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"One silhouette looks pretty much the same as the next, so I woundnt recognise " I’m always walking around with an emoji hanging around my groin….. | |||
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"One silhouette looks pretty much the same as the next, so I woundnt recognise I’m always walking around with an emoji hanging around my groin….." Is it changeable | |||
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"One silhouette looks pretty much the same as the next, so I woundnt recognise I’m always walking around with an emoji hanging around my groin….. Is it changeable " Have a sad one | |||
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"One silhouette looks pretty much the same as the next, so I woundnt recognise I’m always walking around with an emoji hanging around my groin….. Is it changeable Have a sad one " No your penis can't be sad, go with an aubergine | |||
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"How would you feel if someone recognized you from Fab and approached you? I’ve recognized a few people from Fab in the real world walking past my house… would you want someone to be discreet or approach you? How would you react? Would be interesting to see opinions…. X" Someone's already messaged saying they recognise me from the school run, and people still ask me if I work at Morrisons - I left 9 years ago I'd never approach anyone I recognised | |||
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"One silhouette looks pretty much the same as the next, so I woundnt recognise I’m always walking around with an emoji hanging around my groin….." Saw you the other day. Waved at the emoji | |||
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"How would you feel if someone recognized you from Fab and approached you? I’ve recognized a few people from Fab in the real world walking past my house… would you want someone to be discreet or approach you? How would you react? Would be interesting to see opinions…. X" If they said hi I would say hi back and carry on with my day. I wouldn’t approach people I don’t know though. | |||
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"How would you feel if someone recognized you from Fab and approached you? I’ve recognized a few people from Fab in the real world walking past my house… would you want someone to be discreet or approach you? How would you react? Would be interesting to see opinions…. X Someone's already messaged saying they recognise me from the school run, and people still ask me if I work at Morrisons - I left 9 years ago I'd never approach anyone I recognised" I thought it was Aldi s | |||
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"How would you feel if someone recognized you from Fab and approached you? I’ve recognized a few people from Fab in the real world walking past my house… would you want someone to be discreet or approach you? How would you react? Would be interesting to see opinions…. X Someone's already messaged saying they recognise me from the school run, and people still ask me if I work at Morrisons - I left 9 years ago I'd never approach anyone I recognised I thought it was Aldi s " I have a doppelganger | |||
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"It is what it is , most people are on here for the same reasons " That's a dangerous assumption to make. Just because some people have facepics on their profile and are happy for people to know they are here doesn't give them the right to assume that everyone should feel the same. I would never approach anyone and would ignore a random stranger approaching me. It's always funny in these threads that men are seen as pests for approaching people in the supermarket or high street and yet it's acceptable for couples to do it? | |||
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"How would you feel if someone recognized you from Fab and approached you? I’ve recognized a few people from Fab in the real world walking past my house… would you want someone to be discreet or approach you? How would you react? Would be interesting to see opinions…. X" most people on here need to be discreet.ive met a few people on here that are local to me and we have agreed that if we see each other out and about then we pretend we don't know each other. | |||
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"I would suggest that most people on here require discretion of their being on any adult sites. If someone approached me, and had recognised me from here lol, as long as they don't say anything in front of others I would be happy to continue chatting. But if they blurted out something in-discretionally they would very quickly learn it was the very very wrong thing to do." | |||
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"It is what it is , most people are on here for the same reasons That's a dangerous assumption to make. Just because some people have facepics on their profile and are happy for people to know they are here doesn't give them the right to assume that everyone should feel the same. I would never approach anyone and would ignore a random stranger approaching me. It's always funny in these threads that men are seen as pests for approaching people in the supermarket or high street and yet it's acceptable for couples to do it?" We have face pics of us within our profile, but not as our main profile pic. We set them to public for a few hours and update our status to state if we are going to a club that night. After that its back to friends only. We're worried we could get recognised. We live in hope that if someone did, they would be respectfull enough not to approach or broadcast it. I did have a guy walk past me several times at our local costa once. He kept winking at me as he went by. I just ignored him. We would never approach someone if we recognised them. Unless in a club and they were smiling at us. | |||
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"We’d provide nothing more than a knowing smile if we spotted anyone off here and would be grateful to be offered the same in return. " This. I don’t mind it being acknowledged in a very discreet way but that’s all. I’m forever seeing people who look familiar to me but can’t place where I know them from and always wonder if it’s off here. Kx | |||
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"Generally if its people we recognise but don't know personally we'd never approach them and say hey your on fab. As to if we were to approach them at all would depend on circumstances and if we were intrested in them. For example if they were out with family, at work or just doing their daily thing we'd leave it be. Maybe send a wink later on the app. However if say we seen them down the pub we may go strike up a conversation. Again we wouldn't come straight out with the fab thing. First just see if we pick up on flirty swinger vibes and if they are in fact intrested in being hit on (they may just want time alone as a couple). Then maybe share/indicate that we maybe swingers. If they indicate same back that maybe that would be the time to ask if they were on fab (us already knowing the answer) and taking it from there. But as a general rule if in any doubt that your letting people know they're fab would be welcome just don't. Lots of people like to keep vanilla and fab life separated and it's terrible form to interfer with people's vanilla space unless you have an indication it'd be welcome." | |||
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"How would you feel if someone recognized you from Fab and approached you? I’ve recognized a few people from Fab in the real world walking past my house… would you want someone to be discreet or approach you? How would you react? Would be interesting to see opinions…. X" how would we recognise you from your blank avatar cmon give us a chance | |||
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"Message me on here but leave me the fuck alone out and about." put £10 in the bucket | |||
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"Message me on here but leave me the fuck alone out and about.put £10 in the bucket " Bucket? £10? Jesus, inflation really has become ridiculous! ...and how big is your swear jar??? | |||
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"Message me on here but leave me the fuck alone out and about.put £10 in the bucket Bucket? £10? Jesus, inflation really has become ridiculous! ...and how big is your swear jar??? " you know the old black bins with the found lid? | |||
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"Message me on here but leave me the fuck alone out and about.put £10 in the bucket Bucket? £10? Jesus, inflation really has become ridiculous! ...and how big is your swear jar??? you know the old black bins with the found lid? " round lid omg | |||
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"I'd ignore them, walk on by and let them live their life. I'd hope they'd do the same for me" This | |||
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"I would hate it and those who say we’re both here for the same reasons just aren’t thinking straight. If someone had seen me on fb and approached me in the street I’d hate it. I’ve not invited anyone on the street to approach me, it’s a bit weird, I’m wary of strangers approaching me. Someone you don’t already know, saying they know you feels creepy" | |||
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"I think it's common sense and decent that you never acknowledge or approach anyone in public unless you are 100% confident it's safe for them to do so and they will be OK with that " Some people don't have any common sense. | |||
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"How would you feel if someone recognized you from Fab and approached you? I’ve recognized a few people from Fab in the real world walking past my house… would you want someone to be discreet or approach you? How would you react? Would be interesting to see opinions…. X" I'd be fucked off if someone approached either of us in the street or anywhere in public. And honestly - there may be 30,000+ people on Fab at any given moment but statistically the odds on another site member ever walking past our house, let alone at the exact moment I'm looking out into the street whilst coincidentally recalling the few visible face photos I've ever seen of site members.......? I'm more likely to win the euromillions or get struck by lightning. A | |||
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"Slightly different scenario but I was approached by someone I'd never met at a group social who called me by my profile name. When I asked how they knew who I was they said they recognised me from my facepic in the presocial chatgroup. Which was a bit strange as I was never in the chatgroup and don't share facepics even back when I did group chats. That told me all I needed to know about how some people treat discretion on here and just because they have no issue with people knowing who they are they feel it's ok to apply their rules to everyone else. " That's shocking that anyone should do that | |||
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"How would you feel if someone recognized you from Fab and approached you? I’ve recognized a few people from Fab in the real world walking past my house… would you want someone to be discreet or approach you? How would you react? Would be interesting to see opinions…. X" Ok, I’m going to risk a cancelling here……I’ve been on Fab since almost day one, I’ve been to hundreds of swinging events over the years and I’ve never recognised a Fabber walking past my house! Now maybe that’s bad luck on my part, but the chances of recognising a “few” people seems akin to a lottery win! Perhaps more daydreaming out of the window OP or wishful thinking? Either way, be careful what you wish for | |||
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"Probably have a heart attack……" Let's be real here ....... How would I recognise this ^ in Tesco or even the library ? | |||
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"Probably just say hi, although in everyday life it'd feel a little awkward.. unless they were hot of course.. Tbh, we sometimes struggle to recognise some at club's you've sent us face pics.. Although, whilst at a clubs it's flattering to be approached and asked are you DeyeY? " theyre singing the sony. ' its a Deyey its a Deyey its a _eyey' | |||
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"I'd actually be pretty pissed off. It's a unwritten rule that this world isn't the real world and all our privacy should be respected." Yep, exactly this. Don't do it, peeps. I don't want to be approached about Fab in Sainsbury's. | |||
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"I'd actually be pretty pissed off. It's a unwritten rule that this world isn't the real world and all our privacy should be respected. Yep, exactly this. Don't do it, peeps. I don't want to be approached about Fab in Sainsbury's." Would it be acceptable in Aldi then | |||
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