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"Oh PD! This saddens me. *removes hat from online shopping basket* "I was half expecting it, this is why I said the other day I don't get my hopes up | |||
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"Meh... Delete and move on! Shouldn't even be on the apps if they're not ready. " I think she probably got cold feet, it happens but I was really looking forward to meeting her and going for a nice walk and meal | |||
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"Oh PD! This saddens me. *removes hat from online shopping basket*
I was half expecting it, this is why I said the other day I don't get my hopes up "And as I told you... I'll get mine up for both of us  | |||
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"It can be frustrating, though if you're actually interested in her, accept it, let her know it's not a problem and you're happy to reschedule when she's available and ready. " I did say I understand and to keep in touch and let me know if changes her mind | |||
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"It can be frustrating, though if you're actually interested in her, accept it, let her know it's not a problem and you're happy to reschedule when she's available and ready. I did say I understand and to keep in touch and let me know if changes her mind" Good stuff, and good luck.  | |||
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"Oh PD! This saddens me. *removes hat from online shopping basket*
I was half expecting it, this is why I said the other day I don't get my hopes up
And as I told you... I'll get mine up for both of us "Yeah you keep positive | |||
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"It can be frustrating, though if you're actually interested in her, accept it, let her know it's not a problem and you're happy to reschedule when she's available and ready. I did say I understand and to keep in touch and let me know if changes her mind Good stuff, and good luck. "Thank you | |||
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"I'm a little dissapointed and this is why I don't do dating usually. Said she's decided she's not ready to date yet though which I can understand but I did say when we started talking I didn't want to rush into anything serious. " Ah PD, gutted for you, pal. I’ve had this so many times (although on typing that I realise I may be the common denominator hahaha!). I even spoke to a woman for three hours on the phone and we got on really well, yet the day before our date she wasn’t ready. Or even after a first date! (Although typing that it feels even more like it’s me  ).
It’s so frustrating when it feels promising because you are getting on famously.
Very tough, my friend, but you’re a great looking bloke, fun and interesting. I doubt you’ll have to wait long for another candidate | |||
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"I'm a little dissapointed and this is why I don't do dating usually. Said she's decided she's not ready to date yet though which I can understand but I did say when we started talking I didn't want to rush into anything serious. Ah PD, gutted for you, pal. I’ve had this so many times (although on typing that I realise I may be the common denominator hahaha!). I even spoke to a woman for three hours on the phone and we got on really well, yet the day before our date she wasn’t ready. Or even after a first date! (Although typing that it feels even more like it’s me ).
It’s so frustrating when it feels promising because you are getting on famously.
Very tough, my friend, but you’re a great looking bloke, fun and interesting. I doubt you’ll have to wait long for another candidate "Dating isn't what it once was, she probably just got a better match maybe and that's the thing with modern times and apps. I'll just carry on going with the flow and see what happens and thank you for the kind words buddy | |||
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"I'm a little dissapointed and this is why I don't do dating usually. Said she's decided she's not ready to date yet though which I can understand but I did say when we started talking I didn't want to rush into anything serious. " Was it the supermarket lady?! | |||
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"Sorry to hear that PD. Why not take yourself out for a meal instead? I hear McDonalds do a great Big Mac
Hugs "It's not really the same
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"I'm a little dissapointed and this is why I don't do dating usually. Said she's decided she's not ready to date yet though which I can understand but I did say when we started talking I didn't want to rush into anything serious. Was it the supermarket lady?!" It was not | |||
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"I'm a little disappointed and this is why I don't do dating usually. Said she's decided she's not ready to date yet though which I can understand but I did say when we started talking I didn't want to rush into anything serious. " • Really sorry to hear this ·PD· You genuinely sounded excited about this the other day, and I felt excited for you too. Sometimes all that a gentleman wants is a little courtship, some woo'ing and all the ingredients to make the heart flutter. These temptresses - they lead us like a moth to a flame.  | |||
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"I'm a little dissapointed and this is why I don't do dating usually. Said she's decided she's not ready to date yet though which I can understand but I did say when we started talking I didn't want to rush into anything serious. Was it the supermarket lady?! It was not "Is she free for a date tomorrow? | |||
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Is she free for a date tomorrow? "She may be but I'm still refraining from asking as I don't want things to get awkward when I need something from the shop | |||
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"I'm a little disappointed and this is why I don't do dating usually. Said she's decided she's not ready to date yet though which I can understand but I did say when we started talking I didn't want to rush into anything serious. • Really sorry to hear this ·PD· You genuinely sounded excited about this the other day, and I felt excited for you too. Sometimes all that a gentleman wants is a little courtship, some woo'ing and all the ingredients to make the heart flutter. These temptresses - they lead us like a moth to a flame. "Thing is that it was her that asked if I was going to ask her out on a date, so then I did and now she's cancelled day before
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"I'm a little dissapointed and this is why I don't do dating usually. Said she's decided she's not ready to date yet though which I can understand but I did say when we started talking I didn't want to rush into anything serious. Was it the supermarket lady?! It was not
Is she free for a date tomorrow?
She may be but I'm still refraining from asking as I don't want things to get awkward when I need something from the shop "Send a lovely invite and attach your shopping list to the back. Maybe include a Bag for Life too? | |||
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Don’t let it put you off! I’m sure someone decent who appreciates your time and effort will come along soon enough
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Most of the fish seem to get spooked "You need good fish bait or become the fish whisperer | |||
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"Sorry to hear that PD. Why not take yourself out for a meal instead? I hear McDonalds do a great Big Mac
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It's not really the same
I'll just go take some photos instead tomorrow and enjoy me time I guess "I know it’s not. But it could be even better | |||
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"I'm a little dissapointed and this is why I don't do dating usually. Said she's decided she's not ready to date yet though which I can understand but I did say when we started talking I didn't want to rush into anything serious. " She would have been taking to at least 10 other guys, and you were, most definitley, a backup. Sorry to hear that though, there is a reason that men are starting to check out if dating... Stay strong king! | |||
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"I'm a little dissapointed and this is why I don't do dating usually. Said she's decided she's not ready to date yet though which I can understand but I did say when we started talking I didn't want to rush into anything serious. Was it the supermarket lady?! It was not
Is she free for a date tomorrow?
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"So sorry to hear this has happened! It does get really disheartening, especially when you’re looking forward to it
Don’t let it put you off! I’m sure someone decent who appreciates your time and effort will come along soon enough
Mr"Cheers buddy, this is why I prefer casual but being cancelled on is always a downer | |||
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"I'm a little dissapointed and this is why I don't do dating usually. Said she's decided she's not ready to date yet though which I can understand but I did say when we started talking I didn't want to rush into anything serious. Ah PD, gutted for you, pal. I’ve had this so many times (although on typing that I realise I may be the common denominator hahaha!). I even spoke to a woman for three hours on the phone and we got on really well, yet the day before our date she wasn’t ready. Or even after a first date! (Although typing that it feels even more like it’s me ).
It’s so frustrating when it feels promising because you are getting on famously.
Very tough, my friend, but you’re a great looking bloke, fun and interesting. I doubt you’ll have to wait long for another candidate
Dating isn't what it once was, she probably just got a better match maybe and that's the thing with modern times and apps.
I'll just carry on going with the flow and see what happens and thank you for the kind words buddy "IMHO, one of the drawbacks off online dating, is that people have access to other people they wouldn't have had before the Internet. Therefore they have many more options and so whereas previously if someone didn't tick all the boxes but most of them, they'd date and see if the missing ticks could be worked on. With online dating if someone they match with doesn't tick all the boxes they move on to the next person hoping they will. | |||
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"A little huh. You made a thread about it. Plenty Of Fish in the sea
Most of the fish seem to get spooked You need good fish bait or become the fish whisperer "My worm is magic | |||
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"I'm a little dissapointed and this is why I don't do dating usually. Said she's decided she's not ready to date yet though which I can understand but I did say when we started talking I didn't want to rush into anything serious. She would have been taking to at least 10 other guys, and you were, most definitley, a backup. Sorry to hear that though, there is a reason that men are starting to check out if dating... Stay strong king!" This really doesn't make me feel any better  | |||
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"She may have had genuine reason. Some people can get really stressed with nerves. It sounds like, at she let you know she couldn't make it, instead of just a no show. Yes you were really looking forward to meeting and it sounds like you'd still like to, when she's ready. However posting about it on here would be a huge red light. It'd put me, and I think most others, from ever getting involved with you. " I don't think me posting about it makes a difference to others wanting to meet me from here as I'm on here for casual and not dating | |||
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"I'm a little dissapointed and this is why I don't do dating usually. Said she's decided she's not ready to date yet though which I can understand but I did say when we started talking I didn't want to rush into anything serious. Ah PD, gutted for you, pal. I’ve had this so many times (although on typing that I realise I may be the common denominator hahaha!). I even spoke to a woman for three hours on the phone and we got on really well, yet the day before our date she wasn’t ready. Or even after a first date! (Although typing that it feels even more like it’s me ).
It’s so frustrating when it feels promising because you are getting on famously.
Very tough, my friend, but you’re a great looking bloke, fun and interesting. I doubt you’ll have to wait long for another candidate
Dating isn't what it once was, she probably just got a better match maybe and that's the thing with modern times and apps.
I'll just carry on going with the flow and see what happens and thank you for the kind words buddy
IMHO, one of the drawbacks off online dating, is that people have access to other people they wouldn't have had before the Internet. Therefore they have many more options and so whereas previously if someone didn't tick all the boxes but most of them, they'd date and see if the missing ticks could be worked on. With online dating if someone they match with doesn't tick all the boxes they move on to the next person hoping they will."I agree, I do ok with getting matches but I got to really click with someone to want to date them. She says she still has wounds from last relationship and I've been there but I wouldn't have asked someone if going to go on a date with me at that time | |||
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"I'm a little dissapointed and this is why I don't do dating usually. Said she's decided she's not ready to date yet though which I can understand but I did say when we started talking I didn't want to rush into anything serious. She would have been taking to at least 10 other guys, and you were, most definitley, a backup. Sorry to hear that though, there is a reason that men are starting to check out if dating... Stay strong king!" Why would she have been? Thats not a guaranteed truth | |||
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"Meh... Delete and move on! Shouldn't even be on the apps if they're not ready. I think she probably got cold feet, it happens but I was really looking forward to meeting her and going for a nice walk and meal" I date myself and self partner...anyone else who comes along is a bonus. Lol! I went alone to Sicily for my birthday and bought a bottle of Prosecco and shared it with all the other people in the restaurant. I'm having the best time with me. Lol! I'm so much fun and compassionate to myself. Lol! I've been alone 9 years. On a serious note, I have a psychotherapist and three support groups for emotional and mental support. I need people but a life partner, I think is too tall an order for me. Most people don't have the emotional intelligence to cope with someone like me.( even psychiatrists, psychologists and psychotherapists are bamboozled and frustrated) That's ok. I don't like the idea of forcing people into something which I know is complex, stigmatized, problematic and the complete deep end of life. So I have clinical substitutes for family and friends who only have to deal with me for short periods of time and not daily. | |||
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"Really sorry to hear this ·PD· You genuinely sounded excited about this the other day, and I felt excited for you too. Sometimes all that a gentleman wants is a little courtship, some woo'ing and all the ingredients to make the heart flutter. These temptresses - they lead us like a moth to a flame.
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Thing is that it was her that asked if I was going to ask her out on a date, so then I did and now she's cancelled day before
There should be a law against this type of thing "• I think someone should revoke her Afternoon Tea vouchers! How dare she throw sugar cubes at your glasshouse of hopes and desires! Thankfully this thread has made you much more desirable.  | |||
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"Sorry to hear that, she let you know though instead of just ghosting you so maybe nerves did just get the better of her, don't give up you'll find somone." Yeah at least she didn't just ghost me and I'm in no rush, was just looking forward to a proper date for a change | |||
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"I’m sorry, it really sucks when that happens. I was considering signing up for the dating apps again but you’ve just reminded me why I hate them. What are you going to do with your unexpected free time? Will you still go out? " Yeah I'm thinking about just deleting them all again but I hardly go on them anyway. I'll just go take some photos I think instead at the waterfall we would have been going to | |||
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"Oh that sucks PD. Try not to let it get you down too much. You're very handsome and you'll find someone who appreciates everything you are eventually "Thank you gorgeous | |||
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"Really sorry to hear this ·PD· You genuinely sounded excited about this the other day, and I felt excited for you too. Sometimes all that a gentleman wants is a little courtship, some woo'ing and all the ingredients to make the heart flutter. These temptresses - they lead us like a moth to a flame.
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Thing is that it was her that asked if I was going to ask her out on a date, so then I did and now she's cancelled day before
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I think someone should revoke her Afternoon Tea vouchers! How dare she throw sugar cubes at your glasshouse of hopes and desires!
Thankfully this thread has made you much more desirable. "She should only be allowed tea or coffee in it's raw form and dry from this day forward
I've employed some security for my safety and will be paying them with bacon sandwiches and coffee | |||
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"Dating Apps are hard work PD aren't they? Sorry she cancelled x" They really are, if her reason is genuine then it's fair but I'll never really know and that's probably a good thing | |||
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"I’m sorry, it really sucks when that happens. I was considering signing up for the dating apps again but you’ve just reminded me why I hate them. What are you going to do with your unexpected free time? Will you still go out? Yeah I'm thinking about just deleting them all again but I hardly go on them anyway. I'll just go take some photos I think instead at the waterfall we would have been going to " Make sure you put the pics of you naked at the waterfall on here, you will be naked at the waterfall right?!? | |||
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You’re an attractive guy I’m sure it won’t take you long in finding someone that wants that wants all the same things as you do | |||
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"Sorry to hear this OP, you come across as a nice guy so it seems her loss! Hope you can plan something fun in place of the date! "Thank you
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"I’m sorry, it really sucks when that happens. I was considering signing up for the dating apps again but you’ve just reminded me why I hate them. What are you going to do with your unexpected free time? Will you still go out? Yeah I'm thinking about just deleting them all again but I hardly go on them anyway. I'll just go take some photos I think instead at the waterfall we would have been going to " Well she is obviously a fool if she cancelled on you *and* a waterfall visit. Have a lovely time  | |||
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"I can't believe she cancelled tomorrow "Tomorrow is always cancelled as it never comes | |||
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"I’m sorry, it really sucks when that happens. I was considering signing up for the dating apps again but you’ve just reminded me why I hate them. What are you going to do with your unexpected free time? Will you still go out? Yeah I'm thinking about just deleting them all again but I hardly go on them anyway. I'll just go take some photos I think instead at the waterfall we would have been going to Make sure you put the pics of you naked at the waterfall on here, you will be naked at the waterfall right?!? "I think it may be a little busy for me to get naked there tomorrow but I have been naked there before but not by myself | |||
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"Oh PD! This saddens me. *removes hat from online shopping basket*
I was half expecting it, this is why I said the other day I don't get my hopes up "I think of it like this, a meet date isnt happening, until its avtually happening. | |||
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"I'm a little dissapointed and this is why I don't do dating usually. Said she's decided she's not ready to date yet though which I can understand but I did say when we started talking I didn't want to rush into anything serious. She would have been taking to at least 10 other guys, and you were, most definitley, a backup. Sorry to hear that though, there is a reason that men are starting to check out if dating... Stay strong king! Why would she have been? Thats not a guaranteed truth "Might wanna times that number by 3 | |||
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"I can't believe she cancelled tomorrow
Tomorrow is always cancelled as it never comes "Can it ever really be cancelled then? Are we wasting our time trying to cancel tomorrow? Makes you think. | |||
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"Awww that really sucks, especially if you were looking forward to it You’re an attractive guy I’m sure it won’t take you long in finding someone that wants that wants all the same things as you do "It's my luck, I found a money spider earlier at the hospital while waiting so maybe I'll play the lottery today and luck will change
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"I'm a little dissapointed and this is why I don't do dating usually. Said she's decided she's not ready to date yet though which I can understand but I did say when we started talking I didn't want to rush into anything serious. Was it the supermarket lady?! It was not "did you book a day off work as well?  | |||
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"I’m sorry, it really sucks when that happens. I was considering signing up for the dating apps again but you’ve just reminded me why I hate them. What are you going to do with your unexpected free time? Will you still go out? Yeah I'm thinking about just deleting them all again but I hardly go on them anyway. I'll just go take some photos I think instead at the waterfall we would have been going to Well she is obviously a fool if she cancelled on you *and* a waterfall visit. Have a lovely time "That's kind of you to say, I'd happily take you if ever come my way | |||
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"I can't believe she cancelled tomorrow
Tomorrow is always cancelled as it never comes
Can it ever really be cancelled then? Are we wasting our time trying to cancel tomorrow?
Makes you think."Not really. People have their reasons and some can’t handle the truth | |||
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"Oh PD! This saddens me. *removes hat from online shopping basket*
I was half expecting it, this is why I said the other day I don't get my hopes up
I think of it like this, a meet date isnt happening, until its avtually happening."There's always a element of doubt until I actually see them | |||
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"I can't believe she cancelled tomorrow
Tomorrow is always cancelled as it never comes
Can it ever really be cancelled then? Are we wasting our time trying to cancel tomorrow?
Makes you think."To be honest I think that's too heavy for a Tuesday | |||
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"I can't believe she cancelled tomorrow
Tomorrow is always cancelled as it never comes
Can it ever really be cancelled then? Are we wasting our time trying to cancel tomorrow?
Makes you think.
Not really. People have their reasons and some can’t handle the truth "The truth that tomorrow will never come? | |||
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"I'm a little dissapointed and this is why I don't do dating usually. Said she's decided she's not ready to date yet though which I can understand but I did say when we started talking I didn't want to rush into anything serious. Was it the supermarket lady?! It was not did you book a day off work as well? "I'm my own boss, I just do | |||
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"I can't believe she cancelled tomorrow
Tomorrow is always cancelled as it never comes
Can it ever really be cancelled then? Are we wasting our time trying to cancel tomorrow?
Makes you think.
Not really. People have their reasons and some can’t handle the truth
The truth that tomorrow will never come?"Be a good name for a song, that. | |||
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"I'm a little dissapointed and this is why I don't do dating usually. Said she's decided she's not ready to date yet though which I can understand but I did say when we started talking I didn't want to rush into anything serious. Was it the supermarket lady?! It was not did you book a day off work as well?
I'm my own boss, I just do"nevertheless a wasted day | |||
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Fine I’ll say it. She probably finished her wank " | |||
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"I'm a little dissapointed and this is why I don't do dating usually. Said she's decided she's not ready to date yet though which I can understand but I did say when we started talking I didn't want to rush into anything serious. Ah PD, gutted for you, pal. I’ve had this so many times (although on typing that I realise I may be the common denominator hahaha!). I even spoke to a woman for three hours on the phone and we got on really well, yet the day before our date she wasn’t ready. Or even after a first date! (Although typing that it feels even more like it’s me ).
It’s so frustrating when it feels promising because you are getting on famously.
Very tough, my friend, but you’re a great looking bloke, fun and interesting. I doubt you’ll have to wait long for another candidate
Dating isn't what it once was, she probably just got a better match maybe and that's the thing with modern times and apps.
I'll just carry on going with the flow and see what happens and thank you for the kind words buddy "It's what happens as you get older. Everyone I've met over 25 has been walking wounded and most are not in a recovery programme/routine. so people flake as it's easier to do than commit to unpleasant feelings and uncertainty and rejection. | |||
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"I'm a little dissapointed and this is why I don't do dating usually. Said she's decided she's not ready to date yet though which I can understand but I did say when we started talking I didn't want to rush into anything serious. Was it the supermarket lady?! It was not did you book a day off work as well?
I'm my own boss, I just donevertheless a wasted day "Everything happens for a reason | |||
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"I'm a little dissapointed and this is why I don't do dating usually. Said she's decided she's not ready to date yet though which I can understand but I did say when we started talking I didn't want to rush into anything serious. Ah PD, gutted for you, pal. I’ve had this so many times (although on typing that I realise I may be the common denominator hahaha!). I even spoke to a woman for three hours on the phone and we got on really well, yet the day before our date she wasn’t ready. Or even after a first date! (Although typing that it feels even more like it’s me ).
It’s so frustrating when it feels promising because you are getting on famously.
Very tough, my friend, but you’re a great looking bloke, fun and interesting. I doubt you’ll have to wait long for another candidate
Dating isn't what it once was, she probably just got a better match maybe and that's the thing with modern times and apps.
I'll just carry on going with the flow and see what happens and thank you for the kind words buddy
It's what happens as you get older. Everyone I've met over 25 has been walking wounded and most are not in a recovery programme/routine.
so people flake as it's easier to do than commit to unpleasant feelings and uncertainty and rejection."Yeah I've had way more than my share of wounds but I use them to make me stronger and wiser | |||
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"I'm a little dissapointed and this is why I don't do dating usually. Said she's decided she's not ready to date yet though which I can understand but I did say when we started talking I didn't want to rush into anything serious. Ah PD, gutted for you, pal. I’ve had this so many times (although on typing that I realise I may be the common denominator hahaha!). I even spoke to a woman for three hours on the phone and we got on really well, yet the day before our date she wasn’t ready. Or even after a first date! (Although typing that it feels even more like it’s me ).
It’s so frustrating when it feels promising because you are getting on famously.
Very tough, my friend, but you’re a great looking bloke, fun and interesting. I doubt you’ll have to wait long for another candidate
Dating isn't what it once was, she probably just got a better match maybe and that's the thing with modern times and apps.
I'll just carry on going with the flow and see what happens and thank you for the kind words buddy
It's what happens as you get older. Everyone I've met over 25 has been walking wounded and most are not in a recovery programme/routine.
so people flake as it's easier to do than commit to unpleasant feelings and uncertainty and rejection.
Yeah I've had way more than my share of wounds but I use them to make me stronger and wiser "Dude - I think birds get touchy when you call it a wound. It’s minge. Or maybe gash. | |||
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"I'm a little dissapointed and this is why I don't do dating usually. Said she's decided she's not ready to date yet though which I can understand but I did say when we started talking I didn't want to rush into anything serious. Ah PD, gutted for you, pal. I’ve had this so many times (although on typing that I realise I may be the common denominator hahaha!). I even spoke to a woman for three hours on the phone and we got on really well, yet the day before our date she wasn’t ready. Or even after a first date! (Although typing that it feels even more like it’s me ).
It’s so frustrating when it feels promising because you are getting on famously.
Very tough, my friend, but you’re a great looking bloke, fun and interesting. I doubt you’ll have to wait long for another candidate
Dating isn't what it once was, she probably just got a better match maybe and that's the thing with modern times and apps.
I'll just carry on going with the flow and see what happens and thank you for the kind words buddy
IMHO, one of the drawbacks off online dating, is that people have access to other people they wouldn't have had before the Internet. Therefore they have many more options and so whereas previously if someone didn't tick all the boxes but most of them, they'd date and see if the missing ticks could be worked on. With online dating if someone they match with doesn't tick all the boxes they move on to the next person hoping they will.
I agree, I do ok with getting matches but I got to really click with someone to want to date them. She says she still has wounds from last relationship and I've been there but I wouldn't have asked someone if going to go on a date with me at that time "Now still having wounds from previous relationship is a red flag for me....not posting on forum. | |||
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"I'm a little dissapointed and this is why I don't do dating usually. Said she's decided she's not ready to date yet though which I can understand but I did say when we started talking I didn't want to rush into anything serious. Ah PD, gutted for you, pal. I’ve had this so many times (although on typing that I realise I may be the common denominator hahaha!). I even spoke to a woman for three hours on the phone and we got on really well, yet the day before our date she wasn’t ready. Or even after a first date! (Although typing that it feels even more like it’s me ).
It’s so frustrating when it feels promising because you are getting on famously.
Very tough, my friend, but you’re a great looking bloke, fun and interesting. I doubt you’ll have to wait long for another candidate
Dating isn't what it once was, she probably just got a better match maybe and that's the thing with modern times and apps.
I'll just carry on going with the flow and see what happens and thank you for the kind words buddy
It's what happens as you get older. Everyone I've met over 25 has been walking wounded and most are not in a recovery programme/routine.
so people flake as it's easier to do than commit to unpleasant feelings and uncertainty and rejection.
Yeah I've had way more than my share of wounds but I use them to make me stronger and wiser
Dude - I think birds get touchy when you call it a wound. It’s minge.
Or maybe gash."I've definitely not had my fair share of that yet | |||
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"I'm a little dissapointed and this is why I don't do dating usually. Said she's decided she's not ready to date yet though which I can understand but I did say when we started talking I didn't want to rush into anything serious. Ah PD, gutted for you, pal. I’ve had this so many times (although on typing that I realise I may be the common denominator hahaha!). I even spoke to a woman for three hours on the phone and we got on really well, yet the day before our date she wasn’t ready. Or even after a first date! (Although typing that it feels even more like it’s me ).
It’s so frustrating when it feels promising because you are getting on famously.
Very tough, my friend, but you’re a great looking bloke, fun and interesting. I doubt you’ll have to wait long for another candidate
Dating isn't what it once was, she probably just got a better match maybe and that's the thing with modern times and apps.
I'll just carry on going with the flow and see what happens and thank you for the kind words buddy
IMHO, one of the drawbacks off online dating, is that people have access to other people they wouldn't have had before the Internet. Therefore they have many more options and so whereas previously if someone didn't tick all the boxes but most of them, they'd date and see if the missing ticks could be worked on. With online dating if someone they match with doesn't tick all the boxes they move on to the next person hoping they will.
I agree, I do ok with getting matches but I got to really click with someone to want to date them. She says she still has wounds from last relationship and I've been there but I wouldn't have asked someone if going to go on a date with me at that time
Now still having wounds from previous relationship is a red flag for me....not posting on forum."Yeah I agree, it's best to make sure you're ready before starting to date | |||
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"Awww that really sucks, especially if you were looking forward to it You’re an attractive guy I’m sure it won’t take you long in finding someone that wants that wants all the same things as you do
It's my luck, I found a money spider earlier at the hospital while waiting so maybe I'll play the lottery today and luck will change
What I need is for you to have a twin that lives in my village "Do it! If you win don’t forget about your fab friends | |||
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"Awww that really sucks, especially if you were looking forward to it You’re an attractive guy I’m sure it won’t take you long in finding someone that wants that wants all the same things as you do
It's my luck, I found a money spider earlier at the hospital while waiting so maybe I'll play the lottery today and luck will change
What I need is for you to have a twin that lives in my village
Do it! If you win don’t forget about your fab friends "I'd definitely be in your special place before long | |||
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"Not suprised 99% of all contacts are going to waste your time. Am I cynical? Yes but cold hard experience on here has taught me to be. This wasn't a fab meet, it was a date from another app and to be fair I've only been cancelled on one time on fab I've found people on other apps just as flaky, and tell me lies or try more flattery to get me into bed. The talk doesn't walk." Yeah, I'm just always me no matter what place I'm talking | |||
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"I've conditioned myself to not have high hopes of anyone. Through experience I've learned that what people say in the first few days/,weeks/,months is to be taken with a pinch of salt. Now, if I were you, and I was very interested in this person, I would keep the conversation going until I either lost interest or I was sure they had. I'd talk to other people and arrange dates, because my life is not to be wasted waiting on someone else. Well I've left ball in her court, I'm not one to keep messaging if I think I'm wasting my time and if she's not ready I definitely would be " Don't totally ignore her though. If I'm having a bit of a tough time with life a little hi from someone boosts my mind. You'll know when to admit defeat. I don't know her, but she could be having a bit of a life crisis, or be scared of getting involved because she can't handle heartache. | |||
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"I'm a little dissapointed and this is why I don't do dating usually. Said she's decided she's not ready to date yet though which I can understand but I did say when we started talking I didn't want to rush into anything serious. Ah PD, gutted for you, pal. I’ve had this so many times (although on typing that I realise I may be the common denominator hahaha!). I even spoke to a woman for three hours on the phone and we got on really well, yet the day before our date she wasn’t ready. Or even after a first date! (Although typing that it feels even more like it’s me ).
It’s so frustrating when it feels promising because you are getting on famously.
Very tough, my friend, but you’re a great looking bloke, fun and interesting. I doubt you’ll have to wait long for another candidate
Dating isn't what it once was, she probably just got a better match maybe and that's the thing with modern times and apps.
I'll just carry on going with the flow and see what happens and thank you for the kind words buddy
It's what happens as you get older. Everyone I've met over 25 has been walking wounded and most are not in a recovery programme/routine.
so people flake as it's easier to do than commit to unpleasant feelings and uncertainty and rejection.
Yeah I've had way more than my share of wounds but I use them to make me stronger and wiser "With my wounds, I've seen it make me and others weaker, less trusting and more self-sabotaging. The people closest to me are the professionals and I get suspicious of people who avoid professional help of any kind. To me it's an avoidance and isolation tactic which doesn't help me for sure and I haven't seen it help many people at all. I understand it's their safe space. However, there can be no growth without change and there can be no change without courage and there is no courage if you just stay in your safe space. I left dating apps because I decided to look for other ways of getting the intimacy, commitment and companionship that I would normally get from a relationship. So far it's working but I live in London, there are so many activities that are free, cheap and moderately expensive that I can go to. If I can manage to log off and leave my home and most people I've found are friendly and welcoming in those spaces. I don't know it's a London thing that we are more accepting of a bunch of random strangers coming together. | |||
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You shaving your beard off?!!!!!
Not a chance, my neck needs shaving
Thank goodness for that, thought you were going to do something drastic "Honestly I wouldn't leave the house until it grew back | |||
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"I'm a little dissapointed and this is why I don't do dating usually. Said she's decided she's not ready to date yet though which I can understand but I did say when we started talking I didn't want to rush into anything serious. Ah PD, gutted for you, pal. I’ve had this so many times (although on typing that I realise I may be the common denominator hahaha!). I even spoke to a woman for three hours on the phone and we got on really well, yet the day before our date she wasn’t ready. Or even after a first date! (Although typing that it feels even more like it’s me ).
It’s so frustrating when it feels promising because you are getting on famously.
Very tough, my friend, but you’re a great looking bloke, fun and interesting. I doubt you’ll have to wait long for another candidate
Dating isn't what it once was, she probably just got a better match maybe and that's the thing with modern times and apps.
I'll just carry on going with the flow and see what happens and thank you for the kind words buddy
IMHO, one of the drawbacks off online dating, is that people have access to other people they wouldn't have had before the Internet. Therefore they have many more options and so whereas previously if someone didn't tick all the boxes but most of them, they'd date and see if the missing ticks could be worked on. With online dating if someone they match with doesn't tick all the boxes they move on to the next person hoping they will.
I agree, I do ok with getting matches but I got to really click with someone to want to date them. She says she still has wounds from last relationship and I've been there but I wouldn't have asked someone if going to go on a date with me at that time
Now still having wounds from previous relationship is a red flag for me....not posting on forum.
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"I've conditioned myself to not have high hopes of anyone. Through experience I've learned that what people say in the first few days/,weeks/,months is to be taken with a pinch of salt. Now, if I were you, and I was very interested in this person, I would keep the conversation going until I either lost interest or I was sure they had. I'd talk to other people and arrange dates, because my life is not to be wasted waiting on someone else. Well I've left ball in her court, I'm not one to keep messaging if I think I'm wasting my time and if she's not ready I definitely would be Don't totally ignore her though. If I'm having a bit of a tough time with life a little hi from someone boosts my mind. You'll know when to admit defeat. I don't know her, but she could be having a bit of a life crisis, or be scared of getting involved because she can't handle heartache. " Well I told her to keep in touch and let me know if decides she wants to meet. She's read the message and not replied | |||
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"I'm a little dissapointed and this is why I don't do dating usually. Said she's decided she's not ready to date yet though which I can understand but I did say when we started talking I didn't want to rush into anything serious. Ah PD, gutted for you, pal. I’ve had this so many times (although on typing that I realise I may be the common denominator hahaha!). I even spoke to a woman for three hours on the phone and we got on really well, yet the day before our date she wasn’t ready. Or even after a first date! (Although typing that it feels even more like it’s me ).
It’s so frustrating when it feels promising because you are getting on famously.
Very tough, my friend, but you’re a great looking bloke, fun and interesting. I doubt you’ll have to wait long for another candidate
Dating isn't what it once was, she probably just got a better match maybe and that's the thing with modern times and apps.
I'll just carry on going with the flow and see what happens and thank you for the kind words buddy
IMHO, one of the drawbacks off online dating, is that people have access to other people they wouldn't have had before the Internet. Therefore they have many more options and so whereas previously if someone didn't tick all the boxes but most of them, they'd date and see if the missing ticks could be worked on. With online dating if someone they match with doesn't tick all the boxes they move on to the next person hoping they will.
I agree, I do ok with getting matches but I got to really click with someone to want to date them. She says she still has wounds from last relationship and I've been there but I wouldn't have asked someone if going to go on a date with me at that time
Now still having wounds from previous relationship is a red flag for me....not posting on forum.
Yeah I agree, it's best to make sure you're ready before starting to date
Took me 2 years to date after the abusive marriage and I had professional help one to one counseling and group counseling.
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"I feel your pain. I had a lovely 'date' recently. Had bn chatting for a while (not from here). Met, all good. At the end he said he wasn't 'emotionally ready', ie not over his ex. And wanted to start a family soon. He knew my age. Its hard work sometimes!!" Not over his ex but also wanted to start a family soon | |||
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You shaving your beard off?!!!!!
Not a chance, my neck needs shaving
Thank goodness for that, thought you were going to do something drastic
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You shaving your beard off?!!!!!
Not a chance, my neck needs shaving
Thank goodness for that, thought you were going to do something drastic
Honestly I wouldn't leave the house until it grew back
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You shaving your beard off?!!!!!
Not a chance, my neck needs shaving
Thank goodness for that, thought you were going to do something drastic
Honestly I wouldn't leave the house until it grew back
I'd come over with my permanent marker to draw you one, sorted
I don't think that would look good at all, I have a reputation to keep you know "What are you implying!!! I have the artist capabilities of a 3 year old, I have you know | |||
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You shaving your beard off?!!!!!
Not a chance, my neck needs shaving
Thank goodness for that, thought you were going to do something drastic
Honestly I wouldn't leave the house until it grew back
I'd come over with my permanent marker to draw you one, sorted
I don't think that would look good at all, I have a reputation to keep you know
What are you implying!!!
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"Oh I'm sorry! One of mine keeps having to rearrange because of work issues, so I feel you. There will be others! I'd be getting suspicious if it happened lots of times by same person I would if I didn't know what he was saying is true, he's had a lot of work drama but some of it was down to a local bar owner being a dickhead. So he had to move his restaurant back into the old premises early, it was being renovated so he's been there all hours trying to get it open so his staff could work. And the last time, his cooks sister died, I know him so I know that's true too. Just a streak of shit luck! I have cut things off with people in the past for time wasting, but this is all genuine "Well I hope you get to make up for lost time soon | |||
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"I've conditioned myself to not have high hopes of anyone. Through experience I've learned that what people say in the first few days/,weeks/,months is to be taken with a pinch of salt. Now, if I were you, and I was very interested in this person, I would keep the conversation going until I either lost interest or I was sure they had. I'd talk to other people and arrange dates, because my life is not to be wasted waiting on someone else. Well I've left ball in her court, I'm not one to keep messaging if I think I'm wasting my time and if she's not ready I definitely would be Don't totally ignore her though. If I'm having a bit of a tough time with life a little hi from someone boosts my mind. You'll know when to admit defeat. I don't know her, but she could be having a bit of a life crisis, or be scared of getting involved because she can't handle heartache. Well I told her to keep in touch and let me know if decides she wants to meet. She's read the message and not replied " Ah, then I'd not lose any sleep over her. Did you tell her something weird about you, like eating roasted garlic sandwiches every day? | |||
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"Oh I'm sorry! One of mine keeps having to rearrange because of work issues, so I feel you. There will be others! I'd be getting suspicious if it happened lots of times by same person I would if I didn't know what he was saying is true, he's had a lot of work drama but some of it was down to a local bar owner being a dickhead. So he had to move his restaurant back into the old premises early, it was being renovated so he's been there all hours trying to get it open so his staff could work. And the last time, his cooks sister died, I know him so I know that's true too. Just a streak of shit luck! I have cut things off with people in the past for time wasting, but this is all genuine
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"Awww that really sucks, especially if you were looking forward to it You’re an attractive guy I’m sure it won’t take you long in finding someone that wants that wants all the same things as you do
It's my luck, I found a money spider earlier at the hospital while waiting so maybe I'll play the lottery today and luck will change
What I need is for you to have a twin that lives in my village
Do it! If you win don’t forget about your fab friends
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"I've conditioned myself to not have high hopes of anyone. Through experience I've learned that what people say in the first few days/,weeks/,months is to be taken with a pinch of salt. Now, if I were you, and I was very interested in this person, I would keep the conversation going until I either lost interest or I was sure they had. I'd talk to other people and arrange dates, because my life is not to be wasted waiting on someone else. Well I've left ball in her court, I'm not one to keep messaging if I think I'm wasting my time and if she's not ready I definitely would be Don't totally ignore her though. If I'm having a bit of a tough time with life a little hi from someone boosts my mind. You'll know when to admit defeat. I don't know her, but she could be having a bit of a life crisis, or be scared of getting involved because she can't handle heartache. Well I told her to keep in touch and let me know if decides she wants to meet. She's read the message and not replied Ah, then I'd not lose any sleep over her. Did you tell her something weird about you, like eating roasted garlic sandwiches every day?" I won't lose sleep over her, I know I'm a good catch
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"Oh I'm sorry! One of mine keeps having to rearrange because of work issues, so I feel you. There will be others! I'd be getting suspicious if it happened lots of times by same person I would if I didn't know what he was saying is true, he's had a lot of work drama but some of it was down to a local bar owner being a dickhead. So he had to move his restaurant back into the old premises early, it was being renovated so he's been there all hours trying to get it open so his staff could work. And the last time, his cooks sister died, I know him so I know that's true too. Just a streak of shit luck! I have cut things off with people in the past for time wasting, but this is all genuine
Well I hope you get to make up for lost time soon
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Some of us 'romantique' gentlemen refuse to be ²nd best! "Kind Sir if you don't want to be second best. Monopolise my time and/or put a ring on it. If I am neglected, I shall find other more attentive persons. 
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"I'm a little dissapointed and this is why I don't do dating usually. Said she's decided she's not ready to date yet though which I can understand but I did say when we started talking I didn't want to rush into anything serious. Ah PD, gutted for you, pal. I’ve had this so many times (although on typing that I realise I may be the common denominator hahaha!). I even spoke to a woman for three hours on the phone and we got on really well, yet the day before our date she wasn’t ready. Or even after a first date! (Although typing that it feels even more like it’s me ).
It’s so frustrating when it feels promising because you are getting on famously.
Very tough, my friend, but you’re a great looking bloke, fun and interesting. I doubt you’ll have to wait long for another candidate
Dating isn't what it once was, she probably just got a better match maybe and that's the thing with modern times and apps.
I'll just carry on going with the flow and see what happens and thank you for the kind words buddy
IMHO, one of the drawbacks off online dating, is that people have access to other people they wouldn't have had before the Internet. Therefore they have many more options and so whereas previously if someone didn't tick all the boxes but most of them, they'd date and see if the missing ticks could be worked on. With online dating if someone they match with doesn't tick all the boxes they move on to the next person hoping they will.
I agree, I do ok with getting matches but I got to really click with someone to want to date them. She says she still has wounds from last relationship and I've been there but I wouldn't have asked someone if going to go on a date with me at that time
Now still having wounds from previous relationship is a red flag for me....not posting on forum.
Yeah I agree, it's best to make sure you're ready before starting to date
Took me 2 years to date after the abusive marriage and I had professional help one to one counseling and group counseling.
Still single though for the reasons above.
You will know when you're ready "I'm ready to be ok with not being ready to put up with time wasters going nowhere and doing nothing. lol! I'm not really the fickle type. I'm an anal stickler. Lol! I also don't do subtle hints as many people have found out to their disadvantage. | |||
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"I've conditioned myself to not have high hopes of anyone. Through experience I've learned that what people say in the first few days/,weeks/,months is to be taken with a pinch of salt. Now, if I were you, and I was very interested in this person, I would keep the conversation going until I either lost interest or I was sure they had. I'd talk to other people and arrange dates, because my life is not to be wasted waiting on someone else. Well I've left ball in her court, I'm not one to keep messaging if I think I'm wasting my time and if she's not ready I definitely would be Don't totally ignore her though. If I'm having a bit of a tough time with life a little hi from someone boosts my mind. You'll know when to admit defeat. I don't know her, but she could be having a bit of a life crisis, or be scared of getting involved because she can't handle heartache. Well I told her to keep in touch and let me know if decides she wants to meet. She's read the message and not replied " give it 24 to 48 hours for a reply. after a week....it's dead... | |||
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"Oh no way, gutted for you. Chin up buddy Maybe after I've shaved
You shaving your beard off?!!!!!
Not a chance, my neck needs shaving
Thank goodness for that, thought you were going to do something drastic
Honestly I wouldn't leave the house until it grew back
I'd come over with my permanent marker to draw you one, sorted
I don't think that would look good at all, I have a reputation to keep you know
What are you implying!!!
I have the artist capabilities of a 3 year old, I have you know
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If the one you have keeps putting you off or doesn't have time for you, do you sit at home every evening and weekend waiting for them?"That's why I don't have one anymore and I don't sit at home every evening and I work weekends. Lol! I'm very good at finding entertainment, dating myself and fucking myself. Lol or finding other people to hang out( fuck or be entertained) with. That's why I live in London. Always someplace open for the weirdos and losers and lonely's...a bit like Tokyo or New York. | |||
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"Oh I'm sorry! One of mine keeps having to rearrange because of work issues, so I feel you. There will be others! I'd be getting suspicious if it happened lots of times by same person I would if I didn't know what he was saying is true, he's had a lot of work drama but some of it was down to a local bar owner being a dickhead. So he had to move his restaurant back into the old premises early, it was being renovated so he's been there all hours trying to get it open so his staff could work. And the last time, his cooks sister died, I know him so I know that's true too. Just a streak of shit luck! I have cut things off with people in the past for time wasting, but this is all genuine
Well I hope you get to make up for lost time soon
You too, maybe someone else will come along!
I'm sure someone will eventually that I can't resist "I am the resistance. Lol! | |||
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"I've conditioned myself to not have high hopes of anyone. Through experience I've learned that what people say in the first few days/,weeks/,months is to be taken with a pinch of salt. Now, if I were you, and I was very interested in this person, I would keep the conversation going until I either lost interest or I was sure they had. I'd talk to other people and arrange dates, because my life is not to be wasted waiting on someone else. Well I've left ball in her court, I'm not one to keep messaging if I think I'm wasting my time and if she's not ready I definitely would be Don't totally ignore her though. If I'm having a bit of a tough time with life a little hi from someone boosts my mind. You'll know when to admit defeat. I don't know her, but she could be having a bit of a life crisis, or be scared of getting involved because she can't handle heartache. Well I told her to keep in touch and let me know if decides she wants to meet. She's read the message and not replied Ah, then I'd not lose any sleep over her. Did you tell her something weird about you, like eating roasted garlic sandwiches every day? I won't lose sleep over her, I know I'm a good catch
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"I've conditioned myself to not have high hopes of anyone. Through experience I've learned that what people say in the first few days/,weeks/,months is to be taken with a pinch of salt. Now, if I were you, and I was very interested in this person, I would keep the conversation going until I either lost interest or I was sure they had. I'd talk to other people and arrange dates, because my life is not to be wasted waiting on someone else. Well I've left ball in her court, I'm not one to keep messaging if I think I'm wasting my time and if she's not ready I definitely would be Don't totally ignore her though. If I'm having a bit of a tough time with life a little hi from someone boosts my mind. You'll know when to admit defeat. I don't know her, but she could be having a bit of a life crisis, or be scared of getting involved because she can't handle heartache. Well I told her to keep in touch and let me know if decides she wants to meet. She's read the message and not replied Ah, then I'd not lose any sleep over her. Did you tell her something weird about you, like eating roasted garlic sandwiches every day? But roasted garlic is so nice.... they have tic tac and minty gum."It tends to flavour body fluids though | |||
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"I would rather monopolise her time. It's far cheaper than a ring and the consequences that often occur thereafter.
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It tends to flavour body fluids though "That's fine. I like garlic and body fluids can stay on the body and in the body and not in my mouth..or anyone else's mouth if they don't want it. I'm plus size...I choose roasted garlic over male/female body fluids any day. | |||
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"I'm a little disappointed and this is why I don't do dating usually. Said she's decided she's not ready to date yet though which I can understand but I did say when we started talking I didn't want to rush into anything serious. • Really sorry to hear this ·PD· You genuinely sounded excited about this the other day, and I felt excited for you too. Sometimes all that a gentleman wants is a little courtship, some woo'ing and all the ingredients to make the heart flutter. These temptresses - they lead us like a moth to a flame.
Thing is that it was her that asked if I was going to ask her out on a date, so then I did and now she's cancelled day before
There should be a law against this type of thing "Had this so many times. Held back from seeming too keen, or rushing things. Then have them give "hint" so I ask, then little to no effort on their part to make it happen. I've been on both sides of the needing to cancel a date, even had it hit me that I was not just ready to date again but chatted with them about it. So I can sympathise slightly with her on that. It is a frustration indeed. Especially when finding somebody you want to actually invite on a date is rare enough as it is. I'm currently on the bitter and resentful side of the dating experience right now. Bored of it and just can't motivate myself to get to get to know somebody else. The past efforts have taken their toll and I need a break and refresh from it all. | |||
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"I'm a little disappointed and this is why I don't do dating usually. Said she's decided she's not ready to date yet though which I can understand but I did say when we started talking I didn't want to rush into anything serious. • Really sorry to hear this ·PD· You genuinely sounded excited about this the other day, and I felt excited for you too. Sometimes all that a gentleman wants is a little courtship, some woo'ing and all the ingredients to make the heart flutter. These temptresses - they lead us like a moth to a flame.
Thing is that it was her that asked if I was going to ask her out on a date, so then I did and now she's cancelled day before
There should be a law against this type of thing
Had this so many times. Held back from seeming too keen, or rushing things. Then have them give "hint" so I ask, then little to no effort on their part to make it happen.
I've been on both sides of the needing to cancel a date, even had it hit me that I was not just ready to date again but chatted with them about it. So I can sympathise slightly with her on that.
It is a frustration indeed. Especially when finding somebody you want to actually invite on a date is rare enough as it is.
I'm currently on the bitter and resentful side of the dating experience right now. Bored of it and just can't motivate myself to get to get to know somebody else. The past efforts have taken their toll and I need a break and refresh from it all."This would have been first date in a couple of years and I'm already wishing I hadn't put one in place, I've stopped looking for them but it was her idea so seemed like a good idea at the time | |||
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"I'm a little dissapointed and this is why I don't do dating usually. Said she's decided she's not ready to date yet though which I can understand but I did say when we started talking I didn't want to rush into anything serious. Bummer. Sorry to hear she cancelled but also how great she hasn't consumed more of your time and hopes and was honest about her position. It's probably not much of a consolation but now you can open your arms to a new experience. And take it as slow as you like. Don't even need to label it dating or anything similar?
Well if it's on a dating site then it's dating to me, on fab it's a meet so I approach both differently
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"Oh PD! This saddens me. *removes hat from online shopping basket*
I was half expecting it, this is why I said the other day I don't get my hopes up "I only get exited when their car pulls up. Until then it may not happen. This has always stood me in good stead after lots of disappointments. | |||
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"Oh PD! This saddens me. *removes hat from online shopping basket*
I was half expecting it, this is why I said the other day I don't get my hopes up
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"I'm a little disappointed and this is why I don't do dating usually. Said she's decided she's not ready to date yet though which I can understand but I did say when we started talking I didn't want to rush into anything serious. • Really sorry to hear this ·PD· You genuinely sounded excited about this the other day, and I felt excited for you too. Sometimes all that a gentleman wants is a little courtship, some woo'ing and all the ingredients to make the heart flutter. These temptresses - they lead us like a moth to a flame.
Thing is that it was her that asked if I was going to ask her out on a date, so then I did and now she's cancelled day before
There should be a law against this type of thing
Had this so many times. Held back from seeming too keen, or rushing things. Then have them give "hint" so I ask, then little to no effort on their part to make it happen.
I've been on both sides of the needing to cancel a date, even had it hit me that I was not just ready to date again but chatted with them about it. So I can sympathise slightly with her on that.
It is a frustration indeed. Especially when finding somebody you want to actually invite on a date is rare enough as it is.
I'm currently on the bitter and resentful side of the dating experience right now. Bored of it and just can't motivate myself to get to get to know somebody else. The past efforts have taken their toll and I need a break and refresh from it all."I've been single for nearly 10 years. I tried dating for a serious relationship and I couldn't take any of the men seriously. Lol! A bit fatigued from dating for intimacy and companionship. so now all I want is a little intimacy which always seems to be less intimacy needed for women than men. the club 3-4 times a month is enough intimacy for me. Even arranging non-club meets is exhausting me now. I try not to go down the bitter and resentful road...it's not good for my mental health and it could turn inward to self-h@rm and self-sabotage. I always try to nip that in the bud. There's a lone-wolf male philosophy on social media for self-improvement and It seems to work well for some men. Definitely takes your power back when you focus less on sex and finding a sexual/romantic partner. I pretty much did 18 months in therapy as a lone wolf it resulted in low libido and disconnection from people but it had to be done for my own growth and development...and I didn't die from lack of sex/romance. | |||
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"Oh PD! This saddens me. *removes hat from online shopping basket*
I was half expecting it, this is why I said the other day I don't get my hopes up
I only get exited when their car pulls up. Until then it may not happen. This has always stood me in good stead after lots of disappointments. "I only get excited when I actually see them....could be their wife driving their car to tell me that they are not coming. Lol! Happened before I met the girlfriend in the pub( who I have zero sexual interest in) while the guy was parking the car. Lol! I was relieved when he walked in tall smart casual with a full head of hair and a nice mischievous toothy smile. | |||
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"Oh PD! This saddens me. *removes hat from online shopping basket*
I was half expecting it, this is why I said the other day I don't get my hopes up
I only get exited when their car pulls up. Until then it may not happen. This has always stood me in good stead after lots of disappointments.
I was excited at the though, dubious she'd actually show "Reading this gave me the ick for you. As if I was in your same position with the same feeling of excitement and doubt I would feel ick-y..and no doubt have an anxiety-induced IBS flare-up. Lol! Omg...Nah I try to keep that adrenaline and cortisol under wraps. | |||
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"I'm going to create a new thread: "PD and Nero looking for a date. Apply within". Of course we're looking separately; I like him but I don't fancy him in •that• way. "Be careful what you wish for. While I can't cycle to Wales I can cycle to Mayfair etc.. Lol! I could hire a car and drive to Wale but I like my bicycle more.... Unlikely today or the rest of the week though I'm in bed with some Benylin cold and flu....and my period. Might be catching....the cold and/or flu...not the period.
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