FabSwingers.com forum: Which is worse?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Someone ghosting you?

Someone wasting your time?

Or finding out someone is fake?

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By *limfitladMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"A) Someone ghosting you?

B) Someone wasting your time?

C) Or finding out someone is fake?"

A + C = B

Fab is a time sink for all.. though in diffent ways for each sex/orientation!

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Kiss. No, fuck. Oh wait can I change my mind again? Pint.

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By *limfitladMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Kiss. No, fuck. Oh wait can I change my mind again? Pint."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish people wouldn't take themselves too seriously

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

They all bad really...

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By *untimes wantedMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Depending what you mean by ghosting if its just that a person you chatted to vanishs then no.

If its someone you know and have met regular just disappear without any apparent reason then yes its worse.

someone wasting time or finding out they are fake is for me just part of Fab or sites like this,I don't build up hopes with new contacts i have never met in person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely timer wasters. Fakes are quite easy to spot. Ghousters are either time wasters or married men (usually timewasters)

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Can I get back to you if any of those things ever happen?

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"Someone ghosting you?

Someone wasting your time?

Or finding out someone is fake?"

What these things happen and are a thing on fab, oooh my days I'm all giddy with shock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They’re all equally really shit. If it’s someone you genuinely like then I’d say being ghosted. Falling off the face of the earth without any explanation can really hurt.

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By *oofy321Man
over a year ago

moon base zero

All 3 are the same so not really a choice question

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Someone wasting your time

The other two don’t bother me at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fake, as I’d think my abilities to spot one are faltering

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Ghosting.

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By *iss_FickleWoman
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

If it's a fake, then they are wasting your time & will probably ghost rather than reveal their true self...

They're all pointless really

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By *amannaCouple
over a year ago

tring

Totally agree

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Someone ghosting you?

Someone wasting your time?

Or finding out someone is fake?"

The fakers are fairly easily ‘outed’.

The ghosting can hurt, especially if the person posts a veri from someone else for the date you were discussing, so you realise you were a ‘Plan b’….

But overall, someone wasting your time is completely unnecessary

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"Someone ghosting you?

Someone wasting your time?

Or finding out someone is fake?"

Ghosting happens, not such a big deal.

It's up to you how much time you invest/waste.

Not 100% but there are ways to avoid the fakes.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

D. Dangleberries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ghosting especially when it's someone you thought as a friend, it's just cruel.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Out of the three I'd rather be ghosted, than find out the other two, which definitely hurt much more, and essentially make me query on how the fuck didn't I see through them

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Someone ghosting you?

Someone wasting your time?

Or finding out someone is fake?"
parking tickets are far worse

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

The fake, I find people get labelled time wasters because they have a change of mind, that's not time wasting, ghosting is harsh but the amount of abuse people get from a "sorry not for me" response is crazy so I see the need for it at times.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely ghosting

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

Aren't they all just variations of B?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'd say theyre all v similar & all as bad really.

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By *ezebel100Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Ghosting

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

It's sad when people invest time, share stuff and then get ghosted gor no apparent reason and messages left unread (seemighly). In all cases though the only and best thing to do is pity them and move on. Amongst the good decent people on here you get the weird ones too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we all have a personal responsibility to do our own due diligence - i would advise being cautious about investing too quickly or deeply with someone you've not known for long.

If you are ghosted by a lover /friend that is very hard, trying to seek closure where there is none

Time wasters are more difficult to pin point - at what stage does chatting become time wasting - were there signs they were just killing time /wank fodder. I'd rather know sooner than later if the other person doesn't think it is going anywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m gonna say A

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

I would say wasting my time. Specifically when she is the one who reached out to me.

I have no issues with Fakes.

Ghosting is fine; a rapid method to euthanise an otherwise dull and laborious chat.

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