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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

People are on your hotlist?

I have 3 women all who I don't stand a chance with

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By *andadbodMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

4 but can’t remember why i added them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None yet and I don't think I'm on anybody else's (Mrs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't count that high, so above 8.

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

5 on my list

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

I use it as a,'will message list', if I don't get a reply I take them off and block them so I don't message again.

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By *MandMMCouple
over a year ago

Welwyn garden city

Lots

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

16 couples.

9 women.

4 men.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"16 couples.

9 women.

4 men.

The mr "

And you can keep up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 people and one party planner.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"16 couples.

9 women.

4 men.

The mr

And you can keep up? "

Keep up with what ?

The mr

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"16 couples.

9 women.

4 men.

The mr

And you can keep up?

Keep up with what ?

The mr "

All the profile perving

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By *siancouplehantsCouple
over a year ago

K-PAX

4

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"16 couples.

9 women.

4 men.

The mr

And you can keep up?

Keep up with what ?

The mr

All the profile perving "

Don’t click on every individual one. Just scrolling down and look at latest pics. That’s the reason they’re there. Good inspiration tool and hot people to look at. Win win.

The mr

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

12. I should have a refresh really as 2 haven’t been on for over a year

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By *undayGirl 69Woman
over a year ago

Coalville

16… but only recall why 2 are…

Maybe should clear out the rest!

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

.

6, 2 are actually the same horrid person that I just want to keep an eye on. 3 are party organiser profiles and 1 is just someone I use for wank material if I'm in the mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think there's about 30 on mine.. a mixture of men, women, couples, clubs and party organisers Px

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

Just had a cull, so 4.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's 41 on mine (weirdly I've also hot listed myself)

All the best people become my friends though

Some are photo inspiration, some are just way out of my league but excellent eye candy, some really make me laugh so I check them out occasionally

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

We have 3 at the minute one woman, one man and one couple

D.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

24. A mix of friends, people whose photo updates I want to see, and people whose status updates amuse the life out of me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"24. A mix of friends, people whose photo updates I want to see, and people whose status updates amuse the life out of me."

Do I need to post more googly eye pics?

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

7 all just because for perving purposes

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

9 in total made up of:

3 Couples

6 Women

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By *uteLittleGeekWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I don't have anyone yet

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By *pYaMan
over a year ago

Ready…

22 on my list, I see a new forum thread coming

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"22 on my list, I see a new forum thread coming "

Won't be from me

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan
over a year ago

Gourock

I have 9 on mine

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"24. A mix of friends, people whose photo updates I want to see, and people whose status updates amuse the life out of me."

Snap. There’s 24 on mine just now too.

People I think are hot. People I think might become friends one day. People whose photos I don’t want to miss. And some people who haven’t been around in a while, so that I see them if they come back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

64 but I do need to go through my hotlist and friends list tbf as loads in there that I need to remove

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

34, just looked now. We really need a sort out as some of them haven't been online for months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots…. I love discovering new profiles and enjoying how they all differ… and then being able to going back to them

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By *mashingPumpkinMan
over a year ago

Carmarthen

It was about 60, just had a clear out as I’ve recently moved to a different area. Now are 3 I chat to regularly, 3 party organisers and 2 for perving.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I have quite a few, but it’s split hotlist/notlist…..

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I tried putting some party organisers on my hotlist but they don’t seem to actually organise anything. They’ve gone very quiet. Might remove them …

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

A lot ... should really have a clear out though. Is a good mix of couples, single females and males.

Tinder x

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

22 but most live far away.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

About 20.

Some who i like but, too shy to message.

Others who's pictures and videos I 'admire'.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

4 currently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone!

Even you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 couples

2 men

1 woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 on mine. All fellas. 1 is someone I met for a social a few years ago and kept in sporadic touch. I knew he was recovering from cancer but hes now not been inkine so it doesn't look good

1 chap who was a FWB for 2 years pre-Covid we keep in sporadic touch but hes nit been online for a minth or so.

The other, I can't recall why!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve got 30. Also most I don’t stand a chance with or forumites I quite like. I really should clear it out.

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

50 ... a combination of guys girls and couples... lol

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"Everyone!

Even you x"

That’s the spirit! Fabs for everyone! Hotlists for all!

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By *herry delightWoman
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

5 Men

As only men that I have met and would meet again go on my hot list. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"5 Men

As only men that I have met and would meet again go on my hot list. X"

Lucky them

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat

Loads... I just love so many people's pics on here I totally add them for perving and general appreciation of their work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0 at the moment

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Over 200

Now I feel like a complete perv

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By *.R.MMan
over a year ago

Norfolk


"People are on your hotlist?

I have 3 women all who I don't stand a chance with "

Same for me Wonko

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

... never looked really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I can start counting without feeling like a massive perv

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Over 200

Now I feel like a complete perv "

And I thought I was bad lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Over 200

Now I feel like a complete perv

And I thought I was bad lol "

Are you?

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By *uffnmuffCouple
over a year ago

London

We only have clubs and events profiles on our hotlist. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have quite a few on my hotlist, but probably no chance with most of them

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

I only use it to remind me who I don't want to chat to in the forum if they have been abnoxious, abusive or whatever else like that. Kind of reverse to its purpose really. Notes is too consuming to do. This way its a quick glance only on the list as not particularly long but growing

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Mines totally empty.

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By *ellanbennyCouple
over a year ago

cambs

Mrs went on the look out last night, we now have 10

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Just counted 52 and some havent been on for months

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Over 200

Now I feel like a complete perv

And I thought I was bad lol

Are you? "

I couldn't possibly comment

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

23.

3 I've had relations with, a few friends from the forums and a couple of people I'm stalking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Over 200

Now I feel like a complete perv

And I thought I was bad lol

Are you?

I couldn't possibly comment "

Oh well

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Over 200

Now I feel like a complete perv

And I thought I was bad lol "

They have accumulated since 2019

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By *onnyJohnMan
over a year ago

Doncaster

None

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never made one . Maybe we should

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

Zero! I did have quite a few - some were friends from the forum and some were people I wanted to message.

Now my mojo has fucked off I decided to delete them all. Felt like a constant reminder of people I’d like to meet but am not in the right place to.

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By *dmundwilsonMan
over a year ago

Llandudno

Quite a few, only met two if em though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

16

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By *ineapple_PrincessWoman
over a year ago

in the waves

6 right now

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

4. Should be 3 but one of them won't be my friend, so I can't move him to that list, dammit. I mean, I've not actually asked... I'm too shy

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

4

1 with moon sized norks

1 with a use for sand paper condoms

1 with red hair from up north whos a mate of a mate

And one that has lightning

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"4. Should be 3 but one of them won't be my friend, so I can't move him to that list, dammit. I mean, I've not actually asked... I'm too shy "

The three on mine refuse to change list too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probbaly to many. Around 30. Mix of couples,TS,ladies. Anyone who tickles my mind or gets my purse racing really

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Too many

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

Markfield


"People are on your hotlist?

I have 3 women all who I don't stand a chance with "

Just you Wonko

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People are on your hotlist?

I have 3 women all who I don't stand a chance with

Just you Wonko "

Liar

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

24 ...some not even sure why

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"24 ...some not even sure why "

Because you love tormenting them with jaffa cakes

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By *aggonerMan
over a year ago

for a penny

We’ve had this on another thread recently.

I reckon it’s low level stalking.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"24 ...some not even sure why

Because you love tormenting them with jaffa cakes "

Or waiting for them to accept my jaffa cakes

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"We’ve had this on another thread recently.

I reckon it’s low level stalking. "

A gateway into actual stalking

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Probbaly to many. Around 30. Mix of couples,TS,ladies. Anyone who tickles my mind or gets my purse racing really"

Ooh are you taking me shopping then out for dinner?? lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"24 ...some not even sure why

Because you love tormenting them with jaffa cakes

Or waiting for them to accept my jaffa cakes "

Thankfully I've not been offered

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Probbaly to many. Around 30. Mix of couples,TS,ladies. Anyone who tickles my mind or gets my purse racing really

Ooh are you taking me shopping then out for dinner?? lol"

Only if its lingerie shopping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure, but there are certainly a few

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By *ee04Man
over a year ago

Essex

Have met 13 of my hotlist. But meets seem to get more infrequent, since Covid hardly had any.

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

abkut 25, but some are really jist hot profiles that post pics not actual people id expect to meet

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Probbaly to many. Around 30. Mix of couples,TS,ladies. Anyone who tickles my mind or gets my purse racing really

Ooh are you taking me shopping then out for dinner?? lol

Only if its lingerie shopping "

Works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Add me up

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Only one…

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

[Removed by poster at 22/05/23 17:02:00]

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By *rosted_CupcakeCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

0 need that to change though haha

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

.

About 200

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"24. A mix of friends, people whose photo updates I want to see, and people whose status updates amuse the life out of me.

Do I need to post more googly eye pics? "

It's no good to me when you keep them in friends only and delete me

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

4234653366

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"4234653366"

Don’t lie. That’s your phone number

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Lots of social hosts

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By *egoMan
over a year ago

Preston

2, ones Leggy Luna and her phenomenal vids.

The other has occasional good pics and is reasonably close.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"4234653366

Don’t lie. That’s your phone number "

Nah I'm.just a prolific wanker

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

I have 12 and think I have room for more

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

one and a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

38 on my hotlist. Mostly because they are quite prolific sharing photos and videos that I like.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

On Fabguys it's basically my list of potential meets (found while Searching usually, with Friends being my actual contacts) - but here on FS I seem to use it for various profiles I just find super sexy.

I wonder what people think of this? Profiles being hotlisted by people they express a lack of interest in.

pt

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By *herry delightWoman
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

Update it's now 6 men x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have anyone on mine.

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By *rofmoriartyMan
over a year ago

Nearby

8, I’m very selective and treat it like my MySpace Top 8.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"4 currently "

Me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loads... I just love so many people's pics on here I totally add them for perving and general appreciation of their work"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About

Do couples count as one or two?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a tendency to move them from hotlist to friends list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 hot number …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have a tendency to move them from hotlist to friends list "

But currently 17

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t count them all, but at least 100.

I travel around a lot, so I’ve hotlisted people in the various regions I’m in

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By *eanorWoman
over a year ago

?

0

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have a tendency to move them from hotlist to friends list

But currently 17"

My three refuse to move over

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

quite a lot it turns out...

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By *eily2020TV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester

Just over 60 on mine x

I remove them if they don't log on for a few months

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Just Jamie Hants

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a hotlist

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By *untimes wantedMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

29 but mine is combination of guys i might have messaged in the past ,ones that had messaged me before i took a break from swingers and some not even sure why they are on the list in the first place.prob get round to deleting them at some point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just Jamie Hants"

Now I wanted to have a certain image of that, but it only ended up looking like both of you taking the piss out of me... And I'm not against that

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Just Jamie Hants

Now I wanted to have a certain image of that, but it only ended up looking like both of you taking the piss out of me... And I'm not against that "

You're definitely into that.

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