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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok so here we go another one of anal topics , not a secret that i live this topic lol.

So would you engage in anal sex on first date ? Well ofcourse if you would even engage in any kind of sex...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

Nope

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Would you, OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope the only shit coming out a hole is from his mouth.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Of course, that's the reason I'm on here....oh you meant like that.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Yes, yes I would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn’t think it was a privilege until fab. Doesn’t make me want it more though

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Not for me. Generally I only want anal with people who know how to read my body language, and I'm not gonna get that with strangers.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

What about you OP.

Do you take it up the bum on a first meet?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I would do anal on a first meet, and have done so. Some ladies love it, even prefer it to vaginal sex, because it’s so ‘dirty/naughty/not vanilla’. I just go with the flow….

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I would ofcourse ...love anal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not as a blanket 'yes' to anyone but indeed, it has happened.

T

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

I have done, but didn’t set out to. It was one of those meets seething with sexual chemistry and we did a lot.

Halfway through, she asked me to. I certainly wouldn’t seek to and I would only do it at all if it felt right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need more clarification.

Would it be me taking it?

Me pegging?

Or me with a woman, giving or receiving?

I mean, it does make a bit of a difference doesn't it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I need more clarification.

Would it be me taking it?

Me pegging?

Or me with a woman, giving or receiving?

Welll anyway possible hehe

I mean, it does make a bit of a difference doesn't it? "

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

It has happened...but usually only for DP

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

stockport

Yes I would

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Woe betide the inbox of any femmes that say yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It has happened...but usually only for DP "

Well thats so good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would if it was planned before the date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

I like to size up the cock and if that person would be gentle or patient enough for me

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By *imisugarWoman
over a year ago

Rugby

No from me.

I don't do anal with everyone I sleep with.

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON


"Ok so here we go another one of anal topics , not a secret that i live this topic lol.

So would you engage in anal sex on first date ? Well ofcourse if you would even engage in any kind of sex... "

Yes i have, it wasn't planned but she loved it so it all ended well.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Yes and I have done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do on most of my meets.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

No bum fun on the first meets, prudes

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

No I prefer to know someone better before I would indulge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No need to know and trust someone really well.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"Not for me. Generally I only want anal with people who know how to read my body language, and I'm not gonna get that with strangers."

Pretty much the above.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"No need to know and trust someone really well."

Totally agree.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Yes, I would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did and I wouldn't again , guy was just overly eager and didn't know what he was doing . We discussed it at length beforehand ...but as is a reoccurring theme on here overpromised underdelivered. ....sigh

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

If I’ve not potted her tight brown within 1hr of meeting then she’s on the block and report list for wasting my time

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I have done in the past but it's not a given!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes I do on most of my meets.

"

My type of lady

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Ok so here we go another one of anal topics , not a secret that i live this topic lol.

So would you engage in anal sex on first date ? Well ofcourse if you would even engage in any kind of sex... "

nope need to test your hole first with a dildo and swabs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so here we go another one of anal topics , not a secret that i live this topic lol.

So would you engage in anal sex on first date ? Well ofcourse if you would even engage in any kind of sex... "

Sure i can give you anal on the first meet if that’s what you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

Seeing as DP is P's favourite thing to do on a meet then it's a yes from us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Seeing as DP is P's favourite thing to do on a meet then it's a yes from us."

Yes this is definitelly the winner combination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I certainly appreciate most people's trepidation about engaging in such behaviour from the off, it requires a large degree of trust, communication and patience.

However, from reading some comments its also not unheard of. Which might be useful information to know

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By *pMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"It has happened...but usually only for DP "

And what a pic it is on your profile

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Nope

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By *otguy555Man
over a year ago

Bristol

My first date with my wife was at a rave and we were both hi as hell and she let me give her anal and she has never stopped loving it since. That was 20 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so here we go another one of anal topics , not a secret that i live this topic lol.

So would you engage in anal sex on first date ? Well ofcourse if you would even engage in any kind of sex... "

If you want I will with you as long as I’m top and it’s raw with no lube

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither of us are bothered about anal at all.

There was a time though, during a one night stand, as we moved into position to fuck, she suggested anal.

We did so and it wasn't until the following morning that she mentioned 'because anal isn't cheating'

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
over a year ago

hexham


"Ok so here we go another one of anal topics , not a secret that i live this topic lol.

So would you engage in anal sex on first date ? Well ofcourse if you would even engage in any kind of sex... "

Well with me it kind of goes with the territory!

However I do not always engage in sex of any kind. I make no promises with meets just in case the other person is really a nasty person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so here we go another one of anal topics , not a secret that i live this topic lol.

So would you engage in anal sex on first date ? Well ofcourse if you would even engage in any kind of sex... "

no

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I find anal easy so doing it with a stranger on a first meet is fine by me.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Absolutely not never

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Sure, women know what they want and don’t want and I have no issue with anal

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

No I would not.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Only by accident.

I mean, she's obvs gonna be really wet and with all that lubrication it's easy to accidentally aim high whilst she's bent over the coffee table when you're thrusting away like a jackhammer, and before you know it........

That happens to everyone, no.....?

A

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

It completely depends on the person and the dynamic...

First time myself and my now boyfriend slept together I almost suggested it... Gutted I didn't now.

But we ended up together so it's a regular now hahaha...

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By *hantelle-La-SlutTV/TS
over a year ago

South Birmingham

hummm let me think about this for a second (very split second most likely a nano second)

yes i will (only reason i am here to be fair)

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By *hrimper36Couple
over a year ago

Central France dept 36

Personally no because my arse is off bounds but Eve 100% would because her arse welcomes all .

T

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Nope. Never. That's never going to happen. Ever. Never ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way

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By *arialoueWoman
over a year ago

bradford

Nope

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

I have done, yes. Its never a given though.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

Well, other than oral, it's the princ_pal means by which I have sex. So if I'm meeting for sex, then hell yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, other than oral, it's the princ_pal means by which I have sex. So if I'm meeting for sex, then hell yes!"

That does make total sense lol

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By *esYesOMGYes!Man
over a year ago

M20

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By *esYesOMGYes!Man
over a year ago

M20

Not if it’s a social..

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Don't really regard my mouth, pussy or bum on a hierarchical basis.. If I allow access to one and I'm feeling it..

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By *urvelover87Man
over a year ago

stevenage

Yes. I had some meets in the past that were all about anal sex and just anal sex.

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By *atn_p make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

no

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

No expectations just whatever turns her on - if at some point she says that she wants it which has happened- then sure i would. I can understand the reluctance especially if you’re with someone who might not be careful or just dive straight at it

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

If the mood/trust is there, yes.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Personally it's not something I would aim for on a first time. However as a single guy I did have a first meet that progress back to a hotel room. As things naturally moved beyond the foreplay stage and I set up to fuck her she comes out with stick it in my arse. Which was I admit a bit of a suprise. However I did oblige and it was very hot. She later rimmed me in the shower, which was a new experience for me. I'm no Sherlock Holmes but I suspect she may of had a huge thing for all things anal.

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes if the guy doesn't do anal then he is unlikely to meet me.

Why would I deny myself a fantastic orgasm ????

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By *urhamdebbiecdTV/TS
over a year ago

bishop auckland

Yes please x

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By *ddkkk91Man
over a year ago

fife

Done it before ( as a giver) and it was new... but good

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By *tmostakiss1Man
over a year ago

DC


"Yes if the guy doesn't do anal then he is unlikely to meet me.

Why would I deny myself a fantastic orgasm ????"

Loving that new video. Make it rain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love anal - but never on a meet. I have a little motto that anal is earnt, so I’ve got to trust the guy and they’ve got to be good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes if the guy doesn't do anal then he is unlikely to meet me.

Why would I deny myself a fantastic orgasm ????

Loving that new video. Make it rain "

Thanks, like I said I do enjoy anal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like clean curtains so no anal on meets.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Ok so here we go another one of anal topics , not a secret that i live this topic lol.

So would you engage in anal sex on first date ? Well ofcourse if you would even engage in any kind of sex... "

Anal is just another Sex Act, it's not something special, just a differnt sensation. I've never understood why someguys get so obsessed with it.

Cal

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Yes iv bummed girls on first days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No engaging in anal. Ever.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

If I felt at ease with the person, of course I would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would do anal with a woman on first meet

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Not if it’s a social.."
cmon you could sl_p one up there when shes not looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if she wants to peg me who am I to argue. Even on a first meet

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By *lueFireCouple
over a year ago

just somewhere around here


"Ok so here we go another one of anal topics , not a secret that i live this topic lol.

So would you engage in anal sex on first date ? Well ofcourse if you would even engage in any kind of sex... "

I would .. Mr R

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I have done a couple of times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With the right person who has invested a couple of months of intense chat, absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have a few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes met women through fab who wanted it on first meet.

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By *effrey45Man
over a year ago

Lytham

3 first time fab meets had anal

And yes they can return the favour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not on a first meet no.

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

Have done, yes. Usually if its In a club

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