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"I don't send them at all unless it's someone I've been chatting to for quite a while and we have agreed to meet. I've never asked for one in 6 years here. I don't base any conversation here on physical attraction or presume I'm going to have sex with everyone I chat to so the only need for facepics is so we will recognise each other when we arrive at the social because it will always without fail be a social and nothing more. I've never been concerned about people rejecting me on the basis of a facepic but I have been sent too many unsolicited pics of other fabbers either directly or through groupchats to have any faith that they will remain between me and the person I've shared them with. I was told at a group social that someone recognised me from my facepic in the presocial chatgroup. Strangely enough I wasn't in any chatgroup and wouldn't have shared a pic even if I had been. " Just to add though. The very first and last facepic Friday I took part in here in the Lounge I sent a pic to the"lovely" couple running the thread. Their response was to not reciprocate but to tell me that I would be hotter if I wasn't Irish. Just one more reason not to share any. | |||
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"I don't send them at all unless it's someone I've been chatting to for quite a while and we have agreed to meet. I've never asked for one in 6 years here. I don't base any conversation here on physical attraction or presume I'm going to have sex with everyone I chat to so the only need for facepics is so we will recognise each other when we arrive at the social because it will always without fail be a social and nothing more. I've never been concerned about people rejecting me on the basis of a facepic but I have been sent too many unsolicited pics of other fabbers either directly or through groupchats to have any faith that they will remain between me and the person I've shared them with. I was told at a group social that someone recognised me from my facepic in the presocial chatgroup. Strangely enough I wasn't in any chatgroup and wouldn't have shared a pic even if I had been. " ^^^^^ This! I’m asked almost constantly for it and I refuse to unless I’m comfortable, too many times it’s been shared without my permission so no, I won’t send just because they ask, only if I’m planning to meet, same for my phone number too, not unless I’m planning to meet them in person. Just too too many requests to say yes all the time | |||
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"Please tell me they don't get shared on here as much as it sounds like they do. " We've heard the same about people sharing private messages and pics in chat groups, it's made me a little wary. Mrs | |||
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"My ugly mug has so far failed to attract any attention at all. The thing is, there's always "better" on here for women. Fitter, better looking, bigger d*ck, closer, more veris, and so on. If you had a choice of literally thousands, how do you choose? This place is for novelty purposes only as far as I'm concerned. " You're most certainly not ugly! | |||
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"Please tell me they don't get shared on here as much as it sounds like they do. " I know women who have left chatgroups because of the pics that were being shared. I have left groups for this reason and don't take part in any groups now as a result. A well verified and "popular" forumite used to send me facepics and personal details of people especially women I disagreed with in the forums in case I needed additional ammunition. Her words not mine btw. These were people she had met and verified and the pics were 2 years old at that stage. When challenged she admitted having screenshots of every conversation she had including all personal details and facepics. Obviously I don't speak to this person now and can guarantee my details have been passed to others for daring to criticise her. | |||
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"Please tell me they don't get shared on here as much as it sounds like they do. I know women who have left chatgroups because of the pics that were being shared. I have left groups for this reason and don't take part in any groups now as a result. A well verified and "popular" forumite used to send me facepics and personal details of people especially women I disagreed with in the forums in case I needed additional ammunition. Her words not mine btw. These were people she had met and verified and the pics were 2 years old at that stage. When challenged she admitted having screenshots of every conversation she had including all personal details and facepics. Obviously I don't speak to this person now and can guarantee my details have been passed to others for daring to criticise her." Forum users so this as well? | |||
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"Please tell me they don't get shared on here as much as it sounds like they do. I know women who have left chatgroups because of the pics that were being shared. I have left groups for this reason and don't take part in any groups now as a result. A well verified and "popular" forumite used to send me facepics and personal details of people especially women I disagreed with in the forums in case I needed additional ammunition. Her words not mine btw. These were people she had met and verified and the pics were 2 years old at that stage. When challenged she admitted having screenshots of every conversation she had including all personal details and facepics. Obviously I don't speak to this person now and can guarantee my details have been passed to others for daring to criticise her." This sounds horrendous and can't believe they have not being kicked out of here. What despicable behaviour. | |||
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"Please tell me they don't get shared on here as much as it sounds like they do. I know women who have left chatgroups because of the pics that were being shared. I have left groups for this reason and don't take part in any groups now as a result. A well verified and "popular" forumite used to send me facepics and personal details of people especially women I disagreed with in the forums in case I needed additional ammunition. Her words not mine btw. These were people she had met and verified and the pics were 2 years old at that stage. When challenged she admitted having screenshots of every conversation she had including all personal details and facepics. Obviously I don't speak to this person now and can guarantee my details have been passed to others for daring to criticise her." Bloody hell. Grim reading that. | |||
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"Please tell me they don't get shared on here as much as it sounds like they do. I know women who have left chatgroups because of the pics that were being shared. I have left groups for this reason and don't take part in any groups now as a result. A well verified and "popular" forumite used to send me facepics and personal details of people especially women I disagreed with in the forums in case I needed additional ammunition. Her words not mine btw. These were people she had met and verified and the pics were 2 years old at that stage. When challenged she admitted having screenshots of every conversation she had including all personal details and facepics. Obviously I don't speak to this person now and can guarantee my details have been passed to others for daring to criticise her. This sounds horrendous and can't believe they have not being kicked out of here. What despicable behaviour. " They have an audience so why would they be kicked out? Those who know people that share pics and are happy to enable them are just as guilty. Some people will read this and say it's fiction while many others will nod in agreement but lots of other people have spoken of their experiences in regard to this. Some people are no longer on the site due to having their pics shared on social media for all manner of shallow reasons. | |||
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"Please tell me they don't get shared on here as much as it sounds like they do. I know women who have left chatgroups because of the pics that were being shared. I have left groups for this reason and don't take part in any groups now as a result. A well verified and "popular" forumite used to send me facepics and personal details of people especially women I disagreed with in the forums in case I needed additional ammunition. Her words not mine btw. These were people she had met and verified and the pics were 2 years old at that stage. When challenged she admitted having screenshots of every conversation she had including all personal details and facepics. Obviously I don't speak to this person now and can guarantee my details have been passed to others for daring to criticise her. This sounds horrendous and can't believe they have not being kicked out of here. What despicable behaviour. They have an audience so why would they be kicked out? Those who know people that share pics and are happy to enable them are just as guilty. Some people will read this and say it's fiction while many others will nod in agreement but lots of other people have spoken of their experiences in regard to this. Some people are no longer on the site due to having their pics shared on social media for all manner of shallow reasons. " Well, I suppose it only confirms there are some really sad people about which tbh is not that surprising. Most usually thoughcome unstuck at some point and you wouldn't want to associate with them anyway. | |||
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"Please tell me they don't get shared on here as much as it sounds like they do. I know women who have left chatgroups because of the pics that were being shared. I have left groups for this reason and don't take part in any groups now as a result. A well verified and "popular" forumite used to send me facepics and personal details of people especially women I disagreed with in the forums in case I needed additional ammunition. Her words not mine btw. These were people she had met and verified and the pics were 2 years old at that stage. When challenged she admitted having screenshots of every conversation she had including all personal details and facepics. Obviously I don't speak to this person now and can guarantee my details have been passed to others for daring to criticise her. This sounds horrendous and can't believe they have not being kicked out of here. What despicable behaviour. They have an audience so why would they be kicked out? Those who know people that share pics and are happy to enable them are just as guilty. Some people will read this and say it's fiction while many others will nod in agreement but lots of other people have spoken of their experiences in regard to this. Some people are no longer on the site due to having their pics shared on social media for all manner of shallow reasons. " I know first hand that people also talk about physical appearance, i know that someone asked another person would you meet someone if you knew they had this and that it was wrong for them not to say about it.... just rude in my opinion Tinder | |||
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"I've sent face pics before to people I'm chatting to and have never heard back, tbh I prefer it that way I get the msg I'm not for them and thats fine with me I know I'm not everyones cup of tea." Hi Daizy | |||
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" Personally I’d have said “no thanks” rather than ghost someone. " Just “no thanks” ? Bit harsh isn’t it Seriously though, it’s such a difficult thing to let someone down kindly after they’ve taken the plunge to send a face pic through. I never know quite what to say if the attraction isn’t there. I’m not proud of it but sometimes ghosting is a necessary self protection. | |||
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"Hi Mr Pickle didn't scare you off at least! " No. The opposite I think | |||
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"My ugly mug has so far failed to attract any attention at all. The thing is, there's always "better" on here for women. Fitter, better looking, bigger d*ck, closer, more veris, and so on. If you had a choice of literally thousands, how do you choose? This place is for novelty purposes only as far as I'm concerned. " No no no. Stop being so negative! There's no bigger/better/a.n.other issue when it comes to faces. It's the one factor that is entirely subjective and everyone's idea of attraction is individual. You can't compare a face to a dick, a physique, a pair of boobs, an arse....anything else. The whole 'bobfoc' concept shows that clearly. Facial attraction is the one thing you can't determine from someone's preferences displayed on a profile in terms of age, height, body shape, ethnicity, sexuality etc. You just don't know if you're attracted or not til you see it. And short of sticking a bag over your head, resorting to only playing in darkrooms or gloryholes or using a blindfold on every meet - there's fuck all you can do about it. A | |||
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"I don’t do it Im an ugly twat " I get that. But I'm not! Gbat | |||
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"I don’t do it Im an ugly twat I get that. But I'm not! Gbat " Yes Gbat! I love that!! | |||
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"My ugly mug has so far failed to attract any attention at all. The thing is, there's always "better" on here for women. Fitter, better looking, bigger d*ck, closer, more veris, and so on. If you had a choice of literally thousands, how do you choose? This place is for novelty purposes only as far as I'm concerned. You're most certainly not ugly! " (Looks in empty inbox) Must be my personality then. | |||
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"Since I have had public face pics my inbox has been decidedly quieter than it was. Which is nice, because it means I don't get my hopes up only to be dashed when they recoil in horror at my mush" I don’t believe that for a second, you’ve got an absolutely gorgeous face | |||
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"Please tell me they don't get shared on here as much as it sounds like they do. We've heard the same about people sharing private messages and pics in chat groups, it's made me a little wary. Mrs " As someone who has been revenge porned in the past, this gives me the absolute fear! | |||
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"i recieve face pics, and i send face pics. personally don't have an issue with it.. see if there's a mutual attraction or not. Px " Your gorgeous wow | |||
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