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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

been on here for over a year now with only 1 meet , were verified genuine by people we have met at clubs but we dont want to keep going to clubs to meet people where are all the bi fems and bi fem couples on here ??? what are we doing wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A negative opening paragraph doesn't really create a good initial impression does it?

You don't need to be a gold supporter to see who has winked you. We'd stop reading at that point

Why would a single bifem want to meet a couple where she only plays with the female? She could meet a single female for that. Or meet a couple where she plays with both.

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury

looking at your profile it doesnt read well. Its all about what you want from a female single bi fems are rare on here who are happy to just play with the female. I was on here as a single fem and if i was meeting a couple i would have prefered ful interaction from all not just some light touching. Maybe tone it down a little and be more positive instead of saying how hard it is on here you have to put the leg work in to get a meet with a single fem on here if your a couple. Good luck x x

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I think you should learn your way round the site . Having been here a year i am surprised you thought winks were for gold only .. Even free members get winks and friend requests . Try chat in rooms with a camera too. click on all the headings see where they lead you. good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's in it for the single bi fem? What have you got to offer them?

Your first part of your profile is a tad moany and meaningless.

If its just the female part of the couple that wants to play why not set up a single fem account?

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Firstly, your profile starts off pretty negative... If I had found it browsing I'd have hit the back button at the first paragraph.

You say you're looking for fems or couples, but according to your profile you're only looking for fems and ff cpls.

You're looking for a fem for ff fun and either no male involvement or limited male involvement. Both of these could well put people off. Some fems looking for only ff fun will not be comfortable having the male of a couple there and will stick to meeting other single fems.

Some fems looking to meet couples will be looking for full on involvement from all parties.

Accept that what you're looking for could be a very small pool.

I'm sure there will be people out there looking for the same as you but you need to get out there and find them.

How often are you going to clubs... Are you having private meets with anyone you've met at clubs... How many socials have you gone to...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tried reading your profile and to be honest I got bored. Like the poster above said, the first paragraph might be off-putting. Break the text up a bit with spaces and punctuation. Capital letters too. If a single girl's profile looked like that, I wouldn't even check the pictures out. I'd just move on.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

as others have already stated .. i can see why people give up reading your profile part way through it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no pics of male half

the legs pic..well its one pic..slightly boring

and sorry...one of my annoying things is I think this is a wifeswap profile(hey theres loads)- but wifeswap only in the way that the guy(s) perv on the fems like performing seals.

of course if the fems were playing alone with no male presence thats different

hope I havent offended..but have stated this in other recent threads

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thank you very much for all your comments we have took all comments on board and will be changing our profile soon , again thank you

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