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Who deletes their sent messages

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Once you've sent your message, do you go into sent and delete ?

Or do you keep them to spy if someone's read it lol

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

If I found myself looking to see if something has been read or deleted, I'd delete my outbox.

As it is, I never touch the thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I delete the entire sent box.

Any reply is a nice surprise when it arrives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No because I hardly never look at them.

T

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

When I was a single guy I used to as I didn’t want to look at it to see if a message has been opened.

Now I don’t even look at it…

K

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Only people that I've blocked.

I like to keep track of people who message again after a while of chatting to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, I keep them. I’d hate to send repeat messages if someone didn’t reply the first time

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
over a year ago

Debauchery

We delete sent messages unless it’s for something we need to keep for our information like socials we’re going to. It’s for the purposes of keeping a tidy box, not to be rude.

Hades

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I delete the ‘ No thanks’ that I send

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never look at it so no

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan
over a year ago

Gourock

I delete everything unless it's conversations with friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I've blocked someone then yes I do. Otherwise no

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman
over a year ago

In the clouds

I delete everything, except friend requests. I just leave them hanging lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. We delete them if we’ve not heard back for a couple of weeks, but more to clear space.

Mrs

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By *thwiltsmMan
over a year ago

salisbury

No, my box isn’t very well kept at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete them

Also delete messages out of my inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do, we have total OCD when it comes to a clean box

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought I was the only one who did this lol

I clear my sent messages after a few days of not getting replies.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I delete and use the private message function

Makes life far more simpler

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends, if I have had a sulk I'll delete everything and put the filters up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't look at them so don't delete them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually delete our inbox and sent messages every few weeks. I like to keep it tidy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been deleting everything, a cluttered box irritates me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I delete them if they cba to read and reply … I take that as it is ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been deleting everything, a cluttered box irritates me "

Like wise

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

I don't delete anything. Useful when a guy spends exactly the same message as he did 3 months ago x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I delete them if they cba to read and reply … I take that as it is .. "

I used to periodically look through my outbox, and anyone who had deleted a message without replying I’d block them. It always made sense to me.

If I ever accidentally tried to message them again, I’d remember why I can’t.

But I never deleted those messages, it would be a full time job trying to do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely send messages so really don't give a hoot if people read them or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would take forever if we did! We just leave the messages there, I think they delete by themselves after a while anyway

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Once you've sent your message, do you go into sent and delete ?

Or do you keep them to spy if someone's read it lol"
nope i don't delete unless their was no point to them then obviously delete

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

I bin em off once read

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By *ostindreamsMan
over a year ago

London

I delete them as soon as I send them. If they are interested, they will reply. No point checking the status

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually clean the inbox / outbox up weekly. Otherwise I get frustrated with the messiness

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

I delete messages daily mostly

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Delete, don't need to know who has ignored me

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