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"Is it possible too much emphasis can be put on conversing before potential play. " Most certainly, yes You know people more in physical than ping pong messaging. | |||
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"Spontaneous sex where everyone is willing and joins in readily and to who it comes naturally is exciting but not without huge risks. My honest belief ( experience ) is that most people here ( or anywhere ) are not sexually adventurous , spontaneous , in touch with natural sexual instinct or even know about pleasure. Most are everyday folk who haven't had a shag for some time and just want a safe leg over for the evening. One that's more low risk and where you know a bit about what you are getting yourself into." You’ve hit the nail on the head there. As much as we do enjoy socialising it rarely leads to anything for that reason. We don’t go with any intentions having said that. In our own experience we have been able to read a situation in a play room having started on our own having gone on to have some of our best experiences. That doesn’t mean to say we’re looking for casual meets as the same playmates are likely to be there at another event so you get to build up a rapport s along the way. | |||
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"Spontaneous sex where everyone is willing and joins in readily and to who it comes naturally is exciting but not without huge risks. My honest belief ( experience ) is that most people here ( or anywhere ) are not sexually adventurous , spontaneous , in touch with natural sexual instinct or even know about pleasure. Most are everyday folk who haven't had a shag for some time and just want a safe leg over for the evening. One that's more low risk and where you know a bit about what you are getting yourself into." Well, I'm all of those things you speak of, and know a great deal about carnal pleasures. I prefer to have it with people I know more than the colour of their arse cheeks. *to be read in the voice of the Dowager Countess of Grantham, Violet Crawley* | |||
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"Is it possible too much emphasis can be put on conversing before potential play. Before I (Jay) was on the scene and single at the time I inadvertently stumbled across a couple getting it on in the sand dunes. Instinctively I kept a distance and looked on, next thing the fella beckons me over to join them. This was the first best experience I have ever had. I find conversations can be a prelude to fun which in itself can feel predictable. As a couple we love the spontaneity and seeing what happens in the heat of the moment. We’ve found people shy at conversation yet full of confidence when playing. Can anyone else relate to this ? In a group scenario all someone needs to do is give a nod and if we are interested we can invite them in. We travel a good distance so would rather not spend too much time in the bar. " you know your wife or partner how can that be spontaneous or do you mean the waving of the hand to beckon you, sex is all different scenarios but with the same ending | |||
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"Is it possible too much emphasis can be put on conversing before potential play. Before I (Jay) was on the scene and single at the time I inadvertently stumbled across a couple getting it on in the sand dunes. Instinctively I kept a distance and looked on, next thing the fella beckons me over to join them. This was the first best experience I have ever had. I find conversations can be a prelude to fun which in itself can feel predictable. As a couple we love the spontaneity and seeing what happens in the heat of the moment. We’ve found people shy at conversation yet full of confidence when playing. Can anyone else relate to this ? In a group scenario all someone needs to do is give a nod and if we are interested we can invite them in. We travel a good distance so would rather not spend too much time in the bar. you know your wife or partner how can that be spontaneous or do you mean the waving of the hand to beckon you, sex is all different scenarios but with the same ending " Don’t quite get where you’re coming from ? What is the connection about knowing your wife and spontaneity. We mean beckon someone to join us if that’s what you’re saying | |||
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"There doesn't have to be 1 style, even for any individual. It would become stale for many of us. Find your way and then filter for others who match. I generally find it better to chat and have a connection, potentially using this to decline further involvement. But I have loved minimal chat too" Absolutely there definitely isn’t just one way or a right or wrong way either. What works for one doesn’t for another and vice versa. It’s just a generalised observation and open discussion about other people’s views | |||
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