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By *acktar74 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

The end of last week the doc hit me with some hard news that sent me in to a bit of a spiral over the weekend.

I am not looking for sympathy but rather the opposite. Its good to talk.

So many men don't talk about how the are feeling. Its not shameful to admit you are afraid lost or scared.

I'm coping right now. I'd like to think you are too.

If you aren't I'm happy to chat share the weight or burden.

I may not fix it but I will listen.

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"The end of last week the doc hit me with some hard news that sent me in to a bit of a spiral over the weekend.

I am not looking for sympathy but rather the opposite. Its good to talk.

I'm not bad happy to chat with you

So many men don't talk about how the are feeling. Its not shameful to admit you are afraid lost or scared.

I'm coping right now. I'd like to think you are too.

If you aren't I'm happy to chat share the weight or burden.

I may not fix it but I will listen."

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

If I actually started on all the things I need to fix in my life right now, it would leave people wondering how I am even functioning..

But I am... albeit under a lot of stress just now. Still...I guess its how you look at things. I am always a glass half full kinda girl.. so onwards and upwards.. and I do hope the 2nd half of 2023 is better than the first.

Ps. You know my inbox is always open for you to talk to me.

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By *acktar74 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

You are a good friend always have been for a long time.

Mine is open to you as you well know.

We should never need to struggle alone

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I'm totally fed up with the timewasters in my life.

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By *acktar74 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds


"I'm totally fed up with the timewasters in my life. "

You can make that change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm totally fed up with the timewasters in my life. "

What is a time waster?? Your version?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The end of last week the doc hit me with some hard news that sent me in to a bit of a spiral over the weekend.

I am not looking for sympathy but rather the opposite. Its good to talk.

So many men don't talk about how the are feeling. Its not shameful to admit you are afraid lost or scared.

I'm coping right now. I'd like to think you are too.

If you aren't I'm happy to chat share the weight or burden.

I may not fix it but I will listen."

Do you really think people,esp typers on the internet care??

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"The end of last week the doc hit me with some hard news that sent me in to a bit of a spiral over the weekend.

I am not looking for sympathy but rather the opposite. Its good to talk.

So many men don't talk about how the are feeling. Its not shameful to admit you are afraid lost or scared.

I'm coping right now. I'd like to think you are too.

If you aren't I'm happy to chat share the weight or burden.

I may not fix it but I will listen.

Do you really think people,esp typers on the internet care?? "

Yes, there are often threads such as this or other threads and the community reaches out and can really make a difference. If only one person listens or it just helps one person, then that is enough don't you think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm totally fed up with the timewasters in my life.

You can make that change."
.

People dont want to change,why should they!!

They want the want the world to change for them. Like it owes us something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The end of last week the doc hit me with some hard news that sent me in to a bit of a spiral over the weekend.

I am not looking for sympathy but rather the opposite. Its good to talk.

So many men don't talk about how the are feeling. Its not shameful to admit you are afraid lost or scared.

I'm coping right now. I'd like to think you are too.

If you aren't I'm happy to chat share the weight or burden.

I may not fix it but I will listen.

Do you really think people,esp typers on the internet care??

Yes, there are often threads such as this or other threads and the community reaches out and can really make a difference. If only one person listens or it just helps one person, then that is enough don't you think."

Yes i agree,there are kind people,empaths on here,and out there!

Many are here typing away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The end of last week the doc hit me with some hard news that sent me in to a bit of a spiral over the weekend.

I am not looking for sympathy but rather the opposite. Its good to talk.

So many men don't talk about how the are feeling. Its not shameful to admit you are afraid lost or scared.

I'm coping right now. I'd like to think you are too.

If you aren't I'm happy to chat share the weight or burden.

I may not fix it but I will listen.

Do you really think people,esp typers on the internet care?? "

Lots of people care.

Op, hope you’re doing okay

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By *acktar74 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

Its just a thought from me thats all. Agree there are many keyboard doctors psychiatrists and opinionated people in the forums.

Someone once helped me out from a similar post so I am just paying forward if it helps 1 person then its worth it.

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By *acktar74 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

Hey fluffy pigeon I'm doing ok. We battle through and I hope any one who needs help reaches out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The end of last week the doc hit me with some hard news that sent me in to a bit of a spiral over the weekend.

I am not looking for sympathy but rather the opposite. Its good to talk.

So many men don't talk about how the are feeling. Its not shameful to admit you are afraid lost or scared.

I'm coping right now. I'd like to think you are too.

If you aren't I'm happy to chat share the weight or burden.

I may not fix it but I will listen.

Do you really think people,esp typers on the internet care??

Lots of people care.

Op, hope you’re doing okay "

Sure they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The end of last week the doc hit me with some hard news that sent me in to a bit of a spiral over the weekend.

I am not looking for sympathy but rather the opposite. Its good to talk.

So many men don't talk about how the are feeling. Its not shameful to admit you are afraid lost or scared.

I'm coping right now. I'd like to think you are too.

If you aren't I'm happy to chat share the weight or burden.

I may not fix it but I will listen.

Do you really think people,esp typers on the internet care??

Yes, there are often threads such as this or other threads and the community reaches out and can really make a difference. If only one person listens or it just helps one person, then that is enough don't you think."
for sure. Actions really do speak louder than words ever do!

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I'm totally fed up with the timewasters in my life.

You can make that change."

I cut them off out of my life when I realised they're just wasting my time these men who pretend they want to be with you etc but have no real intention of meeting. Just a fantasy they like stringing along for their own egoes. totally fed up with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The end of last week the doc hit me with some hard news that sent me in to a bit of a spiral over the weekend.

I am not looking for sympathy but rather the opposite. Its good to talk.

So many men don't talk about how the are feeling. Its not shameful to admit you are afraid lost or scared.

I'm coping right now. I'd like to think you are too.

If you aren't I'm happy to chat share the weight or burden.

I may not fix it but I will listen.

Do you really think people,esp typers on the internet care?? "

I care. To much actually its probably my downfall x

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"The end of last week the doc hit me with some hard news that sent me in to a bit of a spiral over the weekend.

I am not looking for sympathy but rather the opposite. Its good to talk.

So many men don't talk about how the are feeling. Its not shameful to admit you are afraid lost or scared.

I'm coping right now. I'd like to think you are too.

If you aren't I'm happy to chat share the weight or burden.

I may not fix it but I will listen.

Do you really think people,esp typers on the internet care??

Yes, there are often threads such as this or other threads and the community reaches out and can really make a difference. If only one person listens or it just helps one person, then that is enough don't you think. for sure. Actions really do speak louder than words ever do! "

I only live by action, never by word. I'm a here and now person who is honest and upfront. Shame many people I met aren't. Most are just fantastist that love better than just talk. Talk is cheap. My advice to anyone who feeling overwhelmed or down about their current situation, make that change yourself. Ignore the negativity and make the change that betters your life in any way you can. There's always someone who can comfort you in time of need if you let them in. There's some genuinely good people out there.

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

People live in different circumstances. Some can make changes easily, others not so. Always good to give people a little boost and encouragement to make changes that will improve their lives, no matter how small. Some people really care and others just pay lip service. I like to think I am the former for my family and friends. I could be kinder to myself though as often neglect that and pay more attention to the plight of others. We are all different I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The end of last week the doc hit me with some hard news that sent me in to a bit of a spiral over the weekend.

I am not looking for sympathy but rather the opposite. Its good to talk.

So many men don't talk about how the are feeling. Its not shameful to admit you are afraid lost or scared.

I'm coping right now. I'd like to think you are too.

If you aren't I'm happy to chat share the weight or burden.

I may not fix it but I will listen."

My son who's 10 years old said to me the other day "boys don't cry".

We had a serious long talk about that. His dad and I are no longer together, but they have a great relationship. I told him how I had held his dad once when he cried, how his dad cried when he held him when he was born.

He had cried and another family member had said this to him.

I went in and out through said family member.

Men should never ever feel ashamed for struggling.

Big hugs OP xxx

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over


"People live in different circumstances. Some can make changes easily, others not so. Always good to give people a little boost and encouragement to make changes that will improve their lives, no matter how small. Some people really care and others just pay lip service. I like to think I am the former for my family and friends. I could be kinder to myself though as often neglect that and pay more attention to the plight of others. We are all different I suppose. "

Ps to OP. I hope you are ok yourself and sorry my breakfast request on your other thread was a bit demanding but you did an excellent job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The end of last week the doc hit me with some hard news that sent me in to a bit of a spiral over the weekend.

I am not looking for sympathy but rather the opposite. Its good to talk.

So many men don't talk about how the are feeling. Its not shameful to admit you are afraid lost or scared.

I'm coping right now. I'd like to think you are too.

If you aren't I'm happy to chat share the weight or burden.

I may not fix it but I will listen.

Do you really think people,esp typers on the internet care??

I care. To much actually its probably my downfall x"

We most only see and view the book cover! Seldom some flick the pages. Many believe the critics. Only afew read the contents!

This life we most or all are liveing. Is mere in the present! Its a swing in the past,fast to the future. A glimpse into the present! Then emotions ,feelings,distractions.

When we dig deep,deeper,we have been formed from childhood. Trauma esp,grief,loss, and much more. .

We deeply yearn for respect,exceptance,being liked for who and what we are! We need peace,love and to find whom we really are.

But it's a live Animal that eats and Devours all and still hungry!

We all judge,are being judged on here and elsewhere. By that look,that word read,said!

Our BS ( Belief system ) how did we all or most arrive here and now? Our information,perception of others and us.

This flow will go on and on. Until we only we. Correct whom we are.

It all will go back in the box.

Peace unto all.

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

Ps to OP. I hope you are ok yourself and sorry my breakfast request on your other thread was a bit demanding but you did an excellent job

Oops, just realised that was not you. Sorry

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By *acktar74 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds


"Ps to OP. I hope you are ok yourself and sorry my breakfast request on your other thread was a bit demanding but you did an excellent job

Oops, just realised that was not you. Sorry "

I did wonder what I was having for breakfast

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By *acktar74 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds


"The end of last week the doc hit me with some hard news that sent me in to a bit of a spiral over the weekend.

I am not looking for sympathy but rather the opposite. Its good to talk.

So many men don't talk about how the are feeling. Its not shameful to admit you are afraid lost or scared.

I'm coping right now. I'd like to think you are too.

If you aren't I'm happy to chat share the weight or burden.

I may not fix it but I will listen.

My son who's 10 years old said to me the other day "boys don't cry".

We had a serious long talk about that. His dad and I are no longer together, but they have a great relationship. I told him how I had held his dad once when he cried, how his dad cried when he held him when he was born.

He had cried and another family member had said this to him.

I went in and out through said family member.

Men should never ever feel ashamed for struggling.

Big hugs OP xxx

"

You are a good person. I'm fine

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over


"Ps to OP. I hope you are ok yourself and sorry my breakfast request on your other thread was a bit demanding but you did an excellent job

Oops, just realised that was not you. Sorry

I did wonder what I was having for breakfast "

Lol Hope it's a good one anyway

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