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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is anyone else finding this site a bit confidence killing? I was fairly confident in my looks and appearence, but after seeing the words read or deleted next to every messege in my sent box, im now starting to look at myself in a different light... Know what I mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could message yourself and send a nice reply.

It's not instantshag.com it takes time and effort fella

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

3 weeks, 1 meet are they all just not laying down for you...

what were your expectations of swingers ?

if you got more in the non swinging world, mix it up and play in both worlds

good luck and welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you've been here 3 weeks and your age would put you out of bounds for a lot of people. Patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody hell you have only been on 3 weeks, what did you expect everyone to fall at your feet,

So before you get too demoralized, we dont get meets for ages either lol

Why not try to go clubs? go attend socials or try to get to parties, that way you,ll get verified and have more of a chance.

So dont give up just have some patience.

We all lead lifes out of this scene so most people are selective who they meet.

Try to sell yourself on your profile attatch more pics, not cock

chat in the forums or in chat?

We just use the site to speak with friends and see who,s going to said clubs that week we are free, then mail them or look locally for meet

That way your more of a chance of getting a meet or at least a relpy.

Random messages from strangers asking for a meet dont get much attention to be honest.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Loads of my messages get read then deleted. However, it took me about a year to realise the feature was there anyway. Anyway, how will you ever become a doctor if you don't have any patience?

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Is anyone else finding this site a bit confidence killing? I was fairly confident in my looks and appearence, but after seeing the words read or deleted next to every messege in my sent box, im now starting to look at myself in a different light... Know what I mean? "

You get unanswered mails like that, just dont take it perosnally or like a profession, much as sex is number 1 on the awsome list. Treat it casually and stay with what youre doing - if you change your approach because your pissed off will put people off.

Joining over Christmas is not going to get a lot of meets simply as its family time for the most

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here we go again......

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

stop looking at your sent bo then....problem sorted

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I'd love to know what some people expect when joining a site like this.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I'd love to know what some people expect when joining a site like this. "

fuckathons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd love to know what some people expect when joining a site like this.

fuckathons "

put us down for one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd love to know what some people expect when joining a site like this.

fuckathons "

Need sponsorship for that, and your chosen charity might be a little surprised...

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I'd love to know what some people expect when joining a site like this.

fuckathons

Need sponsorship for that, and your chosen charity might be a little surprised..."

money is money...they wont care

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By *utzzCouple
over a year ago

wrexham

We've been here 2 1/2 years and not had a meet off here yet. All our meets are from parties and clubs, its much easier to get to know people in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm amazed that you've had one meet to be honest. How long did you take to write your profile? 5 minutes? Do you put the same effort in to your messages?

Many people won't open your message until they've read your profile and your profile is pretty crap. But even your name is not good, it gives an air of arrogance that is rarely justified. Combine them with the fact that you are 22, live it at home and you do come across as quite immature.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I'd love to know what some people expect when joining a site like this.

fuckathons

put us down for one"

Yes please!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think of changing ur profile name....most would just look and think...pahhh..up his own arse

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice folks will get it sorted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile says you're shy, but your OP says you're confident. Do they really go hand in hand?

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