FabSwingers.com forum: explain this to me...

By *issy_named_c OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Someone winks at you,

You message a gentle hello,

You get blocked.

What's that all about?

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

This is the way

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By *andadbodMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"This is the way"

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

They winked accidentally?

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman
over a year ago

In the clouds

Lol no idea, I don't send messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone winks at you,

You message a gentle hello,

You get blocked.

Was it a couple? One half winked the other half blocked? Unnecessary though

What's that all about?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are arseholes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Changed their mind quickly.

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By *issy_named_c OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I appreciate you always giving someone the benefit of the doubt!

It had crossed my mind, but seemed pretty unlikely to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They winked accidentally?"

I wondered that, though don't we have to confirm the wink? after touching the initial, wink button.

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By *issy_named_c OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Nope, Just a single guy.

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By *aggonerMan
over a year ago

for a penny

Perhaps you came over as too eager so they panicked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone winks at you,

You message a gentle hello,

You get blocked.

What's that all about?"

They suddenly realised they were punching above their weight

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By *issy_named_c OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

On this occasion, I believe that to be more likely than accidentally finding my profile, looking at some pics and hitting the wink button.

Any who...

Thanks all, for confirming I'm not a pariah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some folk just like to know they’ve got your attention

They changed their mind

Sausage fingers…

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"They winked accidentally?

I wondered that, though don't we have to confirm the wink? after touching the initial, wink button."

I rarely wink but I don't think so

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By *issy_named_c OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Someone winks at you,

You message a gentle hello,

You get blocked.

What's that all about?

They suddenly realised they were punching above their weight

Thank you

xxxxx

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By *untimes wantedMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Maybe built up courage to wink ,wanted to see if you was interested then got nervous panicked and blocked you in case you replyed.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

*shrugs*

Got another one for you, chatting to someone, arranging a social... He deletes his profile... Like wtf?

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By *issy_named_c OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"*shrugs*

Got another one for you, chatting to someone, arranging a social... He deletes his profile... Like wtf?"

Surely that is the epitome of a panic merchant.

You do look a little intimidating though

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By *eFCUKaLotCouple
over a year ago

somewhere close

We had a couple wink at us, we winked back. They then messaged us later today & the conversation was so boring from the get go. One word answers. You messaged us but then can’t be bothered to chat. Blocked.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"They winked accidentally?"

This can happen, I've done it lol!

On a web browser, 'Send a Wink' is where the Messages are on the identical-looking My 'Account menu'! I've done it a couple of times, and once with my 'sticking' laptop too (I carry a small keyboard around now, I got so sick of this).

No point blocking for me (people do though, whatever) but I did apologise one time, partly because I thought it was someone who might actually message me. pt

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Someone winks at you,

You message a gentle hello,

You get blocked.

What's that all about?"

**** PANIC ****

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By *ripodius WillyusMan
over a year ago

Here and there

"Someone winks at you,

You message a gentle hello,

You get blocked.

What's that all about?"

Personal choice do not worry its not real life its a great hobby look at it that way.

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By *issy_named_c OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Someone winks at you,

You message a gentle hello,

You get blocked.

What's that all about?

**** PANIC ****

Xxxx

Probably true.

Hard not to instantly take it personally!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They wanted the attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone winks at you,

You message a gentle hello,

You get blocked.

What's that all about?"

They appreciated your profile but didn't want the message so that's their way of stopping further contact?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*shrugs*

Got another one for you, chatting to someone, arranging a social... He deletes his profile... Like wtf?"

He married

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By *untimes wantedMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

"*shrugs*

Got another one for you, chatting to someone, arranging a social... He deletes his profile... Like wtf?

He married "

She caught him pants down mid message

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"People are arseholes "

Or winners

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"People are arseholes

Or winners

Fucks sake auto carrot... winkers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had this earlier, I got all excited as they appear to be a genuine local couple. I sent a really polite message and then….. blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People are arseholes

Or winners

Fucks sake auto carrot... winkers "

This made me lol

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

"This is the way"

This is the way

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Someone winks at you,

You message a gentle hello,

You get blocked.

What's that all about?

**** PANIC ****

Xxxx

Probably true.

Hard not to instantly take it personally! "

Please try not too lovely. It’s the interweb. These things happen

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"People are arseholes

Or winners

Fucks sake auto carrot... winkers

This made me lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they didn't wink at you.

Maybe it was your imagination believing they did wink at you because you fancy them.

Maybe you sent them a message saying "can I stick my finger up your hole" instead of a gentle hello.

And then maybe they blocked you because they didn't like the thought of being finger blasted in the backdoor.

Maybe.

I don't know.

People are so strange.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"Someone winks at you,

You message a gentle hello,

You get blocked.

What's that all about?"

Cuz ppl r pricks at times

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

If you fuck up you shouldn't just block really, that is rude. But some people don't care.

A lot of us will say hello though after winks, and some people get embarrassed I think. I don't reply to them much, but I've been winked and then messaged before - and then quickly blocked - just after I've put one of my more convincing pics up (I have a couple that pass for some people).

So they (or he, more likely) may have just seen your ass and winked before properly reading! It could be that if it wasn't accidental. pt

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By *issy_named_c OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Maybe they didn't wink at you.

Maybe it was your imagination believing they did wink at you because you fancy them.

Maybe you sent them a message saying "can I stick my finger up your hole" instead of a gentle hello.

And then maybe they blocked you because they didn't like the thought of being finger blasted in the backdoor.

Maybe.

I don't know.

People are so strange."

This is quite a projection

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By *issy_named_c OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Someone winks at you,

You message a gentle hello,

You get blocked.

What's that all about?

**** PANIC ****

Xxxx

Probably true.

Hard not to instantly take it personally!

Please try not too lovely. It’s the interweb. These things happen

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Maybe they didn't wink at you.

Maybe it was your imagination believing they did wink at you because you fancy them.

Maybe you sent them a message saying "can I stick my finger up your hole" instead of a gentle hello.

And then maybe they blocked you because they didn't like the thought of being finger blasted in the backdoor.

Maybe.

I don't know.

People are so strange.

This is quite a projection

-Your profile does ask for cold and cutting comments, this looks like it could be some attention to me! pt

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By *issy_named_c OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"If you fuck up you shouldn't just block really, that is rude. But some people don't care.

So they (or he, more likely) may have just seen your ass and winked before properly reading! It could be that if it wasn't accidental. pt"

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Just like kids winks are to be seen and not heard

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"*shrugs*

Got another one for you, chatting to someone, arranging a social... He deletes his profile... Like wtf?

Surely that is the epitome of a panic merchant.

You do look a little intimidating though

I'm a pussycat really

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"We had a couple wink at us, we winked back. They then messaged us later today & the conversation was so boring from the get go. One word answers. You messaged us but then can’t be bothered to chat. Blocked. "

I was thinking just this.

Some people are on such different wave lengths here.

I get a fair few messages not loads. If get one word messages or replies I do a big sigh and wonder whether to bother , when I do bother I usually regret it

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

Ive had that too.

It feels weird.

I have even had a wink and a hello message but when I went to reply, I was already blocked!

I hope it makes them happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The whole wink option is bizarre to me, if you like a profile just send a message for goodness sake lol. I ignore pretty much all the winks I receive I cba with it. OP if they block you it looks like you may of had a lucky escape too many infantile fools on Fab playing stupid games.

Rant over

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Better to be blocked than to get the most pathetic childish response I’ve ever had on here from a so called “ grown woman “

They wink.

I read profile. Notice it’s says in big letters “ no smoker”

Politely message saying “ don’t know if you read our profile but we’re both smokers”

Her reply “ didn’t mean to wink you anyway”

like come on, what are you 6 ?

Because yeah you accidentally pushed two buttons to wink us. Awww bless her busied ego

The mr

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

"Better to be blocked than to get the most pathetic childish response I’ve ever had on here from a so called “ grown woman “

They wink.

I read profile. Notice it’s says in big letters “ no smoker”

Politely message saying “ don’t know if you read our profile but we’re both smokers”

Her reply “ didn’t mean to wink you anyway”

like come on, what are you 6 ?

Because yeah you accidentally pushed two buttons to wink us. Awww bless her busied ego

The mr "

I mean I just don’t get why people have to be rude really annoys me . It’s costs nothing to be nice does it

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