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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

telling a lady she looks younger than the age on her profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flattering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some see it as arse licking or sucking up but others love a bit of rimming.

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By *ll-Knight-longMan
over a year ago

Derby/Notts(Long Eaton)


"telling a lady she looks younger than the age on her profile"

If its true then let them know it is good to make people feel good about themselves......but don't do it just to arse-lick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I ever message a mature woman with a compliment that she looks great, thats what I'll say - theres no need to mention that she looks 'young for her age', thats just the middle man.

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By *ll-Knight-longMan
over a year ago

Derby/Notts(Long Eaton)


"If I ever message a mature woman with a compliment that she looks great, thats what I'll say - theres no need to mention that she looks 'young for her age', thats just the middle man."

Yes why mention age it's like a kick in the teeth after giving a compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's usually a big mistake! Sounds like you're just saying it to impress.

What's wrong with saying that you like us as we are - no need to add "for your age" unless you want to get blocked!

I used to just put up with it - but I've got totally fed up with it now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure how others feel but I find it offensive to be referred to as a mature woman.

It's probably just me but I think there must be a more appropriate word than mature.

Telling a woman she looks younger than her age, at any age, is very complimentary (but only if she does)!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok so whats the best thing to say in your first message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok so whats the best thing to say in your first message "

To quote a Red Hot Chilli Peppers song

'If you have to ask, you'll never know'

No woman wants to feel like the guy complimenting her is reading from a book of pick up lines or following a flowchart. If you like a womans pics, ask yourself why, and try to put those feelings into words - non offensive ones of course, when you recieve a compliment its nice to know that its specifically for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on who the message is to... Nobody wants to feel like another name in the fkn hat!

I like the humerous messages, a bit of banter... And a face pic!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i am never sure where to go with banter do not want to seem rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try this

Hi , just a quick message to say how I love your profile. I am a genuine single guy , able to accommodate and happy to meet at short notice . A social meet first is great , but I don't rule out a play if we click .

I don't want to bore you , so hey - if you think I may be what you are looking for , let me know

That would work for us anyway !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i am never sure where to go with banter do not want to seem rude"

Depends on the type of women you like to spend time with...that and your own personality and humour, if she is so easily offended then i'm betting she wouldn't be a swinger, just a single woman looking to get treated like a princess or something, some folks are offended by everything and everyone, be yourself, have fun..relax!

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By *ll-Knight-longMan
over a year ago

Derby/Notts(Long Eaton)


"Try this

Hi , just a quick message to say how I love your profile. I am a genuine single guy , able to accommodate and happy to meet at short notice . A social meet first is great , but I don't rule out a play if we click .

I don't want to bore you , so hey - if you think I may be what you are looking for , let me know

That would work for us anyway !

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