FabSwingers.com forum: Too many people just browse on here

By *arkOblivion OP Man
over a year ago

glendora

Does anyone else feel like everyone on here just views others profiles but don’t make contact or add as friends

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over a year ago

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By *ife_fucker35Man
over a year ago

north

To be fair that's what it's about. You view a profile, if you wanna contact off the back of it you will, or if you don't feel interested, you don't.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"Does anyone else feel like everyone on here just views others profiles but don’t make contact or add as friends "

Bit like browsing online until you see something you fancy, strange that

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By *annyDanielleMan
over a year ago

Street, Somerset

"Does anyone else feel like everyone on here just views others profiles but don’t make contact or add as friends "

They look, they've sated their curiosity, they're not interested, they don't message.

A view is in no way an indication of interest. It's just a view.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Yes there is a lot of viewing going on and yes there could be more messaging but ultimately contact is made when there is something in common that one party wants to pursue and the replies happen when the other party is happy to

We don’t usually add people as friends unless we have met them or both of us are happy to or one of us have known someone for a long time.

I hope this helps clears things up a little OP

Marc

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

People view profiles to see if there is an interest. If they don't message you they are not interested

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By *aggonerMan
over a year ago

for a penny

It’s the nature of the site that people will browse.

It’s a harsh truth that you haven’t appealed to people that have perused you so far. It happens.

You should make your profile appealing then sit back and wait. Or browse the profiles.

The forum is entertaining.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people are looking but not messaging maybe your profile needs improving.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Like others have said if they don't message you then they aren't interested. How else will people know if they want to make contact if they don't look first.

As for sending friends request after just looking I know I tend to just ignore those the only people I have on mine are people I've chatted to.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

If FAB isn’t working for you then it’s usually because your profile and pics aren’t enticing enough.

If your profile is full of cock pics for example then a lot of people will just look and think ‘oh another profile the same as the last’ and move on.

People shouldn’t blame FAB for the site not being as they thought. FAB gives everyone the same tools to sell themselves - it’s how you choose to sell yourself is the big difference in how successful you are on here.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I'm feeling you, OP.

I haven't had a fab shag in years. Bloody time wasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having glanced and seen that you’re in California, and the large proportion of the fab population are in the UK, it’s not hard to figure why you might be getting passed by.

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By *rooperRedMan
over a year ago

Littlehampton

Who do you want to add you as a friend? Women? They get a few hundred messages a day. Couples? Likewise. Other men? Not really what most guys want. It's buyer's market, it's for women and couples and people who are active on the swinger scene. Go to a few socials and clubs if you want to build a network. One thing this site definitely isn't is somewhere to get an easy shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else feel like everyone on here just views others profiles but don’t make contact or add as friends "

Do you fancy manning my inbox for me?

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By *onkeynutWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Yep, I mostly browse until someone/something catches my attention.

If someone looks at your profile and doesn’t contact you then you can assume that what they saw isn’t for them.

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By *thleticrugby88Man
over a year ago

Near Hereford

I usually see what the person wants on their profile and if I think I am what they are looking for, I'll message, if I don't think I am, I won't.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Yes I frequently do this. But then I'm not seeking just anyone

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By *elisandre300Woman
over a year ago

dontbefuckingnosey

I’m only here to perve atm…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, I just browse (read perve). No point making contact if it's unlikely you get a reply

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Does anyone else feel like everyone on here just views others profiles but don’t make contact or add as friends "

How do you know they don't make contact?

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

never browsed im telling the truth,,

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

At over 5000 miles away I'd see no point in talking to or adding as a friend, but I have to view your profile to know that.

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

Just one big chocolate shop.

Different textures and fillings

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I do think a lot of people can sit back and wait for contact without browsing at all though!

And unless they are really striking of course, they are the least likely to achieve much here I would guess. I've noticed this over on Fabguys anyway - I was always telling some people there how to use advanced Search (and regularly too, as people come and go).

And of course you actually have to reach out too, ie at very-least 'fab' a pic, wink or open View. A decent opening message is best of course, ideally profile-backed (rather than 'cock included') being the best type in general I think. Friend Requests are probably best sent later. You can gauge different approaches from different profiles though, there are no set rules as such I think.

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By *ezebel100Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

You need a better variety of photos.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

It’s like Kay’s catalogue for the 21st Century

We like summat, we order it then pay it off in monthly instalments if we decide to keep it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be fair that's what it's about. You view a profile, if you wanna contact off the back of it you will, or if you don't feel interested, you don't."

That’s kind of what I thought!!

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"Does anyone else feel like everyone on here just views others profiles but don’t make contact or add as friends "

OP, Amazon have been in touch. They’ve asked me to ask you why you didn’t buy every product you have viewed on their site.

Can you account for this outrageous oversight? They are very hurt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else feel like everyone on here just views others profiles but don’t make contact or add as friends

Bit like browsing online until you see something you fancy, strange that "
lol yes very strange indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else feel like everyone on here just views others profiles but don’t make contact or add as friends

OP, Amazon have been in touch. They’ve asked me to ask you why you didn’t buy every product you have viewed on their site.

Can you account for this outrageous oversight? They are very hurt."
LMAO

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Depends how good the profile is and if they're what I'm looking for.

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By *andyrod1Man
over a year ago

St Margaret's at Cliffe

I am a browser due to the fact my mailbox is permanently empty ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else feel like everyone on here just views others profiles but don’t make contact or add as friends "
I don’t even check to see who views me ..if I view someone and don't contact them.

I hate when I just view someone's profile and they notice and contact me about it...reeks of desperation ...but again I suppose they are others who like that .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else feel like everyone on here just views others profiles but don’t make contact or add as friends I don’t even check to see who views me ..if I view someone and don't contact them means I'm not interested in what I see.

I hate when I just view someone's profile and they notice and contact me about it...reeks of desperation ...but again I suppose they are others who like that ."

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

No, I have made contact with people and had them contact me. I've met some lovely people as well and made some friends.

I think it's just you OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know where you're coming from, it sometimes can feel like everyone is just browsing but then when you make contact with someone and you all click, it's worth the wait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely OP, the women should be hopping on your cock on a daily basis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I view. I observe. I watch and collect things in my head. Then maybe reach out with a strategy in my head. Although recently just one comment made me tingle my mind and was enough to be talking the very same evening. So no rule.

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