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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have realised that being on sites like this has given me a thicker skin than I used to have.

Does the fear of rejection stop you doing things or do you just crack on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It certainly used to when I was younger, but not now. Too flippin old to bother about rejection......

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I have realised that being on sites like this has given me a thicker skin than I used to have.

Does the fear of rejection stop you doing things or do you just crack on? "

I laugh in the face of rejection, I jeer at the 'no fuck off steve' messages and deride the negativity vampyres.

Carry on Swinging!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"It certainly used to when I was younger, but not now. Too flippin old to bother about rejection......

"

Rejection is the Blue Water of emotions.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

You just have to learn how to whistle cheerily, and slope off, hoping nobody has noticed.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

It's made me more forward! I just think "what have I got to lose" and not only message fitties I would never have considered approaching previously, but I also brazenly ask in person too!

And if they say no I know it's not a criticism of me as an individual, just that I'm not their type. So I can accept it and move on with no hard feelings or regret.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"You just have to learn how to whistle cheerily, and slope off, hoping nobody has noticed. "

I always notice you and shout "Oi! Mr Fail!" - you never hear though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have realised that being on sites like this has given me a thicker skin than I used to have.

Does the fear of rejection stop you doing things or do you just crack on? "

Never ever worried what people think about me so rejection is not something I think or worry about.

People take you for who you are, if not they are not worth worrying over.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"It's made me more forward! I just think "what have I got to lose" and not only message fitties I would never have considered approaching previously, but I also brazenly ask in person too!

And if they say no I know it's not a criticism of me as an individual, just that I'm not their type. So I can accept it and move on with no hard feelings or regret. "

I've got some "hard feelings"......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have realised that being on sites like this has given me a thicker skin than I used to have.

Does the fear of rejection stop you doing things or do you just crack on? "

I just wonder why I bothered with that person, make a note of what their profile says and ignore women that come across as similar in future.

Offline, I just be myself and if it attracts them, I'll find out about it!

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"It's made me more forward! I just think "what have I got to lose" and not only message fitties I would never have considered approaching previously, but I also brazenly ask in person too!

And if they say no I know it's not a criticism of me as an individual, just that I'm not their type. So I can accept it and move on with no hard feelings or regret.

I've got some "hard feelings"...... "

Man up and get yourself in hand!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It certainly used to when I was younger, but not now. Too flippin old to bother about rejection......

Rejection is the Blue Water of emotions. "

Deep, man. Deep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes the fear of rejection does play a part on sites like this. Sometimes I will read a ladies profile and think they are way out of my league so I will not mail them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I flounce with panache

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not believe in holding back and think of what if's.

If I get rejected, I shall learn from it and move on.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"You just have to learn how to whistle cheerily, and slope off, hoping nobody has noticed.

I always notice you and shout "Oi! Mr Fail!" - you never hear though "

I do. I just pretend you're shouting at someone else

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"It certainly used to when I was younger, but not now. Too flippin old to bother about rejection......

Rejection is the Blue Water of emotions.

Deep, man. Deep.

"

Not as deep as the Thames from the QE2 bridge.....

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Nope I flounce with panache "

Who is she?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"You just have to learn how to whistle cheerily, and slope off, hoping nobody has noticed.

I always notice you and shout "Oi! Mr Fail!" - you never hear though

I do. I just pretend you're shouting at someone else "

Damn!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It certainly used to when I was younger, but not now. Too flippin old to bother about rejection......

Rejection is the Blue Water of emotions.

Deep, man. Deep.

Not as deep as the Thames from the QE2 bridge..... "

Hmmmm ..... yeah. And usually the last refuge for those who can't cope with rejection, strangely.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope I flounce with panache "

I thought that was artistic pique..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come to think of it, the worst rejection ever was that a girl who liked me couldn't get my cock in her pussy because she was too tight.

It made me feel great about my only slightly above average 8" but my balls got the blues!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do not believe in holding back and think of what if's.

If I get rejected, I shall learn from it and move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's made me more forward! I just think "what have I got to lose" and not only message fitties I would never have considered approaching previously, but I also brazenly ask in person too!

And if they say no I know it's not a criticism of me as an individual, just that I'm not their type. So I can accept it and move on with no hard feelings or regret. "

I'm nearly at that point. 99.9999%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope I flounce with panache

I thought that was artistic pique..?

"

I thought it was a ladies perfume

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