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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There's more daylight now but does anyone feel like they have less and less time to get things done?

I could do with 6 months off work to do what I need to get done and then another 6 months to recoup

And yes - we are having a bit of a break too. We're feeling abit meh on fab at the moment. And as above, time is failing us.

F

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Agreed. But it's much nicer to do those things when the sun is shining now

LvM

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Agreed. But it's much nicer to do those things when the sun is shining now

LvM"

I'm not too sure, I'm like a sweat fountain at the moment

F

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln


"Agreed. But it's much nicer to do those things when the sun is shining now

LvM

I'm not too sure, I'm like a sweat fountain at the moment

F"

Moist...

LvM

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Not anymore but we're at the other end if our working life.

Take a look at what you have on your to do list and really think about if it's a 'must do' or a 'like to do'. This is going to sound like mum advice but don't let your young years pass you by while you run to remain on the treadmill

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not anymore but we're at the other end if our working life.

Take a look at what you have on your to do list and really think about if it's a 'must do' or a 'like to do'. This is going to sound like mum advice but don't let your young years pass you by while you run to remain on the treadmill "

. Mum advice is welcome here. My mum has already told me on the phone to make sure I relax today

F

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clocks go forward soon More light less time lol

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By *apidaryMan
over a year ago

Shipston

As one gets older the days and weeks go by at the same speed they always did, but the months and the years fly.

That's why I'm on this site. Time's at our heels. Best make the most of a sunny May Sunday that won't come again.

Agree that the sense of things to do builds up. Partly that's having more interests and imagination, though. Much better to have too much to do in life than too little, I reckon.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Not anymore but we're at the other end if our working life.

Take a look at what you have on your to do list and really think about if it's a 'must do' or a 'like to do'. This is going to sound like mum advice but don't let your young years pass you by while you run to remain on the treadmill

. Mum advice is welcome here. My mum has already told me on the phone to make sure I relax today

F"

You will find it hard to relax if you're stressing about stuff you haven't done.

Are you putting pressure on yourself to achieve things that aren't actually vital?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clocks go forward soon More light less time lol "

Clocks changed in March.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

^^but your mum is right

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes Departure Lounge in NN9


"Not anymore but we're at the other end if our working life.

Take a look at what you have on your to do list and really think about if it's a 'must do' or a 'like to do'. This is going to sound like mum advice but don't let your young years pass you by while you run to remain on the treadmill "

With me it is 'Must do', 'Like to do' and 'Tomorrow will do' and we all know tomorrow never comes.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Not anymore but we're at the other end if our working life.

Take a look at what you have on your to do list and really think about if it's a 'must do' or a 'like to do'. This is going to sound like mum advice but don't let your young years pass you by while you run to remain on the treadmill

With me it is 'Must do', 'Like to do' and 'Tomorrow will do' and we all know tomorrow never comes. "

With me it's

'oh damn the deadline's tomorrow '

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a theory a lot of therapists use in clinical psychology called ‘tidy your room’ and it’s designed to teach you to not be too overwhelmed with it all, how you do it is exactly as it sounds, become methodical about tidying your room, don’t allow yourself to live in chaos and even if you look around your house and think ‘well it’s tidy’ is it? Therapist would then suggest a timeframe in which to carry out the task, what this does is resets your thinking about tasks and time, realistic goals become set and achieved and the scary thing is it works, you end up with more time because you stay on top of the overwhelming, good luck OP

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

Never enough time?

Sleep less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clocks go forward soon More light less time lol "

Soon?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely agree it feels like there’s not enough hours in the day at the moment!

Sad to hear you guys are feeling a bit meh about fab at the moment we always love seeing your forum posts and our conversations always have both of us creasing up!

Mr

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

You will find it hard to relax if you're stressing about stuff you haven't done.

Are you putting pressure on yourself to achieve things that aren't actually vital? "

Probably, I always seem to do it

F

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"^^but your mum is right "

They are always right

F

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

A short break away from everything, just you and M, might help you unwind a bit

LvM

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never enough time?

Sleep less"

No way. Absolutely not. No. I like my 8pm bedtimes and 8am wakeup.

F

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A short break away from everything, just you and M, might help you unwind a bit

LvM"

Which M? . My brain did automatically read it as K though

F

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"^^but your mum is right

They are always right

F"

Is she on fab?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Definitely agree it feels like there’s not enough hours in the day at the moment!

Sad to hear you guys are feeling a bit meh about fab at the moment we always love seeing your forum posts and our conversations always have both of us creasing up!

Mr"

F

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"^^but your mum is right

They are always right

F

Is she on fab? "

She knows how to use Facebook marketplace. That's about it on the Internet front

F

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"^^but your mum is right

They are always right

F

Is she on fab?

She knows how to use Facebook marketplace. That's about it on the Internet front

F"

I just want food recipes atm. I need more fish in my meals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know exactly what you mean. I’ve tried getting up earlier, going to bed later, batch cooking food and loads of other stuff and I still don’t have enough time to do what I need to do.

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