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"I have done on occasion. Usually with sarcasm, which I know is unusual for me! " I see that Jennie no sarcastic streaks | |||
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"I’ll do it cheerfully " And that's why we love you | |||
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"I’ll do it cheerfully And that's why we love you " Well I’m glad someone does | |||
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"It’s the forums pal! You’re not allowed an opinion! " Thats right the walls have ears n eyes the clique is always about | |||
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"Calling stuff out is never the problem, the way in which it's done most of the time is. I don't call many things out but if I do, I like to think I see both sides before doing so and try to disagree in a way that doesn't belittle or demean." Joe very diplomatic of you | |||
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"Something I have seen used to good effect IRL and used once here is to say "personally I am full of shit, but you carry on with your story" " May have to pick that one up | |||
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"Calling stuff out is never the problem, the way in which it's done most of the time is. I don't call many things out but if I do, I like to think I see both sides before doing so and try to disagree in a way that doesn't belittle or demean. Joe very diplomatic of you " I try | |||
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"It’s the forums pal! You’re not allowed an opinion! " Spot on. | |||
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"I have had beer tonight. So fuck knows. I normally avoid those threads tbh. But I was snarky this morning J" You sure was and all. Thought you bumped your head? Or no jam on your crumpet? Lol. | |||
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"I have had beer tonight. So fuck knows. I normally avoid those threads tbh. But I was snarky this morning J" Please direct me to your snark!!! I simply won't believe it otherwise | |||
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"Define bullshit." Pretty much this constitutes bullshit. But then that's only my perspective.... | |||
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"I have had beer tonight. So fuck knows. I normally avoid those threads tbh. But I was snarky this morning J Please direct me to your snark!!! I simply won't believe it otherwise " I echo this | |||
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"Define bullshit. Pretty much this constitutes bullshit. But then that's only my perspective...." So pretty much everything is bullshit unless you’ve said it? | |||
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"Got thinking today, does bullshit or negativity get called out the forums, I'm personally comfortable in doing so, but also having mine called out. Ate you comfortable in calling out bullshit, especially if it comes from one of the more popular forumites... How do you take bring challenged on the forums, is it mehhh its all good or fo you take it as a personal slight " I don’t think I’d call out general bullshit per se, people can use the forums how they want for fun - but I’d certainly challenge something that misaligned with my values (-isms) or that I thought was hurting someone. And I’d expect the same call out to me if I acted like that. | |||
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"I have had beer tonight. So fuck knows. I normally avoid those threads tbh. But I was snarky this morning J Please direct me to your snark!!! I simply won't believe it otherwise I echo this " Didn't happen. Figment of imagination. I am an angel. J | |||
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"I have had beer tonight. So fuck knows. I normally avoid those threads tbh. But I was snarky this morning J Please direct me to your snark!!! I simply won't believe it otherwise I echo this Didn't happen. Figment of imagination. I am an angel. J" No no, show us the threads Pandora! | |||
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"I don't take it as a personal slight. I know I'm not one of the more popular forum users but yeah, I'm happy for it to be called out. I think it's probably what Joe said above - it depends on how it's done. If it's someone curious about my viewpoint, challenges it without falling into fallacies (esp ad hominem crap) I'm all for it. I like having different viewpoints shown to me. I like the interaction. And to be honest, I'm more likely to interact with someone who can do it kindly but firmly. If that makes sense." not popular my arse your the thinker on the forum people like clever folks | |||
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"kindly but firmly. If that makes sense." Ooft! J | |||
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"Is this the same as naming and shaming. Which is against site rules?……" *Insert sideways glance meme One for stevy pickle. ** he knows. | |||
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"Is this the same as naming and shaming. Which is against site rules?……" I think he meant calling out a viewpoint you don't agree with rather than the person themselves | |||
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"Is this the same as naming and shaming. Which is against site rules?…… I think he meant calling out a viewpoint you don't agree with rather than the person themselves" Oh, so just disagreeing? | |||
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"Is this the same as naming and shaming. Which is against site rules?…… I think he meant calling out a viewpoint you don't agree with rather than the person themselves Oh, so just disagreeing? " I guess both are applicable. Are the choice of words relevant to the question in the post? | |||
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"Define bullshit. Pretty much this constitutes bullshit. But then that's only my perspective.... So pretty much everything is bullshit unless you’ve said it? " Is that really the stance that you're bringing that is like a 5-year-old arguing in a playground | |||
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"Is this the same as naming and shaming. Which is against site rules?…… I think he meant calling out a viewpoint you don't agree with rather than the person themselves Oh, so just disagreeing? I guess both are applicable. Are the choice of words relevant to the question in the post?" Yea. Bullsshit is bullshit. A complete and utter lie. Me disagreeing with you is simply that. We have a difference of opinion. You think you are right, you’re not being deceptive or lying, it’s what you believe. And I’m doing the same, so why would I call you out? So the calling out thing is what???? | |||
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"Define bullshit. Pretty much this constitutes bullshit. But then that's only my perspective.... So pretty much everything is bullshit unless you’ve said it? Is that really the stance that you're bringing that is like a 5-year-old arguing in a playground" Who is arguing? By-the-way you ain’t allowed to play with my ball anymore So-there. | |||
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"I have had beer tonight. So fuck knows. I normally avoid those threads tbh. But I was snarky this morning J Please direct me to your snark!!! I simply won't believe it otherwise I echo this Didn't happen. Figment of imagination. I am an angel. J" You definitely don't come across as snarky at all! Though I've been on the forums less so have you suddenly turned into a sassy sasspot? | |||
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"Define bullshit. Pretty much this constitutes bullshit. But then that's only my perspective.... So pretty much everything is bullshit unless you’ve said it? Is that really the stance that you're bringing that is like a 5-year-old arguing in a playground Who is arguing? By-the-way you ain’t allowed to play with my ball anymore So-there." Your balls flat anyways so there | |||
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"kindly but firmly. If that makes sense. Ooft! J" Ha! I was wondering if someone would notice that. Always the best way to handle things, isn't it? | |||
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"Is this the same as naming and shaming. Which is against site rules?…… I think he meant calling out a viewpoint you don't agree with rather than the person themselves" I was more referring to the negativity that happens so often on here, for instance the vultures circling when, someone posts about struggling to get meets was more my stand point | |||
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"Define bullshit. Pretty much this constitutes bullshit. But then that's only my perspective.... So pretty much everything is bullshit unless you’ve said it? Is that really the stance that you're bringing that is like a 5-year-old arguing in a playground Who is arguing? By-the-way you ain’t allowed to play with my ball anymore So-there. Your balls flat anyways so there " Only since you sat on them and bounced up and down! | |||
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"Define bullshit. Pretty much this constitutes bullshit. But then that's only my perspective.... So pretty much everything is bullshit unless you’ve said it? Is that really the stance that you're bringing that is like a 5-year-old arguing in a playground Who is arguing? By-the-way you ain’t allowed to play with my ball anymore So-there. Your balls flat anyways so there Only since you sat on them and bounced up and down! " By the way I've hidden your marbles! | |||
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"Define bullshit. Pretty much this constitutes bullshit. But then that's only my perspective.... So pretty much everything is bullshit unless you’ve said it? Is that really the stance that you're bringing that is like a 5-year-old arguing in a playground Who is arguing? By-the-way you ain’t allowed to play with my ball anymore So-there. Your balls flat anyways so there Only since you sat on them and bounced up and down! By the way I've hidden your marbles!" I bet you were the scoundrel who stole my marbles from my school drawer in year 4 Primary school | |||
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"Define bullshit. Pretty much this constitutes bullshit. But then that's only my perspective.... So pretty much everything is bullshit unless you’ve said it? Is that really the stance that you're bringing that is like a 5-year-old arguing in a playground Who is arguing? By-the-way you ain’t allowed to play with my ball anymore So-there. Your balls flat anyways so there Only since you sat on them and bounced up and down! By the way I've hidden your marbles! I bet you were the scoundrel who stole my marbles from my school drawer in year 4 Primary school " Since I'll own that, the ruler that went missing may or may not have also been me | |||
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"Is this the same as naming and shaming. Which is against site rules?…… I think he meant calling out a viewpoint you don't agree with rather than the person themselves I was more referring to the negativity that happens so often on here, for instance the vultures circling when, someone posts about struggling to get meets was more my stand point " Oh, calling out dickish behaviour? No. I don’t normally call it out. (Normally) because we can all be dicks sometimes. | |||
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"Is this the same as naming and shaming. Which is against site rules?…… I think he meant calling out a viewpoint you don't agree with rather than the person themselves I was more referring to the negativity that happens so often on here, for instance the vultures circling when, someone posts about struggling to get meets was more my stand point Oh, calling out dickish behaviour? No. I don’t normally call it out. (Normally) because we can all be dicks sometimes. " That we can be, guilty of it myself a couple of times a year | |||
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"I'll call bullshit on the term 'popular', I feel it's more a 'prolific poster', recognised due to the amount of time and effort here, than actual popularity. " Thats not the case though is it, I see people who post as much or spend the same amount of time on the forums as one another. And there is definitely the more popular on here. | |||
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"I'll call bullshit on the term 'popular', I feel it's more a 'prolific poster', recognised due to the amount of time and effort here, than actual popularity. " I was challenged by a woman here once who said she liked to chat with popular men like me. I asked how she came to the conclusion that I was popular as I don't send messages, only receive one every couple of months and my pics get a handful of fabs at most? She said it was because she saw me in the forums every day Some people confuse productivity with popularity. | |||
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"I'll call bullshit on the term 'popular', I feel it's more a 'prolific poster', recognised due to the amount of time and effort here, than actual popularity. Thats not the case though is it, I see people who post as much or spend the same amount of time on the forums as one another. And there is definitely the more popular on here. " See, that's what some believe to be a clique. Though, what I initially posted is my viewpoint. | |||
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"I'll call bullshit on the term 'popular', I feel it's more a 'prolific poster', recognised due to the amount of time and effort here, than actual popularity. I was challenged by a woman here once who said she liked to chat with popular men like me. I asked how she came to the conclusion that I was popular as I don't send messages, only receive one every couple of months and my pics get a handful of fabs at most? She said it was because she saw me in the forums every day Some people confuse productivity with popularity." Some confuse posting shit or I call it ‘shouting from the back of the class’ as popular. I post shitloads some days! And I know I’m not popular. Ignored when sending messages is not popular. | |||
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"I'll call bullshit on the term 'popular', I feel it's more a 'prolific poster', recognised due to the amount of time and effort here, than actual popularity. Thats not the case though is it, I see people who post as much or spend the same amount of time on the forums as one another. And there is definitely the more popular on here. See, that's what some believe to be a clique. Though, what I initially posted is my viewpoint. " Some may believe it to be a clique that's there pergrotive, what I'm asking is if people call out shitty behaviour, and are they comfortable in doing so to a perceived "popular user". | |||
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"I'll call bullshit on the term 'popular', I feel it's more a 'prolific poster', recognised due to the amount of time and effort here, than actual popularity. Thats not the case though is it, I see people who post as much or spend the same amount of time on the forums as one another. And there is definitely the more popular on here. See, that's what some believe to be a clique. Though, what I initially posted is my viewpoint. Some may believe it to be a clique that's there pergrotive, what I'm asking is if people call out shitty behaviour, and are they comfortable in doing so to a perceived "popular user". " If I see what I believe to be shitty behaviour, yes I'm happy to speak up. I'm not sure who is perceived as 'popular', that was kind of what I was getting at, my perspective differs. | |||
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"kindly but firmly. If that makes sense. Ooft! J Ha! I was wondering if someone would notice that. Always the best way to handle things, isn't it? " I'm sure there have been all sorts of sensible posts but the cutest girl had been flirting with me tonight in a way I've never noticed before. And I've just come back into this thread to be firm with Meli. Whoop whoop. Jx | |||
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"There are a lot of MORONS here. The last time I called a moron a moron. they snowflaked me, complained and I got banned for a week. So can't be bothered any more." How do you know they made the complaint? | |||
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"Is this the same as naming and shaming. Which is against site rules?…… *Insert sideways glance meme One for stevy pickle. ** he knows. " *looks at camera* ‘I know’ | |||
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"There are a lot of MORONS here. The last time I called a moron a moron. they snowflaked me, complained and I got banned for a week. So can't be bothered any more." easier to call em a maroon like bugs does | |||
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"There are a lot of MORONS here. The last time I called a moron a moron. they snowflaked me, complained and I got banned for a week. So can't be bothered any more. How do you know they made the complaint? " I have my ways | |||
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"I have done on occasion. Usually with sarcasm, which I know is unusual for me! " and me | |||
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"Hahimg unwisely expressed one or two viwes, I am sticking to only cake, what's for dinner, holiday and similar threads from now on personally as to be fair I will discuss serious matters with my family and friends only as often things here are misconstrued. Whilst I must stress there are plenty of great amazing and caring people on here (and had several experiences of that), there are those who thrive on argument (not opinion), twist things that others may say just to start something, start controversial threads and then disappear without even offering their own opinions, only reply to their 'friends' even though someone else said the same thing before, are ready to attack someone new who may not be familiar with the rules, are condescending if others can't express themselves as eloquently, show an air of superiority towards others, especially if they are established forumites and in so called clicks of the untouchables, are sycophants, hide behind the anonymity of a forum to express views that quite frankly are unacceptable and outside expected norms or show lack of compassion towards others and the circumstances they find themselves in. The moment I see any of that, I never go back to read those threads even if someone has replied to any of my posts. They can argue among themselves. I have no interest in that and life is hard enough without affording that kind of people anybof my time. Similarly I am now out of this thread as I have no doubt someone will find some offence in it, including the length of the post as someone actually did say when I previously posted a similarly long one. The only consolation is that thise behaving in this manner, all they do is just exposing their true character to the rest of us. " Someone got pissed at you for making a long post? | |||
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"Is this the same as naming and shaming. Which is against site rules?……" How is it naming and shaming? | |||
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"Got thinking today, does bullshit or negativity get called out the forums, I'm personally comfortable in doing so, but also having mine called out. Ate you comfortable in calling out bullshit, especially if it comes from one of the more popular forumites... How do you take bring challenged on the forums, is it mehhh its all good or fo you take it as a personal slight " I don’t take anything personally from fab. It’s just comical entertainment I see it as . | |||
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