FabSwingers.com forum: Weakness

By *anderingArtist OP Man
over a year ago

an abstract world

What's your weakness when it comes the ol' coital sexy time?

Are you buckling at the knees for a peachy bum/a nice body?

Does intelligence trigger an influx of hormones?

Is it an accent which sends your aural senses into overdrive?

Or even a beautiful face which sends you into a frenzy?

Hearing a nice accent kicks things off for me. Then the intelligence to hold your own in a conversation, or flirty back and forth, produces the icing on the cake

(no pun intended, I'm an angel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Connection - can get intense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who makes me laugh

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Humour, make me laugh and it's half the job done.

Mrs

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By *anderingArtist OP Man
over a year ago

an abstract world

"Connection - can get intense

Intensity is a big plus for sure. The correct build up/foreplay can be exhilirating in itself

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"I'll let you know when to breathe."

I don't think there's anything specific generally. If I'm into someone I'm into it. If I'm not, I'm not.

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By *anderingArtist OP Man
over a year ago

an abstract world

"Someone who makes me laugh

Ah of course! Can't believe I left humour out of my little list. An important quality indeed

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By *anderingArtist OP Man
over a year ago

an abstract world

""I'll let you know when to breathe."

I don't think there's anything specific generally. If I'm into someone I'm into it. If I'm not, I'm not."

Personality maybe? Or is it the unique package and an amalgamation of all the traits?

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Certain words absolutely make me catch my breath. And they don’t have to be said in person. Sometimes just on text with the right person is enough to do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Voices can tip me over the edge, a deep masculine man who tells me what I am doing to him, how good I look/feel... omg yes please!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

""I'll let you know when to breathe."

I don't think there's anything specific generally. If I'm into someone I'm into it. If I'm not, I'm not.

Personality maybe? Or is it the unique package and an amalgamation of all the traits?"

Just chemistry I think.

I like a pretty mouth. I like dark humour. I like a sadistic streak. I like a lot of things. But there are people with all of the things I like that just fall flat for me and others with next to none who cause huge hormone spikes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deep kiss from a sexy lady ignites the fire

All about the chemistry, if the formulas not right then there's not much that's going to happen.

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By *anderingArtist OP Man
over a year ago

an abstract world

"Certain words absolutely make me catch my breath. And they don’t have to be said in person. Sometimes just on text with the right person is enough to do it

Are we talking sexy words or am I randomly going to say 'incongruent' at some point and accidentally send you wild?

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By *anderingArtist OP Man
over a year ago

an abstract world

"Voices can tip me over the edge, a deep masculine man who tells me what I am doing to him, how good I look/feel... omg yes please! "

I hear that! (No pun intended). There's definitely a place for talking in the bedroom. Doesn't necessarily need to be mad smutty, as long as the intent is there and it matches the moment

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Certain words absolutely make me catch my breath. And they don’t have to be said in person. Sometimes just on text with the right person is enough to do it

Are we talking sexy words or am I randomly going to say 'incongruent' at some point and accidentally send you wild?

Not necessarily sexy words no. And you’re safe with incongruent don’t worry

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By *anderingArtist OP Man
over a year ago

an abstract world

""I'll let you know when to breathe."

I don't think there's anything specific generally. If I'm into someone I'm into it. If I'm not, I'm not.

Personality maybe? Or is it the unique package and an amalgamation of all the traits?

Just chemistry I think.

That's fair. For me, in the past, certain people have been perfect on paper but real life didn't meet the expectations maybe.

None of it is an absolute science to be fair so if someone works for you then I'm all for rolling with it

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By *anderingArtist OP Man
over a year ago

an abstract world

"Deep kiss from a sexy lady ignites the fire

All about the chemistry, if the formulas not right then there's not much that's going to happen.

Amen to that. Both parts

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

The biggest single turn-on for me is someone who would not normally self-describe as submissive finding themselves instinctively moving into that dynamic with me, verbally, physically, or sometimes just with her eyes.

That is a proper all-systems-alert, DEFCON 4, sharp-intake-of-breath, here-we-fucking-go moment.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

It comes down to connection. A feeling or pull to want to be closer and naked. This usually comes from getting to know the person, make me laugh and that's half the battle. Very (very) rarely but oh so amazing is when very little is said but a kiss that sparks a hunger deep within begging for more

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

It really depends on the person I'm with, everyone will have that little thing that does it.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

A lady ruining my arsehole with a strap on, like Versuvious ruined Pompei

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"A lady ruining my arsehole with a strap on, like Versuvious ruined Pompei "

You’re on

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"A lady ruining my arsehole with a strap on, like Versuvious ruined Pompei

You’re on

Are you lady though LB can you tap I to your inner Domme.....but be warned I'm a brat and i'll fight you every step of telhe way

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"A lady ruining my arsehole with a strap on, like Versuvious ruined Pompei

You’re on

Are you lady though LB can you tap I to your inner Domme.....but be warned I'm a brat and i'll fight you every step of telhe way "

You won’t win… my inner Domme is strong at the moment

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"Certain words absolutely make me catch my breath. And they don’t have to be said in person. Sometimes just on text with the right person is enough to do it

Are we talking sexy words or am I randomly going to say 'incongruent' at some point and accidentally send you wild?

Not necessarily sexy words no. And you’re safe with incongruent don’t worry

"Bassoon"

Random word in a deep voice

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I love being able to laugh and relax around someone, it means I can switch off from the outside world and enjoy them in that moment.

Oh and kissing, such a big thing for me; those gentle kisses that quickly give way to the more urgent, hands wandering sort of kissing. I love seeing someone's eyes darken with lust for me. The way a voice softens or becomes huskier with need, the words that gently fall from their mouth in the moment. Or are said in that primal "fuck I need you Meli" kind of way. I adore someone who isn't afraid to kiss me that little bit harder, hold my hips firmer, relish my body in a way that leaves me almost breathless.

I think that all of those components (bar the opening paragraph) kind of lead to the same thing... feeling desired.

If I feel like someone truly desires me in the moment, as much as I want them, I'm quickly intoxicated by their presence and find every sense is heightened in the very best of ways. It's that desire feedback loop and one that's utterly delicious to lean in to.

So, that's my weakness. Unashamed, unfiltered, primal desire in the person I'm with.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

It can be a myriad of things that spark it. Big beautiful eyes, a sexy voice, the spark of intelligence and passion…

Sometimes though, very rarely, it’s an electric current of ineffable power, a physical drawstring that pulls you to a person. That’s the stuff that builds and makes a mockery of any definition or reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's the package, from a look to how they hold themselves and intelligence/imagination is also a turn on.

Being a man we are visual creatures it's in our DNA. So do love a woman in high heels and especially boots teamed with stockings

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

My weakness is his kiss x

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Chemistry and intimacy in the simplest terms.

Plus the will to feel the moment and close the gap.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Free chocolate, saying yes and a what we do in the shadows T shirt.

That'll do me

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Certain words absolutely make me catch my breath. And they don’t have to be said in person. Sometimes just on text with the right person is enough to do it

Are we talking sexy words or am I randomly going to say 'incongruent' at some point and accidentally send you wild?

Not necessarily sexy words no. And you’re safe with incongruent don’t worry

"Bassoon"

Random word in a deep voice "

There was a stirring then…

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By *anderingArtist OP Man
over a year ago

an abstract world

"A lady ruining my arsehole with a strap on, like Versuvious ruined Pompei "

Ahh an old romantic I see!

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Certain words absolutely make me catch my breath. And they don’t have to be said in person. Sometimes just on text with the right person is enough to do it

Absofuckinlutely

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Certain words absolutely make me catch my breath. And they don’t have to be said in person. Sometimes just on text with the right person is enough to do it

Absofuckinlutely

^^ he knows

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By *anderingArtist OP Man
over a year ago

an abstract world

I'm not going to reply to everyone (for fear of killing the thread with my inane drivel) but some great comments which give a lot of points of view.

I started by saying my 2 weaknesses but the more I read the more a bit of everyone's trigger a different level of stirring in my brain.

In a basic, carnal, summation, the end result is the same. As long as you enjoy your journey then who are others to say what's right or wrong

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By *anderingArtist OP Man
over a year ago

an abstract world

"I love being able to laugh and relax around someone, it means I can switch off from the outside world and enjoy them in that moment.

I think that all of those components (bar the opening paragraph) kind of lead to the same thing... feeling desired.

So, that's my weakness. Unashamed, unfiltered, primal desire in the person I'm with. "

Love this response. Incredibly well written, Madame

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

It’s all oral fixated with me. (Don’t be filthy)…

I like a pretty mouth. The words that someone chooses to use & the intent behind them. An accent, a timbre & tone. Pacing & speed. And do they shut up & listen (really listen) to your response, or even look or feel your response. Filthy words whispered at just the right moment (which on occasion is well it the incorrect moment, but that’s another story).

And the kisses, the little barely there kisses that start the butterflies and leave you wanting more. Or the slower, deeper more needy & greedy ones. The little nips & nibbles & bites.

And now you can get filthy

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"A lady ruining my arsehole with a strap on, like Versuvious ruined Pompei

You’re on

Are you lady though LB can you tap I to your inner Domme.....but be warned I'm a brat and i'll fight you every step of telhe way

You won’t win… my inner Domme is strong at the moment

You forget we've just spoken on thr phone, inner delusion is strong in you LB

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By *anderingArtist OP Man
over a year ago

an abstract world

"It’s all oral fixated with me. (Don’t be filthy)…

And the kisses, the little barely there kisses that start the butterflies and leave you wanting more. Or the slower, deeper more needy & greedy ones. The little nips & nibbles & bites.

And now you can get filthy

I'll join you on the words. I always try to be very considered in what I say. Tone and intonation can be delectable tools if used correctly.

As for the 2nd bit, my mind thanks you for permission

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Intelligence and good kissing xx

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By *ausage1970Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Sexy feet and eyes that speak to you without the need for words

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

A dominant kinky women with Intelligence, wit and kindness would turn me to mush.

Similar with men.

Latex. Everyone looks better in latex.

An edgy sharp fashion sense is also very attractive. Some Anglomania or McQueen.

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By *ostindreamsMan
over a year ago

London

Assertive women

Sexy legs and feet

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Intelligence and a gorgeous face

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"A lady ruining my arsehole with a strap on, like Versuvious ruined Pompei

You’re on

Are you lady though LB can you tap I to your inner Domme.....but be warned I'm a brat and i'll fight you every step of telhe way

You won’t win… my inner Domme is strong at the moment

You forget we've just spoken on thr phone, inner delusion is strong in you LB "

You are so in trouble brat

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By *ambertMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Anyone who comes back in the room wearing skater/emo/goth clothing

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Someone who's willing to play a game of Hungary hungry hippos at the half time interval.

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By *lamdaddyMan
over a year ago

London

Telling me they want to be my good girl

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