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"Going out meaning? To clubs? Or just going out alone to do random stuff like films/restaurants etc?" Out out. I’ve gone to a local bar/club. | |||
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"I like going out on my own, ideally sit there with a drink and people watch." This is me currently, but I want to try and meet some people. So need to push through a little. In a non-creepy way!!  | |||
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"Going out meaning? To clubs? Or just going out alone to do random stuff like films/restaurants etc? Out out. I’ve gone to a local bar/club. " Beautiful evening for it, ideally facing out on to the river! | |||
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"All the time or I would never go anywhere " Are you good at approaching people? | |||
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"Going out meaning? To clubs? Or just going out alone to do random stuff like films/restaurants etc? Out out. I’ve gone to a local bar/club. Beautiful evening for it, ideally facing out on to the river!" Not by the river but am sitting in the sunshine. There was a woman here DJ-ing a week or so back who I really fancied and chatted up - half hoping she may be here later.  | |||
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"All the time or I would never go anywhere Are you good at approaching people?" I am but only in a friendly, chatty way not if they are attractive, attractive people scare me ....and I them | |||
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"All the time or I would never go anywhere Are you good at approaching people? I am but only in a friendly, chatty way not if they are attractive, attractive people scare me ....and I them"Yeah I get that! I don’t think I scare anyone tho, I’m quite gentle and smiley. | |||
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"I go out during the day on my own and happy to go to a pub etc. Don't in the evening because I like my sofa and comfies too much. It's takes a special person/people to get me out after bedtime "Going to and from work doesn’t count | |||
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"I go out during the day on my own and happy to go to a pub etc. Don't in the evening because I like my sofa and comfies too much. It's takes a special person/people to get me out after bedtime "Ha! That’s fair. | |||
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"Going out by myself is not my natural state at all so post divorce I've been forcing myself to do it - every other week to live music at a local pub, even to Ab Fabs. I feel socially awkward doing it but I kind of think, fake it until you make it!" Yeah it’s good to push out of our comfort zone. I’m in the mood to connect with people but no one to see tonight - so thought what the heck? | |||
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"All the time or I would never go anywhere Are you good at approaching people? I am but only in a friendly, chatty way not if they are attractive, attractive people scare me ....and I them
Yeah I get that! I don’t think I scare anyone tho, I’m quite gentle and smiley. "Lol you already chatted up the DJ sounds like you are very comfortable. I would NEVER go out and chat anyone up, no intentionally at least.  | |||
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"All the time or I would never go anywhere Are you good at approaching people? I am but only in a friendly, chatty way not if they are attractive, attractive people scare me ....and I them
Yeah I get that! I don’t think I scare anyone tho, I’m quite gentle and smiley.
Lol you already chatted up the DJ sounds like you are very comfortable. I would NEVER go out and chat anyone up, no intentionally at least. "Really? Why’s that? I was operating from a base of a couple of friends so easy to venture out on my own and people to return to if needed last time. Doing it solo tonight, bit nerve wracking but good practice. We shall see! | |||
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"i wish you luck _stella lovely smiley face,, but be safe" That’s fair. I will be. | |||
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"I was better at it when younger than now. Not as comfortable to go out on my own but ok when I get there and someone talks I can easily engage. "Yeah it’s making that first move to enter other people’s space that’s hard. | |||
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"I was better at it when younger than now. Not as comfortable to go out on my own but ok when I get there and someone talks I can easily engage.
Yeah it’s making that first move to enter other people’s space that’s hard. "Yes, just that  Hope you have a fab time | |||
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"I was better at it when younger than now. Not as comfortable to go out on my own but ok when I get there and someone talks I can easily engage.
Yeah it’s making that first move to enter other people’s space that’s hard.
Yes, just that Hope you have a fab time "Well whilst I’m still on here you’ll know I’m still a bit shy!!  | |||
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"Do you do it? How do you find it? I’m out on my own tonight but assessing who is about (random people) who I can talk to, wish me luck!! ". I don’t go out too much but I find when I go to the local pub to watch the football I go by myself but usually find someone there to talk about the game.I sometimes go to a Kervan restaurant by myself for a meal as that is harder as everyone is coupled up or in groups but it is what it is | |||
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"Do you do it? How do you find it? I’m out on my own tonight but assessing who is about (random people) who I can talk to, wish me luck!! . I don’t go out too much but I find when I go to the local pub to watch the football I go by myself but usually find someone there to talk about the game.I sometimes go to a Kervan restaurant by myself for a meal as that is harder as everyone is coupled up or in groups but it is what it is "Yeah I can imagine having a shared purpose helps the conversation flow (the game). | |||
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"Young me not on your nelly. Couldn’t even walk into a pub on my own even if my mates were in there. Old me if I am away on a course etc then no problem. I go out on my own in the village I live but know people when I go to the pubs so doesn’t count. " It’s funny how our confidence grows/or disregard for what people might think ebbs as we get older! | |||
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"I did it all the time when I was away travelling, but that's when I used to drink, it was easy to chat to people in bars and clubs, or on the dance floor. I go to gigs on my own now, but it's rare I chat to anyone. " Yeah alcohol helps as a settler! | |||
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"Loads of times on my own dressed as Steph or male mode, doesn’t bother me that much. I wouldn’t say I’m the most outgoing person either, dressed in a club I’m a bit more smiley and friendly but I still find it hard to meet someone to have a casual conversation. As my male self I’m more content in certain places cinemas, pubs or restaurants as I often used to have to do it with work. Turn up in some city and after work away from the hotel go and get something to eat or watch the big match at some pub. Must admit it’s easier due to my age I wasn’t as confident when I was younger. "Yeah I think I give less fucks now, for sure!! | |||
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"i go out by myself. its only a state of mind, look at it as facing the enemy. " I’m actually very comfortable. Being out and by myself. I’m just setting myself the challenge of meeting/talking to someone/s new - that’s the push factor. | |||
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"I don’t get the opportunity to go out alone. Not sure how I’d cope to be honest Estella
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" I uses to go out for dinner/drinks, date myself occasionally on my own a few yrs ago. Now my confidence has gone, I don't go out much. " Well if you ever fancy a drink out in London and want a mate, let me know. | |||
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"I do. I quite happily will go to the pub, or a bar for a drink alone, and I will take myself out for food. " It’s quite liberating. | |||
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"All the time or I would never go anywhere Are you good at approaching people? I am but only in a friendly, chatty way not if they are attractive, attractive people scare me ....and I them
Yeah I get that! I don’t think I scare anyone tho, I’m quite gentle and smiley.
Lol you already chatted up the DJ sounds like you are very comfortable. I would NEVER go out and chat anyone up, no intentionally at least.
Really? Why’s that?
I was operating from a base of a couple of friends so easy to venture out on my own and people to return to if needed last time. Doing it solo tonight, bit nerve wracking but good practice. We shall see!"Why? Cause I'm so shit at it and it scares the shit out of me. Much easier to just chat shit with the old couple next to me. | |||
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"I would be happy to go to a pub in a strange town in my own. Trouble is you get all the weirdos talking to you. In my home town you always know there's going to be someone in the pub you know" I’ve purposely not gone to my work local or home local so I’m not seeing people I may know (even if just the staff). No weirdos yet. But let’s wait and see!! | |||
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"i go out by myself. its only a state of mind, look at it as facing the enemy. I’m actually very comfortable. Being out and by myself. I’m just setting myself the challenge of meeting/talking to someone/s new - that’s the push factor. " then thats for you to arrange. mail someone, time, place, its easy right? | |||
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"All the time or I would never go anywhere Are you good at approaching people? I am but only in a friendly, chatty way not if they are attractive, attractive people scare me ....and I them
Yeah I get that! I don’t think I scare anyone tho, I’m quite gentle and smiley.
Lol you already chatted up the DJ sounds like you are very comfortable. I would NEVER go out and chat anyone up, no intentionally at least.
Really? Why’s that?
I was operating from a base of a couple of friends so easy to venture out on my own and people to return to if needed last time. Doing it solo tonight, bit nerve wracking but good practice. We shall see!
Why? Cause I'm so shit at it and it scares the shit out of me. Much easier to just chat shit with the old couple next to me."I think everyone feels a bit awkward, I think about that and do my best to just try and make the other person feel at ease or pay someone a compliment (non-creepy one) so even if they’re not interested they leave the evening feeling flattered and better about themselves. I never have any expectations and do my best to ensure I’m not suffocating in my approach. Incremental conversation rather than arrive and full launch. Let them invite you in further as it were. | |||
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"I don’t get the opportunity to go out alone. Not sure how I’d cope to be honest Estella
If you spot anyone wearing yellow shoes they will be friendly and great conversationalists
Wish you were here, Sam. "Awwww
One of these years we’ll actually manage a meet, I feel it in my soul. | |||
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"i go out by myself. its only a state of mind, look at it as facing the enemy. I’m actually very comfortable. Being out and by myself. I’m just setting myself the challenge of meeting/talking to someone/s new - that’s the push factor. then thats for you to arrange. mail someone, time, place, its easy right?" Oh I guess, yes. I find it more daunting approaching people on here than in real life tho. So I’m probably more comfortable here (at the bar/club) than setting up an impromptu Fab meet. | |||
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"I don’t get the opportunity to go out alone. Not sure how I’d cope to be honest Estella
If you spot anyone wearing yellow shoes they will be friendly and great conversationalists
Wish you were here, Sam.
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One of these years we’ll actually manage a meet, I feel it in my soul."Oh I’ll be a horrific disappointment. I reckon keeping this love affair as it is is in everyone’s best interests!! | |||
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"i go out by myself. its only a state of mind, look at it as facing the enemy. I’m actually very comfortable. Being out and by myself. I’m just setting myself the challenge of meeting/talking to someone/s new - that’s the push factor. then thats for you to arrange. mail someone, time, place, its easy right? Oh I guess, yes. I find it more daunting approaching people on here than in real life tho. So I’m probably more comfortable here (at the bar/club) than setting up an impromptu Fab meet. " is the thing that worries you the most what the other persons reaction will be when they see you? that only natural. we all fear inside | |||
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"Not out on the town but I go to my local club on my own. " When are we going out?  | |||
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"I don’t get the opportunity to go out alone. Not sure how I’d cope to be honest Estella
If you spot anyone wearing yellow shoes they will be friendly and great conversationalists
Wish you were here, Sam.
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One of these years we’ll actually manage a meet, I feel it in my soul.
Oh I’ll be a horrific disappointment. I reckon keeping this love affair as it is is in everyone’s best interests!! "Shurrup and get networking. You’re a strong, outgoing and confident young woman that some lucky strangers are going to be lucky enough to converse with this evening | |||
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"i go out by myself. its only a state of mind, look at it as facing the enemy. I’m actually very comfortable. Being out and by myself. I’m just setting myself the challenge of meeting/talking to someone/s new - that’s the push factor. then thats for you to arrange. mail someone, time, place, its easy right? Oh I guess, yes. I find it more daunting approaching people on here than in real life tho. So I’m probably more comfortable here (at the bar/club) than setting up an impromptu Fab meet. is the thing that worries you the most what the other persons reaction will be when they see you? that only natural. we all fear inside " Yep. You nailed it. | |||
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"I don’t get the opportunity to go out alone. Not sure how I’d cope to be honest Estella
If you spot anyone wearing yellow shoes they will be friendly and great conversationalists
Wish you were here, Sam.
Awwww
One of these years we’ll actually manage a meet, I feel it in my soul.
Oh I’ll be a horrific disappointment. I reckon keeping this love affair as it is is in everyone’s best interests!!
Shurrup and get networking.
You’re a strong, outgoing and confident young woman that some lucky strangers are going to be lucky enough to converse with this evening
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"Not out on the town but I go to my local club on my own. When are we going out? "We would have such a ball!  | |||
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"Not out on the town but I go to my local club on my own. When are we going out?
We would have such a ball! "Too bloody right! | |||
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"Haven't been out on my own for years, and don't know if I would...as I don't drink, so at times the confidence to talk to strangers is not there" Yeah. We shouldn’t have to rely on alcohol but I do get it. | |||
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"*Walks in bar* Do you come here often? Yay! Wish you had!" PM the details I could do with getting out the house | |||
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"*Walks in bar* Do you come here often? Yay! Wish you had! PM the details I could do with getting out the house " I’m all the way in London though! | |||
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"I do go out on my own and even go on holiday on my own" That’s next on my hit list to do! | |||
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"Haven't been out on my own for years, and don't know if I would...as I don't drink, so at times the confidence to talk to strangers is not there Yeah. We shouldn’t have to rely on alcohol but I do get it. " I haven't drank in 9 years.... | |||
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"i go out by myself. its only a state of mind, look at it as facing the enemy. I’m actually very comfortable. Being out and by myself. I’m just setting myself the challenge of meeting/talking to someone/s new - that’s the push factor. then thats for you to arrange. mail someone, time, place, its easy right? Oh I guess, yes. I find it more daunting approaching people on here than in real life tho. So I’m probably more comfortable here (at the bar/club) than setting up an impromptu Fab meet. is the thing that worries you the most what the other persons reaction will be when they see you? that only natural. we all fear inside Yep. You nailed it. " and thats all it is. a very small fear that stops us doing wonderful things in life. we put it off because of it. when what we should do is embrace the fear, the sweaty nervous position, the notch in the tummy. its telling you something, you are alive | |||
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"Honestly its the best you get to people watch the whole time " But do you chat to people too? | |||
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"*Walks in bar* Do you come here often? Yay! Wish you had! PM the details I could do with getting out the house I’m all the way in London though!" Occasional travel with work.. | |||
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"Haven't been out on my own for years, and don't know if I would...as I don't drink, so at times the confidence to talk to strangers is not there Yeah. We shouldn’t have to rely on alcohol but I do get it. I haven't drank in 9 years...." Ooooft, well done! | |||
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"i go out by myself. its only a state of mind, look at it as facing the enemy. I’m actually very comfortable. Being out and by myself. I’m just setting myself the challenge of meeting/talking to someone/s new - that’s the push factor. then thats for you to arrange. mail someone, time, place, its easy right? Oh I guess, yes. I find it more daunting approaching people on here than in real life tho. So I’m probably more comfortable here (at the bar/club) than setting up an impromptu Fab meet. is the thing that worries you the most what the other persons reaction will be when they see you? that only natural. we all fear inside Yep. You nailed it. and thats all it is. a very small fear that stops us doing wonderful things in life. we put it off because of it. when what we should do is embrace the fear, the sweaty nervous position, the notch in the tummy. its telling you something, you are alive" Oh I like that. Very much. | |||
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"*Walks in bar* Do you come here often? Yay! Wish you had! PM the details I could do with getting out the house I’m all the way in London though! Occasional travel with work.. " Ahhh - then sure. Why not? | |||
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"i go out by myself. its only a state of mind, look at it as facing the enemy. I’m actually very comfortable. Being out and by myself. I’m just setting myself the challenge of meeting/talking to someone/s new - that’s the push factor. then thats for you to arrange. mail someone, time, place, its easy right? Oh I guess, yes. I find it more daunting approaching people on here than in real life tho. So I’m probably more comfortable here (at the bar/club) than setting up an impromptu Fab meet. is the thing that worries you the most what the other persons reaction will be when they see you? that only natural. we all fear inside Yep. You nailed it. and thats all it is. a very small fear that stops us doing wonderful things in life. we put it off because of it. when what we should do is embrace the fear, the sweaty nervous position, the notch in the tummy. its telling you something, you are alive Oh I like that. Very much. " you see someone you like, you never mail them because they may have loads of others chasing them. im not her type etc. but..... how do you know they are not looking at you. she maybe waiting for you to make contact. are you going to let a little fear prevent you achieving something and meeting the one you wanted? | |||
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"Honestly its the best you get to people watch the whole time But do you chat to people too?" Nothing more than a hello to be fair | |||
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"i go out by myself. its only a state of mind, look at it as facing the enemy. I’m actually very comfortable. Being out and by myself. I’m just setting myself the challenge of meeting/talking to someone/s new - that’s the push factor. then thats for you to arrange. mail someone, time, place, its easy right? Oh I guess, yes. I find it more daunting approaching people on here than in real life tho. So I’m probably more comfortable here (at the bar/club) than setting up an impromptu Fab meet. is the thing that worries you the most what the other persons reaction will be when they see you? that only natural. we all fear inside Yep. You nailed it. and thats all it is. a very small fear that stops us doing wonderful things in life. we put it off because of it. when what we should do is embrace the fear, the sweaty nervous position, the notch in the tummy. its telling you something, you are alive Oh I like that. Very much. you see someone you like, you never mail them because they may have loads of others chasing them. im not her type etc. but..... how do you know they are not looking at you. she maybe waiting for you to make contact. are you going to let a little fear prevent you achieving something and meeting the one you wanted? " You make a good point. I mean I do meet, occasionally! | |||
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"Honestly its the best you get to people watch the whole time But do you chat to people too? Nothing more than a hello to be fair" That’s nice though. | |||
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"I don’t get the opportunity to go out alone. Not sure how I’d cope to be honest Estella
If you spot anyone wearing yellow shoes they will be friendly and great conversationalists
Wish you were here, Sam.
Awwww
One of these years we’ll actually manage a meet, I feel it in my soul.
Oh I’ll be a horrific disappointment. I reckon keeping this love affair as it is is in everyone’s best interests!!
Shurrup and get networking.
You’re a strong, outgoing and confident young woman that some lucky strangers are going to be lucky enough to converse with this evening
Thanks Daddy. "Things just got weird! | |||
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"I go to the cinema on my own, in fact I'm going tomorrow. Done it many times and there's nothing better than enjoying a film with no one pinching your popcorn x " Yeah I’m more than happy to do that, I agree!!! What you going to see? | |||
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"I don’t get the opportunity to go out alone. Not sure how I’d cope to be honest Estella
If you spot anyone wearing yellow shoes they will be friendly and great conversationalists
Wish you were here, Sam.
Awwww
One of these years we’ll actually manage a meet, I feel it in my soul.
Oh I’ll be a horrific disappointment. I reckon keeping this love affair as it is is in everyone’s best interests!!
Shurrup and get networking.
You’re a strong, outgoing and confident young woman that some lucky strangers are going to be lucky enough to converse with this evening
Thanks Daddy.
Things just got weird!"Ah ha ha ha. Stop doctoring my post! | |||
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"Once I've had a couple of drinks I talk to everyone anyway "Yeah, same!! | |||
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"I don't mind going into restaurants, coffee shops etc alone and I enjoy that but I think I'd be too anxious and disinterested going to a bar during a busy evening because I'd much rather do it with good company or just stay in my bed at home.
I'm glad people are chatting to you anyway! I hope you make some lovely new friends. "They’re lovely (a work group) - bought me a drink and all! Yay me! | |||
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"I go to the cinema on my own, in fact I'm going tomorrow. Done it many times and there's nothing better than enjoying a film with no one pinching your popcorn x Yeah I’m more than happy to do that, I agree!!! What you going to see?" FastX. I'm looking forward to it x | |||
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"I go to the cinema on my own, in fact I'm going tomorrow. Done it many times and there's nothing better than enjoying a film with no one pinching your popcorn x Yeah I’m more than happy to do that, I agree!!! What you going to see? FastX. I'm looking forward to it x" Have a wonderful time! | |||
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"I used to holiday on my own I enjoy coffee shops on my own Restaurants and bars on my own I would find a stretch these days In the past though, I quite enjoyed going out and wondering if I would go home alone "Ooooh you devil! But yes, totally!! | |||
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"I've had some weekend trips alone, go to the cinema alone but that's about it really. " I’ve yet to holiday alone but I’d like to. | |||
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"I've been to socials and clubs alone which was quite daunting. I actual life, I'll do it if I'm cafe hopping and enjoy people watching with a coffee but other than that, I prefer having company so I don't get FOMO seeing other people with friends, girlfriends, boyfriends etc. "I get that. Totally. | |||
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"I've had some weekend trips alone, go to the cinema alone but that's about it really. I’ve yet to holiday alone but I’d like to. " UK breaks only so far, I don't trust myself to get home safe from further afield | |||
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"I've had some weekend trips alone, go to the cinema alone but that's about it really. I’ve yet to holiday alone but I’d like to. UK breaks only so far, I don't trust myself to get home safe from further afield "Fair enough. I want to go abroad on my own. | |||
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"I recently went to a performance of Madama Butterfly alone. It was fine but I do prefer company" | |||
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"Estella… be sure to give me three rings when you’re home safe." Of course Papa Bear. Love you x | |||
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"I do go out on my own and even go on holiday on my own That’s next on my hit list to do!" I've booked onto a group holiday around a particular interest of mine ... but have been camping on my own before as well. | |||
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"Estella… be sure to give me three rings when you’re home safe. Of course Papa Bear. Love you x" You too poppet | |||
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"I go to gigs, cinema and lunch by myself. There is a couple of pubs in my town where I'm happy to go to alone too! " Do you go of an evening? I'll go in the daytime, and read my book or eat but I'm frightened I'll look like Billy No Mates if I go in the evening!x | |||
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I’ve managed a couple of solo holidays & city breaks, once I’m in that process I find it easier than an night out . | |||
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"Similar to many on here - I can mostly do cafes on my own, content in a book, people watching etc, but going out in an evening to meet total strangers is a real struggle. Having said that, I had to come back from working in age today as could feel some anxiety building so nipped it in bud early.
I’ve managed a couple of solo holidays & city breaks, once I’m in that process I find it easier than an night out ."I agree. Holidaying alone is so much less anxiety-inducing than a night out in town on my own! X | |||
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"Probably we are holidaying and enjoying soaking up the destination , and subconsciously removing pressure to meet anyone ? " Well, Shrewsbury ain't far. Let's go out on our own, together x | |||
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"Probably we are holidaying and enjoying soaking up the destination , and subconsciously removing pressure to meet anyone ? Well, Shrewsbury ain't far. Let's go out on our own, together x"It really isn’t far, I’ll meet you there | |||
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"Probably we are holidaying and enjoying soaking up the destination , and subconsciously removing pressure to meet anyone ? Well, Shrewsbury ain't far. Let's go out on our own, together x
It really isn’t far, I’ll meet you there "Meet you by the town square tomorrow @8pm xx | |||
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"Estella!! Are you home yet? We need a report of how you got on xx" Home now!! All safe and had a wonderful time
Made two new friends! X | |||
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"Do you do it? How do you find it? I’m out on my own tonight but assessing who is about (random people) who I can talk to, wish me luck!! "Hope you came across some like minded humans sorry didn't read the remainder of the comments
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"Estella!! Are you home yet? We need a report of how you got on xx Home now!! All safe and had a wonderful time
Made two new friends! X"I see now. Success! | |||
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"Estella!! Are you home yet? We need a report of how you got on xx Home now!! All safe and had a wonderful time
Made two new friends! X"Wonderful. Go you! | |||
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" Home now!! All safe and had a wonderful time
Made two new friends! X"They on fab? | |||
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"Estella!! Are you home yet? We need a report of how you got on xx Home now!! All safe and had a wonderful time
Made two new friends! X"Excellent update , well done | |||
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"Estella!! Are you home yet? We need a report of how you got on xx Home now!! All safe and had a wonderful time
Made two new friends! X". Well done on making new friends hopefully you will be keeping in contact and meeting up again.If you are looking to make new friends there are always the Meet Up groups which maybe of interest to you and also last night there were two Fab socials in London. | |||
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" Home now!! All safe and had a wonderful time
Made two new friends! X
They on fab? "If not they will be by tomorrow! | |||
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"Do you do it? How do you find it? I’m out on my own tonight but assessing who is about (random people) who I can talk to, wish me luck!! "I don't mind... depends on my mood | |||
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"I prefer going out on my own even travelling abroad too" cheaper | |||
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"I prefer going out on my own even travelling abroad toocheaper "Exactly that and way less stressful too | |||
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"Do you do it? How do you find it? I’m out on my own tonight but assessing who is about (random people) who I can talk to, wish me luck!! "How did it go? I went to the zoo on a Saturday by myself, felt uncomfortable tbh! | |||
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"Do you do it? How do you find it? I’m out on my own tonight but assessing who is about (random people) who I can talk to, wish me luck!! "This me right now, the old me wouldn't. I'm even looking forward doing a holiday on my own. | |||
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