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By *rsMxx OP   Couple
over a year ago

christchurch

Agreed to meet but chickening out!

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By *ichaelsmyMan
over a year ago

douglas

the idiot, but they do that.

move on and find someone else

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By *rsMxx OP   Couple
over a year ago

christchurch

I will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better luck next time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps not enough effort put in to making a connection…

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

I understand your frustration op. These things happen to us all.

Block move on all you can do.

Good luck to you both

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

It’s such a shame when people do that. I’m sure it’s mainly due to bottle going as opposed to time wasting, but that doesn’t diminish the disappointment and frustration.

Shame I’m not closer, OP!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just block them .. no loss

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

Op.

Pardon me for asking but your profile tends to indicate you are into webcamming as these are your verifications.

Was the other party aware this was a meet not a Skype session?

Regards

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Maybe they decided to stay home and Tineye some photos instead......

If we were planning to meet someone but found that the photos they were using had different heads on them when viewing the whole image, then we'd probably chicken out too.

Meeting someone with a detachable, interchangeable head is a worrying prospect!

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

could be worse, you could meet up and they cum in 3 pumps ...30 seconds of your life you will never get back.

True story.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Maybe they decided to stay home and Tineye some photos instead......

If we were planning to meet someone but found that the photos they were using had different heads on them when viewing the whole image, then we'd probably chicken out too.

Meeting someone with a detachable, interchangeable head is a worrying prospect!

A"

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"I will"
He probably saw your profile avatar and thought wow

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire


"Maybe they decided to stay home and Tineye some photos instead......

If we were planning to meet someone but found that the photos they were using had different heads on them when viewing the whole image, then we'd probably chicken out too.

Meeting someone with a detachable, interchangeable head is a worrying prospect!

A"

Good god that's scary

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Maybe they decided to stay home and Tineye some photos instead......

If we were planning to meet someone but found that the photos they were using had different heads on them when viewing the whole image, then we'd probably chicken out too.

Meeting someone with a detachable, interchangeable head is a worrying prospect!

A"

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands


"Maybe they decided to stay home and Tineye some photos instead......

If we were planning to meet someone but found that the photos they were using had different heads on them when viewing the whole image, then we'd probably chicken out too.

Meeting someone with a detachable, interchangeable head is a worrying prospect!

A"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This lacks seasoning. Can we get the guy online to see what he has to say?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cold feet!

Many like the mental tease ,they assume ppl are hooked to thier words.

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

Doff my cap to you obi_fox.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe they decided to stay home and Tineye some photos instead......

If we were planning to meet someone but found that the photos they were using had different heads on them when viewing the whole image, then we'd probably chicken out too.

Meeting someone with a detachable, interchangeable head is a worrying prospect!

A"

Oh…now this also makes sense!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oops.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff


"Maybe they decided to stay home and Tineye some photos instead......

If we were planning to meet someone but found that the photos they were using had different heads on them when viewing the whole image, then we'd probably chicken out too.

Meeting someone with a detachable, interchangeable head is a worrying prospect!

A"

Well caught!!

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

I’m confused!! What have I missed here?!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I’m confused!! What have I missed here?!"

Famous British Porn MILF Lady Sonia sat in a white chair with heels and stockings on.

Apparently.....

A

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8


"I’m confused!! What have I missed here?!

Famous British Porn MILF Lady Sonia sat in a white chair with heels and stockings on.

Apparently.....

A"

Oh I see! With you now, thanks Obi.

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By *iercedItMan
over a year ago

Mcr

The Thrill of the chase and pop.

Count yourself lucky, look for guys with verifications is my advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m confused!! What have I missed here?!"

Jerry Spriger died

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"I’m confused!! What have I missed here?!

Famous British Porn MILF Lady Sonia sat in a white chair with heels and stockings on.

Apparently.....

A"

Funnily enough I would recognise that image anywhere. I wonder why?

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

Markfield


"Agreed to meet but chickening out!"

Maybe their profile was fake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe they decided to stay home and Tineye some photos instead......

If we were planning to meet someone but found that the photos they were using had different heads on them when viewing the whole image, then we'd probably chicken out too.

Meeting someone with a detachable, interchangeable head is a worrying prospect!

A"

Uh oh

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

How hot is Lady Sonia though

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London


"I’m confused!! What have I missed here?!

Famous British Porn MILF Lady Sonia sat in a white chair with heels and stockings on.

Apparently.....

A"

Lady Sonia's on here! And she got stood up! What are the chances!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agreed to meet but chickening out!

Maybe their profile was fake? "

Or he was approached by a FF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well well well ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe they decided to stay home and Tineye some photos instead......

If we were planning to meet someone but found that the photos they were using had different heads on them when viewing the whole image, then we'd probably chicken out too.

Meeting someone with a detachable, interchangeable head is a worrying prospect!

A"

Busted!

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

Markfield


"Maybe they decided to stay home and Tineye some photos instead......

If we were planning to meet someone but found that the photos they were using had different heads on them when viewing the whole image, then we'd probably chicken out too.

Meeting someone with a detachable, interchangeable head is a worrying prospect!

A

Busted! "

OMG lady Sonia was meeting the guys from busted?!

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

Had 2 in 2 weeks last minute aswell

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By *e renard de la campagneMan
over a year ago

Surrey mostly when over


"Agreed to meet but chickening out!"

I can’t see your profile alas but looking at your profile picture, he must be certifiably crackers - you look amazing xx

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By *e renard de la campagneMan
over a year ago

Surrey mostly when over


"Had 2 in 2 weeks last minute aswell"

Really? Lummy, you look amazing as well x

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By *e renard de la campagneMan
over a year ago

Surrey mostly when over

Just looked back through the thread and now totally confused!

Lady Sonia is replacing Schofield on This Morning and who has shacked up with Willoughby? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a massive social anxiety today at kids party as I toke my daughter

Bloody coffee kicked right up , I didn’t knew what to do with myself

wish I had met a nice kids mum instead

Naughty

I get so why is unreal

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

I’ve not done that yet! Hopefully I never have to… pull out

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

Markfield


"Just looked back through the thread and now totally confused!

Lady Sonia is replacing Schofield on This Morning and who has shacked up with Willoughby? x"

The guy who didn’t meet with OP?

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"I’ve not done that yet! Hopefully I never have to… pull out "

Ever?

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol


"I’m confused!! What have I missed here?!

Famous British Porn MILF Lady Sonia sat in a white chair with heels and stockings on.

Apparently.....

A"

this us why I'm blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m confused!! What have I missed here?!

Famous British Porn MILF Lady Sonia sat in a white chair with heels and stockings on.

Apparently.....

Athis us why I'm blocked "

Yes, it's a shame.. Their pics were cracking! Just not them

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol


"I’m confused!! What have I missed here?!

Famous British Porn MILF Lady Sonia sat in a white chair with heels and stockings on.

Apparently.....

Athis us why I'm blocked

Yes, it's a shame.. Their pics were cracking! Just not them "

lol they act weird when you tell them they aren't real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 21/05/23 03:06:48]

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door


"Perhaps not enough effort put in to making a connection…"
this matters

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By *rancois Du BoisMan
over a year ago

Down the back of the sofa.

Very infuriating, can be lots of reasons. Some genuinely given. Others genuine but stupid like cold feet.

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

You are not blocked. Profile suspended under review

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By *rancois Du BoisMan
over a year ago

Down the back of the sofa.


"You are not blocked. Profile suspended under review "

Hopefully never to be seen again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe they decided to stay home and Tineye some photos instead......"

Haven't stopped laughing yet. If there was a competition for shooting yourself in the foot, the OP would score high.

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By *andadbodMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Agreed to meet but chickening out!"

this was a common issue years back when the wife and myself would arrange to have a guy join us

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By *angerineMan
over a year ago

somewhere inbetween the right and wrong


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Meeting someone with a detachable, interchangeable head is a worrying prospect!

A"

I don't know - swappable heads can keep things fresh

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By *allabyMan
over a year ago

Washington


"I’m confused!! What have I missed here?!

Famous British Porn MILF Lady Sonia sat in a white chair with heels and stockings on.

Apparently.....

Athis us why I'm blocked "

Me too apparently Shame I'm partial to a bit of Sonia. At least I was in my late teens...ah to be 19 at the dawn of the internet. Anything was possible

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

People love the chase with zero intentions of meeting, veris are the best way to avoid them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agreed to meet but chickening out!"

Welcome to Fab.

Some will, some won’t.

Some do, some don’t.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"People love the chase with zero intentions of meeting, veris are the best way to avoid them"

Yeah.......nah. the OP's have veris. Which worries me tbh.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People love the chase with zero intentions of meeting, veris are the best way to avoid them

Yeah.......nah. the OP's have veris. Which worries me tbh.

A"

Based on the fact they're pulling pics from online, now blocked to be reviewed... Yet net by 4 folk independently?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"People love the chase with zero intentions of meeting, veris are the best way to avoid them

Yeah.......nah. the OP's have veris. Which worries me tbh.

A

Based on the fact they're pulling pics from online, now blocked to be reviewed... Yet net by 4 folk independently? "

All webcam veris. But then if your using photos of a famous porn star that has literally hundreds of hours of video content online it's not unreasonable to think that maybe it wasn't a live cam chat?

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that escalated quickly

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By *ulpgrinderCouple
over a year ago

LN11 area

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By *ulpgrinderCouple
over a year ago

LN11 area

We’ve had this a few times. Dead keen to meet, but just wanking behind the screen x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe they decided to stay home and Tineye some photos instead......

If we were planning to meet someone but found that the photos they were using had different heads on them when viewing the whole image, then we'd probably chicken out too.

Meeting someone with a detachable, interchangeable head is a worrying prospect!

A

Busted!

OMG lady Sonia was meeting the guys from busted?! "

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

A few years back my partner got accused of using a pornstar's images.

Turns out she had posted some videos on the amateur section of a site.

She told him - he was delighted, couldn't wait etc. He still bottled it.

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Is op fake?

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"How hot is Lady Sonia though "
luke warm to fridge material

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By *otsuredorsetCouple
over a year ago

Sturminster Newton, but travel all over UK


"Agreed to meet but chickening out!"

We get that a lot. We’ve given up on single guys outside of clubs now apart from a select one or two . We prefer to meet couples as they tend to be more reliable, meet for a drink and then see what happens

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
over a year ago

Bristol/ Daventry

I was once told that single males are only ever a wank away from cancelling. This is so true. I booked 7(!) for a group event I wanted. Two turned up! I even sent photos of the front door and clear directions (you can’t miss the bright yellow pugeot outside!!). There is now a report function on fab for no shows, I report and block.

Xx

K

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By *otsuredorsetCouple
over a year ago

Sturminster Newton, but travel all over UK


"I was once told that single males are only ever a wank away from cancelling. This is so true. I booked 7(!) for a group event I wanted. Two turned up! I even sent photos of the front door and clear directions (you can’t miss the bright yellow pugeot outside!!). There is now a report function on fab for no shows, I report and block.

K"

We will have to start that. We put a request out for guys whilst we were in a hotel. K was blindfolded and tied to the bed! 30 responses whittled down to 5 and none turned up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sydney University strikes again

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By *ood Girl KatWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

When they say about meeting and nothing comes to fruition

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
over a year ago

Bristol/ Daventry


" We will have to start that. We put a request out for guys whilst we were in a hotel. K was blindfolded and tied to the bed! 30 responses whittled down to 5 and none turned up! "

Noooooo! That’s so crap! Sorry.

I book double now, and have now made and plan to send a PDF with a map, photos of the front door, the car, and a burner phone into a WhatsApp /kik group for group events with them all in. Hopefully this will reduce no-shows.

Xx K

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

I like the way this has gone from an op with fake pics to slagging off single guys.

In case you lot missed it the op was using fake pics and that possibly why the guy bailed if he checked them

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By *rancois Du BoisMan
over a year ago

Down the back of the sofa.


"I like the way this has gone from an op with fake pics to slagging off single guys.

In case you lot missed it the op was using fake pics and that possibly why the guy bailed if he checked them "

People read the first bit, not every message!

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
over a year ago

Bristol/ Daventry

There was also no slagging off single guys. Just a commentary on experience and suggestions to avoid it. The fake pics in the middle were not relevant to the original discussion, albeit definitely a very valid reason for the person to pull out.

That said, they should have communicated that they weren’t coming. I have no issue with people cancelling, life happens and people lose the nerve. Totally cool. Just going dark and no showing is poor and disrespectful.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

They've finished their wank

LvM

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Had this numerous times lol

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Collected the pics for their wank bank

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire


"There was also no slagging off single guys. Just a commentary on experience and suggestions to avoid it. The fake pics in the middle were not relevant to the original discussion, albeit definitely a very valid reason for the person to pull out.

That said, they should have communicated that they weren’t coming. I have no issue with people cancelling, life happens and people lose the nerve. Totally cool. Just going dark and no showing is poor and disrespectful. "

Why show respect to someone who is fake in the first place and acting dishonestly.

The guy obviously checked them out and was proved right.

He owes them nothing. They are using fake pics and as such cannot be trusted.

It's on them

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By *night in armourMan
over a year ago

stafford


"Agreed to meet but chickening out!"

How could anyone turn down the Vance of your company x

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"There was also no slagging off single guys. Just a commentary on experience and suggestions to avoid it. The fake pics in the middle were not relevant to the original discussion, albeit definitely a very valid reason for the person to pull out.

That said, they should have communicated that they weren’t coming. I have no issue with people cancelling, life happens and people lose the nerve. Totally cool. Just going dark and no showing is poor and disrespectful.

Why show respect to someone who is fake in the first place and acting dishonestly.

The guy obviously checked them out and was proved right.

He owes them nothing. They are using fake pics and as such cannot be trusted.

It's on them "

Found the op on porn hub

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By *night in armourMan
over a year ago

stafford

Chance oops sun in my eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some prefer the chase than the act

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By *night in armourMan
over a year ago

stafford

The chase sand suspense is good but can’t replace the meeting up

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
over a year ago

Bristol/ Daventry


"There was also no slagging off single guys. Just a commentary on experience and suggestions to avoid it. The fake pics in the middle were not relevant to the original discussion, albeit definitely a very valid reason for the person to pull out.

That said, they should have communicated that they weren’t coming. I have no issue with people cancelling, life happens and people lose the nerve. Totally cool. Just going dark and no showing is poor and disrespectful.

Why show respect to someone who is fake in the first place and acting dishonestly.

The guy obviously checked them out and was proved right.

He owes them nothing. They are using fake pics and as such cannot be trusted.

It's on them "

Fair point. But for those of us who don’t it’s downright rude.

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By *ixed MisterMan
over a year ago

London

Sometimes life happens, not all chicken out. The good ones do everything to make up for life happening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The op blocked me …..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The op blocked me ….. "

I think their account is suspended.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

All the time for me. All talk and no action

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By *akbearMan
over a year ago

Newbury

So annoying when they that, hope you have better luck at the food festival next weekend op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just something you have to accept. We get this a fair bit. Think it's mostly performance anxiety.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The op blocked me …..

I think their account is suspended."

Does it come up on yours too ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agreed to meet but chickening out!"

Shame to have had your time wasted, was there a legitimate reason though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The op blocked me …..

I think their account is suspended.

Does it come up on yours too ? "

Yeah. Someone above said their pics are of a famous pornstar so I’m guessing fab have suspended the account.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The op blocked me …..

I think their account is suspended.

Does it come up on yours too ?

Yeah. Someone above said their pics are of a famous pornstar so I’m guessing fab have suspended the account."

Yeah one pic was tbf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suspect there are quite a few profiles on here with false pictures.

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