FabSwingers.com forum: Matching bra and knickers

By *asycouple1971 OP Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Suggested to my wife she should get matching bra and knickers...you would think I asked her to rob Buckingham Palace.

Dont think shes ever had a matching pair of underwear.

Ladies , is this normal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your on a date and she's wearing matching bra and knickers she decided before the date that you were going to get lucky

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

All of mine match so wouldn't have a clue what it feels like to have odd underware!

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Sorry couldn't wear unmatching underwear, what if I got knocked over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine only match if I’m planning on getting lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes, it's normal... *for her*!

underwear choice is personal to everyone.. does it really matter?

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By *ixenitedWoman
over a year ago

Here or There abouts

That's her preference if she doesn't like matching sets, for me being a "bigger girl" or "bbw" I can't always find nice bras in my size with matching undies that I like or the bras ok but the undies don't cover nothing kinda defeats the purpose lol so I'm often mismatched.. not out of choice

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Suggested to my wife she should get matching bra and knickers...you would think I asked her to rob Buckingham Palace.

Dont think shes ever had a matching pair of underwear.

Ladies , is this normal? "

No id say big phat no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine only matches when I plan on having someone else take it off

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

Bit like wearing odd socks or shoes isn't it?

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

"Mine only matches when I plan on having someone else take it off

I'm the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the bra and knickers are matching then you know what’s going down

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By *ellanbennyCouple
over a year ago

cambs

Big fan of this, T has got these body suits that just drive me wild

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since we met my wife always wears matching under wear, she never did before but I showed her the error of her ways, now the error of her ways is called husband.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine only match if I’m going out, or I’m dressing up for T, the rest of the time, it’s whatever works for the outfit or what I’m most comfortable in haha

Mrs

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I find not wearing underpants is pretty effective as a method of avoiding unmatching.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I always match my underwear. Wouldn't dream of wearing anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine only match when I want them too, usually if someone else is going to see them.

Pxx

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

The colour of each might be similar but that's about it

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Suggested to my wife she should get matching bra and knickers...you would think I asked her to rob Buckingham Palace.

Dont think shes ever had a matching pair of underwear.

Ladies , is this normal? "

Yes, it's normal.

Some women like to match others couldn't care less.

I do own matching undies but I usually just wear whatever is comfortable and suitable for the outfit.

Do you match socks and boxers OP?

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like mine to match. Even when I know it won't be seen.

I do it for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually wore a matching set today. It's very rare I'll be matching. I find a lot of my underwear are very good for mixing and matching anyway so it isn't a big deal. I love being a little bit of an oddball.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Nope, generally because I never like the knickers that match the kind of bra my boobs fit.

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By *ilkstressWoman
over a year ago

Drasnia

I made a decision when I was young to only buy underwear that matched. I had to do this in order to rein in my out of control lingerie habit. After so many years, it feels wrong to wear non-matching lingerie. But that's just me. People should wear what they like, whether matching or not, as long as they feel good and like what they're wearing.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Mine only match if I want the Mr to notice, otherwise it's what comes out the drawer.

Mrs

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By *areBares7778Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Always match feels wrong if they don’t…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bit like wearing odd socks or shoes isn't it? "

I always wear odd socks! I'm not a complete freak and they do come from the same set,I just mix them up

Shoes however must match.

Underwear, depends on my mood

Always matching if rumpy pumpy on the cards, or I'm just feeling fruity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no "normal". Matching seems more elegant to my eye but I won't lie that it matters on daily basis. Saying that.. the invisible power wearing a gorgeous piece of lingerie gives you.. eh.. doesn't really matter if anyone gets to see it

whether matching or not.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

It's rare that my underwear doesn't match

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

I suppose people wear what they feel good in. You even see by the pool or on the beach, not everyone wears matching swimwear.

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By *oomarangMan
over a year ago

Chester

My ex wife used to when we first started dating and after we got married she never bothered it’s personal preference everyone’s different it’s like I won’t buy white trainers

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

I only ever buy matching sets of underwear, that’s normal for me.

What your wife does is normal for her

We’re all normal

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By *umseekerMan
over a year ago

montrose

Undressing an unfamiliar woman in a matching set is always ending well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine only match when I want them too or the day after I bought it

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman
over a year ago

In the clouds

mine dont match ever, because I am an odd shape, and can never get them to...

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton

"Mine only matches when I plan on having someone else take it off

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This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the time mine are matching unless I’m knickerless or braless of course haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

work wear maybe not but days or nights out always match.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. It's normal. Matching underwear is not practical for every day wear as the bras are usually lacy and/or unsupportive.

I make the effort for special underwear on special occasions.

OP, what effort are you showing her to inspire her?

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By *weetsmellingtreatsWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Mine always matches even if my top outfit is crap. I don’t even possess any non matching if I like a bra that does not have matching I put the bra back.

I have been like that since I was very young.

So no not just to get lucky

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

They might not always be a matching set, but they're usually coordinated.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

Serious question: how do you ladies end up with mismatched / uncoordinated bra and knickers?

How do these circumstances transpire?

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Yes. It's normal. Matching underwear is not practical for every day wear as the bras are usually lacy and/or unsupportive.

I make the effort for special underwear on special occasions.

OP, what effort are you showing her to inspire her? "

Not sure why anyone needs to inspire anyone else to make an effort.? Surely people wear what they wear for themselves? Or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. It's normal. Matching underwear is not practical for every day wear as the bras are usually lacy and/or unsupportive.

I make the effort for special underwear on special occasions.

OP, what effort are you showing her to inspire her?

Not sure why anyone needs to inspire anyone else to make an effort.? Surely people wear what they wear for themselves? Or not"

Yeah maybe

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By *and12Couple
over a year ago

flint

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By *and12Couple
over a year ago

flint

I don’t match I’m always commando

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary

"Serious question: how do you ladies end up with mismatched / uncoordinated bra and knickers?

How do these circumstances transpire?"

There are several reasons for this Nero.

-I may have purchased a matching set and the knickers get torn but the bra is perfect.

-I may have bought a specific pair of knickers suit an outfit so it doesn't have a matching bra friend.

- I bought a matching set and the bra was too big or the knickers too small so the offending item gets the bin .

So on and so forth

Em x

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Does her collar match her cuffs OP?

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"Serious question: how do you ladies end up with mismatched / uncoordinated bra and knickers?

How do these circumstances transpire?"

It's not high on my list of priorities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My OCD makes me always have matching socks

and doesmake me prefer a lady who matches bra and knickers too.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

"Serious question: how do you ladies end up with mismatched / uncoordinated bra and knickers?

How do these circumstances transpire?

There are several reasons for this Nero.

-I may have purchased a matching set and the knickers get torn but the bra is perfect.

-I may have bought a specific pair of knickers suit an outfit so it doesn't have a matching bra friend.

- I bought a matching set and the bra was too big or the knickers too small so the offending item gets the bin .

So on and so forth

Em x"

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Ah, that makes sense, thank you.

And, umm, how do the "knickers get torn"...?

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I have very few matching sets of underwear. Mainly because it's hard to find bras that I like in my size, even more difficult to find comfortable and supportive ones. The bottoms that come with bras are usually either thongs (which I find tacky, especially in certain colours), or midi briefs (which really don't suit my body shape), and I'm not prepared to spend a decent chunk of money on knickers that I don't like and won't wear.

That said, the vast majority of my underwear is plain black and very unfussy, so it kind of matches anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time. Its personal preference and makes me feel put together.

I buy a bra and then several pairs of knickers to match, preferably in different styles if they're available.

I do it for me because it makes me feel good.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

When we where younger we would purposely go out in mismatching underwear if we weren't out on the pull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Suggested to my wife she should get matching bra and knickers...you would think I asked her to rob Buckingham Palace.

Dont think shes ever had a matching pair of underwear.

Ladies , is this normal? "

Seriously you don't know why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Suggested to my wife she should get matching bra and knickers...you would think I asked her to rob Buckingham Palace.

Dont think shes ever had a matching pair of underwear.

Ladies , is this normal? "

You should consider treating your wife, by going out and buying her a range of lovely matching underwear.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

This is definitely an age thing. I would always match but now I rather like mixing it up.

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By *otbeefandonionsCouple
over a year ago

Bathgate

"Serious question: how do you ladies end up with mismatched / uncoordinated bra and knickers?

How do these circumstances transpire?"

You've never had a girlfriend before have you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Matching underwear is always sexy

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

90% of my underwear is black so I have to think less about matching stuff, but if I am meeting someone for play I always make sure I'm matching in my nice bits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"90% of my underwear is black so I have to think less about matching stuff, but if I am meeting someone for play I always make sure I'm matching in my nice bits

You look very sexy in red

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I do branch out into other colours than black on occasion

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.

Kitty likes to be matching if there’s a chance someone will see!

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

"Serious question: how do you ladies end up with mismatched / uncoordinated bra and knickers?

How do these circumstances transpire?

You've never had a girlfriend before have you?"

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No, but I'm working on it. I've got a few lined up for Afternoon Tea and then I'll shortlist them. There's currently one on the horizon but she's a tad unhinged.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Anyone who likes their partner in matching underwear is welcome to buy it for them. Top tip, buy four pairs of knickers for every bra.

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek

I always wear matching lingerie, but rarely wear matching socks

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Suggested to my wife she should get matching bra and knickers...you would think I asked her to rob Buckingham Palace.

Dont think shes ever had a matching pair of underwear.

Ladies , is this normal? "
I will always wear matching. Even just for tesco. The exception is when I am at work and I wear comfy pants and bra but even then I try to match as best I can x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gosh I'd need a sugar daddy for that.

Have you seen the price of these things?

I have the good stuff and the day to day stuff.

I rarely even get asked for the good stuff on meets! But I love it when a man decides which outfits he wants me in.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I only ever wear matching! If not actual matching same colour x

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By *inkerbell67Woman
over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

All mine matches apart from every day ones ,asda do nice matching sets ..

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By *ojo2joWoman
over a year ago

Penclawdd

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By *ojo2joWoman
over a year ago

Penclawdd

"Suggested to my wife she should get matching bra and knickers...you would think I asked her to rob Buckingham Palace.

Dont think shes ever had a matching pair of underwear.

Ladies , is this normal?

No id say big phat no"

I’d disagree, I have bigger boobs so finding a bra that fits and looks nice doesn’t always have matching knickers that look and fit nice.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

Bumping this for the gentleman and feller who would feel at home at a Rigby & Peller.

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

"Suggested to my wife she should get matching bra and knickers...you would think I asked her to rob Buckingham Palace.

Dont think shes ever had a matching pair of underwear.

Ladies , is this normal? "

Do you know how much they cost? Perhaps you could buy her some? Or give her some money to do so?

My wife has around 30 matching sets and wears a matching pair everyday.

When she goes on a meet we have an agreement that I’ll buy her a new set. The last set the bra was £57 and the knickers £28. She looks great in it, but that’s normal for her your wife’s normal may be different. Don’t try to force her.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

Dont really get the cost argument. Nice lingerie can be expensive. It can be affordable. Black knickers and bra... White.. If its a choice not to thats different.

You should try getting string vests to match y fronts

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Mostly matching but, with how quickly he tends to get my knickers wet then off, I sometimes think it doesn't matter

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By *tsJustKateWoman
over a year ago

London

Always matching for me.

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