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Approaching people when you are unsure if they are swingers

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By *amAndAsh OP   Couple
over a year ago

somerset

We are going on our honeymoon in July and as our name suggests go out in our camper a lot, we know the obvious signs (that can still be wrong) like upside down pineapples and flamingos etc but we always worry about what to say / how to approach people we may like Incase we are wrong and they are not swingers and looking stupid? Any advice please ??

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Talk to people normally. Unless you are going to swinger camp sites then I would assume anyone I was chatting to was.

Don’t treat anyone as a swinger unless it gets dropped into conversation.

K

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I always say as someone who has been approached by people away from fab... don't! It's awkward and embarrassing for the people you approach if they don't want to join you.

Switch 'who's near' on and message people you like the look off, much safer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Invite them into a dark corner with a massive grin on your face, whip out your genitals and ask them what they think? You could maybe suggest you can ruin them, because your sure that's what they want. Works every time.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always say as someone who has been approached by people away from fab... don't! It's awkward and embarrassing for the people you approach if they don't want to join you.

Switch 'who's near' on and message people you like the look off, much safer "

This. If it's a regular campsite they could be with family or friends. Don't put people in an awkward situation that's not of their doing. Don't assume they want to meet up with other swingers unless they're actively looking.

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By *amAndAsh OP   Couple
over a year ago

somerset

Very fair answers everyone! Thank you for your help that’s all taken on board,

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By *lirtymr_mrsCouple
over a year ago

Stockton-on-Tees


"Invite them into a dark corner with a massive grin on your face, whip out your genitals and ask them what they think? You could maybe suggest you can ruin them, because your sure that's what they want. Works every time. "

5% of the time it works every time.!

Those 5% would probably ruin YOU though.

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By *arkcrystalMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Whip it out and say

It ain't gonna suck itself.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"We are going on our honeymoon in July and as our name suggests go out in our camper a lot, we know the obvious signs (that can still be wrong) like upside down pineapples and flamingos etc but we always worry about what to say / how to approach people we may like Incase we are wrong and they are not swingers and looking stupid? Any advice please ??"

Assume nothing then you cant go wrong

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By *lirtymr_mrsCouple
over a year ago

Stockton-on-Tees


") like upside down pineapples and flamingos etc "

So many secret signs these days it makes me wary of putting anything near my car (or house) window.

Box of tissues in the car, Panama hat on the parcel shelf, nodding dog on the dashboard, CCTV warning window sticker, upside down no cold callers sign.... All of these attract swingers or are a secret signal to Mason's or Aliens (basically the same thing so I am told).

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


") like upside down pineapples and flamingos etc

So many secret signs these days it makes me wary of putting anything near my car (or house) window.

Box of tissues in the car, Panama hat on the parcel shelf, nodding dog on the dashboard, CCTV warning window sticker, upside down no cold callers sign.... All of these attract swingers or are a secret signal to Mason's or Aliens (basically the same thing so I am told)."

Not having panties on the washing line..

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Just don't ... You never know how they might react.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I think approaching anyone in public and asking if they swing is a no no. Don’t do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think approaching anyone in public and asking if they swing is a no no. Don’t do it.

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Completely agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put a sign in your van... Honk if you'd like to pork us??

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By *eally_RosieWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I’ve had quite a few conversations where I’ve told people I swing. Most people aren’t that shocked, or in some cases, even remotely interested. It doesn’t mean I want to jump them. It’s not some sordid thing that hubby and I are ashamed of

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I’ve had quite a few conversations where I’ve told people I swing. Most people aren’t that shocked, or in some cases, even remotely interested. It doesn’t mean I want to jump them. It’s not some sordid thing that hubby and I are ashamed of "

I don't think anyone's suggesting it's sordid or something to be ashamed of.

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By *angtidy42Couple
over a year ago

Redditch

We drop the word FAB into the chat and look for the reaction. It's work well so far.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"We are going on our honeymoon in July and as our name suggests go out in our camper a lot, we know the obvious signs (that can still be wrong) like upside down pineapples and flamingos etc but we always worry about what to say / how to approach people we may like Incase we are wrong and they are not swingers and looking stupid? Any advice please ??"
just approach them as they are non swingers you can't go wrong you'll maybe make some friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


") like upside down pineapples and flamingos etc

So many secret signs these days it makes me wary of putting anything near my car (or house) window.

Box of tissues in the car, Panama hat on the parcel shelf, nodding dog on the dashboard, CCTV warning window sticker, upside down no cold callers sign.... All of these attract swingers or are a secret signal to Mason's or Aliens (basically the same thing so I am told).

Not having panties on the washing line.. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put a sign in your van... Honk if you'd like to pork us?? "

This

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Its easy just go up to them and say FAF if you know then you know

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