit sick just so that the larger guys get a meet.. its a swingers site for adult fun not a charity or here to provide a service. if larger men arent getting meets do something about it if they are carry on as you are and same for women if size is affecting your meets do something about it if its not then keep going.

In breif women have standards and different likes to men thats life..nothing to do with having a funny attitude..

There is someone out there for everyone and if you feel happy with your size and would be happy on a date like it then no reason not to be swinging like it.. however if you wouldnt dream of going on a date at a certain size then it sounds like you think you'll get a shag on a swingers site that you feel you wouldnt get anywhere else..which clearly is the wrong attitude anyway.

Thats just an over_iew not aimed at anyone.. im no stick insect thats for sure and no i would not play with well overweight men the thought of it is horrid.. they may be lovely to chat to and sovialize with but would prefer they didnt undress thanks.

There are smaller men would certainly say the same about me.. not a problem go find someone that does float your boat.

Well done. Well done for making men like myself out to be desperate, slightly pathetic chancers with little hope of a sex life.

I like nothing better than to participate in 'social activity' where I am a second or third class citizen because of my gender and/or my physical appearance."

its the same for some women... get a grip.. and because a guy throws his toys out of the cot does not get him a shag.. infact even less likely to get one.

Alot of large men are getting meets as are larger women.. i was making the point that the was made about attitude.

I was saying i have nothing against large men in person but i do not wish to play with them as they do nothing for me same as i will not do anything for some men thats life get over it.

Its certainly not me making anyone out as pathic saddo chancers you said that not me.

The fact is .. its life... men generally do not need physical attraction to enable an erection in the same way women need attraction to play.

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"Hi do any of you girls like fat men

I will probably get shot for this but reading the replies is really interesting.

A lot of women who describe themselves as BBW will only go for athletic/fit men, whereas men who are "portly" to use a phrase used by one guy are _iewed as being bottom of the queue and very unlikely to get a meet.

What does that say about the attitudes of men and women on here??

well basically that with men any holes a goal so they wouldnt want to reduce their chances of meeting somebody.. some love bbw mind and only want that..whereas the ratio of men to women on here mean women can be as picky and choosey as they wish.. and they do and why the hell not..

If men want to meet larger ladies thats their choice if women (no matter what their size) dont want to meet larger men thats their choice..

Men see a hole and get excited generally not really bothered who its attached to its not the same for women.

Out of men and women which sex spends more time moaning they cant get meets its not us fussy women thats for sure.

If a big guy gets a meet hes over the moon.. why should women meet larger guys if the look doesnt turn them on and follow through with the meet feeling a bit sick just so that the larger guys get a meet.. its a swingers site for adult fun not a charity or here to provide a service. if larger men arent getting meets do something about it if they are carry on as you are and same for women if size is affecting your meets do something about it if its not then keep going.

In breif women have standards and different likes to men thats life..nothing to do with having a funny attitude..

There is someone out there for everyone and if you feel happy with your size and would be happy on a date like it then no reason not to be swinging like it.. however if you wouldnt dream of going on a date at a certain size then it sounds like you think you'll get a shag on a swingers site that you feel you wouldnt get anywhere else..which clearly is the wrong attitude anyway.

Thats just an over_iew not aimed at anyone.. im no stick insect thats for sure and no i would not play with well overweight men the thought of it is horrid.. they may be lovely to chat to and sovialize with but would prefer they didnt undress thanks.

There are smaller men would certainly say the same about me.. not a problem go find someone that does float your boat.

As a man i cant even begin to explain how this is offensive. You make us out to be mindless shagging machines that will fuck any hole that presents itself

As a male who also meets solo on the site i am very fussy about the looks and figure of the women i meet, and by no means will just shag any women that presents herself.

So tempted to be alot more offensive here but dont want perma banned"

yes but you ask alot of men and it can be seen on the forums it is for most sny holes a goal.. no not all i never said all.. but thats the attitude of alot.. go check a few profiles... And compare how many male profiles say age size looks unimportant and compare to how many couple or female profiles say the same.. So dont get on your high horse for me stating what can clearly be obvserved by simply _iewing some profiles..

I have named no one and aimed it at no one it was a point of fact that is openly admitted to by loads of guys on here... finding ones with standards is not an easy task at all..thats my point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

The fact is .. its life... men generally do not need physical attraction to enable an erection in the same way women need attraction to play. "

Keep going. With every post you just prove my original point!

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"

The fact is .. its life... men generally do not need physical attraction to enable an erection in the same way women need attraction to play.

Keep going. With every post you just prove my original point!

"

Men prove the point themselves everyday they dont need anyone else proving it for them thats for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've run out of popcorn. Back in a minute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not too fat. it depends on what their personality is like and how clean and tidy they are.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It's never been the size of the man that has determined whether I find them attractive or not but the way that they communicate.

I have met men that have described themselves as athletic, and they may well be, but are also carrying a 7 month pregnancy tummy. I've met the average who are 18st and over.

For the Fab Awards at the end of last year I didn't vote for any of the "ripped" bodies for sexiest male. Sexy minds work better than so called sexy bodies for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

The fact is .. its life... men generally do not need physical attraction to enable an erection in the same way women need attraction to play.

Keep going. With every post you just prove my original point!

"

women need an atttaction to play?

hmmmm......what about lube?

men don't need an attraction to play?

hmmmmm... how the hell are they supposed to get erect?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

The fact is .. its life... men generally do not need physical attraction to enable an erection in the same way women need attraction to play.

Keep going. With every post you just prove my original point!

women need an atttaction to play?

hmmmm......what about lube?

men don't need an attraction to play?

hmmmmm... how the hell are they supposed to get erect?

"
men close there eyes think of some lovely thing , lol and it cum ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

The fact is .. its life... men generally do not need physical attraction to enable an erection in the same way women need attraction to play.

Keep going. With every post you just prove my original point!

women need an atttaction to play?

hmmmm......what about lube?

men don't need an attraction to play?

hmmmmm... how the hell are they supposed to get erect?

men close there eyes think of some lovely thing , lol and it cum , "

so then, are women incapable of imagination?

I think you will find women have been laying back and thinking of mother england for much longer than men have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mrs here.

personaly I prefer a rugby shape saying that I wouldnt disregard anyone due to them being big or small. I think you can look at someone be it man or woman and just think noo but again there is the yes aswell lol. so its not as simple as do you like fat people. You have the overall apearance , clenliness, and look if your not happy with these the size of the person dosent even matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would I prefer to be slimmer / more athletic ? Yes

Would it make me more attractive ? To some

Would being more attractive motivate me to lose weight ? No

If someone chooses to discount me sexually on the basis of my build, that's their choice and I am fine with that.

If someone chooses to discount me socially on the basis of my build, then they were not someone I was likely to get on with anyway."

I'd meet ya.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been big all my life, runs in the family, as a child you get picked on, as an adult you come across posts like this, what do you do, as a child you learn to fight back, as an adult you shrug it off and carry on, I've done the gym and weights bit (nearly got my six pack a few years ago) but always feel better just being me and the size I am

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i went to a gym and all that happened was my neck got thicker and none of my shirts fitted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep that's what happens lol, I'd never get into skinny jeans with the size of my legs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A belly CAN make your cock look smaller. That's just an observation, but it's another reason to stay on the diet!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"mrs here.

personaly I prefer a rugby shape saying that I wouldnt disregard anyone due to them being big or small. I think you can look at someone be it man or woman and just think noo but again there is the yes aswell lol. so its not as simple as do you like fat people. You have the overall apearance , clenliness, and look if your not happy with these the size of the person dosent even matter. "

fat people re not clean then??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm a big guy. And I accept that on first impressions I will put some people off.

I am confident that once people get to know me as a person, that they would see through the big guy image. If they cant then tough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I thought I'd bite the bullet and put my first "semi" nude pic on then it's upto who _iews it to judge if I'm what they like or not, I'm not hiding behind clothes anymore, I'm happy, people around me are happy, so maybe the jolly fat man has more to offer than the negative people think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done that man, and besides....you dont look that big if im being honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well done that man, and besides....you dont look that big if im being honest. "

I agree. To me you look 'stocky'. Stocky is good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you peaches and scarlet, very kind I've always liked my front profile as I do have broad shoulders, side profile not quite as flattering but I'm taking that in the morning (always looks better in the morning lol) I'm not as big as I used to be but I have let myself go the last few years with one thing or another, but keeps me warm in the snow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ya know what they say......fat means flavour....

and stuff what anyone else thinks....

go get um

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I find big and big aint a good combi "

Indeed!

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I dont have a problem with bigger guys - for a start they tend not to be vain and self absorbed - just my experience. Also they like their food which means they have an element of sensuality...

But most importantly... it aint their size... it is about their personality and intelligence for me. Those beat a bit of a belly anytime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry you just mised out again, it's fat and sweaty I like.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Well done. Well done for making men like myself out to be desperate, slightly pathetic chancers with little hope of a sex life.

I like nothing better than to participate in 'social activity' where I am a second or third class citizen because of my gender and/or my physical appearance.

I love the Professor "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"mrs here.

personaly I prefer a rugby shape saying that I wouldnt disregard anyone due to them being big or small. I think you can look at someone be it man or woman and just think noo but again there is the yes aswell lol. so its not as simple as do you like fat people. You have the overall apearance , clenliness, and look if your not happy with these the size of the person dosent even matter.

fat people re not clean then??"

I don't think that's what she's saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's either fat or athletic isn't there an in between ? I'd say I was but people perceive size differently ! Women get away with it cos they have tits and a pussy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"mrs here.

personaly I prefer a rugby shape saying that I wouldnt disregard anyone due to them being big or small. I think you can look at someone be it man or woman and just think noo but again there is the yes aswell lol. so its not as simple as do you like fat people. You have the overall apearance , clenliness, and look if your not happy with these the size of the person dosent even matter.

fat people re not clean then??"

this is not what i am saying at all. I said that size dosent matter. Basicaly its the whole package . should have said its not as simple as do you like fat or skinny people. Didnt think i needed to be that perfect with my wording on an adult forum oh well my bad lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"mrs here.

personaly I prefer a rugby shape saying that I wouldnt disregard anyone due to them being big or small. I think you can look at someone be it man or woman and just think noo but again there is the yes aswell lol. so its not as simple as do you like fat people. You have the overall apearance , clenliness, and look if your not happy with these the size of the person dosent even matter.

fat people re not clean then??

this is not what i am saying at all. I said that size dosent matter. Basicaly its the whole package . should have said its not as simple as do you like fat or skinny people. Didnt think i needed to be that perfect with my wording on an adult forum oh well my bad lol "

Nope, my bad, I read the post wrong.....as you were

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