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By *ifty_million_sperm_later OP   Man
over a year ago

oldham

Came back after a few years away any advice on getting more noticed ??

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Show a pic of your 13" penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly? Change your entire profile text

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Are you contacting people with similar likes to you or waiting for them to contact you?

If you feel you've fairly represented yourself in your profile text and pictures there's not much more you can do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly? Change your entire profile text "

Why?

That's so quintessentially him.

Which is probably important for all of you.

My dude, consider what it might be like to be a woman here, reflect then adapt.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Honestly? Change your entire profile text

Why?

That's so quintessentially him.

Which is probably important for all of you.

My dude, consider what it might be like to be a woman here, reflect then adapt. "

In my opinion that's excellent advice

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

You have a few repetitive photos, same ones a few times.

Contact people who have your interests stated.

Other than that maybe attend local socials or clubs.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly? Change your entire profile text

Why?

That's so quintessentially him.

Which is probably important for all of you.

My dude, consider what it might be like to be a woman here, reflect then adapt. "

Why? Because I guarantee it’ll be what’s putting everyone off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Came back after a few years away any advice on getting more noticed ??

"

Be a woman

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

I think Clinton Baptiste needs to be having a look at this one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly? Change your entire profile text

Why?

That's so quintessentially him.

Which is probably important for all of you.

My dude, consider what it might be like to be a woman here, reflect then adapt.

Why? Because I guarantee it’ll be what’s putting everyone off "

Yes. It is.

But authencity is important for him, for you...

Drop your ages filters by a few years already too. My subtlety filter will explode otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s absolutely perfect as it is.

Fucking nailed it.

Leave it be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what you mean, it's the best profile I've ever read

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By *ifty_million_sperm_later OP   Man
over a year ago

oldham


"Show a pic of your 13" penis "
have you got one i cam borrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the username it makes me laugh every time I see it as hear that '10 years later' line... That seems so apt!

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By *ifty_million_sperm_later OP   Man
over a year ago

oldham


"Honestly? Change your entire profile text "
so be someone else or pretend to be someone else is what your saying my bio says who i am what i am an what im looking for if people arnt interested in that they arnt interested in me why would i change it to suit people who dont like me for who i am i aint going to be fake to get some action

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By *ifty_million_sperm_later OP   Man
over a year ago

oldham


"I like the username it makes me laugh every time I see it as hear that '10 years later' line... That seems so apt!

"
thanks

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By *ifty_million_sperm_later OP   Man
over a year ago

oldham


" what you mean, it's the best profile I've ever read "
not sure if thats sarcasn but thanks lol

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By *ifty_million_sperm_later OP   Man
over a year ago

oldham


"Came back after a few years away any advice on getting more noticed ??

Be a woman "
wish i was sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have a long list of things you are into and they will limit your audience, so will being a smoker.

Maybe remove the old photos and take some better current ones.

You are who you are so don’t try and change that, just try and think how others may see your profile.

Having your WhatsApp number to me is not a good thing.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Op, like I say to every man that comes on the forums and asks this same question...get along to clubs and organised socials, don't rely on fab alone, you'll get noticed if your not acting like a dick, but then you'll be noticed if you are acting like a dick, but for all the wrong reasons best of luck...

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"Honestly? Change your entire profile text so be someone else or pretend to be someone else is what your saying my bio says who i am what i am an what im looking for if people arnt interested in that they arnt interested in me why would i change it to suit people who dont like me for who i am i aint going to be fake to get some action "

I agree with you be you but read it out loud as a couple of bits are a little garbled such as the bit about the girl must travel or meet. Your pond will be very small but anyone you do attract will be very well matched.

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By *ifty_million_sperm_later OP   Man
over a year ago

oldham


"You have a long list of things you are into and they will limit your audience, so will being a smoker.

Maybe remove the old photos and take some better current ones.

You are who you are so don’t try and change that, just try and think how others may see your profile.

Having your WhatsApp number to me is not a good thing."
the whatsapps purely for people who accuse me of being fake so they can call me an see otherwise as u can see by my profile im a open book an dont hide much if anything from anyone seems like thats a mistake an i should be more closed off an less myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have a long list of things you are into and they will limit your audience, so will being a smoker.

Maybe remove the old photos and take some better current ones.

You are who you are so don’t try and change that, just try and think how others may see your profile.

Having your WhatsApp number to me is not a good thing.the whatsapps purely for people who accuse me of being fake so they can call me an see otherwise as u can see by my profile im a open book an dont hide much if anything from anyone seems like thats a mistake an i should be more closed off an less myself "

Most people that would call you fake are likely to be just that themselves. This site is a true test of character for most guys, and believe me not easy for the rest of us.

No need to hide who you are, it’s just about presenting yourself in a way that might attract the people you are looking for.

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