FabSwingers.com forum: How many times do you...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Post straight after someone you fancy, speak to, are friends with, sleep with, or even dislike or clash with, purely by accident?! And then think.. oh crap.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots I guess,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try not to.

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By *ixed MisterMan
over a year ago

London

I actually try not to these days, but sometimes it just seems to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most if them wouldn't realise that I was flirting with them anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was 15 maybe I would care about petty things like this. But otherwise it makes me laugh when it bothers others.

Tones

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Most if them wouldn't realise that I was flirting with them anyway "

I can relate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t very often but when I do I think shit, I hope they don’t think I’m following them around like some creep

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I do it a lot. I don't really think about it too often! Only if it's on a sexual thread and then it looks like I'm eagerly backing up what they say but the reality is while I was typing my waffle, they posted a quick reply a minute before me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't try to and don't try not to. I just post where I post. But it amuses me how many times it does actually happen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I do it a lot. I don't really think about it too often! Only if it's on a sexual thread and then it looks like I'm eagerly backing up what they say but the reality is while I was typing my waffle, they posted a quick reply a minute before me.

Exactly this.

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

Never, i rarely see anyone i fancy from my local area posting on the forums

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

No idea, I have a habit of not reading comments before I post.

Mrs

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I don't think I ever have.

But I'm sure this can now be added to my overthinking routine

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don’t very often but when I do I think shit, I hope they don’t think I’m following them around like some creep

This too.

And when there's mention of lamp post pissing I think shit I hope people don't think I'm doing that when I'm really not.

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

Most of these post are so true…..

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"I don’t very often but when I do I think shit, I hope they don’t think I’m following them around like some creep

This for me too

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"Post straight after someone you fancy, speak to, are friends with, sleep with, or even dislike or clash with, purely by accident?! And then think.. oh crap.

I’m conscious of this!! Mainly because I find myself in similar posting rhythms to people I like or with those on whose opinions I agree.

But I hate the thought of them or observers assuming I’m following the subject around the forums like a puppy.

Sometimes I really want to post that I agree, but avoid it. I wish I didn’t care, but I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Post straight after someone you fancy, speak to, are friends with, sleep with, or even dislike or clash with, purely by accident?! And then think.. oh crap.

All the time.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I don't fancy anyone here, so you're all safe

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I don't think I ever have.

But I'm sure this can now be added to my overthinking routine

Noo, don't! I'm not following you around because I fancy you I just think... it happens. It doesn't mean you're being a dick or snailtrailing all over them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't fancy anyone here, so you're all safe

*relaxes*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s happened a few times. I think it’s because we’re both online around the same time.

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

I don't mean to, sometimes it just happens, but there's no intent the majority of the time x

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

quite often

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

It happens. Sometimes it's not even on purpose

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Post straight after someone you fancy, speak to, are friends with, sleep with, or even dislike or clash with, purely by accident?! And then think.. oh crap.

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i don’t care i post when i want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't say I've noticed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I really want to post that I agree, but avoid it. I wish I didn’t care, but I do."

This for me too.

It’s funny isn’t it because it’s a good that you can agree on most things. I overthink far too much.

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Alllllll the time, but with a wry smile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Post straight after someone you fancy, speak to, are friends with, sleep with, or even dislike or clash with, purely by accident?! And then think.. oh crap.

It is awkward when it is all of those things at once. But Gerald is very understanding. Tender too.

But if he scrapes that butter back into the dish one more time after making toast... I can't even begin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s happened to us a few times and I always hope we don’t come across as weirdos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s happened to us a few times and I always hope we don’t come across as weirdos

Mission failed.

Always you guys. Honestly. So strange.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I just post on a thread regardless of whose posted before me. I don't fancy anyone

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

I don't think I've ever thought "oh crap" after doing it.

LvM

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

"I don’t very often but when I do I think shit, I hope they don’t think I’m following them around like some creep

Haha this

Tinder x

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

I don't fancy anyone on the forum.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

If I see someone I bounce off with, certainly

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

The thing with the forum is by the time you send a reply on a thread you can be under who knows who or you could just be the next reply down, if I really wanted to reply to someone specific I would use the “reply n quote” button… but that’s just a tad obvious

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

"The thing with the forum is by the time you send a reply on a thread you can be under who knows who or you could just be the next reply down, if I really wanted to reply to someone specific I would use the “reply n quote” button… but that’s just a tad obvious

apart from this woman. the absolute rock in my life who has been there at my very lowest.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I am completely oblivious!!

Jo.Xx

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

It's not something I pay that much attention to really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not something I pay that much attention to really"

same. Px

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

This. ^ ...and That ^^

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's not something I pay attention to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Takes me so long to type anything, it's a lottery where my posts end up!

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Never thought about it. I only think about what I put on the JJ thread. #JJ forever

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

I just post randomly i think i dont think iv thought about it much really

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

"Takes me so long to type anything, it's a lottery where my posts end up!"

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Indeed.

For some of the more compelling threads I usually draft my responses offline before posting. It's just blind 'luck' where it ends up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never thought about it. I only think about what I put on the JJ thread. #JJ forever

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"Post straight after someone you fancy, speak to, are friends with, sleep with, or even dislike or clash with, purely by accident?! And then think.. oh crap.

97 times a day, but it's all good they never get a response

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Never thought about it. I only think about what I put on the JJ thread. #JJ forever

I thought of you as I typed that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never thought about it. I only think about what I put on the JJ thread. #JJ forever

I thought of you as I typed that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never thought about it. I only think about what I put on the JJ thread. #JJ forever

I thought of you as I typed that

Confess I had to use the little green arrow to work that one out....

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