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By *lamdaddy OP Man
over a year ago

London

Do you get attention in public at all from men? Or is it just here and on dating sites you actually get messages?

Curious!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get nada, I blame my resting bitch fave

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I get attention everywhere

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Men, women. It happens everywhere. Bar when on a tip run which is really ego destroying.

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head

Nope! But I actually have clothes on when I go out in public and people can see my face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most daft question you've ever asked so far brucey big balls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s an old man that keeps trying to kiss me when he comes into my work if that counts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Less these days, luckily I have resting bitch face

I was catcalled yesterday but scowled at them and they both backed up from following me into the ally I was walking through

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By *lamdaddy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Nope! But I actually have clothes on when I go out in public and people can see my face

Ahhh c'mon! I mean the lack of clothes does help

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By *lamdaddy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Most daft question you've ever asked so far brucey big balls "

I think you are forgetting some real gems over the months

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"Most daft question you've ever asked so far brucey big balls "

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Bøø, he doesn't realise that some women are just SEEKING RELAXED ENCOUNTERS WITH CHILLED OUT GENTLEMEN.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men, women. It happens everywhere. Bar when on a tip run which is really ego destroying."

Is he taking you to be recycled?

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

not often

but I would if I left my bra off hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pretty much walk round with my eyes closed. If people are looking i dont notice.

(Mrs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get more attention on here and dating sites than in person - I'm quite an anxious person off here so don't like men in approaching me in real life haha. X

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By *ornycouple7884Couple
over a year ago

Exeter

Pretty sure I'm invisible in real life but life others have said I do tend to wear clothes.

However, when I've been browsing fab in the car I definitely have a glint in my eye and either get more attention or notice men more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only times I'm in public are when I'm mumming, working or swinging so....

Mrs

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Get odd bit of attention now and then it's generally down to my gym kit leggings xx

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

My breasts get attention.

The rest of me doesn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do get a bit of attention from strangers depending on what I'm wearing. If it's something more revealing I'll notice men staring but what man doesn't look at a big pair of tits or a nice pair or a bit of flesh on show?

I'm not approached or flirted with that often. And when I am approached, it's usually by men I know and have a bit of banter with.

I don't give off the same vibes in real life as I do on here. I'm pretty dorky and unsexy day to day.

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By *lamdaddy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Most daft question you've ever asked so far brucey big balls

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Bøø, he doesn't realise that some women are just SEEKING RELAXED ENCOUNTERS WITH CHILLED OUT GENTLEMEN."

Scrabble and a scone?

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By *lamdaddy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Get more attention on here and dating sites than in person - I'm quite an anxious person off here so don't like men in approaching me in real life haha. X"

Maybe you should move away from slutsville?

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By *lamdaddy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Get odd bit of attention now and then it's generally down to my gym kit leggings xx "

I can already imagine why that could be the case

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By *lamdaddy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I do get a bit of attention from strangers depending on what I'm wearing. If it's something more revealing I'll notice men staring but what man doesn't look at a big pair of tits or a nice pair or a bit of flesh on show?

I'm not approached or flirted with that often. And when I am approached, it's usually by men I know and have a bit of banter with.

I don't give off the same vibes in real life as I do on here. I'm pretty dorky and unsexy day to day.

You're saying you're not dorky and unsexy here?

Nice tits by the way!

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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest

I dont feel guys give obvious attention anymore, (like in 70s programmes were they wolf whistle etc) incase they get done for harassment but I'm blind to any signals of attention- literally if I'm in a swinging club someone will have to act like a peacock for me to get the hint and even then its not clear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never noticed but I’m not looking for attention when I’m out. I’d rather blend into the background and get on with my day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not approached or flirted with that often. And when I am approached, it's usually by men I know and have a bit of banter with.

I don't give off the same vibes in real life as I do on here. I'm pretty dorky and unsexy day to day.

You're saying you're not dorky and unsexy here?

Nice tits by the way!

Thank you for humbling me Brucey.

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By *lamdaddy OP Man
over a year ago

London

I'm not approached or flirted with that often. And when I am approached, it's usually by men I know and have a bit of banter with.

I don't give off the same vibes in real life as I do on here. I'm pretty dorky and unsexy day to day.

You're saying you're not dorky and unsexy here?

Nice tits by the way!

Thank you for humbling me Brucey.

I like your dorky ways. No one's ever made my ballbag feel as happy as you have. Apart from the women that have had it in their mouths...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not approached or flirted with that often. And when I am approached, it's usually by men I know and have a bit of banter with.

I don't give off the same vibes in real life as I do on here. I'm pretty dorky and unsexy day to day.

I focus on eyes, lips and wonder what that mouth do

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Not much no. But if I'm out and about I frequently have one or more children with me. Stressed and grumpy probably isn't the best look to attract amorous attention.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm oblivious. When they're blatant I actively repel them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get nada, I blame my resting bitch fave

I’d put a smile on your face

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Occasionally. But I'm a friendly person so I smile at random people. I don't get approached in real life like I do on here though. I think people feel safer behind a screen.

Jo.Xx

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Yes out and about I do! Surprising given my age! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes plenty, guys up here aren't shy

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By *_J111Woman
over a year ago

home

Nope, barely get a second glance in public

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, barely get a second glance in public

Head North and we would certainly glance

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

I don't usually get attention from guys in public but for some reason last Saturday evening when I was out with friends I was getting lots of attention.... but then that was probably because they were all d*unk lmao

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Surprisingly yes I have recently

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

"There’s an old man that keeps trying to kiss me when he comes into my work if that counts

Yeah sorry bout that xx you’re very cute though xx

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

For balance i have way more success in real life with women who on paper should be waaaaay out of my league ( no such thing!) dont know why… i just do xx is that s mirror in your knickers… i can see myself in there later!! Whoosh - pulled!!

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Hardly ever, or if I do I'm completely oblivious to it

Tinder x

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By *lipzer KnicksaffWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently

Not wandering round the supermarket.

On an actual night out I do sometimes. Most memorable was a few months ago when a big fella said he wanted to dominate the tits off me

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

I'm not approached or flirted with that often. And when I am approached, it's usually by men I know and have a bit of banter with.

I don't give off the same vibes in real life as I do on here. I'm pretty dorky and unsexy day to day.

You are absolutely beautiful stunning body. Sean xx

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Yep, it's normally the big tits and my height that get second looks when out, but generally I tend to happily pull confident men in the pub

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Yes, although it’s the height that does it. It’s a real conversation starter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep, it's normally the big tits and my height that get second looks when out, but generally I tend to happily pull confident men in the pub

Thats because you ooze.

Sorry, you ooze confidence and sensuality.

True story

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I don't get messages in public; that would be weird.

I've been chatted up while out and about.

I've learned to say yes, when a man casually asks if I'm married.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Men look at me, it's reflex action I think. I don't get approached unless it's the weirdo on the bus who insists he's a DJ and thinks I'm going to be impressed

Mate I'm 66 years old, you're all of that and more even I can't stretch my imagination that far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing. I do really badly on dating sites and I'm pretty invisible in public.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, because I let my hair go grey at 38 and at first glance I look about 87.

Nell

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I'm not particularly approachable in public, because I don't want to be.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Usually get more attention in the warmer weather when it’s skirt and shorts weather instead of boots and coat lol, Mr Whippy hit on me the other day

guess the weather gets the guys horny

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Not particularly either in person or online to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing. I do really badly on dating sites and I'm pretty invisible in public. "

Same.

I’m pretty sure I have an invisibility cloak.

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By *lipzer KnicksaffWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently

"Nothing. I do really badly on dating sites and I'm pretty invisible in public.

Same.

I’m pretty sure I have an invisibility cloak. "

That honestly astounds me.

Never seen your face but from the pics I have seen I would say you are arguably one of the most striking women on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No attention as I’m in a world of my own with things on my mind to notice if any men are ogling me. No one approached me as I’m doing my own thing and I never really look at people when I’m out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None that I’m aware of but then that might be as a result of my journey.

It took me an awful lot of personal work when I first came out to specifically ignore any adverse attention I got (or more probably the attention I was paranoid that I was getting).

As a result I do live in my own little world sometimes so I’m not sure that I would notice if I was getting attention anyway

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Depends where I'm going.

I can't say I put too much effort into my appearance when I'm on a school run, but when we are at a bar?

Yes, more so than when I was in my 20's

I think it has a lot to do with how much more confident I am in my own skin now

K x

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

It depends but definitely more on here, but then again I don't walk around town in my lingere.

I do get the odd chav whistle & guys checking my arse out so I mean maybe I still have it a little

Mrs

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Alice gets a fair bit of attention. When she's in the mood she just gives something off that men seem to be drawn to. It's quite fascinating to witness.

She doesn't actually even need whatever that magic is, because she's an exceptional flirt when she tries to be, with an incredible smile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they notice my boobs. And then they look at my face and their soul folds inwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No because I look like crap on the daily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of attention, I just turn it all down

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Plenty of attention, I just turn it all down"

Confident

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plenty of attention, I just turn it all down

Confident

Yup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get nada, I blame my resting bitch fave

Bitch faces all over london daily!!"

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

Sometimes I feel like everybody is a sexy baby

And I'm a monster on the hill

Too big to hang out, slowly lurching toward your favorite city

Pierced through the heart, but never killed..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes I feel like everybody is a sexy baby

And I'm a monster on the hill

Too big to hang out, slowly lurching toward your favorite city

Pierced through the heart, but never killed.."

Think I’ve seen that film

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"Sometimes I feel like everybody is a sexy baby

And I'm a monster on the hill

Too big to hang out, slowly lurching toward your favorite city

Pierced through the heart, but never killed.."

You’re so swift

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By *lamdaddy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Sometimes I feel like everybody is a sexy baby

And I'm a monster on the hill

Too big to hang out, slowly lurching toward your favorite city

Pierced through the heart, but never killed..

You’re so swift"

How much does Henriette get approached?

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"Sometimes I feel like everybody is a sexy baby

And I'm a monster on the hill

Too big to hang out, slowly lurching toward your favorite city

Pierced through the heart, but never killed..

You’re so swift

How much does Henriette get approached?"

I’d love to say regularly but she’s got this kind of ‘fuck off’ way about her with strangers

I’d say she probably gets a fair bit more attention when she’s not out with her large aggressive looking husband though.

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By *lamdaddy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Sometimes I feel like everybody is a sexy baby

And I'm a monster on the hill

Too big to hang out, slowly lurching toward your favorite city

Pierced through the heart, but never killed..

You’re so swift

How much does Henriette get approached?

I’d love to say regularly but she’s got this kind of ‘fuck off’ way about her with strangers

I’d say she probably gets a fair bit more attention when she’s not out with her large aggressive looking husband though."

You don't scare me.

Nice tits love!

(Runs a mile as fast as possible)

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