FabSwingers.com forum: You know a couple is not a couple…

By *aycambs OP Man
over a year ago

Brierley Hill/Merry Hill

So if you know a couple is not actually a couple, but a chap pretending otherwise?

What would you do?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Report the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block and if necessary report

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

String him along same as he is doing to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bum him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have been message by loads of these so called couples when you say no thanks the nasty messages start .i just block and move on

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"So if you know a couple is not actually a couple, but a chap pretending otherwise?

What would you do?

If it's a 'btw I'm single now' profile (these can go on for a while for some men in these places ) you could report it if you felt like it. If Fab finds someone in that situation for too long they could send a message I suppose. Be we probably can't do much about this kind of thing ultimately, apart from making sure everything's covered before meeting I suppose.

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By *aycambs OP Man
over a year ago

Brierley Hill/Merry Hill

That’s a great idea, this chap is very convincing I have to say! It could go on for weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When it's ajar.

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By *eFCUKaLotCouple
over a year ago

somewhere close

You can normally tell when the chat turns dirty or another common one is when they go “it’s Alex here, Claire has gone to sleep now”, no it was Alex all along

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By *aycambs OP Man
over a year ago

Brierley Hill/Merry Hill

Yes definitely

Reporting I feel is probably pointless, is he actually breaking any rules… someone more brave than I will probably name and shame… I’m not altogether fussed really…

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By *ML49Man
over a year ago

Burnley

"So if you know a couple is not actually a couple, but a chap pretending otherwise?

What would you do? "

Reporting does nothing on here. I've reported certain photos from other sites multiple times but nothing happens

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

For a start stop throw accusations around and take my evidence to the moderator of the site..

Not the Forum

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Report and block. Don't entertain them.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Yes definitely

Reporting I feel is probably pointless, is he actually breaking any rules… someone more brave than I will probably name and shame… I’m not altogether fussed really…"

A few questions.

How do you know it's just a single guy? We were accused of just that in the forums recently because it's just me that posts here, despite recent veris clearly saying otherwise.

It's not unheard of for only one half of a couple to deal with messages, so it can come across as odd. Fox does ours and trust me, they're a hell of a lot shorter, straight to the point and less waffley than anything I'd ever write.

If you're 100% sure it's just a guy then report, block and move on. Continuing to engage with them may provide short term entertainment and you may feel entitled to string them along as they appear to be attempting to do to you, but the longer you carry on the more it encourages them to do it to others.

Cut ties, focus on profiles you think are real and forget any that you're unsure of. Why waste time and energy on something that will never happen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hunt them down, and flick them in the middle of the forehead

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By *aycambs OP Man
over a year ago

Brierley Hill/Merry Hill

"Hunt them down, and flick them in the middle of the forehead"

Nice

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"Hunt them down, and flick them in the middle of the forehead"

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"When it's ajar."
when is a jar not ajar?

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By *aycambs OP Man
over a year ago

Brierley Hill/Merry Hill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So if you know a couple is not actually a couple, but a chap pretending otherwise?

What would you do? "

I’d send the chap some photos of my chap that I’d tributed only moments earlier my dear chap.

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

"Bum him"

I read that as "burn", which I thought was extreme. Your answer makes more sense. Unless he's a witch, obvs.

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By *aycambs OP Man
over a year ago

Brierley Hill/Merry Hill

"Bum him

I read that as "burn", which I thought was extreme. Your answer makes more sense. Unless he's a witch, obvs."

Haha… yeah I had to look twice

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By *randMrsNorthernCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Report, block and move on.

This place is sadly rife with fakes. It got worse during Covid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is really difficult to prove.

If you report and he needs to photo verify as a couple, he just needs a gullible woman to take a photo with him?

You could say of someone else "I know him in real life, he doesn't have a girlfriend"

But you never know what is behind closed doors.

Amazing how many "couple" profiles quickly become "oh the wife and I have just seperated but you will still come over?"

There's several profiles posting photos from years ago on a loop.

Their photos..but wife long gone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they message me

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By *aycambs OP Man
over a year ago

Brierley Hill/Merry Hill

"Report, block and move on.

This place is sadly rife with fakes. It got worse during Covid. "

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By *aycambs OP Man
over a year ago

Brierley Hill/Merry Hill

You are right, difficult to prove… been on here long enough for the tell tale signs… sadly for him.. he will never get to fulfil this fantasy of his.. it will just be all talk and no action in my view

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Report. Live my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would tell him I wasn't interested in chatting and move on.

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By *ML49Man
over a year ago

Burnley

Pointless reporting as nothing gets done. The site let's it happen for many reasons and the main reason is subscription money coming in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report and block. Not much else you can do on here unfortunately

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"So if you know a couple is not actually a couple, but a chap pretending otherwise?

What would you do? "

1. How do you know?

2. Why waste any more time and energy on it? Him? Them?

3. Next

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Report

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"When it's ajar.when is a jar not ajar?

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when its a door

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

Ask ‘her’ what her favourite cake is - if she doesn’t answer ‘all of it!!!’ Its definitely not a woman you’re chatting with!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Laugh"

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