FabSwingers.com forum: What’s the ideal time to fuck for before cumming?

By *iddlesticks OP Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I find that when your partner is about to cum sends me over the edge so there’s no real time thing.

I question though, is better for a guy to fuck for ages without cumming, or would cumming in just a few minutes of fucking but being able to quickly rise to the occasion again be better.

And I know that someone will post that the ideal time to fuck is half past nine.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

If they don't cum, I feel like a disappointment and a failure.

If they cum within a couple of minutes and don't want to go again, then I feel like they're a disappointment and a failure.

Anything in between is good

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By *iddlesticks OP Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"If they don't cum, I feel like a disappointment and a failure.

If they cum within a couple of minutes and don't want to go again, then I feel like they're a disappointment and a failure.

Anything in between is good

I’m a middle of the road kind of guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the foreplay has been good then sometimes I don’t really mind if he can’t last long.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I never cum with penetration alone, so prefer him to get me off, then pound away balls deep till he blows

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No ideal time but don't go on too long for pity's sake, I've got shopping to do...

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Short enough that I feel like he is overexcited by me, long enough that I can't really think clearly any more

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By *ezebel100Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

An ex-partner of mine used to pound away for so long I used to get bored.

I'd much rather 2 or 3 goes in one session than that.

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By *ustful HedonistMan
over a year ago

Worsley, Manchester

I prefer to make her orgasm first, then fuck her what ever way that suits me (and her of course). I find that "fuck me now" post orgasm a total turn on!

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By *hisismeXXXMan
over a year ago

Welsh Wales

I’ve always found prescriptive sex that has to last a certain time isn’t fun.

Go with the flow. Sometimes it’s not long, sometimes it’s longer. Sometimes you play around and do other things with each other, some times you don’t.

Some times you go again (and again etc), sometimes once is enough.

If it’s good, you’ve got a connection and both parties are satisfied at that point of time does anything else matter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we're not in bed by 11am or 11pm, I'm going home..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often struggle to cum - getting better now - so I usually stop after a while for a breather or for good.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

If I'm bottoming I'm Hella greedy, give me a good hour or so.

If I'm top I start to lose interest after 15 - 20 minutes. I can last indefinitely if I want to but it's not enjoyable. If it goes on too long I won't be able to cum. I need lots of visual stimulation, hence the latex and fetish wear.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

Preferably he goes for at least as long as it took me to get ready.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I like to get on with it.

Like ripping off a plaster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Preferably he goes for at least as long as it took me to get ready.

6 minutes then?

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

"Preferably he goes for at least as long as it took me to get ready.

6 minutes then? "

Oh I should be that lucky!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Fucking for ages can be a bit boring - I like when it's interspersed with laughter and kisses and relaxing. I don't mind if a man comes quickly - I find it really hot most of the time.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

"Preferably he goes for at least as long as it took me to get ready.

6 minutes then? "

I imagine in your case you barely have time to drop your nail file.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve always found prescriptive sex that has to last a certain time isn’t fun.

Go with the flow. Sometimes it’s not long, sometimes it’s longer. Sometimes you play around and do other things with each other, some times you don’t.

Some times you go again (and again etc), sometimes once is enough.

If it’s good, you’ve got a connection and both parties are satisfied at that point of time does anything else matter?

This 100%

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Exactly 34 seconds

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Cum again

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

"Exactly 34 seconds

Not 33.

Not 35.

36 is right out!

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

"Fucking for ages can be a bit boring - I like when it's interspersed with laughter and kisses and relaxing. I don't mind if a man comes quickly - I find it really hot most of the time."

I am sure you would be able to get him going again in no time at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 pumps is all that’s necessary.

Any more is just a chore.

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

Well I'm so lucky as he always waits until I'm satisfied before taking me again for his pleasure.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

If a man lasted 20 minutes, from start to finish then that was it, I'd discontinue the relationship.

I don't mind if he cums quickly then rests and carries on.

Can't see the point of sex if it's just about him having a quick orgasm.

He can have a wank

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"I’ve always found prescriptive sex that has to last a certain time isn’t fun.

Go with the flow. Sometimes it’s not long, sometimes it’s longer. Sometimes you play around and do other things with each other, some times you don’t.

Some times you go again (and again etc), sometimes once is enough.

If it’s good, you’ve got a connection and both parties are satisfied at that point of time does anything else matter?

This is a very serious answer. I like how you avoid answering the question by repeatedly saying ‘sometimes’, very clever you must have banged lots of bitches in your day to achieve this wisdom.

You should make it into a manual on how to do sex , place a link in your profile, every time a adult make posts on the forum just reply RTFM

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I wouldn't want a man focusing on making me cum, so he could.

The pleasure in being with someone isn't about the orgasms. Not for me, anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs A, likes it when a guy ejaculates early on, and rises again, usually lasting much longer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve not tried for years, but I’m guessing 1 minute

*copy and pasted from ‘holding your breath’ thread

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By *ackdaw52Man
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Surely this kind of thing depends entirely on the individuals and the mood?

One size does not fit all, so to speak.

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By *ister_ee_1981Man
over a year ago

Sunniest Exeter...

119.5 seconds, because then your pint of Guinness will be ready...

Happy Friday

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

"If the foreplay has been good then sometimes I don’t really mind if he can’t last long.

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The foreplay needs to be good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Exactly 34 seconds

As long as that, you must know some men with great stamina (of course I recognise that your female partners can easily last that long)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the foreplay has been good then sometimes I don’t really mind if he can’t last long.

The foreplay needs to be good.

Greedy, honestly, can't believe you engage with four of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A man that cums relatively quickly and then fucks again straight after until he cums again..... Yes please!

That would be so dam hot.

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By *ixed MisterMan
over a year ago

London

"A man that cums relatively quickly and then fucks again straight after until he cums again..... Yes please!

That would be so dam hot. "

I know a guy a bit like this, I'll send him you way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A man that cums relatively quickly and then fucks again straight after until he cums again..... Yes please!

That would be so dam hot. "

Does that mean a guy that fucks until the woman cums is no good

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By *_elia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

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By *_elia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

With the ladies I am a pleasure domme. I like to ensure they get lots of attention and orgasms until they scream for mercy or cock...

With men. Meh, they don't get to cum. If they do, I'll ruin it and teach them a lesson so they'll never do it again...

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Exactly 34 seconds

Not 33.

Not 35.

36 is right out!

Absofuckinglutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone that can fuck for ages without cumming personally.

I need several hours worth, not stop n start all night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A man that cums relatively quickly and then fucks again straight after until he cums again..... Yes please!

That would be so dam hot.

Does that mean a guy that fucks until the woman cums is no good

Good god no.

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By *ixed MisterMan
over a year ago

London

"Someone that can fuck for ages without cumming personally.

I need several hours worth, not stop n start all night.

Cumming isn't an on/off switch

, you just keep going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone that can fuck for ages without cumming personally.

I need several hours worth, not stop n start all night.

Cumming isn't an on/off switch

, you just keep going

You'll do as you're told!

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By *ixed MisterMan
over a year ago

London

"Someone that can fuck for ages without cumming personally.

I need several hours worth, not stop n start all night.

Cumming isn't an on/off switch

, you just keep going

You'll do as you're told!

Well, that's why I didn't stop. You said several hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone that can fuck for ages without cumming personally.

I need several hours worth, not stop n start all night.

Cumming isn't an on/off switch

, you just keep going

You'll do as you're told!

Well, that's why I didn't stop. You said several hours

Which dream was this one?

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By *ixed MisterMan
over a year ago

London

"Someone that can fuck for ages without cumming personally.

I need several hours worth, not stop n start all night.

Cumming isn't an on/off switch

, you just keep going

You'll do as you're told!

Well, that's why I didn't stop. You said several hours

Which dream was this one?

Damn those vivid dreams!! Come here and I'll whipser it to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone that can fuck for ages without cumming personally.

I need several hours worth, not stop n start all night.

Cumming isn't an on/off switch

, you just keep going

You'll do as you're told!

Well, that's why I didn't stop. You said several hours

Which dream was this one?

Damn those vivid dreams!! Come here and I'll whipser it to you

You hosting a BBQ?

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

"If they don't cum, I feel like a disappointment and a failure.

If they cum within a couple of minutes and don't want to go again, then I feel like they're a disappointment and a failure.

Anything in between is good

This! (Saves me typing!)

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By *ixed MisterMan
over a year ago

London

"Someone that can fuck for ages without cumming personally.

I need several hours worth, not stop n start all night.

Cumming isn't an on/off switch

, you just keep going

You'll do as you're told!

Well, that's why I didn't stop. You said several hours

Which dream was this one?

Damn those vivid dreams!! Come here and I'll whipser it to you

You hosting a BBQ? "

Yep, a very intimate one

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Sometimes a quick cum can be quite flattering, sometimes taking your time can be good, there's no ideal as long as both parties enjoy themselves.

The Mr cumming always sends over the edge if I haven't already

Mrs

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By *lamdaddyMan
over a year ago

London

Ideal session - they come a few times obviously

I come twice and it is like, hot half an hour, bit of a break, then another half an hour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *hisismeXXXMan
over a year ago

Welsh Wales

"I’ve always found prescriptive sex that has to last a certain time isn’t fun.

Go with the flow. Sometimes it’s not long, sometimes it’s longer. Sometimes you play around and do other things with each other, some times you don’t.

Some times you go again (and again etc), sometimes once is enough.

If it’s good, you’ve got a connection and both parties are satisfied at that point of time does anything else matter?

This is a very serious answer. I like how you avoid answering the question by repeatedly saying ‘sometimes’, very clever you must have banged lots of bitches in your day to achieve this wisdom.

You should make it into a manual on how to do sex , place a link in your profile, every time a adult make posts on the forum just reply RTFM

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By *AVEWHOLOVESITMan
over a year ago

Bristol

"If the foreplay has been good then sometimes I don’t really mind if he can’t last long.

Love that!!

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By *inballs99Man
over a year ago

Blackheath

For me there is a real fine line when the woman says "don't stop" for me I'm usually knackered at that point but I so want to continue just for her !

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"2 pumps is all that’s necessary.

Any more is just a chore. "

3 or 7, those are the lucky numbers

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By *wistedsoul35Man
over a year ago

cumbria

I usually average about 36 seconds, if they haven't cum in that time that's their problem

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

"I usually average about 36 seconds, if they haven't cum in that time that's their problem

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Your one to definitely miss then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 or 20 minutes is plenty with a position change in the middle. I'll normally have cum within the first couple of minutes and every orgasm after that is a bonus.

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