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"Use the search function. It allows you to select people by ethnicity. You’re welcome. " Does it???  | |||
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"Use the search function. It allows you to select people by ethnicity. You’re welcome. Does it??? "No way!!! I never knew that. *every day is a school day.  | |||
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"Use the search function. It allows you to select people by ethnicity. You’re welcome. Does it???
No way!!! I never knew that. *every day is a school day. "You’re welcome too. | |||
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"Use the search function. It allows you to select people by ethnicity. You’re welcome. Does it???
No way!!! I never knew that. *every day is a school day.
You’re welcome too. "But still can’t search by what day of the week they were born???? Pffft.  | |||
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"Use the search function. It allows you to select people by ethnicity. You’re welcome. Does it???
No way!!! I never knew that. *every day is a school day. "Oh yes so it does! I never knew that either Mr | |||
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"Use the search function. It allows you to select people by ethnicity. You’re welcome. Does it???
No way!!! I never knew that. *every day is a school day.
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But still can’t search by what day of the week they were born???? Pffft. "It does if you’re a fully paid up Platinum Member. | |||
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"Pulls up a chair and grabs the popcorn " Or your scared to add your own opinion | |||
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"What's a "chocolate" lady? Bess x" Woman from the flake advert? 
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"Pulls up a chair and grabs the popcorn Or your scared to add your own opinion" At least he didn’t say the usual ‘ All women are beautiful ‘ which we translate to ‘ Im so desperate I would literally put my dick in anything wet’ | |||
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"What's a "chocolate" lady? Bess x" I am not a black woman but I hate being referred to as chocolate. Proper ick | |||
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"What's a "chocolate" lady? Bess x Woman from the flake advert?
Mrs "Yes, could be! Is she the one that enjoys the 99 sexual position - like a 69 but you stick a flake in her ass?
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"I am probably being blind or didnt get the memo, but where are all the black & chocolate ladies on this site? " I wish i knew I’ve been trying to find them myself lol | |||
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"What's a "chocolate" lady? Bess x Woman from the flake advert?
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"What's a "chocolate" lady? Bess x Woman from the flake advert?
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Yes, could be! Is she the one that enjoys the 99 sexual position - like a 69 but you stick a flake in her ass?
Bess x"That’s her! She shouts “only the crumbliest, flakiest chocolate tastes like chocolate never tasted before” when she cums
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"I'm being thick but I have not understood what happened above? And OP, there's gotta be some way to ask that without the ice factor "Ick not ice! | |||
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"I am probably being blind or didnt get the memo, but where are all the black & chocolate ladies on this site? " He clearly didn’t mean this in a derogatory way… Get a grip people | |||
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"Speaking of 99’s , the ice cream van stopped outside my house earlier so I thought I’d get myself a 99. “How much for a 99 mate?” “£5.99 please” “Fuuuuuuuck off” Back in the house I went empty handed "How much?  | |||
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"Speaking of 99’s , the ice cream van stopped outside my house earlier so I thought I’d get myself a 99. “How much for a 99 mate?” “£5.99 please” “Fuuuuuuuck off” Back in the house I went empty handed "This is why when my kids were younger I used to tell them when the van was playing music they had run out of ice cream | |||
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"Speaking of 99’s , the ice cream van stopped outside my house earlier so I thought I’d get myself a 99. “How much for a 99 mate?” “£5.99 please” “Fuuuuuuuck off” Back in the house I went empty handed "When I was a kid the ice cream vans in London used to rip tourists off charging them 99p, I got mine for 10p with two flakes and nuts | |||
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"I am probably being blind or didnt get the memo, but where are all the black & chocolate ladies on this site? He clearly didn’t mean this in a derogatory way… Get a grip people " ^^ this | |||
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"I'm being thick but I have not understood what happened above? And OP, there's gotta be some way to ask that without the ice factor
Ick not ice!"U know whats funny… White women on this site refer to black men as just BBC but we draw the line at chocolate lady lol | |||
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"Speaking of 99’s , the ice cream van stopped outside my house earlier so I thought I’d get myself a 99. “How much for a 99 mate?” “£5.99 please” “Fuuuuuuuck off” Back in the house I went empty handed "You’re lucky… my car was parked up yesterday when the ice cream van hit it and drove off 
Luckily loads of people took pictures. But I’m still waiting on my years supply of ice cream. The bastard | |||
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"Speaking of 99’s , the ice cream van stopped outside my house earlier so I thought I’d get myself a 99. “How much for a 99 mate?” “£5.99 please” “Fuuuuuuuck off” Back in the house I went empty handed
When I was a kid the ice cream vans in London used to rip tourists off charging them 99p, I got mine for 10p with two flakes and nuts "Weren't they horse drawn? | |||
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"I'm being thick but I have not understood what happened above? And OP, there's gotta be some way to ask that without the ice factor
Ick not ice!
U know whats funny… White women on this site refer to black men as just BBC but we draw the line at chocolate lady lol "I drew the line at the 80s 'memo' usage lol that gives me the ick | |||
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"Speaking of 99’s , the ice cream van stopped outside my house earlier so I thought I’d get myself a 99. “How much for a 99 mate?” “£5.99 please” “Fuuuuuuuck off” Back in the house I went empty handed
You’re lucky… my car was parked up yesterday when the ice cream van hit it and drove off
Luckily loads of people took pictures. But I’m still waiting on my years supply of ice cream. The bastard "Wanker! Make sure you get a flake too when you catch up with them | |||
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"What's a "chocolate" lady? Bess x" Apparently she’s a bit of a melt | |||
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"Speaking of 99’s , the ice cream van stopped outside my house earlier so I thought I’d get myself a 99. “How much for a 99 mate?” “£5.99 please” “Fuuuuuuuck off” Back in the house I went empty handed
You’re lucky… my car was parked up yesterday when the ice cream van hit it and drove off
Luckily loads of people took pictures. But I’m still waiting on my years supply of ice cream. The bastard "Must be the same bastard that hit my car 2 weeks ago and drove off too..... | |||
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"The op makes a good point seeing as there's endless threads on black guys,BBC . I find it strange that so called interracial nights are mainly white women wanting black guys, it should by name be mixed, hardly ever black women wanting white guys or bwc. So where are you ladies.... " I think statistically Black women are way less likely to date outside their race than Black men. maybe that’s one reason? But Lots of the Black women I’ve seen on here are only interested in white men. Black women I know don’t use dating apps much let alone a site like fab Lmao but I’m still here, hoping. | |||
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"We are here just not that many of us " That’s definitely an oooooft profile xx  | |||
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"In answering this question, I'd want to know the percentage of the population they make up, and what barriers they might feel they face (both as women and otherwise) to be able to engage in this activity. That's how I'd find the answer." I think desirability politics comes into it. Especially in contrast to say, Black men. I’ve read about it in relation to dating apps but not obviously relating to swinging. That would be interesting research though | |||
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"What's a "chocolate" lady? Bess x" She is the one who is married to the marshmallow man, I saw them a couple of days ago pushing their jelly babies around in the park. | |||
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"I'm being thick but I have not understood what happened above? And OP, there's gotta be some way to ask that without the ice factor
Ick not ice!
U know whats funny… White women on this site refer to black men as just BBC but we draw the line at chocolate lady lol
I drew the line at the 80s 'memo' usage lol that gives me the ick "Yeah… whatever your getting at here didn’t have the effect u thought it had lol | |||
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"In answering this question, I'd want to know the percentage of the population they make up, and what barriers they might feel they face (both as women and otherwise) to be able to engage in this activity. That's how I'd find the answer." Interesting point it seems it's ok for black men to shag around but not black women! | |||
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"We are here just not that many of us " Now you are what i would love to see more of  | |||
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"In answering this question, I'd want to know the percentage of the population they make up, and what barriers they might feel they face (both as women and otherwise) to be able to engage in this activity. That's how I'd find the answer. Interesting point it seems it's ok for black men to shag around but not black women!" Thats definitely not it lol. Have u met a black woman? Try telling her what she can & cant do & let me know your result lol | |||
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"In answering this question, I'd want to know the percentage of the population they make up, and what barriers they might feel they face (both as women and otherwise) to be able to engage in this activity. That's how I'd find the answer. Interesting point it seems it's ok for black men to shag around but not black women! Thats definitely not it lol. Have u met a black woman? Try telling her what she can & cant do & let me know your result lol" I had a black girlfriend years ago so I know!. But the looks we got from black guys was very telling. | |||
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"In answering this question, I'd want to know the percentage of the population they make up, and what barriers they might feel they face (both as women and otherwise) to be able to engage in this activity. That's how I'd find the answer. Interesting point it seems it's ok for black men to shag around but not black women! Thats definitely not it lol. Have u met a black woman? Try telling her what she can & cant do & let me know your result lol I had a black girlfriend years ago so I know!. But the looks we got from black guys was very telling." Same the other way around mate. I have a white lady friend ive never slept with & if looks could kill id be dead 1000 times over lol | |||
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"In answering this question, I'd want to know the percentage of the population they make up, and what barriers they might feel they face (both as women and otherwise) to be able to engage in this activity. That's how I'd find the answer. Interesting point it seems it's ok for black men to shag around but not black women! Thats definitely not it lol. Have u met a black woman? Try telling her what she can & cant do & let me know your result lol I had a black girlfriend years ago so I know!. But the looks we got from black guys was very telling. Same the other way around mate. I have a white lady friend ive never slept with & if looks could kill id be dead 1000 times over lol " the whole thing is pathetic people should be allowed to date whoever they want | |||
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"In answering this question, I'd want to know the percentage of the population they make up, and what barriers they might feel they face (both as women and otherwise) to be able to engage in this activity. That's how I'd find the answer. Interesting point it seems it's ok for black men to shag around but not black women! Thats definitely not it lol. Have u met a black woman? Try telling her what she can & cant do & let me know your result lol I had a black girlfriend years ago so I know!. But the looks we got from black guys was very telling. Same the other way around mate. I have a white lady friend ive never slept with & if looks could kill id be dead 1000 times over lol the whole thing is pathetic people should be allowed to date whoever they want " I agree but you can't get rid of centuries of cultural baggage. | |||
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"What's a "chocolate" lady? Bess x" One you can lick out? Just guessing. | |||
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"What's a "chocolate" lady? Bess x I am not a black woman but I hate being referred to as chocolate. Proper ick " This | |||
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"Could have sworn i commented in this thread "Must’ve been a regrettable one | |||
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"I am glad some of you caught on the sarcasm in the original post. It’s does ick you out right ? But it’s absolutely fine for the reverse to take place so blatantly that no one even bats an eyelid. People can date / meet / fab who ever they like. You can see 10s if not 100s of posts with some variation of BBC ask going on with the license for the op to be rude if the need is not met. I just turned the tables. Infact black women don’t make me go weak in my knees. BTW there was no derogation meant referring to “chocolate”. It was just my way of referring to mixed raced ladies. Just like some people prefer “Ginger”. See what I did there. Anywho now that it’s off my chest am off to some fun times." I'm confused do you like black women or not? | |||
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" I'm confused do you like black women or not?" I am skin colour blind. I see for things in the fourth dimension , like for e.g. personality  | |||
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Your comment in itself validates my point , why should one have to back track asking where are black/chocolate ladies. | |||
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"I am probably being blind or didnt get the memo, but where are all the black & chocolate ladies on this site? " 3% of the UK population is Afro/Caribbean black so 1.5% of the population are black women thus always going to be rare on a swinging site. Not a mystery really but black guys are a fantasy for a fair few women & couples hence more black men on here than black women. That said I too wish there were more black ladies on here, even blue ones as long as they breath & want to meet. | |||
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" I'm confused do you like black women or not? I am skin colour blind. I see for things in the fourth dimension , like for e.g. personality "FFS! | |||
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" I'm confused do you like black women or not? I am skin colour blind. I see for things in the fourth dimension , like for e.g. personality "AH. He’s doesn’t see colour everyone. He’s one of those  | |||
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"Chocolate lady ..... seriously fab is done for the day! " Many more levels to Fab yet!! | |||
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"Speaking of 99’s , the ice cream van stopped outside my house earlier so I thought I’d get myself a 99. “How much for a 99 mate?” “£5.99 please” “Fuuuuuuuck off” Back in the house I went empty handed "Tppp rite. I went to get Gum near tottenham court rd on tue, £4.99. | |||
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"Speaking of 99’s , the ice cream van stopped outside my house earlier so I thought I’d get myself a 99. “How much for a 99 mate?” “£5.99 please” “Fuuuuuuuck off” Back in the house I went empty handed
When I was a kid the ice cream vans in London used to rip tourists off charging them 99p, I got mine for 10p with two flakes and nuts ". Go ole days fella. Oyster,Banana boat, rememebr the Vanilla/Strawberry flavour Cone's. | |||
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"In answering this question, I'd want to know the percentage of the population they make up, and what barriers they might feel they face (both as women and otherwise) to be able to engage in this activity. That's how I'd find the answer. Interesting point it seems it's ok for black men to shag around but not black women!" As mentioned above majority of Black women on this site have White Partners, or state White guys only, so I'm kind of lost when you say. Interesting point it's ok for Black men to Shag about, but not Black Women. | |||
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"I'm being thick but I have not understood what happened above? And OP, there's gotta be some way to ask that without the ice factor
Ick not ice!
U know whats funny… White women on this site refer to black men as just BBC but we draw the line at chocolate lady lol "I think both terms are horrid | |||
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" U know whats funny… White women on this site refer to black men as just BBC but we draw the line at chocolate lady lol " The big difference is that the "BBC" tag will get some guys laid, so they're happy to embrace it, ladies do not need any sort of "gimmick" to find sex so accepting casual racism has zero value. Personally, I think that there are attractive people of every shade and nationality. The physical is only a small part of what makes a person attractive. Cal | |||
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" U know whats funny… White women on this site refer to black men as just BBC but we draw the line at chocolate lady lol The big difference is that the "BBC" tag will get some guys laid, so they're happy to embrace it, ladies do not need any sort of "gimmick" to find sex so accepting casual racism has zero value. Personally, I think that there are attractive people of every shade and nationality. The physical is only a small part of what makes a person attractive. Cal" The exterior is 10% 90% is internal. But the swim like the salmon uo the river is great! But will be pushed far and wide esp on apps. | |||
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"Could it be, the black women on this site wanted to be treated as a woman, and not seen as another notch on a bed post or someone's fetish." | |||
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"But I do high key wish there were more Black women on fab. " There's a fair few in London but they keep rejecting me! That may be on account of being ugly and fucking annoying though, you know, like usual | |||
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"But I do high key wish there were more Black women on fab. There's a fair few in London but they keep rejecting me! That may be on account of being ugly and fucking annoying though, you know, like usual "Just the black women reject you? | |||
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"In answering this question, I'd want to know the percentage of the population they make up, and what barriers they might feel they face (both as women and otherwise) to be able to engage in this activity. That's how I'd find the answer. Interesting point it seems it's ok for black men to shag around but not black women! Thats definitely not it lol. Have u met a black woman? Try telling her what she can & cant do & let me know your result lol I had a black girlfriend years ago so I know!. But the looks we got from black guys was very telling. Same the other way around mate. I have a white lady friend ive never slept with & if looks could kill id be dead 1000 times over lol the whole thing is pathetic people should be allowed to date whoever they want I agree but you can't get rid of centuries of cultural baggage." I was seeing a gorgeous black lady last year, and yes, we did receive ‘looks’ while we were out and about together. It was quite an eye-opener for me, with her being my first black girlfriend, to notice these things, and it did disappoint me, that people can be like that. One of the worst instances was the old couple we passed in the street, and the lady commented; “Look at these two”…..  | |||
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"In answering this question, I'd want to know the percentage of the population they make up, and what barriers they might feel they face (both as women and otherwise) to be able to engage in this activity. That's how I'd find the answer. Interesting point it seems it's ok for black men to shag around but not black women! Thats definitely not it lol. Have u met a black woman? Try telling her what she can & cant do & let me know your result lol I had a black girlfriend years ago so I know!. But the looks we got from black guys was very telling. Same the other way around mate. I have a white lady friend ive never slept with & if looks could kill id be dead 1000 times over lol the whole thing is pathetic people should be allowed to date whoever they want I agree but you can't get rid of centuries of cultural baggage. I was seeing a gorgeous black lady last year, and yes, we did receive ‘looks’ while we were out and about together. It was quite an eye-opener for me, with her being my first black girlfriend, to notice these things, and it did disappoint me, that people can be like that. One of the worst instances was the old couple we passed in the street, and the lady commented; “Look at these two”….. "I'll have to ask our son if he experiences similar. Obviously he and his GF are much younger, I wonder whether the attitudes are different? He's not mentioned anything that happens overtly, day to day, but he has definitely had the odd isolated comment. | |||
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"But I do high key wish there were more Black women on fab. There's a fair few in London but they keep rejecting me! That may be on account of being ugly and fucking annoying though, you know, like usual
Just the black women reject you?"Yeah Caucasian women easy mate. They really should get standards cause Christ, they are dropping the ball with me | |||
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"In answering this question, I'd want to know the percentage of the population they make up, and what barriers they might feel they face (both as women and otherwise) to be able to engage in this activity. That's how I'd find the answer. Interesting point it seems it's ok for black men to shag around but not black women! Thats definitely not it lol. Have u met a black woman? Try telling her what she can & cant do & let me know your result lol I had a black girlfriend years ago so I know!. But the looks we got from black guys was very telling. Same the other way around mate. I have a white lady friend ive never slept with & if looks could kill id be dead 1000 times over lol the whole thing is pathetic people should be allowed to date whoever they want I agree but you can't get rid of centuries of cultural baggage. I was seeing a gorgeous black lady last year, and yes, we did receive ‘looks’ while we were out and about together. It was quite an eye-opener for me, with her being my first black girlfriend, to notice these things, and it did disappoint me, that people can be like that. One of the worst instances was the old couple we passed in the street, and the lady commented; “Look at these two”…..
I'll have to ask our son if he experiences similar. Obviously he and his GF are much younger, I wonder whether the attitudes are different? He's not mentioned anything that happens overtly, day to day, but he has definitely had the odd isolated comment. "I turned negativity into a positive; anytime I registered a ‘look’ or similar, I would give my friend a kiss  | |||
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