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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Quite hard to meet on here for the males eh

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

5 weeks on here you are still a virgin.x

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By *udandBryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston

Hard compared to what?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

As a female I can tell you it's bloody hard work filtering through the chaff to find there's nobody worth meeting among it anyway

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Quite hard to meet on here for the males eh"

You should be knee-deep in clunge by now, OP..

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By *anes HubbyCouple
over a year ago

Babbacombe Torquay

Five weeks a member, a proud "cheater", very poor profile content.......I'm shocked

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By *aekaeWoman
over a year ago

Between a cock and a soft place


"Quite hard to meet on here for the males eh"

Not for all of them.

Depends on why they joined, what their expectations were and what their understanding of swinging is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am really sorry, no I’m not actually, but I think that if you have a well written profile, a few pictures, can interact and not see anyone as a sex object for your pleasure it’s not that hard.

Yes you won’t get a 100% record but who wants that. Actually read someone’s profile and see if you really are a good match, send the message and see what happens

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over


"5 weeks on here you are still a virgin.x "

I may be wrong of course but don't think you will find many virgins on here

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat


"Five weeks a member, a proud "cheater", very poor profile content.......I'm shocked"

Yeah but he paid for Gold membership and doesn't that include at least 2 shags a month?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Five weeks a member, a proud "cheater", very poor profile content.......I'm shocked

Yeah but he paid for Gold membership and doesn't that include at least 2 shags a month?! "

I knew I shouldn’t have got the silver membership

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Even single men can pretend to have a partner when they don't lol

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Five weeks a member, a proud "cheater", very poor profile content.......I'm shocked

Yeah but he paid for Gold membership and doesn't that include at least 2 shags a month?!

I knew I shouldn’t have got the silver membership "

Rookie error...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Five weeks a member, a proud "cheater", very poor profile content.......I'm shocked

Yeah but he paid for Gold membership and doesn't that include at least 2 shags a month?!

I knew I shouldn’t have got the silver membership

Rookie error... "

I mean can I pay again and go gold?

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle somewhere


"Quite hard to meet on here for the males eh"

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite hard to meet on here for the males eh"

Nope.

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By *ddictedToLoveMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"5 weeks on here you are still a virgin.x "

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8


"Quite hard to meet on here for the males eh"

Not really, OP. To be honest, I’m on my second go around. This place is like Alton towers!

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden


"Quite hard to meet on here for the males eh"

No issues here. But put some photos and you might get a bit more interest.

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By *andadbodMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

depends on your angle, if it’s impatience then yes, it is tough.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"Five weeks a member, a proud "cheater", very poor profile content.......I'm shocked"

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

5 weeks and not even a sniff of a suck? I’d get onto the mods and tell them there must be a error with your account mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Five weeks a member, a proud "cheater", very poor profile content.......I'm shocked"

This.

I, for one am shocked your not drowning in pussy.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Quite hard to meet on here for the males eh"

Not really particularly hard to meet on here at all for males, maybe if you had something to work off on your profile things would change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab…completed it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just me then lol I do t post public pics cause I just wanna be discreet tbh

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Fab…completed it "

Same, im only here for the shits n giggles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite hard to meet on here for the males eh"

Nah there’s loads of males getting meets, maybe do a revamp of your profile

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Quite hard to meet on here for the males eh"

I never had any problems. But then I didn't give myself an uphill struggle.....

A

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden


"Fab…completed it

Same, im only here for the shits n giggles "

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Just me then lol I do t post public pics cause I just wanna be discreet tbh "

You don't need to post public pics...if fabs not working fir you don't blame fab or the ladies, blame your approach to fab...and drop any expectations thst you may have

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not blaming anyone tbh just finding it hard tbh

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden


"Not blaming anyone tbh just finding it hard tbh"

Five weeks is no time at all, do remember though it’s a swingers site, not a shag site.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Not blaming anyone tbh just finding it hard tbh"

Would you message a woman that had no visible photos and who you had no idea what they looked like?

A

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

You have a while to go yet OP, just keep on the persistence you’ll be fine and remember we are all in the same boat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 weeks, advertising yourself as a cheater and zero public content!

Not surprised your struggling to be honest

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Not blaming anyone tbh just finding it hard tbh

Would you message a woman that had no visible photos and who you had no idea what they looked like?

A"

I'm guessing you know the answer to this already A.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah why not I’d see if she’d be up for a chat and ask to exchange face pics if we’re both ok with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah why not I’d see if she’d be up for a chat and ask to exchange face pics if we’re both ok with it "

Ask yourself this. If you read an exact copy of your profile would you message it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Absolutely why not

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden


"Yeah why not I’d see if she’d be up for a chat and ask to exchange face pics if we’re both ok with it

Ask yourself this. If you read an exact copy of your profile would you message it?"

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By *andadbodMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Not blaming anyone tbh just finding it hard tbh

Five weeks is no time at all, do remember though it’s a swingers site, not a shag site."

that’s the main issue, most people who join don’t seem to fully grasp the singing lifestyle

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.


"Not blaming anyone tbh just finding it hard tbh

Five weeks is no time at all, do remember though it’s a swingers site, not a shag site.

that’s the main issue, most people who join don’t seem to fully grasp the singing lifestyle "

Quite partial to a karaoke

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over


"Not blaming anyone tbh just finding it hard tbh

Five weeks is no time at all, do remember though it’s a swingers site, not a shag site.

that’s the main issue, most people who join don’t seem to fully grasp the singing lifestyle "

And they also come without their quitar

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden


"Not blaming anyone tbh just finding it hard tbh

Five weeks is no time at all, do remember though it’s a swingers site, not a shag site.

that’s the main issue, most people who join don’t seem to fully grasp the singing lifestyle "

It’s everyday on the forums.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Port talbot

You've barely entered the world OP

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"You've barely entered the world OP "

So young, so much to learn

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Not blaming anyone tbh just finding it hard tbh

Would you message a woman that had no visible photos and who you had no idea what they looked like?

A

I'm guessing you know the answer to this already A. "

I did. I just wanted confirmation.

And herein lies the problem. If people are happy to contact a blank profile on ghe off chance they will find that person attractive later, then it's no wonder there's so many moans about timewasters and people not meeting.

Make your life easy. Give people an inkling of what you look like, even from the neck down. It's a really useful filter and saves wasted time, effort and eventual disappointment.

It's the first hurdle to get over, followed by face pics and maintaining interest via chat.

But hey. If you're happy doing things the hard way then crack on. If you think uiuve had no luck after 5 weeks wait til it's 5 months.

Or 5 years..........

A

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By *andadbodMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Not blaming anyone tbh just finding it hard tbh

Five weeks is no time at all, do remember though it’s a swingers site, not a shag site.

that’s the main issue, most people who join don’t seem to fully grasp the singing lifestyle

Quite partial to a karaoke "

bloody phone

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Not if you meet each other.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Not blaming anyone tbh just finding it hard tbh

Would you message a woman that had no visible photos and who you had no idea what they looked like?

A

I'm guessing you know the answer to this already A.

I did. I just wanted confirmation.

And herein lies the problem. If people are happy to contact a blank profile on ghe off chance they will find that person attractive later, then it's no wonder there's so many moans about timewasters and people not meeting.

Make your life easy. Give people an inkling of what you look like, even from the neck down. It's a really useful filter and saves wasted time, effort and eventual disappointment.

It's the first hurdle to get over, followed by face pics and maintaining interest via chat.

But hey. If you're happy doing things the hard way then crack on. If you think uiuve had no luck after 5 weeks wait til it's 5 months.

Or 5 years..........

A"

I hear you brother....then they get all butt hurt when no effort yields no results....man Im a dick but guess what have a well verified account behind me...like wtaf how does that happen for single men, since its sooooo hard....

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Just me then lol I do t post public pics cause I just wanna be discreet tbh "

So do a lot of us. You reckon anyone is going to identify me based on my picture?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how good looking you are. You'll be fine if everyone fancies you. Otherwise, you need a 10 out of 10 personality like RexHoles or Greg.

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a female I can tell you it's bloody hard work filtering through the chaff to find there's nobody worth meeting among it anyway "

Wounded

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By *illan-KillashMan
over a year ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants


"Absolutely why not "

Because there's nothing remotely interesting or appealing about it.

"I want to get my dick wet" biog and absolutely nothing that shows what you look like.

Blind Date was taken off air decades ago.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

One of my best Fab friends contacted me before I had any pictures up. He even wrote me a genuinely personal message.

One, I'm female - women tend to be messaged monumentally more than men. But two, I put a little thought into even my very first profile text, and it piqued his interest.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Port talbot


"Depends on how good looking you are. You'll be fine if everyone fancies you. Otherwise, you need a 10 out of 10 personality like RexHoles or Greg."

Cough cough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on how good looking you are. You'll be fine if everyone fancies you. Otherwise, you need a 10 out of 10 personality like RexHoles or Greg."

Has no one flagged this up as the funniest thing I’ve seen all day, spat my tea out :D

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"As a female I can tell you it's bloody hard work filtering through the chaff to find there's nobody worth meeting among it anyway

Wounded"

#notallchaff

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon."

•

Admit it, you're just discombobulated because I kept looking at your photo? Come on, confess!

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon."

-You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo. pt

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley


"Hard compared to what?"

Flaccid?

Most on here would have you believe they are always hard!

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"Depends on how good looking you are. You'll be fine if everyone fancies you. Otherwise, you need a 10 out of 10 personality like RexHoles or Greg."

My penis was made specifically for your vagina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite hard to meet on here for the males eh"

Nope.

It’s quite easy actually.

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By *nigmaschild300Man
over a year ago

dunfermline


"Quite hard to meet on here for the males eh"

Depends how desperate you are

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Majority of women don't like dirty cheats.

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London


"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon.

-You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo. pt"
Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it.

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over


"Depends on how good looking you are. You'll be fine if everyone fancies you. Otherwise, you need a 10 out of 10 personality like RexHoles or Greg.

Has no one flagged this up as the funniest thing I’ve seen all day, spat my tea out :D"

It did make me wonder if it meant those were 'not good looking' but make it up with their personality. I am sure not the case but it does read a bit like that

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon.

-You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo. pt Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it. "

Some will still ignore it... That's even if they read it in the first place

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"As a female I can tell you it's bloody hard work filtering through the chaff to find there's nobody worth meeting among it anyway

Wounded"

#Snowflake

If I could edit it to nobody worth meeting within a reasonable travel distance, I probably still wouldn't.

(But I'd tongue punch your fart box if you ever make it north of Lancaster)

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Port talbot


"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon.

-You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo. pt Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it. "

My header is "Do you have a penis? I won't be interested" it's worked well for me

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By *anes HubbyCouple
over a year ago

Babbacombe Torquay


"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon.

-You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo. pt Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it. "

Is there any such thing as 1000%?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon.

-You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo. pt Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it. "

I'll be honest, anyone who has to proclaim how straight they are (apart from ticking "straight" and possibly blocking single guys from messaging) just straight up puts me off.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Depends on how good looking you are. You'll be fine if everyone fancies you. Otherwise, you need a 10 out of 10 personality like RexHoles or Greg.

Has no one flagged this up as the funniest thing I’ve seen all day, spat my tea out :D

It did make me wonder if it meant those were 'not good looking' but make it up with their personality. I am sure not the case but it does read a bit like that "

Just be yourself, unless that's not a good thing of course. I jest btw, true authenticity always shines through

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon.

-You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo. pt Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it.

I'll be honest, anyone who has to proclaim how straight they are (apart from ticking "straight" and possibly blocking single guys from messaging) just straight up puts me off. "

And not just fab straight

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"As a female I can tell you it's bloody hard work filtering through the chaff to find there's nobody worth meeting among it anyway

Wounded

#notallchaff"

How about short chaff?

A

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"As a female I can tell you it's bloody hard work filtering through the chaff to find there's nobody worth meeting among it anyway

Wounded

#notallchaff

How about short chaff?

A"

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon.

-You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo. pt Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it.

I'll be honest, anyone who has to proclaim how straight they are (apart from ticking "straight" and possibly blocking single guys from messaging) just straight up puts me off.

And not just fab straight "

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Port talbot


"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon.

-You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo. pt Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it.

I'll be honest, anyone who has to proclaim how straight they are (apart from ticking "straight" and possibly blocking single guys from messaging) just straight up puts me off. "

Like vapes and plug ins, absolutely outrageous

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By *ittle Miss BipolarWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently

Just have a wank. It's easier in the long run.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon.

-You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo.

pt

Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it.

"

-Fair enough, just suggesting it may be a factor maybe. (I don't think it's necessarily rude or anything, but you've written a decent profile so you need people to get to it- not wonder if you might have issues or something).

Also (as a general aside) people need to reach out on Fab (ie search often) and try and get a veri some way. Waiting for people to come to you esp with no veri (they might not even see you if you are unverified) will be hard for lots of people, esp inplaces where there's lots of profiles around. The margins are quite tight for a lot of people, so intro messages, profiles and the main picture all really count imo.

pt

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon.

-You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo. pt Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it.

I'll be honest, anyone who has to proclaim how straight they are (apart from ticking "straight" and possibly blocking single guys from messaging) just straight up puts me off. "

-See it does put some off. I get why people do it (I've put some frustrated stuff at the top of mine for short periods before realising its not worth it) but ultimately people want to get at your profile or pics or whatever, not hear your frustrations beforehand.

pt

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon.

-You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo.

pt

Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it.

-Fair enough, just suggesting it may be a factor maybe. (I don't think it's necessarily rude or anything, but you've written a decent profile so you need people to get to it- not wonder if you might have issues or something).

Also (as a general aside) people need to reach out on Fab (ie search often) and try and get a veri some way. Waiting for people to come to you esp with no veri (they might not even see you if you are unverified) will be hard for lots of people, esp inplaces where there's lots of profiles around. The margins are quite tight for a lot of people, so intro messages, profiles and the main picture all really count imo.

pt"

Veris aren't the be all n end all on fab

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By *ittle Miss BipolarWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently


"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon.

-You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo.

pt

Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it.

-Fair enough, just suggesting it may be a factor maybe. (I don't think it's necessarily rude or anything, but you've written a decent profile so you need people to get to it- not wonder if you might have issues or something).

Also (as a general aside) people need to reach out on Fab (ie search often) and try and get a veri some way. Waiting for people to come to you esp with no veri (they might not even see you if you are unverified) will be hard for lots of people, esp inplaces where there's lots of profiles around. The margins are quite tight for a lot of people, so intro messages, profiles and the main picture all really count imo.

pt

Veris aren't the be all n end all on fab "

"....me and the rugby team fucked her in every hole and left her looking like a painter's radio......treat her with respect guys...."

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon.

-You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo.

pt

Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it.

-Fair enough, just suggesting it may be a factor maybe. (I don't think it's necessarily rude or anything, but you've written a decent profile so you need people to get to it- not wonder if you might have issues or something).

Also (as a general aside) people need to reach out on Fab (ie search often) and try and get a veri some way. Waiting for people to come to you esp with no veri (they might not even see you if you are unverified) will be hard for lots of people, esp inplaces where there's lots of profiles around. The margins are quite tight for a lot of people, so intro messages, profiles and the main picture all really count imo.

pt

Veris aren't the be all n end all on fab

"....me and the rugby team fucked her in every hole and left her looking like a painter's radio......treat her with respect guys...." "

"A fab rarity that can suck a tree root out, whilst taking 4 cocks in the arse"

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By *ittle Miss BipolarWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently


"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon.

-You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo.

pt

Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it.

-Fair enough, just suggesting it may be a factor maybe. (I don't think it's necessarily rude or anything, but you've written a decent profile so you need people to get to it- not wonder if you might have issues or something).

Also (as a general aside) people need to reach out on Fab (ie search often) and try and get a veri some way. Waiting for people to come to you esp with no veri (they might not even see you if you are unverified) will be hard for lots of people, esp inplaces where there's lots of profiles around. The margins are quite tight for a lot of people, so intro messages, profiles and the main picture all really count imo.

pt

Veris aren't the be all n end all on fab

"....me and the rugby team fucked her in every hole and left her looking like a painter's radio......treat her with respect guys...."

"A fab rarity that can suck a tree root out, whilst taking 4 cocks in the arse" "

So you've heard the rumours about me then.....

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon.

-You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo.

pt

Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it.

-Fair enough, just suggesting it may be a factor maybe. (I don't think it's necessarily rude or anything, but you've written a decent profile so you need people to get to it- not wonder if you might have issues or something).

Also (as a general aside) people need to reach out on Fab (ie search often) and try and get a veri some way. Waiting for people to come to you esp with no veri (they might not even see you if you are unverified) will be hard for lots of people, esp inplaces where there's lots of profiles around. The margins are quite tight for a lot of people, so intro messages, profiles and the main picture all really count imo.

pt

Veris aren't the be all n end all on fab

"....me and the rugby team fucked her in every hole and left her looking like a painter's radio......treat her with respect guys...." "

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon.

-You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo.

pt

Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it.

-Fair enough, just suggesting it may be a factor maybe. (I don't think it's necessarily rude or anything, but you've written a decent profile so you need people to get to it- not wonder if you might have issues or something).

Also (as a general aside) people need to reach out on Fab (ie search often) and try and get a veri some way. Waiting for people to come to you esp with no veri (they might not even see you if you are unverified) will be hard for lots of people, esp inplaces where there's lots of profiles around. The margins are quite tight for a lot of people, so intro messages, profiles and the main picture all really count imo.

pt

Veris aren't the be all n end all on fab

"....me and the rugby team fucked her in every hole and left her looking like a painter's radio......treat her with respect guys...."

"A fab rarity that can suck a tree root out, whilst taking 4 cocks in the arse"

So you've heard the rumours about me then..... "

Nothing secret on fab

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon.

-You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo.

pt

Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it.

-Fair enough, just suggesting it may be a factor maybe. (I don't think it's necessarily rude or anything, but you've written a decent profile so you need people to get to it- not wonder if you might have issues or something).

Also (as a general aside) people need to reach out on Fab (ie search often) and try and get a veri some way. Waiting for people to come to you esp with no veri (they might not even see you if you are unverified) will be hard for lots of people, esp inplaces where there's lots of profiles around. The margins are quite tight for a lot of people, so intro messages, profiles and the main picture all really count imo.

pt

Veris aren't the be all n end all on fab

"

-No, but you still need at least 1 imo (and you have a number of them). People can filter out the profiles with no verifications that's the thing. They do it to cut the amount of dodgy new profiles (or just inexperienced or rubbish ones perhaps), but some people can and will lose out of course.

It's all in these margins imo, make sure all the channels are open to maximise your chances. Veris can be gained from phone or cam conversations, from fab friends or from people you've just been chatting to. It's only reality verification - they don't have to be full on meets.

pt

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By *ittle Miss BipolarWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon.

-You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo.

pt

Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it.

-Fair enough, just suggesting it may be a factor maybe. (I don't think it's necessarily rude or anything, but you've written a decent profile so you need people to get to it- not wonder if you might have issues or something).

Also (as a general aside) people need to reach out on Fab (ie search often) and try and get a veri some way. Waiting for people to come to you esp with no veri (they might not even see you if you are unverified) will be hard for lots of people, esp inplaces where there's lots of profiles around. The margins are quite tight for a lot of people, so intro messages, profiles and the main picture all really count imo.

pt

Veris aren't the be all n end all on fab

-No, but you still need at least 1 imo (and you have a number of them). People can filter out the profiles with no verifications that's the thing. They do it to cut the amount of dodgy new profiles (or just inexperienced or rubbish ones perhaps), but some people can and will lose out of course.

It's all in these margins imo, make sure all the channels are open to maximise your chances. Veris can be gained from phone or cam conversations, from fab friends or from people you've just been chatting to. It's only reality verification - they don't have to be full on meets.

pt "

I've come and gone from fab many times over the years, even without veris I still got meets. So no there nit important. What's more important is ad to how someone is and comes across

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over a year ago


"[verified by poster at 25/05/23 22:20:50]"

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"[Rumored by poster at 25/05/23 22:20:50]"

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By *ittle Miss BipolarWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently


"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon.

-You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo.

pt

Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it.

-Fair enough, just suggesting it may be a factor maybe. (I don't think it's necessarily rude or anything, but you've written a decent profile so you need people to get to it- not wonder if you might have issues or something).

Also (as a general aside) people need to reach out on Fab (ie search often) and try and get a veri some way. Waiting for people to come to you esp with no veri (they might not even see you if you are unverified) will be hard for lots of people, esp inplaces where there's lots of profiles around. The margins are quite tight for a lot of people, so intro messages, profiles and the main picture all really count imo.

pt

Veris aren't the be all n end all on fab

-No, but you still need at least 1 imo (and you have a number of them). People can filter out the profiles with no verifications that's the thing. They do it to cut the amount of dodgy new profiles (or just inexperienced or rubbish ones perhaps), but some people can and will lose out of course.

It's all in these margins imo, make sure all the channels are open to maximise your chances. Veris can be gained from phone or cam conversations, from fab friends or from people you've just been chatting to. It's only reality verification - they don't have to be full on meets.

pt

I've come and gone from fab many times over the years, even without veris I still got meets. So no there nit important. What's more important is ad to how someone is and comes across "

I'd agree with this.

Some absolute arseholes have countless veris singing their praises.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon.

-You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo.

pt

Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it.

-Fair enough, just suggesting it may be a factor maybe. (I don't think it's necessarily rude or anything, but you've written a decent profile so you need people to get to it- not wonder if you might have issues or something).

Also (as a general aside) people need to reach out on Fab (ie search often) and try and get a veri some way. Waiting for people to come to you esp with no veri (they might not even see you if you are unverified) will be hard for lots of people, esp inplaces where there's lots of profiles around. The margins are quite tight for a lot of people, so intro messages, profiles and the main picture all really count imo.

pt

Veris aren't the be all n end all on fab

-No, but you still need at least 1 imo (and you have a number of them). People can filter out the profiles with no verifications that's the thing. They do it to cut the amount of dodgy new profiles (or just inexperienced or rubbish ones perhaps), but some people can and will lose out of course.

It's all in these margins imo, make sure all the channels are open to maximise your chances. Veris can be gained from phone or cam conversations, from fab friends or from people you've just been chatting to. It's only reality verification - they don't have to be full on meets.

pt

I've come and gone from fab many times over the years, even without veris I still got meets. So no there nit important. What's more important is ad to how someone is and comes across

I'd agree with this.

Some absolute arseholes have countless veris singing their praises."

Preach sister....I'm a dickead the ladies tell the world of the fact, the bastards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is with practically no bio and no public pictures.

And you've only been here 5 weeks.

What were you expecting?

To be beating the ladies off with a shitty stick within an hour of joining?

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon.

-You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo.

pt

Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it.

-Fair enough, just suggesting it may be a factor maybe. (I don't think it's necessarily rude or anything, but you've written a decent profile so you need people to get to it- not wonder if you might have issues or something).

Also (as a general aside) people need to reach out on Fab (ie search often) and try and get a veri some way. Waiting for people to come to you esp with no veri (they might not even see you if you are unverified) will be hard for lots of people, esp inplaces where there's lots of profiles around. The margins are quite tight for a lot of people, so intro messages, profiles and the main picture all really count imo.

pt

Veris aren't the be all n end all on fab

-No, but you still need at least 1 imo (and you have a number of them). People can filter out the profiles with no verifications that's the thing. They do it to cut the amount of dodgy new profiles (or just inexperienced or rubbish ones perhaps), but some people can and will lose out of course.

It's all in these margins imo, make sure all the channels are open to maximise your chances. Veris can be gained from phone or cam conversations, from fab friends or from people you've just been chatting to. It's only reality verification - they don't have to be full on meets.

pt

I've come and gone from fab many times over the years, even without veris I still got meets. So no there nit important. What's more important is ad to how someone is and comes across "

-Well no lol - apart from the filtering thing! But well done on being Caucasian Gandhi I guess. pt

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon.

-You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo.

pt

Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it.

-Fair enough, just suggesting it may be a factor maybe. (I don't think it's necessarily rude or anything, but you've written a decent profile so you need people to get to it- not wonder if you might have issues or something).

Also (as a general aside) people need to reach out on Fab (ie search often) and try and get a veri some way. Waiting for people to come to you esp with no veri (they might not even see you if you are unverified) will be hard for lots of people, esp inplaces where there's lots of profiles around. The margins are quite tight for a lot of people, so intro messages, profiles and the main picture all really count imo.

pt

Veris aren't the be all n end all on fab

-No, but you still need at least 1 imo (and you have a number of them). People can filter out the profiles with no verifications that's the thing. They do it to cut the amount of dodgy new profiles (or just inexperienced or rubbish ones perhaps), but some people can and will lose out of course.

It's all in these margins imo, make sure all the channels are open to maximise your chances. Veris can be gained from phone or cam conversations, from fab friends or from people you've just been chatting to. It's only reality verification - they don't have to be full on meets.

pt

I've come and gone from fab many times over the years, even without veris I still got meets. So no there nit important. What's more important is ad to how someone is and comes across

-Well no lol - apart from the filtering thing! But well done on being Caucasian Gandhi I guess. pt"

My experience is my experience and that is I've never needed veris, I see often your heavy reference to veris. Yes I'm well verified do you think thst means, im knee deep in clunge every night, no does it fuck....

And what do you mean by "But well done on being Caucasian Gandhi I guess"

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I actually don't like seeing too many dumb types of veris - I don't have many (mine are mostly on FG and doms hate to give them too) but I still edit the ones I have!

But guys - a lot of people don't realise that often the people they are actually looking at (experienced couples in some cases I've noticed recently) do often filter for them. So it's worth pointing out - and how easy it is to get one too (ie not from an actual meet).

pt

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon.

-You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo.

pt

Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it.

-Fair enough, just suggesting it may be a factor maybe. (I don't think it's necessarily rude or anything, but you've written a decent profile so you need people to get to it- not wonder if you might have issues or something).

Also (as a general aside) people need to reach out on Fab (ie search often) and try and get a veri some way. Waiting for people to come to you esp with no veri (they might not even see you if you are unverified) will be hard for lots of people, esp inplaces where there's lots of profiles around. The margins are quite tight for a lot of people, so intro messages, profiles and the main picture all really count imo.

pt

Veris aren't the be all n end all on fab

-No, but you still need at least 1 imo (and you have a number of them). People can filter out the profiles with no verifications that's the thing. They do it to cut the amount of dodgy new profiles (or just inexperienced or rubbish ones perhaps), but some people can and will lose out of course.

It's all in these margins imo, make sure all the channels are open to maximise your chances. Veris can be gained from phone or cam conversations, from fab friends or from people you've just been chatting to. It's only reality verification - they don't have to be full on meets.

pt

I've come and gone from fab many times over the years, even without veris I still got meets. So no there nit important. What's more important is ad to how someone is and comes across

-Well no lol - apart from the filtering thing! But well done on being Caucasian Gandhi I guess. pt

My experience is my experience and that is I've never needed veris, I see often your heavy reference to veris. Yes I'm well verified do you think thst means, im knee deep in clunge every night, no does it fuck....

And what do you mean by "But well done on being Caucasian Gandhi I guess"

"

-I don't really get what you are arguing about. My point is merely about the filters on here! The last time I mentioned it was to another struggling guy (who had mentioned that fact a few times) who was looking for experienced older couples who in my opinion are more likely to filter for them. But anyone can, just to cut down on loads of messages! But once you have 1 veri all that simply doesn't factor any more, so your continued success with them means jack to my argument (and yes to success of Fab too I agree).

I am just recalling that this time last year it was oft-given advice in here to use veri-filtering (along with filtering brand-new profiles) to cut down on the amount of quite abusive messages that women used to be getting for a while. There really were loads of threads on that at one point.

I'm not saying anything about the *amount* of veris at all - only that it is clearly worth getting the one.

pt

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Quite hard to meet on here for the males eh"

Your young age will put many off, let’s face it; pretty much every woman in here is a milf or a cougar compared to you

Your profile also reads like it was written by an immature boy. Sorry mate, that may sound harsh, but it’s fair, and said with good intentions

You’ve also only been here 5 weeks. This isn’t Instashag, you do have to put in some effort, and have patience. When I was your age, I was having more fun, and meeting more girls (an age-appropriate term) in ‘normal’ pubs and nightclubs. Go and have some fun, and come back here in a couple of years, if you feel the need. You may even have a female partner looking to swing in the ‘traditional/correct/real’ way

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon.

-You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo.

pt

Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it.

-Fair enough, just suggesting it may be a factor maybe. (I don't think it's necessarily rude or anything, but you've written a decent profile so you need people to get to it- not wonder if you might have issues or something).

Also (as a general aside) people need to reach out on Fab (ie search often) and try and get a veri some way. Waiting for people to come to you esp with no veri (they might not even see you if you are unverified) will be hard for lots of people, esp inplaces where there's lots of profiles around. The margins are quite tight for a lot of people, so intro messages, profiles and the main picture all really count imo.

pt

Veris aren't the be all n end all on fab

-No, but you still need at least 1 imo (and you have a number of them). People can filter out the profiles with no verifications that's the thing. They do it to cut the amount of dodgy new profiles (or just inexperienced or rubbish ones perhaps), but some people can and will lose out of course.

It's all in these margins imo, make sure all the channels are open to maximise your chances. Veris can be gained from phone or cam conversations, from fab friends or from people you've just been chatting to. It's only reality verification - they don't have to be full on meets.

pt

I've come and gone from fab many times over the years, even without veris I still got meets. So no there nit important. What's more important is ad to how someone is and comes across

-Well no lol - apart from the filtering thing! But well done on being Caucasian Gandhi I guess. pt

My experience is my experience and that is I've never needed veris, I see often your heavy reference to veris. Yes I'm well verified do you think thst means, im knee deep in clunge every night, no does it fuck....

And what do you mean by "But well done on being Caucasian Gandhi I guess"

-I don't really get what you are arguing about. My point is merely about the filters on here! The last time I mentioned it was to another struggling guy (who had mentioned that fact a few times) who was looking for experienced older couples who in my opinion are more likely to filter for them. But anyone can, just to cut down on loads of messages! But once you have 1 veri all that simply doesn't factor any more, so your continued success with them means jack to my argument (and yes to success of Fab too I agree).

I am just recalling that this time last year it was oft-given advice in here to use veri-filtering (along with filtering brand-new profiles) to cut down on the amount of quite abusive messages that women used to be getting for a while. There really were loads of threads on that at one point.

I'm not saying anything about the *amount* of veris at all - only that it is clearly worth getting the one.

pt"

I'm not arguing with you, I'm Merely pointing out my experience, if you recieve that as me challenging what your saying, that's on you not me....amount of veris was never mentioned. I pointed out that I've never needed a veri to get a meet, and having veris actually does fuck all for me in getting a meet, a part from swerving that filter.. is the long n short of it

I'd still like to know what yiu meant by "But well done on being Caucasian Gandhi I guess"

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon.

-You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo.

pt

Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it.

-Fair enough, just suggesting it may be a factor maybe. (I don't think it's necessarily rude or anything, but you've written a decent profile so you need people to get to it- not wonder if you might have issues or something).

Also (as a general aside) people need to reach out on Fab (ie search often) and try and get a veri some way. Waiting for people to come to you esp with no veri (they might not even see you if you are unverified) will be hard for lots of people, esp inplaces where there's lots of profiles around. The margins are quite tight for a lot of people, so intro messages, profiles and the main picture all really count imo.

pt

Veris aren't the be all n end all on fab

-No, but you still need at least 1 imo (and you have a number of them). People can filter out the profiles with no verifications that's the thing. They do it to cut the amount of dodgy new profiles (or just inexperienced or rubbish ones perhaps), but some people can and will lose out of course.

It's all in these margins imo, make sure all the channels are open to maximise your chances. Veris can be gained from phone or cam conversations, from fab friends or from people you've just been chatting to. It's only reality verification - they don't have to be full on meets.

pt

I've come and gone from fab many times over the years, even without veris I still got meets. So no there nit important. What's more important is ad to how someone is and comes across

-Well no lol - apart from the filtering thing! But well done on being Caucasian Gandhi I guess. pt

My experience is my experience and that is I've never needed veris, I see often your heavy reference to veris. Yes I'm well verified do you think thst means, im knee deep in clunge every night, no does it fuck....

And what do you mean by "But well done on being Caucasian Gandhi I guess"

-I don't really get what you are arguing about. My point is merely about the filters on here! The last time I mentioned it was to another struggling guy (who had mentioned that fact a few times) who was looking for experienced older couples who in my opinion are more likely to filter for them. But anyone can, just to cut down on loads of messages! But once you have 1 veri all that simply doesn't factor any more, so your continued success with them means jack to my argument (and yes to success of Fab too I agree).

I am just recalling that this time last year it was oft-given advice in here to use veri-filtering (along with filtering brand-new profiles) to cut down on the amount of quite abusive messages that women used to be getting for a while. There really were loads of threads on that at one point.

I'm not saying anything about the *amount* of veris at all - only that it is clearly worth getting the one.

pt"

I'm not arguing with you, I'm Merely pointing out my experience, if you recieve that as me challenging what your saying, that's on you not me....amount of veris was never mentioned. I pointed out that I've never needed a veri to get a meet, and having veris actually does fuck all for me in getting a meet, a part from swerving that filter.. is the long n short of it

I'd still like to know what yiu meant by "But well done on being Caucasian Gandhi I guess"

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon.

-You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo.

pt

Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it.

-Fair enough, just suggesting it may be a factor maybe. (I don't think it's necessarily rude or anything, but you've written a decent profile so you need people to get to it- not wonder if you might have issues or something).

Also (as a general aside) people need to reach out on Fab (ie search often) and try and get a veri some way. Waiting for people to come to you esp with no veri (they might not even see you if you are unverified) will be hard for lots of people, esp inplaces where there's lots of profiles around. The margins are quite tight for a lot of people, so intro messages, profiles and the main picture all really count imo.

pt

Veris aren't the be all n end all on fab

-No, but you still need at least 1 imo (and you have a number of them). People can filter out the profiles with no verifications that's the thing. They do it to cut the amount of dodgy new profiles (or just inexperienced or rubbish ones perhaps), but some people can and will lose out of course.

It's all in these margins imo, make sure all the channels are open to maximise your chances. Veris can be gained from phone or cam conversations, from fab friends or from people you've just been chatting to. It's only reality verification - they don't have to be full on meets.

pt

I've come and gone from fab many times over the years, even without veris I still got meets. So no there nit important. What's more important is ad to how someone is and comes across

-Well no lol - apart from the filtering thing! But well done on being Caucasian Gandhi I guess.

pt

My experience is my experience and that is I've never needed veris, I see often your heavy reference to veris. Yes I'm well verified do you think thst means, im knee deep in clunge every night, no does it fuck....

And what do you mean by "But well done on being Caucasian Gandhi I guess"

-I don't really get what you are arguing about. My point is merely about the filters on here! The last time I mentioned it was to another struggling guy (who had mentioned that fact a few times) who was looking for experienced older couples who in my opinion are more likely to filter for them. But anyone can, just to cut down on loads of messages! But once you have 1 veri all that simply doesn't factor any more, so your continued success with them means jack to my argument (and yes to success of Fab too I agree).

I am just recalling that this time last year it was oft-given advice in here to use veri-filtering (along with filtering brand-new profiles) to cut down on the amount of quite abusive messages that women used to be getting for a while. There really were loads of threads on that at one point.

I'm not saying anything about the *amount* of veris at all - only that it is clearly worth getting the one.

pt

I'm not arguing with you, I'm Merely pointing out my experience, if you recieve that as me challenging what your saying, that's on you not me....amount of veris was never mentioned. I pointed out that I've never needed a veri to get a meet, and having veris actually does fuck all for me in getting a meet, a part from swerving that filter.. is the long n short of it

I'd still like to know what yiu meant by "But well done on being Caucasian Gandhi I guess"

"

-Well you don't really know because after you get the first one, who knows? But I agree that one is all you really need (though I'd put up some more if doms stopped telling me I haven't earnt it yet or cunningly used my real name lol). I'm not going to tangle with you on anything though - I've *only* been referring to the amount of yours and other peoples meets.

pt

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon.

-You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo.

pt

Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it.

-Fair enough, just suggesting it may be a factor maybe. (I don't think it's necessarily rude or anything, but you've written a decent profile so you need people to get to it- not wonder if you might have issues or something).

Also (as a general aside) people need to reach out on Fab (ie search often) and try and get a veri some way. Waiting for people to come to you esp with no veri (they might not even see you if you are unverified) will be hard for lots of people, esp inplaces where there's lots of profiles around. The margins are quite tight for a lot of people, so intro messages, profiles and the main picture all really count imo.

pt

Veris aren't the be all n end all on fab

-No, but you still need at least 1 imo (and you have a number of them). People can filter out the profiles with no verifications that's the thing. They do it to cut the amount of dodgy new profiles (or just inexperienced or rubbish ones perhaps), but some people can and will lose out of course.

It's all in these margins imo, make sure all the channels are open to maximise your chances. Veris can be gained from phone or cam conversations, from fab friends or from people you've just been chatting to. It's only reality verification - they don't have to be full on meets.

pt

I've come and gone from fab many times over the years, even without veris I still got meets. So no there nit important. What's more important is ad to how someone is and comes across

-Well no lol - apart from the filtering thing! But well done on being Caucasian Gandhi I guess.

pt

My experience is my experience and that is I've never needed veris, I see often your heavy reference to veris. Yes I'm well verified do you think thst means, im knee deep in clunge every night, no does it fuck....

And what do you mean by "But well done on being Caucasian Gandhi I guess"

-I don't really get what you are arguing about. My point is merely about the filters on here! The last time I mentioned it was to another struggling guy (who had mentioned that fact a few times) who was looking for experienced older couples who in my opinion are more likely to filter for them. But anyone can, just to cut down on loads of messages! But once you have 1 veri all that simply doesn't factor any more, so your continued success with them means jack to my argument (and yes to success of Fab too I agree).

I am just recalling that this time last year it was oft-given advice in here to use veri-filtering (along with filtering brand-new profiles) to cut down on the amount of quite abusive messages that women used to be getting for a while. There really were loads of threads on that at one point.

I'm not saying anything about the *amount* of veris at all - only that it is clearly worth getting the one.

pt

I'm not arguing with you, I'm Merely pointing out my experience, if you recieve that as me challenging what your saying, that's on you not me....amount of veris was never mentioned. I pointed out that I've never needed a veri to get a meet, and having veris actually does fuck all for me in getting a meet, a part from swerving that filter.. is the long n short of it

I'd still like to know what yiu meant by "But well done on being Caucasian Gandhi I guess"

-Well you don't really know because after you get the first one, who knows? But I agree that one is all you really need (though I'd put up some more if doms stopped telling me I haven't earnt it yet or cunningly used my real name lol). I'm not going to tangle with you on anything though - I've *only* been referring to the amount of yours and other peoples meets.

pt"

Listen its all gravy baby, the thing I find frustrating is, threads such as this are started, but ppl don't take the advice from the men, who do get meets on a regular basis. Then wonder why it's not working fir them. Pt no tangling it's all good peace n love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Average 1 a year if your lucky

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon.

-You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo.

pt

Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it.

-Fair enough, just suggesting it may be a factor maybe. (I don't think it's necessarily rude or anything, but you've written a decent profile so you need people to get to it- not wonder if you might have issues or something).

Also (as a general aside) people need to reach out on Fab (ie search often) and try and get a veri some way. Waiting for people to come to you esp with no veri (they might not even see you if you are unverified) will be hard for lots of people, esp inplaces where there's lots of profiles around. The margins are quite tight for a lot of people, so intro messages, profiles and the main picture all really count imo.

pt

Veris aren't the be all n end all on fab

-No, but you still need at least 1 imo (and you have a number of them). People can filter out the profiles with no verifications that's the thing. They do it to cut the amount of dodgy new profiles (or just inexperienced or rubbish ones perhaps), but some people can and will lose out of course.

It's all in these margins imo, make sure all the channels are open to maximise your chances. Veris can be gained from phone or cam conversations, from fab friends or from people you've just been chatting to. It's only reality verification - they don't have to be full on meets.

pt

I've come and gone from fab many times over the years, even without veris I still got meets. So no there nit important. What's more important is ad to how someone is and comes across

-Well no lol - apart from the filtering thing! But well done on being Caucasian Gandhi I guess.

pt

My experience is my experience and that is I've never needed veris, I see often your heavy reference to veris. Yes I'm well verified do you think thst means, im knee deep in clunge every night, no does it fuck....

And what do you mean by "But well done on being Caucasian Gandhi I guess"

-I don't really get what you are arguing about. My point is merely about the filters on here! The last time I mentioned it was to another struggling guy (who had mentioned that fact a few times) who was looking for experienced older couples who in my opinion are more likely to filter for them. But anyone can, just to cut down on loads of messages! But once you have 1 veri all that simply doesn't factor any more, so your continued success with them means jack to my argument (and yes to success of Fab too I agree).

I am just recalling that this time last year it was oft-given advice in here to use veri-filtering (along with filtering brand-new profiles) to cut down on the amount of quite abusive messages that women used to be getting for a while. There really were loads of threads on that at one point.

I'm not saying anything about the *amount* of veris at all - only that it is clearly worth getting the one.

pt

I'm not arguing with you, I'm Merely pointing out my experience, if you recieve that as me challenging what your saying, that's on you not me....amount of veris was never mentioned. I pointed out that I've never needed a veri to get a meet, and having veris actually does fuck all for me in getting a meet, a part from swerving that filter.. is the long n short of it

I'd still like to know what yiu meant by "But well done on being Caucasian Gandhi I guess"

-Well you don't really know because after you get the first one, who knows? But I agree that one is all you really need (though I'd put up some more if doms stopped telling me I haven't earnt it yet or cunningly used my real name lol). I'm not going to tangle with you on anything though - I've *only* been referring to the amount of yours and other peoples meets.

pt

Listen its all gravy baby, the thing I find frustrating is, threads such as this are started, but ppl don't take the advice from the men, who do get meets on a regular basis. Then wonder why it's not working fir them. Pt no tangling it's all good peace n love "

-true pt

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Quite hard to meet on here for the males eh"

Try a club..

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Fab…completed it

Same, im only here for the shits n giggles "

Which is more important?

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

She's important.... ^ xxx

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

What makes you stand out -significantly - from the thousands of other single men here OP, when we are

browsing around for 1? Those who do it best, are going to be the 1st spoken with and met.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Fab…completed it

Same, im only here for the shits n giggles

Which is more important?"

The giggling

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By *illan-KillashMan
over a year ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants


"Quite hard to meet on here for the males eh"

Do whatever it was you did to get your meet from a year ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a shagfest fella. You’re doing it wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hard compared to what?"

I hear this said to me a lot.

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.


"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon.

-You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo.

pt

Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it.

-Fair enough, just suggesting it may be a factor maybe. (I don't think it's necessarily rude or anything, but you've written a decent profile so you need people to get to it- not wonder if you might have issues or something).

Also (as a general aside) people need to reach out on Fab (ie search often) and try and get a veri some way. Waiting for people to come to you esp with no veri (they might not even see you if you are unverified) will be hard for lots of people, esp inplaces where there's lots of profiles around. The margins are quite tight for a lot of people, so intro messages, profiles and the main picture all really count imo.

pt

Veris aren't the be all n end all on fab

"....me and the rugby team fucked her in every hole and left her looking like a painter's radio......treat her with respect guys...." "

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