FabSwingers.com mobile

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

Blocking

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why can't I see a long time member I blocked on my block list?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ixed MisterMan
over a year ago

London

Maybe they left

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can't I see a long time member I blocked on my block list? "

Have they left the site?

If its anything like my block list you would be looking for a long time to try and find ones who were blocked a ages ago.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP hun, do you know what the green arrow does next to your name?

As people have said maybe they left the site

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I understand that. But why after complimenting me and asking to friend, I got suspicious.so I unfriended. So I said no thanks. Then blocked him. However, he'd been a member for over a year according to his profile, so couldn't understand why he would delete his account. All my other blocks are there.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP hun, do you know what the green arrow does next to your name?

As people have said maybe they left the site"

Someone had to educate me about the green arrow a few weeks ago - I don't think that I had ever noticed it. What a marvellous tool (as the actress said to the bishop).

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Why can't I see a long time member I blocked on my block list? "

What does it matter......

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not really. Just wondered what and if he screenshot my pics

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can't I see a long time member I blocked on my block list?

What does it matter......"

Is that an existential question?

cos if so that could be fun providing answers...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP hun, do you know what the green arrow does next to your name?

As people have said maybe they left the site

Someone had to educate me about the green arrow a few weeks ago - I don't think that I had ever noticed it. What a marvellous tool (as the actress said to the bishop)."

what's this about a green button?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand that. But why after complimenting me and asking to friend, I got suspicious.so I unfriended. So I said no thanks. Then blocked him. However, he'd been a member for over a year according to his profile, so couldn't understand why he would delete his account. All my other blocks are there. "

So you chatted in message and he complimented you, you accepted his friend request, but then got suspicious of his profile so unfriended and blocked. Is that correct?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Why can't I see a long time member I blocked on my block list?

What does it matter......

Is that an existential question?

cos if so that could be fun providing answers..."

Crack on, anybody can answer it as they see fit

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I understand that. But why after complimenting me and asking to friend, I got suspicious.so I unfriended. So I said no thanks. Then blocked him. However, he'd been a member for over a year according to his profile, so couldn't understand why he would delete his account. All my other blocks are there.

So you chatted in message and he complimented you, you accepted his friend request, but then got suspicious of his profile so unfriended and blocked. Is that correct?

"

Yes because he was very very pushy. Also extremely attractive and couldn't quite understand why me as his 'looking for' didn't match my profile. I just got a bit paranoid why his not on my block list.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP hun, do you know what the green arrow does next to your name?

As people have said maybe they left the site

Someone had to educate me about the green arrow a few weeks ago - I don't think that I had ever noticed it. What a marvellous tool (as the actress said to the bishop). what's this about a green button?"

to the right of your name (or anyone else posting in the Forum), if you click on it then you can see all the threads that person has posted in. You could then click on a thread, use CTFL+F with their name in the search function and it will take you to their comments in that thread.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can't I see a long time member I blocked on my block list?

What does it matter......"

You know how the site works, some really really newbies don't, and haven't got the hang of it yet, so isn't it nice to pass some knowledge on

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why can't I see a long time member I blocked on my block list?

What does it matter......

You know how the site works, some really really newbies don't, and haven't got the hang of it yet, so isn't it nice to pass some knowledge on "

I'm not a newbie as such. Been on for years but took a break due to partners illness

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

Trying to understand the behaviour of others on here is a big big task so I would just ignore them and move on tbh. It's no holes barred on here, pardon my French.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Why can't I see a long time member I blocked on my block list?

What does it matter......

You know how the site works, some really really newbies don't, and haven't got the hang of it yet, so isn't it nice to pass some knowledge on "

My bad, I didnt even check his profile out, to see how long hed been here, so fair play for calling me out on that....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can't I see a long time member I blocked on my block list?

What does it matter......

You know how the site works, some really really newbies don't, and haven't got the hang of it yet, so isn't it nice to pass some knowledge on

My bad, I didnt even check his profile out, to see how long hed been here, so fair play for calling me out on that...."

I could not check his profile out cos i am obviously on his block list (unless he is on mine!)

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"I understand that. But why after complimenting me and asking to friend, I got suspicious.so I unfriended. So I said no thanks. Then blocked him. However, he'd been a member for over a year according to his profile, so couldn't understand why he would delete his account. All my other blocks are there.

So you chatted in message and he complimented you, you accepted his friend request, but then got suspicious of his profile so unfriended and blocked. Is that correct?

Yes because he was very very pushy. Also extremely attractive and couldn't quite understand why me as his 'looking for' didn't match my profile. I just got a bit paranoid why his not on my block list. "

The odds are he has more than likely left the site...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand that. But why after complimenting me and asking to friend, I got suspicious.so I unfriended. So I said no thanks. Then blocked him. However, he'd been a member for over a year according to his profile, so couldn't understand why he would delete his account. All my other blocks are there.

So you chatted in message and he complimented you, you accepted his friend request, but then got suspicious of his profile so unfriended and blocked. Is that correct?

Yes because he was very very pushy. Also extremely attractive and couldn't quite understand why me as his 'looking for' didn't match my profile. I just got a bit paranoid why his not on my block list. "

OK. So you cheekily looked at his pics first lol but got worried it may be a fake profile? You mentioned taking screenshot of your pic, if that happened there's not a lot you can do, but why do you think that maybe happened ?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand that. But why after complimenting me and asking to friend, I got suspicious.so I unfriended. So I said no thanks. Then blocked him. However, he'd been a member for over a year according to his profile, so couldn't understand why he would delete his account. All my other blocks are there.

So you chatted in message and he complimented you, you accepted his friend request, but then got suspicious of his profile so unfriended and blocked. Is that correct?

Yes because he was very very pushy. Also extremely attractive and couldn't quite understand why me as his 'looking for' didn't match my profile. I just got a bit paranoid why his not on my block list. "

Because he has also blocked you.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can't I see a long time member I blocked on my block list?

What does it matter......

You know how the site works, some really really newbies don't, and haven't got the hang of it yet, so isn't it nice to pass some knowledge on

My bad, I didnt even check his profile out, to see how long hed been here, so fair play for calling me out on that...."

I didn't mean it like calling you out

Mates?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Theres only 2 reasons to care about someone you blocked vanishing either to spy on them as you get to see there updates or because your being spyed on and want to re block them in which case you could be looking over your shoulder a long time

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand that. But why after complimenting me and asking to friend, I got suspicious.so I unfriended. So I said no thanks. Then blocked him. However, he'd been a member for over a year according to his profile, so couldn't understand why he would delete his account. All my other blocks are there.

So you chatted in message and he complimented you, you accepted his friend request, but then got suspicious of his profile so unfriended and blocked. Is that correct?

Yes because he was very very pushy. Also extremely attractive and couldn't quite understand why me as his 'looking for' didn't match my profile. I just got a bit paranoid why his not on my block list.

Because he has also blocked you."

Damn, I was going to see if that was the case by blocking OP, but see that he has now unblocked me - so cannot see if that is a possibility (I think it would be highly unlikely).

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the answers. The last one seems feasible if we have blocked each other.

I haven't blocked any people on this thread .

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the answers. The last one seems feasible if we have blocked each other.

I haven't blocked any people on this thread . "

That's coz we're coooool

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Why can't I see a long time member I blocked on my block list?

What does it matter......

You know how the site works, some really really newbies don't, and haven't got the hang of it yet, so isn't it nice to pass some knowledge on

My bad, I didnt even check his profile out, to see how long hed been here, so fair play for calling me out on that....

I didn't mean it like calling you out

Mates? "

Hey its all good, no harm, not enough of it goes on, on here I don't mind, if I'm being a twat I'd rather someone pull me up on it, as I don't always see that I am...tbf I'll be pulled up all the time

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I understand that. But why after complimenting me and asking to friend, I got suspicious.so I unfriended. So I said no thanks. Then blocked him. However, he'd been a member for over a year according to his profile, so couldn't understand why he would delete his account. All my other blocks are there.

So you chatted in message and he complimented you, you accepted his friend request, but then got suspicious of his profile so unfriended and blocked. Is that correct?

Yes because he was very very pushy. Also extremely attractive and couldn't quite understand why me as his 'looking for' didn't match my profile. I just got a bit paranoid why his not on my block list.

OK. So you cheekily looked at his pics first lol but got worried it may be a fake profile? You mentioned taking screenshot of your pic, if that happened there's not a lot you can do, but why do you think that maybe happened ?"

I didn't contact him in the first place and he sent me all his pictures before asking me to friend him.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Thanks for the answers. The last one seems feasible if we have blocked each other.

I haven't blocked any people on this thread . "

Ooh I have

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can't I see a long time member I blocked on my block list? "

Why would you want to see a person you blocked

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the answers. The last one seems feasible if we have blocked each other.

I haven't blocked any people on this thread .

Ooh I have "

Oh I hope not me. You didn't mate me

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I couldn't remember his profile when talking to a friend of mine who is similar to me and wondered if my friend knew him, so when I went back to look his profile name to ask my friend, he wasn't there

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can't I see a long time member I blocked on my block list? "

Either they have left or messaged fab direct .. they can do it from their end …

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Thanks for the answers. The last one seems feasible if we have blocked each other.

I haven't blocked any people on this thread .

Ooh I have

Oh I hope not me. You didn't mate me"

I haven't blocked anyone mate

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

He will have left ! People on my hot list have disappeared unless they just blocked me lol x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why can't I see a long time member I blocked on my block list?

Either they have left or messaged fab direct .. they can do it from their end … "

How does that work?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Why can't I see a long time member I blocked on my block list?

Either they have left or messaged fab direct .. they can do it from their end …

How does that work? "

Op I really woundnt worry about it, if anything u toward happens like he messages you again then block him again...till then don't iverthink this stuff

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why can't I see a long time member I blocked on my block list?

Either they have left or messaged fab direct .. they can do it from their end …

How does that work?

Op I really woundnt worry about it, if anything u toward happens like he messages you again then block him again...till then don't iverthink this stuff "

Thank you

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Why can't I see a long time member I blocked on my block list?

Either they have left or messaged fab direct .. they can do it from their end …

How does that work?

Op I really woundnt worry about it, if anything u toward happens like he messages you again then block him again...till then don't iverthink this stuff

Thank you "

Have fun be safe

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Why can't I see a long time member I blocked on my block list? "

WHY would you give af life way to short...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why can't I see a long time member I blocked on my block list?

WHY would you give af life way to short..."

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top