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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Let's see how many ladies prefer there men to be Submissive or Dominant.

I see that lots more guys seem to want to be submissive these days , but is it really what you ladies want your man to be .?

Does your partner know you would rather him be one and not the other .??

Have you spoken about your roles in the bedroom .?

Start with Sub or Dom

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Oh poo, I thought this was going to be a thread about Subway or Dominoes Pizza, now you've made me hungry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Niether for me, we are equals. Due to a very emotional/hurtfull incident that happened to me, I dont/cant cope with anything like that.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I'm only sub in the bedroom. Couldn't deal with the lifestyle thing. Far too independent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both Switch

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By *aris23Woman
over a year ago

France

I quite like the man to take control in the bedroom and will tolerate a small amount of 'dom' behaviour but not to the point of being humiliated or given pain.

However, out of the bedroom there is not a snows chance in hell of any man telling me what/how/when to do anything!

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury

My name on here says it all however I only submit to my Sir 24/7 any other aspect of life I'm quite dominant but sexually I'm submissive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm odd. I prefer dominant men. Find submissive men don't turn me on. However I don't like dominant guys to try to dominate me as I am their equal unless I choose otherwise.

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury

However I do love seeing him dominate sub guys that's hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i want him to be DOM!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"However I do love seeing him dominate sub guys that's hot "

Is he bi them? I actually can't see a bi guy as dominant at all. It's the one thing that no matter how dominant they may seem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always always always dominant men for me please..I am submissive sexually and cant live without that release.

Out of the bedroom I am very independent and self sufficient..I wouldnt say dominant or submissive.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Sexually I am quite submissive, well my best friend says more lazy.

However, I will not submit to anyone. I have to chose that person. Too many men think that they can pop up out of the ether and Dom me. They can't. I'll just laugh at them! In the swinging scene, I will play as equal, rarely will I look for a Dom, especially since 50 shades appeared, and everyone thinks that what being a Dom is.

In my real life, I won't be told by anyone male or female what to do. Far too independent and stubborn!

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury


"However I do love seeing him dominate sub guys that's hot

Is he bi them? I actually can't see a bi guy as dominant at all. It's the one thing that no matter how dominant they may seem.

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He is bi top only and I never thought it would do it for me but wow to see him in action is great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a dom guy... Although nothing to heavy. Start whacking me round the head and you'll.get one back twice as hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"However I do love seeing him dominate sub guys that's hot

Is he bi them? I actually can't see a bi guy as dominant at all. It's the one thing that no matter how dominant they may seem.

"

A dom guy can be bisexual/gay too. Have you never seen bi/gay BDSM porn? I've watched a lot of video of Dom/sub gay couples where the Dom ties the sub down and then mounts him to use his cock.

I am Dom with women but I love feeling cock in my ass too, and if it takes a sub guy to achieve that then so much the better as I really get off on control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Submissive in the bedroom, Miss independant and very much in control of everything the rest of the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexually I am quite submissive, well my best friend says more lazy.

However, I will not submit to anyone. I have to chose that person. Too many men think that they can pop up out of the ether and Dom me. They can't. I'll just laugh at them! In the swinging scene, I will play as equal, rarely will I look for a Dom, especially since 50 shades appeared, and everyone thinks that what being a Dom is.

In my real life, I won't be told by anyone male or female what to do. Far too independent and stubborn!"

50 Shades has set the BDSM scene back 20 years. It's the biggest pile of bilge I've ever read. If you see the influx of wannabe Doms (and subs too for that matter) who have flooded into BDSM contact sites it's quite scary actually. Some of these people think being a Dom is getting a flogger and beating the shit out of some hapless wench, and some of the subs think that's what is supposed to happen!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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A dom guy can be bisexual/gay too. Have you never seen bi/gay BDSM porn?"

Sorry but to me the minute a guy goes there he is not dominant enough for me.. do not know why.. I also wouldnt watch that as I have no interest in watching guy on guy.

I don't know why I feel that way.. I know some bi dominant guys.. and I actually found them not dominant to my standards before I knew they were bi.. So perhaps its just that..

I just could never sub to a guy that either switches... or was bi..

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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50 Shades has set the BDSM scene back 20 years. It's the biggest pile of bilge I've ever read. If you see the influx of wannabe Doms (and subs too for that matter) who have flooded into BDSM contact sites it's quite scary actually. Some of these people think being a Dom is getting a flogger and beating the shit out of some hapless wench, and some of the subs think that's what is supposed to happen! "

totally agree with you there... omg.. I hadn't noticed it quite as much when I was owned.. but now I am a single girl.. omg.... its scary.

Worse still though as you say are the women that think that is what it is about..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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A dom guy can be bisexual/gay too. Have you never seen bi/gay BDSM porn?

Sorry but to me the minute a guy goes there he is not dominant enough for me.. do not know why.. I also wouldnt watch that as I have no interest in watching guy on guy.

I don't know why I feel that way.. I know some bi dominant guys.. and I actually found them not dominant to my standards before I knew they were bi.. So perhaps its just that..

I just could never sub to a guy that either switches... or was bi..

Cali"

Different shades for different folk lol. Many male prisoners a big butch and hairy and on the outside they are as straight as an arrow but inside they'll have a shower bitch for sexual release.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Different shades for different folk lol. Many male prisoners a big butch and hairy and on the outside they are as straight as an arrow but inside they'll have a shower bitch for sexual release."

Indeed.. if we all liked the same thing then life would be very dull.. its a source of constant amusement between myself and my dominant friends..

They to be fair are quite pleased that I am honest about it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50 Shades of Grey (Or 'How I learned to enjoy a sexually abusive relationship') is to BDSM as 'Lord of the Rings' is to 'A Guide to Hiking in New Zealand'

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"However I do love seeing him dominate sub guys that's hot

Is he bi them? I actually can't see a bi guy as dominant at all. It's the one thing that no matter how dominant they may seem.

"

I'm bi and can be Dom or Sub....depends - mainly I'm just normal, well as normal as I can be being bi

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By *ursevampsWoman
over a year ago

bucks

i prefer the man to be more dominant but then that just a lack of confidence on my side butthe n i have a fb who im trying to be more dominate with he loves it and well i do but tohing better then being fucked hard by a man in charge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"50 Shades of Grey (Or 'How I learned to enjoy a sexually abusive relationship') is to BDSM as 'Lord of the Rings' is to 'A Guide to Hiking in New Zealand'

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you and I know that but millions of people who have 2.4 children and whose idea of being kinky is sitting on the washing machine on full spin think that 50 Shades of Grey is the Dom/sub bible.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

neither... just don't get it but cool for others to enjoy whatever.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"However I do love seeing him dominate sub guys that's hot

Is he bi them? I actually can't see a bi guy as dominant at all. It's the one thing that no matter how dominant they may seem.

"

I've met one or two over the years

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