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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have just found out that my ex has just gotten into another relationship after being broken up not that long (thus me coming back on here again). I keep getting people asking me if I am ok and all that nonsense, so my question is: am I meant to feel something?

Been left confused here and need some advice :/

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Depends on the reason for your breakup

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

was she a short term partner? Was you married? Did you have children together?

Im sure different people react differently. If it was just a short term partner i personally wouldnt be bothered

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She thought I was cheating when I told her I was in gym (which I was by the way before any ideas start flying about)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have just found out that my ex has just gotten into another relationship after being broken up not that long (thus me coming back on here again). I keep getting people asking me if I am ok and all that nonsense, so my question is: am I meant to feel something?

Been left confused here and need some advice :/ "

Confused about what? Breaking up? People asking you about it? Your ex finding someone else quicker than you have? You not feeling anything about it?

You're confused??????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"was she a short term partner? Was you married? Did you have children together?

Im sure different people react differently. If it was just a short term partner i personally wouldnt be bothered"

was short term, nearly 5 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you feel about it? Are you upset about the break up? Heart broken? Still in love?

Everyone is different. Hope your ok. Breakups ain't nice.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I have just found out that my ex has just gotten into another relationship after being broken up not that long (thus me coming back on here again). I keep getting people asking me if I am ok and all that nonsense, so my question is: am I meant to feel something?

Been left confused here and need some advice :/ "

tell them you are fine, coming out swinging in fact

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How do you feel about it? Are you upset about the break up? Heart broken? Still in love?

Everyone is different. Hope your ok. Breakups ain't nice. "

I haven't really shown any emotion about it to be honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have just found out that my ex has just gotten into another relationship after being broken up not that long (thus me coming back on here again). I keep getting people asking me if I am ok and all that nonsense, so my question is: am I meant to feel something?

Been left confused here and need some advice :/

tell them you are fine, coming out swinging in fact"

actually like this answer haha

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By *icked weaselCouple
over a year ago

Near Edinburgh..

noticed the profile pic - and it might help - if you stop wearing her "fur-coat" all the time..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"noticed the profile pic - and it might help - if you stop wearing her "fur-coat" all the time.. "

wasn't hers haha was part of a cave man costume :P

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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago

taunton


"She thought I was cheating when I told her I was in gym (which I was by the way before any ideas start flying about)"

You have a gym in your front room, no wonder she thought you were '@ it' lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"She thought I was cheating when I told her I was in gym (which I was by the way before any ideas start flying about)

You have a gym in your front room, no wonder she thought you were '@ it' lol"

I stopped using them and signed up to a gym, she already knew this

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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago

taunton


"She thought I was cheating when I told her I was in gym (which I was by the way before any ideas start flying about)

You have a gym in your front room, no wonder she thought you were '@ it' lol

I stopped using them and signed up to a gym, she already knew this "

Step away from the weights.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"She thought I was cheating when I told her I was in gym (which I was by the way before any ideas start flying about)

You have a gym in your front room, no wonder she thought you were '@ it' lol

I stopped using them and signed up to a gym, she already knew this

Step away from the weights. "

never!! need to keep doing them

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By *icked weaselCouple
over a year ago

Near Edinburgh..


"noticed the profile pic - and it might help - if you stop wearing her "fur-coat" all the time..

wasn't hers haha was part of a cave man costume :P "

im not so sure.. - Think we need to see the "Cave-Man" Costume Pics now..

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

You are 22, presumably your ex is around the same age. I split with a partner of 6 yrs through her jealousy, I met her when I was 22 & she was 27 . I could not even talk to another woman without her wanting to know almost every word that had been spoken.

After many accusations about my infidelity it all became rather tedious so I actually went out and pulled a "stunna" from The Rockhouse (our local nightclub).

Consequently our relationship became less tenable and I called time on it

We still talk though but you are young and will move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You are 22, presumably your ex is around the same age. I split with a partner of 6 yrs through her jealousy, I met her when I was 22 & she was 27 . I could not even talk to another woman without her wanting to know almost every word that had been spoken.

After many accusations about my infidelity it all became rather tedious so I actually went out and pulled a "stunna" from The Rockhouse (our local nightclub).

Consequently our relationship became less tenable and I called time on it

We still talk though but you are young and will move on "

Ironic you said that because she was 27 too haha I already am moving on this is what I mean by being confused when people asking me if I am ok and that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

should you be feeling something? yes of course you should.

I have no idea what tho,that would depend on the circumstances. Sooner or later you will surely feel something and that's when you react to that and move on.

That of course may be total bollocks and may not apply to you but it certainly did to me a lifetime ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think you answered your own question, if you have to ask whether you should or do feel something......... then you obviously don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have just found out that my ex has just gotten into another relationship after being broken up not that long (thus me coming back on here again). I keep getting people asking me if I am ok and all that nonsense, so my question is: am I meant to feel something?

Been left confused here and need some advice :/ "

No, you're not meant to feel anything. She was just another shag, and there'll be plenty more and much better.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"think you answered your own question, if you have to ask whether you should or do feel something......... then you obviously don't "

Huh...looks like I don't have to worry then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have just found out that my ex has just gotten into another relationship after being broken up not that long (thus me coming back on here again). I keep getting people asking me if I am ok and all that nonsense, so my question is: am I meant to feel something?

Been left confused here and need some advice :/

No, you're not meant to feel anything. She was just another shag, and there'll be plenty more and much better."

Well I can keeping my fingers crossed for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 months? Still honeymoon period.

I think it's because she got with someone so quick.

To be blunt, she probably did feel that much for you to do that.

Just my opinion anyways

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"5 months? Still honeymoon period.

I think it's because she got with someone so quick.

To be blunt, she probably did feel that much for you to do that.

Just my opinion anyways"

So much for being the best guy ever haha

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Best advice is to acknowledge how you feel, and to accept that is right for you. Where someone's in pain, it's not necessarily wrong, it's an indication that something's affected them, and they may be recovering, or need to pay attention to something (some of us don't, until we get loud alarm bells).

As it is, you're feeling pretty fine, so you sound healthy, and this is better than pretending to feel something different, just to fit in with other's expectations. So, enjoy being single and any pleasures you may have via Fab or elsewhere

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Best advice is to acknowledge how you feel, and to accept that is right for you. Where someone's in pain, it's not necessarily wrong, it's an indication that something's affected them, and they may be recovering, or need to pay attention to something (some of us don't, until we get loud alarm bells).

As it is, you're feeling pretty fine, so you sound healthy, and this is better than pretending to feel something different, just to fit in with other's expectations. So, enjoy being single and any pleasures you may have via Fab or elsewhere "

That is what I am doing now forgot how tricky it can be on here when you don't have any vertifications haha should get them back up again soon

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