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By *ovelifelovefuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat

If you put up a meet request, how many messages do you tend to get?

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

Probably less than you would expect.

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By *ovelifelovefuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat


"Probably less than you would expect."

I would have thought your inbox would be overflowing

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I guess it depends - we put a last minute meet request up last Saturday morning for the afternoon.

We had some interest but not from the people we were interested in. Saturday afternoon is prime family time too so probably not the best time.

We’ve done it whilst away and got more success.

We don’t do it often as we usually plan beforehand but it’s 50/50 on the success of who’s available.

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messages? A lot will send messages or winks

If I actually expected anything to happen I wouldn’t post that way, never works, I’m better off just turning up to a club, plus it’s safer at clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only tend to post meets when we plan on going to an event or to a club and it’s more looking for people to say hi when there.

We get a couple of messages and maybe a few winks but not many.

Mr

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Not many. And most of those I do get involved the first line "if only we were closer"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not many. And most of those I do get involved the first line "if only we were closer" "

This!

The responses are always from 300 miles away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i put a meet up, whether that be because im wanting something spontaneous, or whether it be for a club night or party that im attending, i tend to get quite a few.

a lot will be from people saying hello, as they're going to the same club or event too, which is lush as it sets the introduction ball rolling ready to meet people

and when it's for a private meet, yeah, a few for them too. most just telling me they'll rock my world.. but there are always a few hidden gems too Px

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By *ovelifelovefuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat


"Not many. And most of those I do get involved the first line "if only we were closer"

This!

The responses are always from 300 miles away "

Never quite understand why people message when they are so far away and it's clear you are looking for someone local for a meet

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By *ilthyRacersCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

You always get at least a few telling you they’re free at a completely different time.

If you post a meet for 3pm Sunday you’ll get at least one person free on Tuesday evening, one free daytime Monday (if you’re discreet) and at least one who isn’t free, lives 340 miles away, but just thought they’d let you know that if they were free and closer they’d be keen.

There’s usually always at least 3/4 that you know won’t meet as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not as many as we would like

But saying that we tend to post last minute meets

Mrs C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure.

Shall I try it and let you know?

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple
over a year ago

Bloxham

It varies what day of week etc and time but not as many messages as single guys would think

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Too many to sort through and answer back etc, so we don't tend to bother anymore.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We only post meets for organised socials, get one or two messages.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot. 99% are from people that haven’t read our profile or have and then ignored it completely.

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By *ovelifelovefuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat


"I'm not sure.

Shall I try it and let you know? "

Go for it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We used to do quite well with the meet todays.

We only ever did them as spontaneous last minute meets and never had an issue sorting a meet despite living in the sticks.

In terms of numbers I'd say 20+ would be normal. About half of that sensible messages.

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By *ovelifelovefuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat


"We used to do quite well with the meet todays.

We only ever did them as spontaneous last minute meets and never had an issue sorting a meet despite living in the sticks.

In terms of numbers I'd say 20+ would be normal. About half of that sensible messages."

When responding I always make sure I'm nearby and can actually meet. Seems a lot of folks ignore these 2 essential bits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not sure.

Shall I try it and let you know?

Go for it.... "

Can you remind me in about 4 weeks when I'm actually free?

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By *ovelifelovefuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat


"I'm not sure.

Shall I try it and let you know?

Go for it....

Can you remind me in about 4 weeks when I'm actually free? "

Note put in the diary...

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By *ovelifelovefuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat

Forgot to check back in 4 weeks as promised! Hope you are managing to have some fun

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