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"I have one person that I feel has become a close friend on here that I talk to very regularly, we have long conversations on the phone about anything and everything, from fab related things to stuff about our lives and families. We have only met in person a couple of times due to distance but will be able to get dinner together in a couple of weeks which I’m looking forward to. " Aww that's really lovely! I hope you enjoy spending time with them. Being able to talk about any and everything really can bring you closer, can't it? | |||
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"I have a mate of 11 years on here but we've never actually met however she is freaking awesome genuinely just an amazing laugh it's hard find people with such a good sense of humour and she has it in bundles however its strictly always been a friendship and actually see her as like a little sis (I know bit weird having never met for real)" I don't think that's weird at all, rather lovely to be honest. I don't think you need to have met someone to consider them a friend - one of my closest we online chatted for years before we met. Wherever you find that friendship - it's valid. | |||
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"I met one of my best friends on here years ago. And I've also got a couple of other friends who I'm close to x" ![]() | |||
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"I did/do/have made a friend, it’s not so out of the ordinary for me to like someone. ![]() ![]() ![]() And anyway, what better way to get with someone for a sexy tumble on a bed than with so robe you think is a friend already? | |||
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"It's a beautiful day and I thought - why not celebrate friendship? So... do you have close friends on here? Are friends important to you? What makes them more than a casual acquaintance? And because I'm in a soft mood, tell me something you like/admire/respect about one of them - whether it's silly or deep. ![]() I have a couple of close friends on here, yes. Friends are my chosen family and soul connections, so very important to me: something I admire about one of them - his care and authentic love for me, and I for him. He loves me for me, flaws and all and makes me feel seen. ![]() | |||
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"It's a beautiful day and I thought - why not celebrate friendship? So... do you have close friends on here? Are friends important to you? What makes them more than a casual acquaintance? And because I'm in a soft mood, tell me something you like/admire/respect about one of them - whether it's silly or deep. ![]() The questions answered in turn No Yes They genuinely care about you. Their personality. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Close friendships have always been very important to me but most of my friends from the past are in different parts of the world now. Have made a few friends more recently but certainly none I can bare my soul to. None here yet, at least I haven't found anyone I can open up to. Maybe I'm too scared of judgement or too concerned about people's opinions and it can be lonely sometimes, even with people around you... ![]() Those people you can open up to? The best people will tell you when you're being a grade A twunt. They might judge you, roll their eyes occasionally... but they're your friend through it. I think you can find your people on here OP - opening up can be scary but fuck is it worth it. ![]() | |||
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"Close friendships have always been very important to me but most of my friends from the past are in different parts of the world now. Have made a few friends more recently but certainly none I can bare my soul to. None here yet, at least I haven't found anyone I can open up to. Maybe I'm too scared of judgement or too concerned about people's opinions and it can be lonely sometimes, even with people around you... ![]() ![]() Real friends don't judge I now mine don't no matter what madness I bring to them | |||
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"Close friendships have always been very important to me but most of my friends from the past are in different parts of the world now. Have made a few friends more recently but certainly none I can bare my soul to. None here yet, at least I haven't found anyone I can open up to. Maybe I'm too scared of judgement or too concerned about people's opinions and it can be lonely sometimes, even with people around you... ![]() ![]() Ah, I'm being liberal with the usage of the word judge - quite often we see judging as being something negative - that connotation that if they do they'll some find part lacking. I mean judge in terms of - they'll form an opinion of my behaviour at times. Like telling me Meli, get your arse out and have fun. ![]() | |||
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"I have one very close friend on FAB. We first met in 2010 when he was part of a couple, she died earlier on this year, a sad time for us all but devastating to him and in it's own way devastating to me as well. We talk regularly by phone now and actually celebrate her life more than become teary eyed about it. We laugh and remember all her Kinks........and ours. A true FAB friend you can do that with....................someone you just add as a friend you can't." ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Close friendships have always been very important to me but most of my friends from the past are in different parts of the world now. Have made a few friends more recently but certainly none I can bare my soul to. None here yet, at least I haven't found anyone I can open up to. Maybe I'm too scared of judgement or too concerned about people's opinions and it can be lonely sometimes, even with people around you... ![]() ![]() ![]() I understand the Liberal usage, my experience of friends not judging on the postive or negative side of things, is that they let me get on with things, they won't give me suggestions until I bring something to them, then it becomes very solution focused. That tends to be due to the fact in life I'm taught to be proactive through awareness, it's my responsibility to get out there and explore life and have a postive locus of intrest in my own life | |||
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"Close friendships have always been very important to me but most of my friends from the past are in different parts of the world now. Have made a few friends more recently but certainly none I can bare my soul to. None here yet, at least I haven't found anyone I can open up to. Maybe I'm too scared of judgement or too concerned about people's opinions and it can be lonely sometimes, even with people around you... ![]() ![]() ![]() I think we're kind of talking about the same thing... my friends aren't going to off the bat say something, I'm more than able to and happy to get on with things. But if I'm saying "oh hi Bob, I'm feeling a bit low about this", they'll offer their opinion. If I'm being a twat they'll say. I don't want an echo chamber of a friendship, I like hearing different views of the world, of life. And sometimes it's nice to have that unconditional support. I value that a lot. | |||
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"It's a beautiful day and I thought - why not celebrate friendship? So... do you have close friends on here? Are friends important to you? What makes them more than a casual acquaintance? And because I'm in a soft mood, tell me something you like/admire/respect about one of them - whether it's silly or deep. If you was my friend my life would be complete x ![]() | |||
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"I don't have any close friends from Fab yet, but I'm open to it if it feels right. Outside of fab, I have few good friends but only one best friend. She is just amazing human being. She is bubbly, loyal,smart, caring and kinky, just the way I like it. We can talk absolute nonsense for hours and still don't get bored of each other. I appreciate she was there for me in my toughest times and I actually love her like my own sister." Friends are the family we choose, definitely and you can read how much you value and love your best friend. ![]() | |||
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"I did/do/have made a friend, it’s not so out of the ordinary for me to like someone. ![]() ![]() ![]() Aww Woody you softie. ![]() | |||
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"I have a couple of good friends I've made through here. There's a couple more I think could be good friends that I'm looking forward to meeting eventually ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Close friendships have always been very important to me but most of my friends from the past are in different parts of the world now. Have made a few friends more recently but certainly none I can bare my soul to. None here yet, at least I haven't found anyone I can open up to. Maybe I'm too scared of judgement or too concerned about people's opinions and it can be lonely sometimes, even with people around you... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"It's a beautiful day and I thought - why not celebrate friendship? So... do you have close friends on here? Are friends important to you? What makes them more than a casual acquaintance? And because I'm in a soft mood, tell me something you like/admire/respect about one of them - whether it's silly or deep. ![]() ![]() Aww little star. And you answered the last question which makes me so happy. ![]() | |||
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"I have a very small circle of friends both here and in general. Some of my closest friends, both male and female, are people I've met through here and although most of them are no longer on the site we are still in regular touch and meet up socially. I have a couples profile with my fab bestie and we are very much on the same page and focus as much on the friendship as we do on the benefits. We are there for each other through very difficult times and have no secrets at all. We tell each other how much we value our friendship and I know she feels safe stepping out of her comfort zone with me. Trust is the biggest aphrodisiac there is. " ![]() | |||
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"We don't have any close friends on here. We've tried for years to find people we can trust and really call them friends, but alas, all people want to do is fuck, be fucked or just be wierdos. We don't bother anymore as it's all just a waste of time. We'll read a few stories but that's about it. ![]() There's a lot of weirdos on here. Some of the best people on here are weirdos. I'm sorry that's been your experience though - it's pretty crap. You shouldn't lose hope though. x | |||
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"Close friendships have always been very important to me but most of my friends from the past are in different parts of the world now. Have made a few friends more recently but certainly none I can bare my soul to. None here yet, at least I haven't found anyone I can open up to. Maybe I'm too scared of judgement or too concerned about people's opinions and it can be lonely sometimes, even with people around you... ![]() ![]() Thanks Meli. I appreciate the encouragement and would love to meet such people. So, I'll give it some time and effort and see how things turn out. ![]() | |||
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"I have a few friends on here. I won't explain each one but between them I have some I can confide in about a variety of things, and they can too in me. Friends that I can spend absolutely hours speaking to on the phone about all sorts of subjects, deep and personal or just plain garbage. Friends that I see in person from time to time regardless of distance. Friends that even though we may not speak for weeks or months at a time can still re ignite that connection like we only spoke yesterday. And my longest standing friend is a little quiet of late but they are very missed. I've always valued them. " Likewise ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I think i am a difficult person to form a friendship with and hold people at arms length, which comes from a complicated childhood I am very friendly tho, so i have people to chat with and catch up but very few know the real me.. In fact I'd say two people in my entire life really know 'me' ... I wish it was different, but if it looks like a leopard, it probably is a leopard (is that the saying ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Very much me too, except for the fluffball plays the leopard role | |||
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"Trust. I've been betrayed a few times by people at work I thought were my friends." That I am afraid happens in the workplace a lot. | |||
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"No real friends from here. I thought a couple might be but I don't think I'm capable of making real friendships anymore. *shrugs* cat lady it is ![]() Nah Scarlet, you've got too much life in you to be a cat lady just yet. I think you are. Even if you don't realise that at the moment. ![]() | |||
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"I’m Billy no-mates. It’s awesome ![]() ![]() As long as you're a) happy with that And b) keep writing delightful threads that allow me a good outlet for my erotica, that's absolutely fine. ![]() | |||
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"I’m Billy no-mates. It’s awesome ![]() ![]() ![]() Oh you know I always LOVE your beautifully worded and incredibly arousing replies ![]() ![]() | |||
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"We have a handful of close friends here. One in particular we speak to very often ![]() That person is very lucky to have your wisdom filling their box so frequently. ![]() | |||
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