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By *urple Aki OP   Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

I've always wanted to experience a club event, but I won't lie I just can't find the courage to go.

I'm more worried about going for the 1st time and not knowing what I can do and what I can't do .

I'm really sociable and down to earth and can talk to anyone. I just wouldn't have a clue. I've been asked to go numerous times, but sh#t out of going.

Bizzare really because I go around Europe DJing playing in crazy clubs in the likes of Berlin the craziest places of all and play in front of lots of people , no worries what so ever.

Yet I can't get myself to go a swingers club / event and mingle

How was it the 1st time for you people who do go?

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By *andadbodMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

you’re stressing over nothing really pal, if you do eventually go to one, maybe one that’s been arranged on here, try and arrange to meet people you’ve already chatted to here who are going, i’ve been to a few socials and it’s more difficult as a complete stranger to everyone than if you’ve already chatted online to a few of the other people also in attendance.

Should add i attended socials with my wife so as a couple it was a lot easier to strike up a conversation with people around us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should walk around inviting everyone to feel your muscles. That'd break the ice.

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By *urple Aki OP   Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

Thanks Yeah thats good advice to be fair meeting people I speak to online rather than complete strangers. I actually didn't even look at it that way. I know a good few off here now I'm friends with.

Thanks for that

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

First time I went with someone from here was not what I imagined no pressure at all just like a pub/nightclub really x

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

All of the different club websites have an etiquette code, listed for appropriate behaviour at their club.

Generally don't touch unless invited to do so, is the most important one.

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By *urple Aki OP   Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

Cool. Cheers mate

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By *ackonceagain1777Couple
over a year ago

West Mids


"You should walk around inviting everyone to feel your muscles. That'd break the ice."

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By *urple Aki OP   Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

Someone's already said them exact words in the thread haha. I'll try it though

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek


"Someone's already said them exact words in the thread haha. I'll try it though "

If you hit “reply +quote” people will know who you’re replying to

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By *urple Aki OP   Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Someone's already said them exact words in the thread haha. I'll try it though

If you hit “reply +quote” people will know who you’re replying to "

Got ye Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first time is daunting, but just take a deep breath before you walk through the door and go for it. What's the worst that can happen.

I still get nerves but they are excited nerves and all part of it. Go and be sociable and mingle with no expectations and you'll be fine.

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By *urple Aki OP   Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"The first time is daunting, but just take a deep breath before you walk through the door and go for it. What's the worst that can happen.

I still get nerves but they are excited nerves and all part of it. Go and be sociable and mingle with no expectations and you'll be fine."

Thanks Ruby

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Hardest part is walking through the door mate the rest comes easy.

Tell the staff you are a first timer and they will likely give you a tour.

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By *urple Aki OP   Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Hardest part is walking through the door mate the rest comes easy.

Tell the staff you are a first timer and they will likely give you a tour.

"

But id even feel stupid saying I'm a first timer haha

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